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1st of i'm 16 and i'm in 10th grade and a girl...and i have some pretty awesome best girl friends...well i make-out with a few of them...i don't mind it i actually have fun doing...but i wouldn't call my self bi...i read this thing online and it says that we experment to find out what we like...well i love makeing-out with both sexes! but i've never done more with a girl...i have and talked about eating girls out with my other best friend and we have talked about doing to each other...but i could never see my self with a girl...because i just love boys...but what i am getting at is it wrong to want to do this stuff with girls...it's mainly with my best friend...it's just a experment..is it wrong to experment with her? she has ate a girl out before..i mean i'm not scared to do it and i don't feel un-comfortable caouse she is my best frined...my point...does any of this seem wrong?
((i don't want the stupid rood people to answer this...or jerks who think it's "nasty"))
love: the girl who doesn't know!! (link)
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There's nothing wrong with that. If you start to develop other sexual or other feelings for girls, then you might consider yourself to be Bi, and there's nothing wrong with that. Or you could just like to have 'fun'.
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well i like this guy people think hes a geek but i don't know why. well he is really smart like he loves to read and stuff hes not popular but i am and people have found out that i like him and there laughing at me. i really like him and i could really care less what people think but i just don't want to loose my friend over something like this( that is if we start to go out) i am 13 years old an i'm a girl. please tell me if i should go out with him or just try to forget about him and keep my reputation. thanks a lot! (link)
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If you really like him, then it's none of other people's business and you shouldn't care what other people think. And if you seriously lose friend's because of it, then they aren't true friends and aren't worth the aggrivation. So if you like him, go out with him, screw what the other people think if you do really like him.
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Ok I am 13 and in the seventh grade.There are some guys that like me but they wont ask me out. (I dont like them though) And every sigle person in my school has had a bf or a gf no lie. Except me I like some people but they wont ask me out and its kind of embarrassing. I sont know how to act or what to do. I mean I am so popular and all serious. But soem times I wish I wasnt bexcuz I think that guy dont want me if I am.
there is only 54 more days of school and I havent had a bf before.. plz help (link)
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1) Not everyone has a b/f or g/f, even though it may seem that way.
2) If you like a guy, take a chance and ask them out, Honestly what have you got too lose? It's not like it'll be some huge crushing blow, you'll get over it.
3) It shouldn't be embarassing, you'll have a b/f when your ready, or something like that. SOOOO many ppl don't have b/f's or g/f's.
4)And a guy not "wanting you" because your "popular" doesn't make any sense, too me at least.
So my adivce is too pick a guy you like, flrit and whatever, and then if things go well, ask him to hang out or something.
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There's this boy I REALLY don't like, but he fancies me =( His mate keeps coming up to me and saying, "Hi Lauren, Mark fancies you by the way". All the time, and it's really annoying. The boy I don't like who likes me (he's called Mark) is kind of.. well. Immature, and I don't like him, I certainly don't fancy him! My friends are also immature, and they're always saying stuff like, "Here's your girlfriend, Mark", and pointing at me. Now everyone thinks I'm going out with him! I've said I'm not, but they don't believe me, my friends are stirring it =( He keeps coming near me, and his friends say he wants to talk to me. I don't WANT to talk to him! I know I'm being really mean and ignoring him when he comes near me, he said "Why do you hate me?". I said I didn't, and now my friends REALLY think I fancy him, when I wouldn't even know he existed if Sarah (my friend) didn't keep talking about him and asking me if I wanted to go out with him. She can't get it into her miniscule brain that I DON'T like him. AT ALL. It's so annoying =( Sorry it's so long, but please help =/ (link)
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I HAD THE SAME PROBLEM!!! And all of my friends did the same, so I got pissed at them and they EVENTUALLY realized to shut up and stop with their immature crap. If you don't like him, next time he asks "Why do you hate me?" say something like "I don't hate you, but I don't 'fancy' you either." And if your friends don't shut up, then tell them they're pissing you off, and if they were your real friends then they should stop.
