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16/f
my nipples are really lumpy. is that normal or should i see a doctor?

ive had my period a little more than 2 years if that matters...

large, hard lumps are a bad sign. even small lumps can be a bad sign. try http://familydoctor.org/online/famdocen/home/women/reproductive/breast/018.html . i think you might be to young for breast cancer, but you never know. If it is a reddish kind of lump, it could also be serious. visit a dermatologist for that. hope i helped

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So i have this short purple dress and i have two questions.

1. How should i do my eyes? They are brown and i have brown/blonde hair.

2. I want my legs too look amazing without pantyhose so. Winterball is on Saturday, so what should i do? i also have these like red bumps on my legs that never go away. So how do i make them go away.

1. try a gold shadow, just a little of it. i think that looks good without being over the top. put mascara just on the top lashes and dont overdo or skip eyeliner. maybe use a dark colored mascara and brown eyeliner. try it on before the day of the party.

2. try putting lotion on them or use oatmeal bath to soothe redness. you could also cover them up with some kind of cheap concealer or foundation.

hope i helped

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15/m

ok i'm really good friends with this girl, she's almost 14 and i like her a lot she knows it we talk pretty much everyday and if not everyday at least every week we've talked about dating but i'm not sure she fully got it she's always dating guys that are assholes but i wanna show her that i'm different from all the rest i'm always telling her how amazing she is and stuff but she won't give me the chance but next saturday my friend set up a get together with her boyfriend me and that girl so i'm gonna make the best of it but i'm wondering is it worth it because i can't handle seeing her with another guy i wanna be that guy i know i'm right for her

first off, it seems like your really good friends but maybe she doesnt want to be more. It seems like she does though. She could be worried about going out with you because she doesnt want to wreck a great friendship. you should go on the group date, because hanging with her in a group can make her feel more comfortable about dating you. also, she might date bad guys because people call her prude or she wants to prove something to her parents or friends. dont try to change yourself, just wait until shes over that. give her time, and i say you should go on the date. spending time with her is a plus. feel free to ask if you have any other qouestions. hope i helped

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okay so i love my ipod touch except i have a few problems...one is that when i play the youtube videos ill press play and then it will play like 10 seconds of the song and then stop then i press the play button again and it play for 2 seconds stops like you know how some videos do that on youtube? well its happening on my ipod so i cant fully see the video without it having too stop every 3 seconds.So should i take it back to the apple store or is there a way myself to fix the problem? the second is that i ahev a song on my ipod that wont play so im wondering will i be able to delete it still off my ipod by using itunes even if it wont play on my ipod?

thank you!

the reason the videos do that is because it takes time for them to buffer, especailly on the itouch. you can wait until they load then play. about the song, if it was bought from itunes contact them. if it was not, try buying it or downloading it online. or you could delete it then reload it onto your itunes. hope i helped

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Hello!!

I was wondering if you can change your name ? On, here . You know the one you signed up with? Please help!! Thanks for anyone who try's!

:0

If you are willing to pay, i think you can. Other than that the name you start with is the name you get stuck with. maybe if you have a good reason and contact the administrators of the website...? that probably wont work though

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i broke up with my bf... he is in las vegas for2 weeks and he has only ben there for 2 days... but he spent 200 out of 310 dollars in 24 hours.. and he went to a strip cub by himself. is that a dumb reason? i am eally hut.. he is some amount of miles away from me and i cant do anthing bout it... he knows i cant... so in your opinion would you be that upset to break up with him? thanks

I think that seems like a good reason to break up with him, but maybe he just thought thats what you are supposed to do in vegas. Boys are dumb. I think you should have talked to him about it first. I would be upset if i thought he was better than what he showed, but if youve been doubting him for a while i would just forget it and move on.

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f/16, boyfriends 16
been dating for 7 months, known eachother for 3 years
theres no question that i love him, during thepast 7 months we've been through more and made it through it, between him moving an hour away and me being hospitalized for 2 months for an eating disorder
and were still strong
i feel more comfortable around him than anyone, we basically know eachother inside out

right now were basically at the hj/fingering stage i guess but we've spoken a lot about going farther and what not
basically due to all my insecurities it felt that i wasn't ready, and the fear of him leaving and the rest of it

basically the other night we were making out, but like really, really going at it and he asked me if i wanted to go to the next level
i said not tonight

at this pont though there really is no reason for me to be so uptight about it and like i want to, but im afraid to? i guess
any advice on how to just not be so worried maybe?

btw my boyfriends the best and not pressuring me or anything, and he really was fine that i said no, but i feel at this point i should? he's been there for me through everything

It seems likeyou may pressuring yourself. think about if you really want to or not. if you choose yes, you will probably be nervous at first but once you get into it you wont feel nervous anymore. if you get to that stage and you decide you dont feel comfortable, just dont do it. theres no rush, wait until you are ready. hope i helped

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15/f

So I have a college interview next month, and I have no clue what to wear.

