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What do you do when you have a boyfriend who you love and you have been goign out for 5 1/2 months but you statrt to fall for your best friend and your best friend likes you?
I think I'm starting to fall for my best friend who I am always with and I know I flirt with him. He likes me too but the problem is I have a boyfriend. I feel like each of them has one of my arms and they are both tugging away and I can't decide whos hand I want to let go of because I don't want them to fall.
What Should I Do?
~Confused in Love (link)
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as crazy as it sounds- pick who you think you could spend the rest of your life with. and dont just look at all their good qualities- look at the bad ones too.i know it sounds dumb- but after all, we date people so that we can find that 'one' person, so why not try and decipher which one seems more like tht 'one'?
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when ever I look in the mirror all I can say is wow im so ugly. im starting to get so self consious about how i look. i dont like to look striaght at people when im talking because i always think people are thinking that im ugly. i dont know why im like this now. before i didn't even care how i looked. :( (link)
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well, obviously its something thats been sadi to you about the way you look, or sumthn of that nature, becuase people dont just get paranoid about the way they look on their own. im 7 months pregnant, and ive gained about 29 pounds, i feel sooooooooooooo huge, but my boyfriend, as well as other people are always telln me i look so good. i guess its just a matter of how you carry yourself. i have met some of the most confident girls around that are pretty big, but still have that positive outlook and attitude on things, i think as long as you stay positive, then everything will work out in the end- including your confidence.
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I am 16 and I love to read. I read just about anything. I'll read classics, sci/fi, poetry, romance, about anything really. I just need some good titles. Anything will help, any genre, titles and authors. Thanks in advance! (link)
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im readin a book now, 13 little blue envelopes. its pretty good. havent finished it yet. i also read a child called it. i finished it in a day- its not that long- but it was awesome. as much of a big reader as you are, though- youve probably read almost every book ive read.
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on my cingular motorala razr, how much does it cost to be on the internet? like if it says 1000 bytes transfered (or another number) how much money does each byte cost? (link)
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i dont know the exact cost, but i know it can get pretty expensive. the only clear way to besure that you sontget a huge charge on ur bill wuld be to buy an interenet package.
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I have a great job & my supervisor is amazingly nice. She has a younger brother who also works in our store (he's 19, i'm 18) and me and him have become close. He recently told me he wants to be more than friends and I was excited. My supervisor is actually supportive about all of this. The thing is, I'm scared of what would happen if we broke up and weren't on good terms. I don't want to jeopardize my job and my supervisors opinion of me but I really like this guy. (link)
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in short, it wuld be totally illegal for her to do anythnig to you if somethnig happened when the two of you had sumthn bad between you.
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okay well my friend is bi and i didnt mean to but i told one of her bestfriends she was and i mean i thought she knew b/c she neva told me not to say nuttin so i dunno what to do i hope she aint mad at me wdid? (link)
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if she had the guts to admit that shes bi, then she shuld have the guts to react to it when people find out. i mean, really.
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I have this really suicidal friend called jazz and she keeps cutting her wrists and trying to kill herself because she is depressed i have tryed to help her but she keeps making me feel depressed, i told her to go to the doctor she say no i say talk to school she say no so what do i do? (link)
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honestly, i wuld tell someone. i think that right now it seems like a horrible thing to do, and she might get sooooooo mad at you, but when people do stuff like that, theres really no chance for keeping it a secret. if somethnig was to happen to her, you wuld feel horrible that you DIDNT say anything, am i right?
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ok yesterday i said to my friend jess on aim "i officially have the best song on my myspace ever." i told her to go look and shes like "that song sucks." it was "but its better if you do" by panic at the disco. then shes like "dude, stop trying to be like me and katie cuz its not working. you hated them like a month ago." katie is one of our friends. she also said i get jealous over the smallest things and its really annoying. is she like way overreacting? because all me friends think she is.
and another thing..how can i not get so jealous? because i do get jealous easily. (link)
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it sounds to me like shes the jealou one. if she wasnt, she wudnt be all over you for such stupid stuff. id tell her to shove it where the sun dont shine until she wants to stat acting like a REAL friend.
