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help!
ok, heres the problem...i really like this kid, and i think he likes me back, i mean we slept together and everything so i think that means something right? but the problem is hes 10 years older then me and him and my older sister just got engaged...i dont know whether i should tell her or not, it might ruin our relationship and theirs, but i feel guilty. He told me not to tell her, that hes slept with plenty of other people and she dosnt know about it. I dont know what to do...help!
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1) You slept with this guy without knowing if he even likes you? I'm thinking he's using you, and if he sleeps around WHILE HE'S ENGAGED he's not worth anything.
2) The phrase "Age ain't nothing but a number" works for like up too 5 years, then it gets creepy. I can see for LOVE maybe. But not with this guy...ick
3) How the hell did you end up sleeping with your sister's fiance? or even boyfriend?! That's ridiculous and you need to think about what you've done, and you should feel guilty, put yourself in her shoes...NOW how do you feel?? And if you don't tell her what a scum this guy is, for sleeping around and for him to even SLEEP WITH HER SISTER, he's a scum bag.
4) You deffinetly absolutely should tell her what happened, and what this "guy" has been doing. And is probably still doing. It's disgusting, and not to mention 100 % disrespectful. and she ABSOLUTELY deserves to know, I mean COME ON she's your SISTER!!!!!
5) If he's sleeping with all these people, then I doubt he likes you. He's a scum bag looking for some action. that's my opinion though, I don't know your particualr situation, but think of how many girls he's been with, and what he's done to your sister.
6) If you don't tell you sister, I think you'd be as bad as him.It'd be ridiculous if you didn't. SHE NEEDS TO KNOW IF SHE WANTS TO MARRY HIM.
I'm trying to be as nice as I can with this, but it just disgusts me.
You really need to tell her and straighten it up, and if she chooses to not get engaged with him, then you shouldn't think of him anymore, even though you may like him, How could he do that to your sister? I mean....I don't know waht else to say.
Hope I helped-
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