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OK this is for everyone!
I have never had a boy friend! Is that bad?? And I want one, but no one wants to go w/ me! Cause i am a tomboy! I like to skate and stuff like that! I personally think i imtate boys! Cause i can shoot a ball into a basketball and i play sports! Is this a bad thing? I am 13 and i have a lot of boy friends! I have one that is my bff and i like hima lot is that ok? Plzz i rate high!!
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I used to be like that, when i was like 9-12. You shouldn't change they way you are to make guys notice you. And I had that problem too. I just got more girly I guess over the years, but I still kick ass in gym class and play sports, and I'd skate if I wanted too. That's deffinetly niot a bad thing. ALot of guys probably want a girl who will shoot hoops with them and not worry about breaking nails. And I haven't had a b/f either and I'm 14. So I think you should just be your self with a little flirting towards this kid you like. And see hoe things work out from there.
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okay like,me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 months and 2 days. and i absolutely love him with everything i have. but i feel like he's becoming too attached and serious. i'm 15 and he's 17 about to turn 18. ((thats beside the point)) but like last saturday ((march 5th)) he asked me if i would promise to marry him and he gave me a promise (("pre-engagment")) ring. well of course i said yes. because it's what i was thinking at the time. but now i'm having second thoughts. i mean i'm only 15 i have the rest of my teen years to live. i just dont know what to do. i wanna tell him were getting to serious, but i still love you and wanna be with you.
eck..someone please help! ...=]...i ratteeee!!!
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JUst tell him so. Tell him that you do love him, and that you really do think your getting to serious in such a short amount of time. Explain to him that you love him, want to be with him, but aren't ready for a "promise ring" because you have so long untill you even consider marriage, but you want to be with him and that you love him.
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ok, heres the problem...i really like this kid, and i think he likes me back, i mean we slept together and everything so i think that means something right? but the problem is hes 10 years older then me and him and my older sister just got engaged...i dont know whether i should tell her or not, it might ruin our relationship and theirs, but i feel guilty. He told me not to tell her, that hes slept with plenty of other people and she dosnt know about it. I dont know what to do...help! (link)
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1) You slept with this guy without knowing if he even likes you? I'm thinking he's using you, and if he sleeps around WHILE HE'S ENGAGED he's not worth anything.
2) The phrase "Age ain't nothing but a number" works for like up too 5 years, then it gets creepy. I can see for LOVE maybe. But not with this guy...ick
3) How the hell did you end up sleeping with your sister's fiance? or even boyfriend?! That's ridiculous and you need to think about what you've done, and you should feel guilty, put yourself in her shoes...NOW how do you feel?? And if you don't tell her what a scum this guy is, for sleeping around and for him to even SLEEP WITH HER SISTER, he's a scum bag.
4) You deffinetly absolutely should tell her what happened, and what this "guy" has been doing. And is probably still doing. It's disgusting, and not to mention 100 % disrespectful. and she ABSOLUTELY deserves to know, I mean COME ON she's your SISTER!!!!!
5) If he's sleeping with all these people, then I doubt he likes you. He's a scum bag looking for some action. that's my opinion though, I don't know your particualr situation, but think of how many girls he's been with, and what he's done to your sister.
6) If you don't tell you sister, I think you'd be as bad as him.It'd be ridiculous if you didn't. SHE NEEDS TO KNOW IF SHE WANTS TO MARRY HIM.
I'm trying to be as nice as I can with this, but it just disgusts me.
You really need to tell her and straighten it up, and if she chooses to not get engaged with him, then you shouldn't think of him anymore, even though you may like him, How could he do that to your sister? I mean....I don't know waht else to say.
