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hey there (:

im shannon.

i play volleyball.

im 13, but ive been told i possess much wisdomm for my age.

i'm here to answer any questions you might have.

so please, dont be afraid to ask me anything (:

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do you guys rememeber that one commercial about laptops that were all different colors, and for every color there was an object? (red=robot,etc.)
what brand were those computers, or what were they called? any info would be GREAT. thanks in advance =] (link)
http://news.zdnet.co.uk/i/z5/illo/nw/story_graphics/june07/dell_colours_1.jpg

those ones?


there dell(:


i love the colors!


i'm 16 years old and my boyfriend is 22 and he wants to have sex but i dont and he sead ''if we dont then we have to stop going out'' but truely love him and we have been going out for 2 years but if we did have sex he it would be rape right cuz i'ma minnor and thats why i dont want to and i told him that but he still wants to i would have sex but it's illegal so i dont know what to do should i have sex or not (keeping in mind we love each other)????
-Bryona (link)
if he really loved you then he wouldnt have said if you didnt have sex with him you guys would have to stop going out. thats not fair to you and it shows he doesnt care about you as much as you might think.

so in my opinion, i wouldnt do it.


how to get curily hair (link)
usee a curling ironn(:


I masturbate alot with this vibrating tooth brush I dont put it in the whole I just play with my clip a bit and this is like 2 times a day and well
will this take away from me having orgasims when I have real sex will masterbating often take make the feeling feel less good lol
15/f (link)
it wont take away from you having orgasims, but it may not feel as good while having sex, because your used to your touch, and the feeling of the toothbrush.


well there this place that all the teenager in my city go to called well 400 and well I remeber seeing this one guy and I thought he was really cute but he was all gangster...well that was like 5 months ago and recently this guy added me on myspace and I think its him from what he tells me and from what my friends tell me who know him...well we started talking and he said he added me because he though I was pretty and from his pic I think he is really cute well we have talked dirty but just playing around and crap and I have this huge myspace crush on him like when he messages me I get all happy
well anyway I might see him this friday and I dont know how to hold myself he said to come up and give him a big hug but I think thats weird
what should I do when I see him
how do a aproach him if he dosent aproach me I dont know what to do
can you give some tips please thanks a bunch
ps Im 15 and he is 17 (link)
just go up to him and say hey..
odds are he'll recognize you, but if he doesnt just say "hey its____ from myspace"

its really not thats hard (:


are club bouncers generally pretty good on checking IDs to get in? my friends and i have been to this club twice on teen night, and they just ask us if we're under 18 and believed us when we said yeah. im 3 months away from turning 18, and now my friend is having her birthday there on the 18 & up night [she's turning 18]. if i went in with a group of 18 year old friends, and showed them my id, would they likely catch that im still 3 months away, or just kinda shovel me along with my friends who ARE 18? ps i am a girl, and guys have told me i wouldn't have issues getting in because im pretty, i just dont wanna not make it in. oh & we're NOT trying to get in to drink or anything, so dont say that. the club's near atlanta if it matters. (link)
well if your with a bunch of people, there not going to check your id to closely. so odds are youll be fine (:


I work with a girl who is 23. I am almost 50. She seems to be flirting with me. She is very attractive and I really do like her. But she has a very strange habit of coming up behind me and clamping her hand over my mouth--sometimes both hands. The girl likes to do this while I am talking to someone. And she does not seem to know when to let go. It is very embarrassing to be talking and then find her long white hands clapped tightly over my mouth and muffling my speech as I struggle to try to remove them. She does this on a daily basis.

I have asked her why she does this. She said she loves covering men's mouths with her hands. The girl tells me its a control thing and a power thing with her. She wants everyone to see me with a woman's hand over my mouth. It lets her be in control and shows that she decides whether or not I am allowed to talk. This is quite embarrassing to be seen and heard this way with her hand over my mouth in public.

I have asked her to stop but she says she can't. I have even gone into my office to avoid the girl. She will come into my office and sneak up on me and put her hnds over my mouth and giggle. If I play along or try to ignore her, it only gets worse. She will stubbornly keep her hands over my mouth for as long as 15 or 20 minutes until I speak for her! The girl says she wants to hear the muffled sound of my voice in her hands trying to talk. If a student walks in, she does not let go and I am forced to pry her hands away.

I am too embarrassed about this to report her to anyone. I prefer to deal with her on a personal level. Besides, there is a strange part of me that kinda liks it--and I think she knows that. It is probably best for both of us if she stops this behavior. How can I reason with her and get her to stop putting her hands over my mouth? What can I say to her if she is using this as a way of flirting and she suspects I do like it on some level? (link)
well, if it really is annoying you, you need to say something to her.
just simply tell her that its getting in the way of you trying to have a conversation with someone and very nicely ask her to stop, thats really all you can do


The last time my boyfriend and I had sex was about 3 weeks ago, and my period is now 5 days late. We did use a condom, but I've always been regular before. I also felt very naseous for about an hour yesterday and about an hour this afternoon. I'm waiting a few more days before I get a pregnancy test.

