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how do you make the little hearts by some peoples names... i have copied and pasted but only a question mark comes up.
i know how to make it with © in the font symbol but i don't think you can use html in your posts to change the font.
thank you for your help! (link)
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Which kind of heart do you mean?
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What are some good Tan Lotions to use? I don't want to get burnt or Skin Cancer, but I want to get tan!!
Any Ideas?
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Tanning salons sell Self-tanning kits if that's what you are talking about, and so do pharmacies (CVS,walgreens,RiteAid,Happy Harry's,etc.) You just have to be careful because some brands will make you look orange instead of tan. I'm not sure which ones specifically are good or not. Hope i helped!
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well, ive been thinking about running every morning this spring break, because i dont have anything to do so i mind as well stay in shape.
i want to run every morning, but i dont want to lose weight, i want to lose how i LOOK, like my legs. my mom said that if you walk fast, a couple miles, it will tone your legs and butt, make them tighter, and better looking in a swimsuit. is this true? if not what workouts can i do to make them betteR? thanks so much, i rate! (link)
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Running helps your legs A LOT! Whether you just want to tone them or if you want to lose weight. It also keeps you very fit. If you want to tone your legs and butt, then you have to do things like squats and lunges. Hope i helped!
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okay big health project and the question is what turns a girl on about a guy? (link)
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Well if you're asking me, there's a few different things. They have to have a good personality, if they're hot, it's a big advantage, and the first things i notice about guys are usually either their eyes .. hair .. or smile. so yeah .. i hope that helped .. probably not though
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see i have this friend that is like bulimic & i tell her to stop but she never listens to me. i tell her that she is skinney but she doesn`t believe me. we have known eachother since we were small. she also talks painkillers & i kno its dangerous but she told me not to tell anyone...but i think she might die..she is already in rehab & is very sneaky.. (link)
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Okay, first of all, are you completely positive that she is? If you are, then you have to get her off the pain killers and to a doctor FAST! She will probably be mad at first, but when she's 'okay' she'll forgive you and possibly thank you for helping her. after that just be very alert and make sure she eats, and see if she has red marks on her pointer and middle fingers, thats a sign that she has been making herself vomit. She might hide it in plastic containers in her room (i just learned this stuff in health class), most likely in her closet or under her bed. If she goes back to acting the same way after you get help, you need to do it again because she had a relapse. Be sure to stay by here side and always be there for her and comfort her. Do not be afraid to confront her and tell her how bad it is to have an eating disorder. She could die, or less majorly, be increasing the chances of having organ problems or diseases. Eating disorders aren't fun, so you have to do something for your friend. FAST! hope i helped
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i have asthma and i wanna start smoking cigarettes *kinda depressed* but yah.. i don't wanna die from it lol.. but you'd think i'd be getting used to it bc my sister smokes everyday on the way to and from school.. soo ya.. would it be that big of a harm to me? if ur gonna lecture on how bad smoking is.. then dont answer (link)
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Look, I'm not going to lecture you, because I know how it is to feel depressed. Smoking just isn't the right answer to cure depression, because you'll get addicted. I think you should encourage your sister to help .. and get help from a friend .. like tell them your problems, and hopefully they will help you. Since you don't want me to go into the thing about how bad smoking is .. I won't. And one more thing, if you have asthma, thats even worse if you smoke! Please don't .. its really disgusting [[ what smoking does and how is smells ]]
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okay, so i have this friend, and she cuts herself. it really scares me, because one time she cut so deep that it wouldnt stop for a while. her dad abuses her, and she doesnt get along with her mom very well. her boyfriend went away for spring break and she misses him a lot. she cut herself again because she thinks her life is so fucked up, and she thinks she should die. i really want to help her, but i dont know what to do. please help!!! (link)
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Okay, if your friend cuts herself, she's obviously in need of A LOT of help. People say that you can not die from cutting yourself, but the truth is that if you cut in the right places, you can. If you can get your friend to talk to you, another friend, or a teacher/guidance counselor/other trusted adult, ACT FAST! People don't realize that all it takes is a blink of an eye, and someone you care about could be gone. Forever. So if you really care about your friend, comfort her and tell her how much you care about her and that you're always there for her. Tell her how much you would miss her if she did commit suicide. You really have to be there for her, and get her to get help, whether its from you, a friend, an adult, or even a professional. Hope I helped, i/m me if you need more advice.
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hey is it bad to charge your cell fone to much ??
and do you knoe of any stores to get cute cell fone face plates?? (i rate high)!
xoxo need advice (link)
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Unless you charge your cell phone for like, a day straight. You can usually get cute cell phone plates at stands in the mall, or in stores that sell cell phones.