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Hey, im 16 and i like this kid who's also my age. he is in one of my classes, and we dont EVER talk. Back in middle school, we used to talk ... well, it was actually more of him "bugging me" and me joking with him and saying "shut up". but i think he liked me .. he would bug me all the time! like, we would joke around .. & it never got any further than that. after that, i started having a crush on him. soon after, we had a school dance .. and i wanted him to dance with me but he said no. i was crushed. but now i REALLY like him .. its crazy. when i see him my heart DROPS and i cant look at him - its more of a quick glance and then i have to look away. its crazy. i think about him serioulsy like ... ALL THE TIME. i think he is "way out of my league". and its almost painful to think of that. we never talk. whenever i see him, its usually at my worst - ill be in a bad mood and ill look like im a complete mess. its horrible. is it best for me to just dream about him? or should i just try to make him notice me? and honestly .. i cannot just go up to him and say hey. its just ... you know, not THAT easy :-/. idk what to do o_O..sorry this is long.. and if this is a popluar type of question.. (link)
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Yeah sure, it's hard to just start to talk to your *crush* but, you've gotta do something before your oppurtunity passes. Don't change yourself to make him notice you, honestly if that's what it would take, he's not worth it. So just be yourself and try ::ATTEMPT:: to mutter a hey, or ask him if he knows how to do something that your working on in class. Or even what page number the teacher said, if he sits near you. If not, in the halls, smile at him or say hey as you pass. Saying anything is better than saying nothing. Nothing more I can say than to be yourself, and take a chance at a hello/smile.
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ive liked one of my guy friends for like 2 years now. he's a year older than me and he's had girlfriends since but we talk ALL the time, he always flirts w/ me, and he always does stuff that makes me think he likes me. im so confused though. how could i like subtly let him know i like him or find out if he likes me? thanks! (link)
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Flirt with him more and more, and ask him to hang out if you don't already. Some how maybe try to bring up a question like "WHo do you like?" or something, and chances are he'll ask back. Then you can tell him how you feel, subtly. Hope things work out.
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I'm a freshman and I like a junior! We knew eachother a few years ago through our church but I don't go anymore so I stopped getting to see and talk to him. But now that I'm in highschool, I've started seeing him all the time and he's actually in all my lunches too...but we never talk or even say hi to eachother. what should i do? (link)
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Start saying hi to him and try to start up some conversation's with him. After you start to talk to him more and more ask him to hang out with you or sit with you @ lunch. Hope things work out!
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im 13/m and just wondering. my goal is to be a virgin until i get married, i want that special moment to be with the women i love, can i get some feedback? anything you want to say. ill rate all answers with a 5
irish
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If your in love, then you may not have to wait untill your married, unless you absolutely want too. It's sweet that you want to wait, and some girls wil appreciate it, if they wnat the same, so all in all, it depends on who your with, if your in love, and how your significant other feels on the issue.
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At a recent school dance, they had 2 grades there: 7th and 8th, and im in 8th grade. My friend billy was there (7th grade) and me and my friends were hanging out with him and his freidns who are also in 7th grade, a year younger than us. I was flirting like a tonnn with this one kid, steven, and it was really fun and he was being a flirt back..he's very nice and sweet, has adorable green eyes and is very cute. he's got a cute voice and cute hair and is my height too, which is a plus. Anyway, my boyfriend and i of 1 1/2 months just broke up and it was really hard for me. But at the dance, flirting and hanging out with steven made me realize how much fun that was you know? so like we became friends at the dance and then my friends and his friends were like hey i see a connection here! and they kept saying stuff so he asked me to dance and we danced together and talked and like...i really liked it. I felt comfortable with him, in his arms, and i just wanted to kiss him. It was really cool, but hes in 7th grade and im in 8th. People think it's weird to go out with a 7th grader when youre in 8th grade, and if you do, everybody talks about you and it alters your reputation. I don't really want people to think anything bad about me or get a bad rep from going out with a 7th grader. He's very cute and sweet and i think i really like him...but he's not "popular" but i cant see why..i'm confused on what to do..could someone please give me some advice? stay just friends or date him? Thanks!! and sorry it's so long!! (link)
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If you like him, then what other peopl ethink shouldn't be a problem, if your so worried about what other people will think your gonna miss out on alot of good things that will come your way, such as, steven maybe, and if everyone talks about you, they're shallow and need to saty out of your "love" life. And I don't see why they would think bad of you if you wnet out with a 7th grader, what do they have cooties or something? I mean come on...if you like him, which it sounds like you do, go for it, and let other people think what they want.