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Ok, me and my boyfriend are both 17 and have been dating for almost 6 months. We have had sex without a condom twice and im not on any type of birth control. The first time was Oct. 25 and the second was Nov. 8. I was scared the first time we had sex that I was pregnant but decided i would wait for my period to get all worried about it. I seriously doubt i could have gotten pregnant from the first time cause it was only for like a minute. I got nervous and we stopped. The second time we again didnt use a condom. He pulled out before he came but maybe he didnt do it soon enough. Some of it got on my leg and I asked him if he came inside me and he said he definitely didnt and i didnt feel anything. My period is usually 4 1/2 weeks apart and my period should be coming any day now or could be a couple days late. I dont want anyone to know so thats why I havent gotten a pregnancy test yet. Is there any chance I could be pregnant? I'm so nervous and this is all i have been thinking about. My boyfriend says if i am pregnant that we are not getting an abortion but i dont know if i can handle a baby at this age. Help me please!
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im 16, and am 7 and a half months along with a baby that definetely wasnt planned, but i can tell you this much- she was NOT a mistake, and i will never let her believe that. i understand that yuore scared. i was sooooooooooo paranoid and scared for weeks on end. i got so worked up, that i culdnt even remember when my period was supposed to come, so i didnt officially find outi was pregnant until i was like, almost 3 months along- i spazzed OUT! - but, no matter how many times a guy can tell you that he pulled out.- theres still always that chance that there was pre-cum, and i know for a fact that thats what got me pregnant. before a guy 'goes'- thers always a lil bit that will come before it. most times, a guy cant feel that- and he doesnt think anything of it. so, regardless of wethere he pulled out before he came, there will ALWAYS be pre-cum. so- i def. wuld be a little scared. i mean, im not tryin to freak you out or nething, im jsut tellin you like it is. if you ever wantto talk, my inbox is always open, and ill be glad to talk to you. lots o luv
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Hey...i dont know what an engrown(i know thats not how you spell it) hair look like? is it when you have a pimple looking thing with a hair coming out of it or what cuz i have one of those on my leg. (link)
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thats definetely an ingrown hair. the only thing you can do is keep it dry, and let it heal on its own. as long as you donttouch it or scratch it, it should go away in a few days.
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So im having a baby in a couple weeks, its a boy. I want to name him Aiden but im having trouble with a middle name. Any ideas?! thanks! (link)
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awwwwwww. exactly wht im plannin on namin my baby if its a boy. doctor sed its a gurl- but i think its a boy. lol. im using my bf's daddy's name as the middle name. aiden jacob,
aiden derek
aiden matthew
aiden christopher
aiden jeffrey
aiden joshua
aiden emmanuel
aiden nathaniel
aiden noah
aiden troy
i think all these sound pretty unique.
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Can you get an std from someone by sharing carmex?? (link)
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it culd happen. cold sores are a form of herpes, so yes- id imagine in some weird way, that it is possible.
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I have a serious crash on this guy, and I think he likes me somehow, too. But I have bf, and he has gf.
We were both at this dinner, and nothing special (romantic) happened. We chatted and laughed with other friends there. Just like always. And end of night, we hug and said goodbye to each other.
When I got into my car, I got a text message from him. There's nothing special about what the msg said, just normal "good night" msg. But he never sent me txt msg before. And I just saw him 5 mins ago. Why did he send me the message?
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well, he obviously had a good time, and it seems to me like maybe hes thinking about something more between you two. i culd be wrong, but thats definetely what i would take it as if i was in your shoes.
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Ok, the deal is my friend likes this guy and he told me he hates her, and she was going to ask him out, but i said not to because i didnt want her to get hurt, so she didnt, but then as a dare he asked her out. And i asked him wat was goin on , and he said he did it as aa joke, and now my friend thinkz they are a couple wen they arent, and he offered to take her out on saturday, but he isplanning on cancelling. And i dont know if i should tell her because she got mad at me last weak for telling her, and i am so not sure. Please help me. She really likes this guy. I need advice! Thankz u rok! :) (link)
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definetely tell her. as long as youve got ur story stragiht, then it sounds like your girl is up for some serious hurt. dont let it happen if you have anything to do about it.