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well this kid ryan, in study hall today he walked by me and hit my pen and messed up my paper, so then after that he felt bad about it and sat next to me and asked me if he could re write it for me.. and then after he was done he wrote "i love ryan" all over my red binder in permanent marker, and hes like, "and it'll stay there forever because thats how long you'll love me okay?" and he walked me to my bus. but i dont know what this means. (link)
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Hmm,did you know this Ryan guy before study hall? Because if you did, and you were friends with him, you MIGHT have been sending him some kind of signal that you like him .. or maybe not. I think he messed up your paper to get your attention, or used it as a way to flirt. And my most reasonable explanation for him writing "i love ryan" all over YOUR binder in RED PERMANENT marker is because he wants you to always be thinking about him and never forget him, so that's why its in permanent marker. It's probably in red because we all know that red is one of very few colors you think of when you say the word 'love'. I really truly think he likes you, or wants you to like him. He's definately flirting. Hope i helped!
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i have been seeing someone on /off for the last ten years . recently moved out because the depts are way to much for me, i know he cheats on me so why do i feel like i cant move on??? (link)
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If he cheats on you, then obviously you need to have a serious discussion with him and talk it out, or move on. It seems like you can't because you're really in love with him, thats why you've had an on/off relationship for so long (i'm guessing the break ups in between weren't major, because you wouldn't be with him if they were). I think you should TRY to meet new people, or really talk it out with your boyfriend. If he denies it, I wouldn't trust him and give him another chance right away. Make sure he's being real if he says he's not cheating. If you catch him, just tell him it's over. hope i helped!
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One of my very close friends believes he was born gay. I just don't understand his belief in that. Why is it that some people can be 'born gay' and others not? I just don't understand that concept in life. Can anyone explain to me why some can be born gay and others not? (link)
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I don't think it's at all possible to be BORN gay. It might possibly develop over the years, but being gay is not a trait that carries on from generation to generation in your family, or anyone's at that. I think your friend believes that he was 'born gay' for 1 of 2 reasons:
1. his parents are either gay or bisexual
or most reasonably,
2. He has been attracted to the same sex for as long as he can remember, and can not remember being 'straight'
So really, it's not that anyone is born gay, unless there's some big thing in the news that i haven't heard about. It's probably that he developed his homosexuality at a young age.
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I am a thirteen year old girl and I have a close male friend. We usually get on quite well and we are always talking and hugging. We used to be attracted to each other and he on/off still is to me but I don't feel that way about him. Everyone says we act like we're a couple and that we should get together but I honestly don't want to. We are very close but are we too close? I admit I hug him more than my other friends but I don't have any feelings for him. So is it wrong to be this close to him if we're not in a relationship? (link)
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Okay, I'm going to get right to answering your question. I don't think it is wrong to hug a guy friend, its not bad at all. As long as you don't do it too much, and don't go too far beyond that (like kissing)I think you're fine. It's okay to be close to a guy friend. If you've made it clear to him that you don't want anything but the what seems like very good friendship, then it's okay. hope i helped.
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I am so totally in love! (well not really...its more like like) What do I do?? I am in serious need of help..haha. talk to me now. (link)
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Haha, wow Colby! yeah, Im pretty sure I know who you're talking about. And i've experienced the whole like like thing .. a few too many times? lol yeah, so back to answering. If it's the person I'm thinking of, then you can't exactly go to the movies or hang out with them EVERY weekend. probably not much at all. I think you should definately talk to the guy about it, or get a friend to. You or your friend should ask if he likes anyone .. or if he has any feelings at all for you. I would personally be happy to do it, except I don't know the guy. So yeah, it's not as easy as it seems, but it's pretty simple. Just ask him yourself if he likes anyone .. or get one of your friends to ask him, and give him an obvious hint that you like him. hope i helped. xobubblegum25xo .. if you need more help!
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I asked this guy out on monday, and he still hasnt answered. He said I dont know then i just walked away. then yesterday i was talking to him and asked if his answer was still i dont know and he was like yeah. i dont want to bug him too much, but i really just want an answer. please help! (link)
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Um, so you like this guy and he still hasn't given you an answer to if he'll go out with you or not. right? Maybe he doesn't know yet, and wants to think about it for awhile. Or maybe [[ don't take this offensively ]] doesn't like you as more than a friend, and thinks that if he doesn't answer, you'll figure out his answer. But don't think about that. If you know him pretty well, and flirt with him a lot, he'll probably say yes. Well, i hope i helped. but if you need some more advice/help .. i/m me on my screen name .. xobubblegum25xo
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ok so i might go out with a 6h grader and everyone thinks that is bad and weird, i don't no what the problem is so wat if they are in one grade below me give me ur advice on this problem thanks you no who i am i am in ur La class (link)
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okay, so what if everyone thinks that you going out with a sixth grader is " bad and weird"? it's really what you think. if you really like this person, then yeah, its fine. but if you're just doing it to have a girl/boyfriend, then no, it's not fine. If you really like them, ignore your peers. So what if you like someone younger than you! it's not illegal, and if you ask me, I think it's fine to go out with them, as long as you really truly like them. it just might result in not talking a lot, but make sure they don't cheat on you! hope i helped .. i/m me at xobubblegum25xo if you need some more advice.
