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Hello, all- I'm Becky. I'm 16 years old but wise far beyond my years, so hopefully you can expect some good advice from me. I'm not here to spit out cutesy answers to every single question- I won't be a bitch, but I'll be sure to tell it like it is. Just accept it, and consider less-than-sweet answers as tough love. :]

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what does it mean when someone says cut your losses. or something says cut your losses, you've waited long enough.

It means that you realize what you want to happen isn't going to happen, so you accept it and move on.

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does it matter if you write the address neatly?

I'd say it isn't the most important thing, but it wouldn't hurt. :] The neater and more organized you are, the better impression you'll make. Good luck!

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who sings that song,
"Becuase you are everywhere to me, and when I close my eyes it's you I see..."
and is there any music myspace i could find to put it on my own myspace? thanks!

Michelle Branch sings it, the song is called Everywhere.

Here's a MySpace account that has the song- it isn't Michelle's "official" MySpace, but it's the only one with that particular song. :]

http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendID=256258138

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Ok well i have curly, poofy-ish hair.

it's golden brown, and long-ish.
i'm getting kind of bored with it, and i have a round-ish, heart-sh shaped face. it's kind of skinny an my eyebrows are thick-ish but not like bushy ha.

how should i get my hair cut?

layers?
idk!

help?

thnks.
xx

I think that you should try straightening it. If it's the poofy-ness that bothers you, then straightening will definitely help. If you like the way it looks when you straighten it, continue straightening and get layers. But if you don't want to keep on straightening, then don't get layers- they will make your poofy hair even poofier. I would suggest talking with your hair-stylist to see what she thinks would look best on you. It could also help to look through magazines (some magazines are completely dedicated to hair styles) and finding a few looks that you would like, then take those with you for your hair appointment, and discuss with your stylist which would look best on you. Good luck!

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you know all the phones were made from samsung or motorola and stuff like that well wat is a sidekick made of

You're carrier must be T-Mobile for you to be able to have the Sidekick. For more info on the Sidekick, go here:
http://www.t-mobile.com/shop/phones/Detail.aspx?device=7a083f08-7f33-4941-ba63-d6904503dc71

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http://img340.imageshack.us/img340/5438/wallgm4.jpg

^how do you remove those little icons from beneath your wall?

Those are all just a bunch of little advertisements from the various applications you have added to your profile. You would have to delete all your applications in order to get rid of all of those links.

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Okay i feel a little bad writing this because its not really a problem to have to choose between two guys, i am just confused and in need of some advice. okay so there is Boy 1 and him and i have liked eachother for about two years. We have hooked up before and hang out all the time. People pretty much consider us still together now. But the thing is, even though i am really happy the way my relationship is going with boy 1 (and we are not "going out" we just like.. know we like eachother and stuff) highschool started like amonth ago. I am a freshman and i met this sophomore guy that my friend said thought i was like attractive. He started talking to me and i find that im sort of attracted to him (boy 2) at the same time as being attracted to boy 1. Ive talked to both of them a lot recently, but seem to be thinking about boy 2 more lately. I know that this is probably because i have liked boy 1 for so long, that its exciting to have something new, but i dont want to have to keep going back and forth between themm
please give advice! what do i do!

15/f by the way

You really need to get to know Boy 2 better before you "choose" either of them. Why don't you just become Boy 2's friend? Once you know more about him, you'll know if you truly like him, or if you were just caught up in the excitement of meeting someone new. Then, you can decide who you like the best.

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I have a very oily face. Like, incredibly oily. I dont know how to get rid of it! Any help is veryyy appreaciated.

You need to clean your face. A daily regimen of face wash, toner, and moisturizer should do the trick. Also, using those little oil-blotting strips throughout the day could help :D

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has anyone ever heard of the band tiger lou 123? Only answer this if you know, i really like thier song ! will someone tell me their website, or where i can litsen to them besides myspace?