I guess that I shouldn't look really messy or dress inappropriately. But I also don't want to look boring as I will see other potential students and want to make a good impression.

So,

- What clothes should I wear for my college interview?
- How should I do my hair and make-up?
- What about jewellery?

Thanks,

Well obviously you shouldnt go overboard on any of the areas. I would wear something like a emmpire waist shirt with a pair of khakis, or a very casual womens suit with a bright cami underneath. a simple necklace and matching earrings would be cute, nothing too big. Keep your hair the way you usually wear it, and keep the make-up to just covering up problem areas. You shouldnt change yourself for the interveiw, but of course going overboard is bad. try to dress casually but not like a slob and not in all black. i would recomend removing peircings on eyebrows, tounges, and lips also. avoid putting on a show though by wearing either a really fancy outfit or a save the planet shirt. dont try to hard. they really dont focus on clothing so i wouldnt stress over it, and use my time to practice my posture and speaking.

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I play football and im on the track team and my high school both of which im highly competitive in, my frosh year i was 1st in the state in my event in track, and in football I've been recruited by dartmouth, harvard, hobart, and tufts. Im only a sophmore but ive encountered a very tough decision, on whether or not to do track or football, because this year, my sophmore year, right after the first game in football i needed surgery on my shoulder which took me out for the season. Im finally back to doing everything now, and Im questioning whether or not to stick with track or to continue football. I know im being highly recruited as a sophmore for football, but im not sure if its something I want to do in college even though everyone tells me i should. Im set on doing track, cuz my coach is awesome and its pretty fun, but Im not sure if I should continue football. I really prefer track over football, but wouldnt mind playing football, i just dont know if i wanna play in college. Just looking for your opinions thanks.

I would suggest picking which one you enjoy more, are better at, and get you into the better college with a better scholarship. I would definitely pick track if I were you because of the injury. maybe play football on the side, on a kind of club team or just a bunch of friends. If you like track, pick track, but its up to you. hope i helped

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Hey I was just wondering why is it when you have your period, it smells kind of like fish?? Is there any way to prevent this? Thanks!

in addition to the other answers, make sure to change your pad or tampon at least every 4 or 5 hours. also, take a shower every morning (or night if thats what you prefer). hope i helped

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I broke the chain off my necklace my boyfriend gave me!
Its so little I didn't even know they broke that easily?
Does that usually happen?
How can I fix it? and if I have to take it somewhere how much will it cost?

Ive had necklaces that have broken. you could maybe get it fixed at a jewelers, but if it is just a silver chain with a charm i would buy a new chain. your boyfriend wouldnt notice, and its the charm that matters anyway. fixing it probably wouldnt cost too much, maybe even free. hope i helped

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so i really like this guy but we dont talk much but i was in his class 2 years ago and we talk a little but he thinks im really quiet (which im not) even before i started likeing him and now that i like him im really scared to talk to him.. he knew i liked him and his friend asked if him if hed ever go out with me and he said no but i never rreally tallk to him and he thinks i never talk but im the oppisite ...so do you think if i start talking to him more he will begin to like me?
thankkya
loveboys

You cantbe sure that he will like you if you talk to him, but that could certainly help. dont worry about impressing him or talk too much because he says you never talk. huge turn-off. just be yourself. if he doesnt like you, move on. thats his loss, and there are plently of other great guys out there. hope i helped

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18/ Female

I am trying to come up with a cute way to surprise my girlfriend for valentines day. I have been going out with her for a couple months and i want to make everything perfect for her. I have already told her that I am taking her out to a really nice restaurant, but I also want to surprise her.

I was thinking about getting flowers delivered to her house, but I want something..."cuter" I want things to be special and i want to really surprise her

Thanks!

like send her roses with a guy who sings or sing to her your song or a love song. you could also make dinner or invite her over and decorate with rose petals. or make her a big card with a poem you wrote in it. always cute. hope i helped

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it seems like some days my boobs are bigger and other days smaller. What is up with that.. and is there a way to get them bigger without the rest of my body getting bigger too ? 15 f if that helps.

i wish there were something that would make your boobs bigger, but even though some companies claim they can make it happen, there really is no way. I guess if you wanted to you could gain a ton of weight then lose it all. but that is unhealthy and stupid. as the person before me said, though, boobs do swell during your period sometimes.

