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is it meant to be?
15/m
ok i'm really good friends with this girl, she's almost 14 and i like her a lot she knows it we talk pretty much everyday and if not everyday at least every week we've talked about dating but i'm not sure she fully got it she's always dating guys that are assholes but i wanna show her that i'm different from all the rest i'm always telling her how amazing she is and stuff but she won't give me the chance but next saturday my friend set up a get together with her boyfriend me and that girl so i'm gonna make the best of it but i'm wondering is it worth it because i can't handle seeing her with another guy i wanna be that guy i know i'm right for her
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first off, it seems like your really good friends but maybe she doesnt want to be more. It seems like she does though. She could be worried about going out with you because she doesnt want to wreck a great friendship. you should go on the group date, because hanging with her in a group can make her feel more comfortable about dating you. also, she might date bad guys because people call her prude or she wants to prove something to her parents or friends. dont try to change yourself, just wait until shes over that. give her time, and i say you should go on the date. spending time with her is a plus. feel free to ask if you have any other qouestions. hope i helped<3
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Hi there :)
Well to start off, please, don't do anything to mess up the relationship, or else, the girl will see you as a problematic friend and the guy will probably want to pick a fight with you. I would recommend talking to your friend when she is single and being upfront with her. Shyness is an issue, but maybe over the phone can help. Tell her how you feel, but don't get into too much detail. Just let her know you have a crush on her, and that you're wondering if she would give you a chance. Too much declaring of feelings might overwhelm the girl or scare her.. orrr maybe she'll like. depending on the type of girl she is. Ask her what kind of guys she's into... get to know her relationship wise... then pop the question. good luck :)
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