Try searching for their website on Yahoo or Google- if there's something out there, you'll find it :]

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coming up on our two month-versary. Both seniors in high school. I (male) was planning on placing two red roses in her locker, with a little note saying something about two roses, two months and maybe a heart of some sort. Another idea, although it may be over the top, would be placing 2 dozen roses, and saying, 2 two months, 2 roses, 2 *dozen roses :-D that might be fun because then when our 3 month comes I can really surprise her with 3, 3 dozen roses, or somthing down the road even more surprising, for example. 3 - 300 hearts!

these are just a few ideas, anything else? What have some of you girls had done for you. I like to go big, and really like bi reactions, although they would be just as pleasent with the smaller items, its the significance of the thought ;)

That's a really sweet idea :] I personally would like the two roses better than the 2 dozen roses, at least for two monthes. 2 dozen just seems a bit too over-the-top. 2 roses is still very sweet and caring, and it will mean just as much to her.

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is there any ways to get past private profiles on myspace? like to view private profiles and the pictures on them.

No. They're private for a reason, their owners don't WANT you to see that stuff. :]

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i was at school today and in latin, these boys behind me were talking with me and then one of them asked me if i would ever snob his knob. nob? i have no ideaaa...what does that mean!?!?

He was asking you for a blowjob. I assume you know what that means =]

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on my myspace
i have the bottom links hidden
except it still says

©2003-2007 MySpace.com. All Rights Reserved.

on the bottom
how do i get rid of it?

It's against MySpace rules to remoce it; it shows that MySpace owns MySpace, basically. Sorry =]

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k so i really would like to know which diet pills work the best. i dont want people who havent taken them answer my question and just say trimspa because thats all they know. i want people with experience who have taken different kinds and the pros cons and side effects

I don't want to sound preachy, but diet pills are useless. I know you've probably heard it before, but the best way to lose weight is to excercise and eat healthily. You should do crunches and go jogging for excercise; that's what I do. For eating, simply eat when you're hungry, stop when your full. Don't eat junk, eat good foods like fruits, veggies, fish, chicken, etc. Also, a random tip that I read somewhere: 1200 calories a day is the lowest you can eat and still be getting all the nutrients you need. Hope I helped a bit, and I know it's probably not what you wanted to hear, but it's true =]

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Okayy my questions are..
-what does a mosquitto do when it bites you?
-what makes it itch?
-and i also heard the only the people that are allergic to mosquittos, feel the itching. is this truee?
(please no websites..just answers and i already tried to google it and i found nothing)
thanks

~It's sucking your blood out to feed it's babies (totally gross, but true. Because of this, you are only ever bitten by female mosquitoes.)
~I'm not sure about this one, but I think it's just irritating the skin.
~That's not true. Everyone feels the itch in a mosquito bite.

Hope it helped =]

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Hi I need advice! Can my gyno tell if i masterbate?

Nope. If you harm anything though, your gyno will most likely ask what happened, and it would be a good idea to tell the truth: it's not like it's a terrible thing =]

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Is it slutty for a girl and a guy (that liked each other) to publically, loudly, & obnoxiously flirt..like in class? How far would be too far?

Thanks

I would say that it isn't slutty, but it is a bit inappropiate. I guess it depends on the nature of the flirting. Simply teasing each other back and forth is fine, as long as you're not too distracting. However, excessive tickling, touching, or other things like that will most likely bother people around you. Just flirt in moderation, and no one will be too bothered by it =]

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long story short, me and friend want to put together a disney cabaret
what are some of your favorite disney songs?
by the way, high school musical DOESN'T count
I mean like classic annimated movies.
thanks!

Just can't Wait to be king~ lion king
kiss the girl~ little mermaid
colors of the wind~ pocahontas
idk if this counts but:
reflection~mulan
^^ i always think of mulan for that song, but I suppose some people might not think of it that way...I like it though =]

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Does anyone know where Blake Lewis get his awesome clothes? Or what brand they are? Cost is no matter.

Thanks
Cody*

I actually read in an interview that he makes his own clothes a lot, because he couldn't find any clothes that "said Blake." I don't know what interview it was...it might of been in the People Maqazine email thingy I get. Sorry if that doesn't help, but that's what I read =]

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today i was peting my cat and i noticed something unusal she was missing a pacth of hair on her back - about the size of a coin- and there is like a scab or a rash or something on her skin.

im really worried about this
she is 3 year old female indoor cat

please help me if you have any ideas what
could be wrong with her.

I'd take her to the vet. I don't think there's anything terribly wrong with her, but it would be a good idea to just make sure that she is ok. Hope everything is fine!

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