My name is Sara. I live in California. Im a happy person. I dont put up with drama and I enjoy trying to make life as simple as possible.
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i recently got my period for the first time yesturday. im having really bad flows. like they are extremley heavy. i asked what i should do about it on here, and everyone said it should die down in a while but its not. if anything its heavier. im pretty much disgusted and dont want to use a pad anymore so im thinking about trying to get my fucking anyoying dad who i serouisly HATE at the moment out of the house, and ask my mom to go get me tampons because pads are WAY to much of a mess.
any good brands of tampons i should use?
and any advice on the whole period thing?
i serouisly hate this like its uncontrolable. EW. (link)
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A good brand of tampon is tampax pearl. It has a rounded tip which makes things easier. Its kind of hard to give advice about someones period when it is there first period. This could be because its your first period and your hormones are changing. I know it sucks but wait it out. If this happens again next month, you might want to consider birth control because it will make your periods lighter.
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I'm really active, but I weigh 113[5''2]. How can i weight this much when I'm so active?
And, I want to tone my stomach & I do a lot of crunches, but they dont seem to work best for me..any ideas? (link)
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You are at a healthy weight but Muscle is denser than fat, and you can look less than you weigh. I look like 110 and I weigh 130 because I go to the gym and have muscle. Crunches with your feet at a 45 degree angle and a 90 degree angle.
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what are some quick, easy ways to tighten a flabby stomach? (link)
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You can get results fast by doing cruches with your feet at a 45 degree angle and then up at a 90 degree angle.
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so sorry, didn't know what category to put this in.
my friend did drugs and now at school theyre finding out that like, alot of people are.
so now theyre testing like, the whole 8th grade.
and hes getting tested on monday.
and he wanted to know, how long it takes for it to go through your system.
hes 14, and he did purple haze, if that helps any.
thanks in advance. (link)
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Well it depends on how much he smokes. It can take anywhere from a week to 30 days to pass. Is a public school aloud to drug test a whole grade based on someone "doing drugs"? I doubt this is legal or allowed in any public school system. Oh yeah and the person that says "just another reason to not do drugs" obviously doesnt know much about them because you cannot detect thc in urine up to 6 months after. There is no way. Its physically impossible. This is only possible with a hair test that most likely will not be used considering it costs around 700 dollars per test.
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Okay im only 14!! turning 15 in a few months..well anyways me and my boyfriend have been going out for about a year and we`re still virgins and my mom is all like "you are getting birth control" and i say"no i dont want it" and i dont get why my mom wants me to be on it so bad. i mean me and my boyfriend obviously talked about it but im not ready to lose it till im about 16 going on 17.. and my mom keeps pressuring me and another reason why i dont want to do it is cause it makes you fat.. how do i get her to stop!!. please help me (link)
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Your mom really does want to help you out. Birth control doesnt straight up make you fat, there may be an increase in appetite, but some girls actually loose weight when they start birth control. Birth control does not only just protect against pregnancy but also helps cramps and depression before your period and usually makes them lighter. It helps you out. Also you know exactly when your period is going to be if you take the pill. also, it might make your boobs bigger. haha. Hope I could help! Also, when you do start doing it, it will make worrying about pregnancy alot easier since if it is taken correctly, it is 99.7% effective against pregnancy.
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i know this is a stupid question but why does a girl "cum"? is it because it feels good? and like...what is it? like is it pee or something? (link)
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Girls dont really "cum" like guys do. Usually when a girl is horny, her vagina gets wet and this makes it easier for a penis to enter. When a girl does have an orgasim usually there is no white fluid coming out, but this can happen if a girls g spot is stimulated. It is rare to have white fluid come out while having an orgasim through clitorus stimulation.
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tonight i smoked pot, it wasnt for the first time, and it wasnt close to it. but i got it from a new person. i knew him so i didnt care. when my friend was breaking it up she noticed there was little bits of white things.i said who cares. and we smoked it. i had about 10 - 13 hits. usally i have more, but i didnt want to. 15 mins that, i was really high. i never been that high before. i was tingaling inside. when i blicked it was like talking a picutre, it flashed. then i started moving very slowly. does any one have any idea what was happening to me? was there any thing in the weeD? (link)
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well first off, I hate when people say dont do drugs omg your ruining your life. People are going to do them anyways and they might as well be informed. But most likely you just smoked really good weed. The white things on it were "crystals". You were really high then. The effects you describe are just effects of being high on weed, no other drugs. Remember, always get it from someone you know and trust. Hope I could help!
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I need help, ASAP.
Ok so me and my ex tried sex (no condom).. but he couldn't go in cause I was too tight, he didn't cum because we did stuff before it and he wasn't rejuvinated, and I really don't think he precame. So anyways, this was a while ago, probably like a month or more.
