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First off, I wish my average rating thing was my GPA. Heh.

I'm a girl, 15, generally use good grammar (yay!), and a huge fan of sarcasm though I know when it's appropriate and when it isn't. Politics, psychology, philosophy, and history all fascinate me. The music I like usually falls under the genres of psychedelic and classic rock. I hate rap. And George W. Bush. I like giving advice because it gives me a warm fuzzy feeling knowing that other people are crazier than I am.

Ask away, I'll try to answer anything!

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how long would u say u should wait to have sex!!!

Whenever you're ready physically, mentally, and emotionally. And remember, doubt means dont. If you have ANY doubt in your mind at all about whether you can go through with it or not, DON'T DO IT. Wait. If you don't, you might find yourself regretting it later on.

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My boyfriend wants to go to a college thats like an hour and a half away and he found out from my best friend that i dont want him to... but the only reason i dont want him to is cuz ill miss him. But thats normal now he wants to stay here and be with me how do i convince him i really want him to be happy at the college he wants to go to..

"If you love them, let them go."

I think thats a pretty good philosophy to follow. Convince him that you'll still be able to see each other, I mean, an hour and a half isnt a long way away, my brother goes to a college thats 24 hrs away by plane! Say that before you were being selfish and that you were just letting your first emotional reaction to the news speak for you, but now you've thought it through and realized that if he's happy, you're happy.

Good luck, I know it sucks having people leave :(

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Anyone have any quotes/poems about death/r.i.p stuff?

"I wouldn't mind dying in a plane crash. It'd be a good way to go. I don't want to die in my sleep, or of old age, or OD... I want to feel what it's like. I want to taste it, hear it, smell it. Death is only going to happen to you once; I don't want to miss it."
-- Jim Morrison, lead singer of the Doors.

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can you tell me some really good hip-hop music.. i want some thats not popular and everyone is listening to it now-a-days. Something original.. Like Screens falling by SPM.. its not huge but its a good song. Like that. thanks

I'm not a huge fan of hip-hop so I'm probably the wrong person to ask haha, but try some of the Beastie Boys' stuff. They were pretty much the inventors of rap/hip-hop.

Sorry if this isn't helping much, my expertise lies in classic rock.

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I have this picture and its a great picture except the fact that my eyes are 2 different colors, neither my natural color, and it looks terrible! The one is red eye and the other is like bright gold from the flash! Is there anyway I can get this fixed? Like anything and WalMart or just in a picture program? Thanks for any info!

You can download the program Picasa for free from here:
http://www.google.com/downloads/

Its a great program and has an easy to use red eye removal tool.

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Sometimes i feel like i want to die, i dont feel like miserable or anything and i dont want to die just for a way out, i feel kind of excited about death, like when i die i will be at peace with everything. isnt that what everyone wants inner peace and to live in eternal paradise? thats what i want? what are we waiting for?

Death is certainly not something to be feared, but not something to be embraced either.

One day you *will* die, as will I, as will everyone else, so if its inevitable, whats the use of choosing it over life? Life is something you might not get back, and its passing you by right now, I suggest you start focusing on LIVING rather than dying.

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i have a bf who has gone threw a lot with me
and we have been together for 1 1/2 years ..
he meanse everything to me .. he has hit me
in the past and he tried to kill me .. everyone
thinks i should just get over him but i can`t
i love him .. i was gonna have his baby last year
but shit happend with my mom so i had to get
an abortion :-/ . he has also liked this girl
behind my back and hes been lying about it ever
since .. but now he says that he misses me
and everything .. i don`t know what to do ..
i miss him so much .. he just got outa jail
for something big :-/ trying to run me and
my boii off the road but he just needs help.
please help me thank you -Nikky-

Are you serious?

1. He physically hurts you
2. He emotionally hurts you
3. He tried to KILL you
4. He got you pregnant
5. He pretty much cheated on you
6. He got criminally prosecuted for trying to KILL YOU AGAIN

For the love of god, STAY AWAY FROM HIM!

Seriously. Don't care for people who dont care for you or have any respect for you and your feelings. You'll be much happier.

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ok i was just wondering what are some good ideas for halloween costumes? like i want something creative and unique. no certain price range or anything. thanks much

Just drench yourself in water and carry a stick and have a sign around your neck saying "Melted Snowman."