Should I tell my boyfriend that I suspect I may be pregnant before I take the pregnancy test? Or should I take it first to confirm/deny my suspicions so I don't worry him? (link)
in my opinion i would take the test before mentioning anything to him, you wouldnt want to scare him.


btw im a female

i shaved down there and there is still little stubs of hair and they wont go away no matter how much i shave
am i doing it wrong?
or is it just because i shaved the wrong way or just because i shaved? (link)
do you sue a fresh blade every time you shave down there? it helps a lot (:


prom is coming up and so is the 4 day after prom weekend.. I've decided not to go to get waxed cause its expensive and I dont have time.. so I'm gonna do it myself but I need advice on the best method out there if anyone has tried any of the store bought kits or whatever... I shave regularly down there so I dont think it would be severely irritated by like waxing or whatever but I just want something easy that works.. thanks so much! (link)
nair bikini removal cream.
it might burn a tad afterwards.. but not to the point where its uncomfortable, it works.


what can i do if i get really bad discharge? some days its like, a puddle in my pants. but thats an exageration. (link)
wear pantyliners :)
itlll help a lot!!


okay so i really want to be fingered im old enough and i have a boy friend but i have some questions ive been felt up givin him a handjob and of couse made out

do i need to shave right my vagina before so its smooth?
do i take my pants off or do they just go down?
and what do i do like while hes fingering me??
please answer me quick!! (link)
you dont have to shave if your not comfortable doing that, most guys prefer if you do though.
it will be easier if you take your pants all the way off.
while hes fingering you just do what comes natural to you, dont think about what your doing to much.


i shave my pubic hair, and i always get razor burn, how can i stop this? (link)
okay change the blade as much as possible, its good to do it with a fresh blade everytime, and this may sound EXTREMELY weird, but put deoderant on it afterwards, just rub a little on the spotts you just shaved, itll make the razor burn decrease.


I was just wondering if you are supposed to shave your pubic hair?
Like do you only shave it before sex, or do you just shave it all the time!
I need help, haha. (link)
everyones different if you dont want to have pubic hair then shave it, i for example dont like it because im in a bikini alot, and its extremely noticable on the sides, so if you dont want to shave it all off just shave a lot off the top, but if you want it all off then go for it!


can you get pregnant if you have sex on your period? (link)
yea, it doesnt matter if your on it or not.


how do i insert a tampon?
i use tampax gentle glide, there plastic.
(link)
okay.
well im sorry if this is long

you put the tampon in angle it tpowards your back, it doesnt hurt as bad. then the smallest skinnier tube, push up.
youll feel the cotton go in you.
IT WILL HURT.
once the cottons in and its comfortable, take both plastic tubes, and throw them out.
:]
oh and if its not up far enough it will be uncomfortable.

REMEMBER TO CHANGE IT!


heyah there i think i have an eating disorder because i am 5ft 7 and i weigh 8st and i think i am really fat and everyday for about a week now i keep putting my fingers down my throat to make me be sick on a morning and on night and after everything i eat but now i am i starting to be sick by self could you help please??? than you xx (link)
you really need to see a doctor about this.
it can become an addiction.
and its really unhealthy, and dangerous.


I can not remember if I took a tampon out from December and I heve been feeling pretty goggy since that date I think or maybe it could be in my mind.

DO you think something would have happened by now if i still left it in or do you think i should go doctors. (link)
okay im confused.
are you saying, since the month of december youve had the same tampon in?
becausr thats impossible.

you would of died from
TSS already.
and you would of smelled it. and everything.


I think I might be a lesbian but Im not sure. I like some girls like not as a marridge thing but i have been noticing things about girls that i didnt notice before, like how big their breasts are. I still like guys in like marridge terms, but my relidgion doesnt allow lesbians and i dont know what to do are there any websites for girls like me? Im not really sure that i AM one, i dont know! Please help (link)
i agree with the person below me, when she says that if your not like "WOAH, her boobs are big, i wanna grab them"

i really wish you would of put your age.
if your a teenagre, thats COMPLETELY normal.
i wouldnt worry to much, it could be a stage.


i heard that if you count the days from your period and have sex on a specific day then you cannot get pregnant because there is no egg in there to fertilise...if so how do you do this?
thanx (link)
that is so far from the truth.
and never listen to 'i heard' advice.




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