Also, I am a virgin and my cherry hasn't been "popped."
I got my period, but it was alot lighter than usually, and only 4 days instead of the usual 7, and I had no signs that i would get it, like usually I get cramps and swollen breats. I got swollen breats now, about a week after my period.
I have also been eating alot, I cannot get full.
I do weightlifting frequently, would that throw stuff off? Then again E have been doing weight training for 3 months pretty much.
Also, I tore something around my left pelvic region, could that effect it?
Or can I be pregnant?
PLEASEEE help me! (link)
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Well first of all, there is usually always pre cum even if you guess there isnt.
There is no chance you are pregnant considering he did not even go inside you and you had your period. like a 100% chance you arent.
Exercise does increase your metabolism, that could be a reason you eat alot and are still hungry.
Oh yeah and ignore the girl that said you can have your period and still be pregnant. All the stuff that comes out during your period, is the lining that builds up for an egg to be fertilized, when that egg IS NOT fertilized, it comes out. No chance.
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okay so this morning i went to the bathroom (good thing i did) because i realized that i just got my period. and i had to tell my parents- how embarrassing right. and my dad didnt believe me but then im like YES. dad i got it. so hes like trying to give me my moms like jumbo sized im like NO. so i didnt go to school. and good thing i didnt because i have the BIGGEST flow. its the MOST disgusting thing i have EVER experienced. and my mom WONT get me pads. but i talked her into it so i think shes going to get me pads later today. and i have GYMNASTICS tonight and we do like splits and flips and stuff and like its going to be so SOO uncomfortable and what if i freakin leak all over the place. EWW. i actaully have it two times a week so.. i really need advice on just like everything. im NOT talking to my mom about it cuz shes just a freak. (link)
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You dont want to hear this, but your mom is right. If you are in a sport, pads are extremely in the way and uncomfortable. Even if you arent in sports, most women find pads uncomfortable. Try using tampons instead. It might be trouble to insert the first few times, but once you get the hang of them, you cant feel them at all. I would suggest not even going to gymnastics if you are wearing a pad. It will leak espically if you are moving around alot, which is most likely what you will be doing. You should probabily get a smaller sized tampon to start out with and just change it more often.
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i was kind of raped. i knew the guy but he came over and we were sitting on my bed. he pulled down my pants and without a condom he starting to like you know what i mean. i tried to stop him but hes bigger than me soo yeah and he pulled out then he came. im worried about being pregnant. i normally get my period from the 9th - 16th todays the 8th. i have been getting cramps like period cramps but no period yet. does it sound like im pregnant ? p.s im only 14! what should i do (link)
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Well first of all, YOU NEED TO TELL SOMEONE. No one is going to think your a slut or a liar. What he did was wrong, if you told him no and he kept going, that is rape. He does not care about your well being if he did this. By not telling someone, you are letting him do this to other girls and have power over you.
On the bright side, the chances are you arent pregnanct. If your period usually comes between the 9th-16th and your having cramps, thats a sign your period is going to come soon,just on time. If it has been less than 3 days, you might want to consider emergency contreception. If your period does not come by the end of the month, take a pregnancy test.
oh and PLEASE TELL SOMEONE ABOUT THIS. I know it will be hard, but it will be even worse if he does it again to you or someone else.
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what's an hj? i kno it's sexual somehow (from what i've heard) but what exactly is it? thanks (link)
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A handjob. This is when a female rubs her hand up and down a males penis usually until he ejactulates (cums).
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im on the pill & i always take it on time. but last thursday i forgot to & i had sex w. my boy friday morning & that night i took both the thursday & friday pills. we didnt uses any other form of birth control kas he was out of condoms & i was supposed to get my period yesterday but i didnt...& still havent.. im freeking out. i freek out alot thou about maybe being pregnant kas im parinoid and sometimes that stalls my period. so what are the chances i am pregnant? how can i calm down about this? help please? (link)
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Nerves can bring you a late period. I have been in this EXACT same situation before. The chances are, you arent pregnant. Birth control is very effective against pregnancy. If you miss 2 days in a row, then you are at risk. You did exactly what you were supposed to do. You only missed one day. If it is within 3 days of unprotected sex, you can get emergency contreception if you think its a big problem. If its been more, just relax (I know its hard) but try to and wait for your period. If it doesnt come in a week, take a pregnancy test. Also look for some signs of pregnancy such as breast tenderless, pinkish discharge and sickness.
