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why isnt it working for me
I have been searching for tips on how to be veery well liked by just abou teveryone in school. When i was in 8th grade not a lot of people liked me i was kinda mean to people but thats becasue i didnt fit in. I am now in 10th grade and i wasnt to change for the better of me and my surroundings. When i am around people I have difficulties to start conversations and keep then goinggggg. Please help me i rate high
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Being liked by EVERYONE is only as important as you make it out to be. In other words, find yourself a few close friends, stick by them no matter what, and still be friendly to as many people as you can. Close friends reallly help in High School, I always find that having a few of them is MUCH better then millions of aquaintances. Need conversation starters? Everyone always likes compliments, try going up to someone and just saying something nice about them. Don't confuse this with sucking up though, like someone else said no one likes artificial people. Or just talk about what you did over the weekend, etc etc, you'll get better over time.
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just be yourself, nobody wants a friend who appears fake, and you dont need friends who like you for something you really arnt. so just smile and be friendly and nice to everyone who is nice to you and you will see how it all just falls into place
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First off, theres no way that you can be liked by EVERYONE. Theres always those mean people who are very unwelcoming to new friends. Ususllay to start a conversation i compliment them on something theyre wearing. Compliments are great ice breakers. then you could talk about school, what stores u shop at, mean teachers, and stuff like that. Before you know it, you might just get a ton of whole new friends =)
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Sorry to tell you but the chance of just about everyone liking you in your school is very slim, especially if you weren't well liked because you were mean. Talk to people about school, what they do after school, boyfriends, girlfriends, whatever they like to do. It shouldn't be too hard.
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