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im 17 female and im 5'3. i weigh 115 pounds. im not overweight or anything but i have a little extra fat that i would lke to get rid of. i want to be at 110. i dont have a whole lot of time to workout, only about 2 days a week that i can run and lift weights at the gym. if i eat healthy and workout 2 days a week how long on average do you think it would take to lose 5 pounds

Because you dont have much weight to lose and you are already at a normal weight, it may take a while for you to lose the weight. I lost some weight really quickly by following a free personalized plan from realage.com, you should try it. For exercising, i would reccomend an hour to an hour and a half of aerobics on the days you have to exercise. other creative ways to exercise are to walk to places instead of drive or to lift weights while you are studying. Depending on how much effort you put into losing weight, i would expect the weight to be dropped in 1 month to 3 months. hope i helped

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I likemy bff's brother and have for a while now. I just told her a week ago, it was nice to let it out. She obviously said, omgggg, and all that. She doesn't really care, we're still bffs, we never really talk about it and if we do we just laugh. I know he at least likes me as a friend, he says hi in the hallways and jokes with me. We relate about a lot of stuff and my bff always says, you get along better with him than me! Well, one time on the bus home, before she knew i liked him, we were talking. She was telling me about how they bonded last night (they hate each other most of the time though) and they told eachother who they liked. She said a long time ago they promised to never tell anyone who they said they liked, and they never broke the promise. So we joked and I said, I know you said your cell phone, and we laughed because she loves her cell. I do know who she really likes though. And so I said, and I know your brother said his xbox 360, cause he plays it so much. She laughed a little, but just said no, actually... and she never finished! That was before she knew I liked him. Well, she's obviously bound by her promise and wouldn't tell me if he did like me or not if I asked. But I really think if he did like me, she might say something. But maybe not, you know, sibling bonds. He definately acts like he likes me most of the time, at least as a friend. So what do you think?

he may like you and he may not. it seems like he does, but the only way to know for sure is asking. talk to him more often and watch his expressions when he talks to you and is around you. if he likes you he will seem more nervous and eager probably, if he seems calm he probably just wants to be friends

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I'm thirteen years old. My cousin is a vegitarian and I really want to be one. How would I tell my parents I want to be one?
Also what are some foods and things i do to stay healthy?


Also what exacly is peta?



thanks in advance

As you probably already know, being a vegetarian is a huge commitment. Just tell your parents that you would like to make that commitment and why, and most likely they will not have a problem with it. Of course, not eating meat means missing out on important protiens and such. Milk and eggs can help, unless you chose to become a vegan, which means skipping out on all animal biproducts as well as meat. I would recomend taking some kind of protien booster vitamin or pill, found at most food and drug stores. Ask your cousin for more tips. Hope I helped

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I run a free monthly newsletter online reaching 1,000 people nationally. It is high demand. Have a small staff that won't work with me. Newsletter is over 30 pages long after tons of cut backs. For me to handle it is just too much being a housewife and homeschooling the kids. I am also trying to write books and the newsletter is a great stepping stone for that. Well, what do I do now? I can't write it all, don't see how to cut it back, kids need schooling first, really need the money of writing plus my dream, where to go from here?

For the newsletter, you clearly need the help of your staff, so work on getting them in order. maybe for one month skip the newsletter and get the group together. Also, try shortening the newsletter by organizing the newsletter in to catagories and limiting how much you allow yourself to put in each catagory. hope i helped

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I'm starting to get a bit concerned. I'm 18. My periods used to be not-so-regular, but more recently have become so. I used to skip a period every few months, and though I freaked myself out a few times - have ruled out pregnancy for obvious reasons (I'm a virgin). However, my period skipped last month, and while I expecting it this month - nothing yet. Saturday, I noticed a bit of brown discharge when I wiped, so I was expecting my period... nothing. I assumed it was just taking awhile to start, and that I would see something Sunday, but just more brown discharge. Hardly anything is "coming out", no cramps, no period, and I'm getting nervous. I have no pain, and I'm not feeling ill. Is it an infection? Is this something that is generally normal among women? Or is it something more serious?

Any help would be greatly appreciated.

Some people, for whatever reason, have an extremely irregular period. However, because of the discharge color, you may have an infection. I would strongly reccomend taking to your doctor. I wouldnt worry about the irregular period, some people only have their period 3 times a year!

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whats some really great music thats like hip-hop, techno, dance, house,... maybe rock or something like that that has a good beat to dance to and gets you all pumped up and keeps you moving?
thanks :)

Low
Be Faithful(corny but fun)
Run It
Just dance
Live your Life
Single Ladies
Let It Rock
Green Light
Shake It
Switch


put your favorite one in genius on itunes(the most recent version) and you will get an instant perfect playist

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