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ok well here is the deal. Im a freshman and i have been going out with a senior for two days now. but i decided to break up with him today because i felt like we had no chemistry. but i still like him and i was wondering if you think i should talk to him about wanting to go back out with him when we get back to school on monday or just stay his friend?i rate!! (link)
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If you like the guy, then go for it, but if your still iffy about it than wait a while to see if your feelings towards him change. I don't like to say age is a factor, because I'm in the same boat, so as long as you guys like eachother than stick with it. Age aint nothing but a number :-)
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One of my good friends, Libby, is a HUGE FLIRT! Last night, we went ice skating and she flirted with just about every guy there! She always goes up to them b4 any1 can reach them.... and sum me n my other friends like! Wat do i do?
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Have you talked to her about this? If not then tell her how you and your friends feel, and maybe she'll lay off one the guys you do like. Sometime's its hard not to flirt with people, but maybe if you told her that you guys liked some of them she'll try.
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Are you supposed to wear a bra under a cami? Im not very big....like kinda flat...Thanks (link)
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Cami's have built in bra's, so uless you wnat to wear one, then u don't have too, sometimes its uncomfortable with bra & cami
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okay so me and my boyfriend went on a break almost a month ago, and now im starting to get a little crush on someone else who likes me and wants to be with me. Now i don't want a realationship with anyone right now, but they both just don't seem to get it. I kind of want to be with both of them, but my ex wants me more then ever and he hates the fact i like the other kid, which is understand able but its also visa versa. I'm so confused on what to do, or say to the people. any advice?
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Don't mix up your feelings with just crushes and actually wanting to be with someone. And if you don't want a relationship, you should tell both of them so, and take time to think about who you do like, and it's fine to like more than one person at once, believe me! lol, just figure out what you want, and who you'd want to be with more. When tellin these 2 people you can say it politely and try to undertsnad their point of view, and just tell them how you feel about it, how you don't want a relationship and you need time to think things through before you commit to something your not sure of.
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I have liked this guy for ages over a year and nearly all my friends have dated him. I think one still likes him. I have a strict policy not to date guys my friends liked, have liked or have dated. So I ask should I ask him out or stick to my policy?? Ps I am no glamour model
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Since you like him that much, I say go for it, after you talk to your friend that likes him, get it settled and make sure she knows how much he means to you.
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My friend has just decided that he would like to join the army. I think this is crazy because he is really sensitive and I don't think he could handle it. It doesnt really help matters that I really like like him. I don't want him to go, I'm scared something bad will happen to him or that he'll be killed. I really don't think he should go because of the way he is. What should I say to him to stop him going, I really don't think he would be able to survive it.
Thanx millions for anyone who replies
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If he wants to yeah let him, but first you should tell him you really like him, or hint at it, and tell him how you feel about the situation, and see where things go from there.
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I think I am in love with this guy. However a little while ago he told me he just wanted to be mates with me because he was in love with this other girl. Now he's over her and he's still being a little flirty with me. The big problem is another girl is moving in on my man. I know he says he just wants to be friends but I think that may have changed hopefully. I really need to act fast though if I want to keep him. Should I start flirting with him and trying to get him to ask me out again? Do you think I may have a chance with him??
Thanx, soz it's long xx (link)
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Flirt, and since he's over that other girl maybe he'll ask you out. If you guys are friends, there's a good possibility that you have a chance.
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My room always is smelly, I want to know some inexpensive ways to make it smell better.(I can't use candles and purfume son't work.) THANKS ALOT!! (link)
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Febreeze does a good job on odor.
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