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do you think that giving a hj as a freshman is slutty? because some of my friends have.. not my close ones but i know that a lot have. and i have a boyfriend that i really love and like i want to but like a lot of my close friends would consider that to be slutty. like i really dont think its that big of a deal. (link)
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Just do what you want. If you want to give your boyfriend one, then do it. The word slut means a girl that has sex with alot of guys. I dont consider other girls in your grade "sluts" ether, Its not like there going around having sex with everyones boyfriend. You are defienetely not a slut considering you havent had sex and it is your boyfriend. If people think you are a slut, well screw them.
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well i dont really wanna get a wax and i hate shaving down there because i can never get it to work out right. is there any other options i have like certain razors that i can use and stuff? or like can you wax there yourself?
help! (link)
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I personally do not suggest nair or any type of hair removal creme because many people get a rash or it doesnt work. I suggest venus vibrance, it is a bit more of a price but it works very well. For shaving creme, I suggest skintaminte (srry about spelling).
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right where my inner thigh meets my pubic area, some of my skin peeled off, and it's really tender and hurts alot.
it's not an std, and i can't go to a doctor or have my mom look at it cuz that's just wierd...
can someone tell me if this is normal? (link)
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If you dont want your mom to look at it you should at least tell her about it. This has nothing to do with sex so it shouldnt be THAT akward. It is a medical situation and Im pretty sure your mother would rather see you go to the doctor and get treated before it developes into something more serious even if it is a bit akward at first.
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so i recently lost my virginity, likke 2 months ago, and we used a condom. I'm pretty sure i have a bladder infection so i asked my mom to take me to the doctor, will they do any type of tests that can also answer whether im a virgin or not? and will they tell my mom? is there any excuses i can make if they do say im not a virgin? or will they just make me pee in a cup and we're on our way? please help. (link)
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There are really no tests they can do besides an STD test to see if you are a virgin. They will probabily just ask you. You should answer honestly. The doctor cannot tell your parents by law. You loose an open medical record by the age of 12.
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okay, my mom just told me that im getting a shot that prevents cervical cancer, and i decided to look online and see what it was.
i have had sex before and im under 18 years old, and they said that some signs of cervical cancer are:
Abnormal vaginal bleeding or a significant unexplained change in your menstrual cycle.
Bleeding when something comes in contact with your cervix, such as during sexual intercourse or the insertion of a diaphragm.
Pain during sexual intercourse.
Abnormal vaginal discharge containing mucus that may be tinged with blood.
and ive had those happen to me. it really freaked me out, and im scared if i have it.
what do i say to the doctor? my parents cannot know ive had sex! i would be murdered. has anyone had this before??
and if you have, please tell me what you did and what happened. thank you im very nervous (link)
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I have not had this before but, You can tell your doctor you have been sexually active and you would like an STD test before vacination. Or you can go to a planned parenthood. Your doctor, by law, cannot tell your parents. Your medical records close at 12, making them confidencial. If your doctor does tell your parents, sue the shit out of that doctor.
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when giving a guy a hand job or head, how do you know when to stop? and please dont tell me if i dont know, then i shouldnt be doing it, because im not. im just curious. if your just going to say that, then dont even bother wasting your time, or mine for that matter.
thanks!=] (link)
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You know when to stop when ether he tells you to (he might just want to stop(unlikely) or he is about to climax and wants to save you the trouble of getting it in your mouth) Or you will probabily feel is muscles tense up and then a white liquid comes out of the tip of the penis called ejaculation which contains sperm. This is his climax.
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how do you get herpys (link)
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You can get herpes from sexual intercourse or oral sex.
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I am almost 14 and I've never had my period before. I have a few questions that I really need answered.
1.) I heard that you gain weight during your period/puberty. I'm definitely in puberty right now, but I'm afraid that when I get my period, I'll gain alot of weight. Is this true?
2.) Does it feel uncomfortable to exercise when you have your period? I would really like to keep biking (about 60 min) daily. But I'm afraid it will feel uncomfortable if I have my period when exercising.
3.) Do tampons hurt to put in the first few times? I am probably going to have to wear them when exercising. But can you put them in wrong or can they get stuck? Also, which brand of tampons do you like the best? (link)
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1. You will not gain alot of weight just from your period. It is true that girls do experience weight gain and loss during puberty because of hormones. But every girl is different and if you are concerned about gaining weight once you get your period, you should get consider watching what you eat and getting regular exercise.
2.I personally do not think it feels uncomfortable to exercise while Im on my period. You might feel a discomfort from cramps, but actually exercising helps decrease the pain from cramps. After you work out, you may just feel better.
3.It does hurt the first few times. I think part of the reason it hurts is because of being nervous. Just remember to relax your muscles and things will go alot smoother. Tampons cannot get stuck. I perfer tampax pearl.
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