;)

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okay, so tomorrow I am getting my tongue pierced... before I do, DOES IT HURT? and what does it feel like and what can i do and stuff... you know

Urgh, I honestly don't see the appeal of jabbing a large needle through your toungue volutarily but if you go through with it:

TAKE CARE OF IT.
I cannot stress this enough.
A friend of mine got hers pierced and didn't take care of it properly and it was *disgusting*, all infected and green and not to mention it hurt like hell.

Good luck.

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Can ecstacy kill you or hurt youu badly if you only take HALF A PILL? Please help fast!

Don't do it. Not smart at all.

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Alright this isn't exactly about school but I didn't know what other category to put it in haha.

So lately I've been bored with nothing to read. I like books that are funny but not completely stupid, good mysteries, and deep stuff that makes you think without being boring.

Suggestions? =)

(15/F)

The Catcher in the Rye! Love that book to bits.

(And yay, you're using good grammar, pretty rare for advicenators...)

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ok i want to babysit but i dont really no any one with a young kid and about how old do you think you should be before you are trusted even and old even just can you give me to ages. and also what are some other jobs winter is going up so i dont really want to much of a outside job but can you just give me sum ideas. and if it is the babysitting thing can tell me how much to charge per kid and per hour... i rate 5s

13-14 is a good guideline for the youngest you should be when starting out. Depends on your maturity level, the age of the kids you're watching, how long its for, etc. Try to negotiate with your client how much the pricing should be, it might turn them off if you charge too much, and it'll make them think you're not very good if you charge too less. To start out maybe you could put up flyers around your area, but babysittings great though because you dont really need to advertise much, most of the jobs you get are by word of mouth by happy clients.

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I have been searching for tips on how to be veery well liked by just abou teveryone in school. When i was in 8th grade not a lot of people liked me i was kinda mean to people but thats becasue i didnt fit in. I am now in 10th grade and i wasnt to change for the better of me and my surroundings. When i am around people I have difficulties to start conversations and keep then goinggggg. Please help me i rate high

Being liked by EVERYONE is only as important as you make it out to be. In other words, find yourself a few close friends, stick by them no matter what, and still be friendly to as many people as you can. Close friends reallly help in High School, I always find that having a few of them is MUCH better then millions of aquaintances. Need conversation starters? Everyone always likes compliments, try going up to someone and just saying something nice about them. Don't confuse this with sucking up though, like someone else said no one likes artificial people. Or just talk about what you did over the weekend, etc etc, you'll get better over time.

Hope that helps =)

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Sophie's World is an AWESOME book, I read it this summer and loved it to death.

Catcher in the Rye is greattoo.

Also, if you're looking for something sillier, the Confessions of Georgia Nicholson series is super funny.

=)

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I really want to die. Really badly. I tried to kill myself but i chickend out. I'm not afraid of death.. I'm looking forward to it. I just can't handle life. My body is breaking up. I feel depressed and find the urge just to die. I don't understand why ssomeone can just take my life away. I'm alive and I want to die and there's dieing people that want to live. I don't understand why god just cant give those people a life and take mine away.. I hate myself so much.. I'm having a lot of problems now.. I'm 13, F.

Sweetie, you're 13! Life is inevitably going to get better, I know this from experience, everything always works out. Suicide doesn't help anybody, it hurts so incredibly deeply the people you love and it doesn't help you, its just... the end. Its an exteremely selfish thing to do, I knew someone who lost a loved one to suicide, and they were in so much pain it was unbelievable. I agree there are some things that are worth killing yourself over, but DEPRESSION IS NOT ONE OF THEM. Fill your life with people you love and hang tight, okay?

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There's a homecoming dance on Saturday that I want to go to. There's a girl I really like and want to ask her to go with me. People have told me that I should ask her. I've never done anything like this before and am really nervous. Can you please give me help on what to do? Thanks a lot.

Ask her! One way to get over the fear of rejection thing is to ask one of her girl friends if they think she'll go with you, if they say yes then definately ask her, if they say no then go ahead and ask her anyways, but this way you'll be a little more prepared for her response.

Good luck :)

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