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I think no one likes me at school or how i look ever one says im not cool because i don't were clothes like AERO or A&F wich is pissing me off do you really need to have nice clothes to talk to people (link)
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okay, look. i think i know who this is, but im going to try my hardest to direct it at anyone, not just who i think it is. well, back to the topic. a true friend would never judge you on the clothes you wear, and i know this for a fact. other people will though, its just life. no, you dont need nice clothes to talk to people, unless these people are stuck up and shallow. you aren't " cool " just for wearing aero/a&f/ae/hco .. etc. clothes, im not. im just me. yeah, maybe its an effect on how people look at you, but to put it in the nicest way i can, you need a nice personality to talk to people. maybe you have a bad reputation. you shouldn't start wearing name brand clothes JUST to try to get attention, people then may consider you a wanna-be .. not a prep, which is what i think you're aiming at. I'm almost positive you have friends, most people do.
so i guess to answer this straight on, yes, people do judge you by what clothes you wear, but true friends don't. just find .. or keep your true friends, and forget about all the other people, and you'll be fine. and don't buy clothes at the stores just because they're "in" .. only buy them if you actually LIKE them.
hope i helped. i/m me at xobubblegum25xo if you need any more help or advice or anything.
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this guyy has stgill not answered and im really getting mad HELP (link)
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Why not try to talk to the guy yourself? Flirt .. but not too much. It usually works .. or you could get your friends to talk to him. Just don't bug him too much .. he'll get annoyed. good luck!
hope i helped .. you can always talk to me online. fill me in on what happens!
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i am having a problem becasue i dont think that anyone like me in my life i just feel like a i anti guy type of person when i like someone they hate hate me back help me and i am a grl likeing guys (link)
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Is your problem that you don't think ANYONE likes you .. or that you don't think GUYS like you. I'm sure that there is someone that likes you, at least as a friend. And guys, wow. Sometimes girls think guys are ALL that matters .. but they aren't. We're in 7th grade! We have PLENTY of time to find true love, maybe the guy you like just isn't right for you. Sometimes you get so mad at yourself and think so lowly of yourself, when the only thing that's wrong is the guy. Why do you like this guy? Is it just for looks? Or is it the personality? If it's just for looks, two words. MOVE ON!! You should want a guy that cares about you, not one that is hot. Yeah, so maybe looks do count somewhat, but personality should be the number one. If you need any more help, just i/m me.
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I have a friend who doesn't seem like she's my friend anymore. It's not fair. She has several new friends and i barely see her. I don't know what to do and I don't want to loose her as a friend. HELP ME! (link)
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Hey. First of all, was this friend of yours a close friend? I've had some "close" friends come and go in my lifetime, and now I look back on it and stuff, it might have been for the better. Are the new friends she is hanging out with what you would consider bad news? Are they what you would consider stuck up or popular, or are they just kind of like .. there? Have you tried to talk to them .. meet them .. or become friends with them? You should probably talk to your friend, but be polite. Ask her what has happened, if she still likes you as a friend. You may not want to lose her, but if she's making no effort to see you, she's obviously not worth your time OR trouble. Try to make plans with her for this weekend .. maybe next. If she cant seem to make it because she's with her other friends, hang out with your other friends. The ones that make an effort to see you. If you need anything else, you can i/m me at xobubblegum25xo. i hope i helped!
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i need help. I cant do anything though. HELP
love Natawaaaaa (link)
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That's a good question Natawahhh. I might possibly know who you are talking about, but i'm not postive. I would talk to an adult, like your parents or something. Maybe they could sit and talk to your friend about it? Do you know why your friend wants to die? Guy troubles maybe? Or their parents? Be a good friend to your friend, i'm sure he or she is a nice person. Maybe you can do something with them to get their mind off of it. Go bowling or to the movies or something, have a sleepover. Make them have a good time, then afterwards ask " Why do you want to do THAT to yourself when you can have such a great time with your friends? " or something along that line. That's all i can really think of right now, but you can i/m me and talk to me more about it anytime. hope i helped!!
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