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AWESOME GRADES FROM SO-SO SCHOOL OR SO-SO GRADES FROM AWESOME SCHOOL?
what's the best? see i was thinking if i choose a school like UCLA (good repuation right?) but since everyone's so smart there i'd get so-so grades, or is it better to choose a so-so school where i'd get the best grades?? like lets say i want to becom a doctor, what would be best? do they look at your grades, or where you got your degree, or both? does anyone know?? (link)
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definetely go for the better grades than the better school. in honest truth, it really doesnt matter what college/ university you go to. jsut as long as you succeed in what you ar doing- by having good grades.
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I'm not sure if residue is the right word but I took a sticker off a plastic thing of mine and the stickeyness of the sticker refuses to come off. There's no paper on it, just the stickyness and I can't figure out how to get it off. It keeps getting things stuck to it and making it look bad. It's a little cigar case thing that one of my friends gave to me. It's all plastic so I can't burn the stickyness off. Any ideas on how I can get it off? (link)
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rubbing alcohol. just make sure that it wont fade the color of the plasctic first, but it works every time.
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there's this gurl her name is amanda and she keeps harassing my friend samantha on myspace... there families don't like eachother and fight with eacother... and she gave smatha a bruise on her arm... i told this gurl to stop bothering her but now she started cussing at me and stuff and i don't want to have to tell my mom i have a myspace so don't give me advice telling me i should tell my mom... so what should we do? (link)
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remove her from your friends list. you cant talk to anyone that isnt on ur friends list, as far as i know- so just remove her.
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My skin is a shade of bright ivory...all except for my nose. My nose is almost allways red, and I need help finding the best type of makeup to cover it up, without completely emptying my wallet at the same time! Any recommendations??
Thank you so much!
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thats something a trip to the drugstore, or walmart can fix- but what i will suggest is using moisturizer on your nose first- ive noticed that many girls aswell as myslef have the same problem of a dry nose when makeup is applied to it. using a moistuizer underneath will keep your face not feeling so tight.
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this year is my first homecoming! But i have a few questions that i'm not to sure about. Number one, "Is homecoming really formal? Not like prom formal, but like a step under prom? Or is it reall laid back? Can you please give me examples?" and Number two "Can you go to homecoming with just your friends? Like for example I only want to go with my girl friends, is that ok? Or are people going to look at me weird because I don't have a guy with me?". Thanks! I really appreciate it! (link)
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first off, many people i know go to homecoming with friends. its more prom that i would suggest getting a date. homecoming is jsut a celebration of the fall sports- mainly football.i went with my boyfriend at the time and one of his friends- it was cute- they both wore the same dres shirt and dpants, and i walked between then when everyone walked in. it was kewl. but as far as how formal- thats something yuoll have to check with your skewl on. my first high school, had a semi formal homecoming- which meant yo had to wear a dress- nothing too formal- but guys couldnt wear jeans or gym shoes,etc. girls in cute shimmery dresses/heels. etc. but then coming to my new high school, they do things completely different. they all go out and buy a new pair of jeans and a halter top maybe some heels, and are ready for homecoming. t jsut depends on the school. by all means, youre more than welcome to wear watver the heck you want- skip what everyone else thinks.
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im not sure where this goes but oh well..
i had my first period in july. then i didnt get it in august. now this month ive been on it for like 9 days. is this normal?? is it just because i didnt get it last month?? (link)
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its simply because y6uor body hasnt set up an exact schedule. hard to explain- but the first few months are USUALLY irregular. but thats only for most girls. i for example never had an irregular period until i got pregnant, of course. if it persists for thenext few months, dont be too scared, its just your body and its timing. itll get much more regular later on
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