Member Since:
July 30, 2007Answers:
137Last Update:
September 30, 2010Visitors:
8448Favorite Columnists
duudee_advicer
Main Categories:
Love Life
School
Fashion and Styles
View All
about
advice
Does anyone know where I can watch/buy old episodes of Road Rules or any of the older Real World/Road Rules Challenges (Like either season of battle of the sexes or the original Gauntlet)? I've looked on the MTV website and YouTube, but my results have been minimal at best. I also know that they have some seasons on iTunes, but those are the newer seasons and I've seen all of them.
Any links or help would be greatly appreciated.
i think i saw them on amazon.com. if they aren't there, you could always try ebay.
hope i helped ! :]
I want to put pictures of me on facebook but I want hem to be cool and "edited" (for example: different colors and textures, etc., or w/e you would think would make a picture look cool). I have Photoshop Elements. Any suggestions?
use the filters. you can play around with them a lottt. i like the colors and the cartoons. they have a lot of them too so you'll find something that looks good on the picturee.
hope i helped :]
Maybe i should not be going to you but this is big and i just have to ask. I chose sex as my topic because they did not have teen pregnancy. I am 15 and obviously a girl and i had sex with a 15 year old and then IT broke and so now i am about 2 months in. I do not want an abortion so any advice on becoming a parent.... By the way... my boyfriend left me and my mom knows
Signed,
Gonna be in pain
i agree. definitely get a job and start saving some moneyy. thats if you want to keep it. also, have you talked to your ex about helping out? is your family going to help you bring the baby up?
also, definitely stay in school and continue to do all of your work. in the end, it will just be that much harder if you dont go to school.
hope i helped & good luckk !
what is the phobia of turning into a pumpkin? Aha i know its strange, but i need it a.s.a.p!
Cucurbitophobia
thats fear of pumpkins. it was the closest one i could find.
hope i helped :]
help!
seriously i have a bad binge eating habit! i tired everything! so please spare me unless its something i haven't listed:
here are the things i tried:
A)going to the gym (i still go so i could maintain my strength to help around the house)
B)going to my school psychologist who told me to:
1)not deprive myself
2)keeping food available so i don't feel deprived
3)not keeping food so i don't snack (after the previous failed)
4)buy small plates to control portions
5) go for a walk
6)think of happiness when i feel a food attack coming on
7)surround myself w/ people
8)buy healthy food
9) only keep fruits and veggies at home...etc
i have such a serious problem! and plus i have depression (clinical) that is partially caused by family issues and so forth (which i cannot change so please spare me that stuff about leaving or think positive) anyway so i eat more because of it since we can't afford to buy my medication all the time
anyway i was wondering if there are any semi-safe pills or something that i could eat to curb my cravings?????? pleaseee i neeed it because i can hover everything and i meannnnn EVERYTHING! that is infront of me... the other day i finished 2 pizzas.... boxes that is .... i couldn't stop! its draining my wallet as well!
i went to doctors and everything and they said it is caused by the depression and coz i have so many chores and stuff to do (we're poor so i can't afford to not do that)
i'm 160 and 5'4
ask yourself if you're really hungryy. and if you aren't sure, wait a half hour and ask yourself again. your bmi is too high right noww.
another thing you could do is use the scale thing. ask yourself on a scale of one to five how hungry you are. one being not hungry and five being starving. you should usually be at a two or three.
hope i helped :]
Bikini season is coming really soon. I need to lose atleast like 10 or 15 pounds by one month. Any advice or suggestions?
thanks
im not overweight [im actually perfect for my height] and i noticed i ate a lot of crap. when i was bored, i'd eatt. so now i ask myself if i truely am hungryy. and sometimes if im not sure, i'll see if i still am 20 minutes later. its annoying, but it works. and try to eat less sweets. its hard. i still eat them, but a lot less.
hope i helped :]
I do not like my dad at all. And, I dont know why. I never want him to go anywhere with me, talk to me, or anything. Its really strange, cause I cant think of why. I loveeeee my mom. But, whenever my dad tries helping me with stuff I just roll my eyes and say nevermind. The only thing I can think of is maybe because he is the one who straps me with a belt for a bad grade, or for a phone call home from school.
I hate him.
Is this really strange?
Any suggestions or advice?
Thanks
i dont think its strange. no one ever said you had to like your dad. its just implied.
i agree. if your dad is the one that punishes youu, then you'll probably like him less.
dont ask your dad to take you places and decline nicely if he asks youu. if he talks to you, and you dont want him to, then try and keep it short and sweet.
hope i helped !
i need help finding a cute skirt that goes above the knee but not soo much that i'll be lookin like a mini skirt, just something a little longer thatn that cuz i really love skirit and im moving to a new skool and youve got to have your skirits to your fingertips so i need to find some cute skirts above the knee like 6" or so, can anyone help?
i remember a while back i bought a ruffle skirt from lord and taylor. perfect length. and it wasn't overly rufflyyy. thats not a word. haha
hope i helped
i really like these 2 rugbys:
http://www.ralphlauren.com/product/index.jsp?productId=2582345&cp=1760788.2928195.2157994&ab=ln_sale_categories_polos&parentPage=family --1st choice
http://www.ralphlauren.com/product/index.jsp?productId=2573992&cp=1760788.2928195.2157994&ab=ln_sale_categories_polos&parentPage=family--2nd choice
i want to order one of them online but i don't know what size i am because i've never bought anything off that website before. i'm 15 5'4" i from hollister im a Medium/Large and American Eagle i'm a medium but in some things i can fit into a small. if something is marked "adult size" i usually get a small and it fits me well. can anyone give me an idea if a Ralph Lauren Large rugby will fit me? (i like a little room, not skin tight) thanks!
you can try size chart. they're really accurate.
http://www.ralphlauren.com/contentPopup/index.jsp?productId=2573992&sbs=&fs=&cp=1760788.2928195.2157994&vs=&LargeImageURL=http%3A//polo.imageg.net/graphics/product_images/pPOLO2-3411002_standard_dt.jpg&ThumbImageURL=http%3A//polo.imageg.net/graphics/product_images/pPOLO2-3411002_standard_t50.jpg&hasSizeChart=true&categoryId=1767719&backTo=2573992&savePath=1760788.2928195.2157994&showShoes=null&infoType=infosport&prodTitle=BLUE LABEL&shoesGC=1773459&hasFitGuide=http://polo.imageg.net/graphics/icons/poloFGWomenBlueTops_t700x540.jpg&showSizeChart
thats the link. realllyyyy long. ahha
hope i helped !
13/f
Every year, I go with my mom and dad and sister to my aunt's in New Jersey, about three hours away by car. And every year my mom and dad go out with my older relatives and have a grand old time. I know I'm too young to go out with them, but I get extremely bored. Does anyone have any good ideas of stuff I could do while I'm at home with my sister. I usually watch some movies on my portable DVD player and read for a little bit, have some pizza, but that only lasts for so long. Thanks in advance.
i dont know if you watch mtv, but if you do, theres a huge thing on that night on new years eve. it has a bunch of stars and i think tila tequila is hosting it.
you could also make a list of resolutions. or ask if you can do something with a friend or bring a friend.
hope i helped !
there was a game i played on freeworldgroup.com that had three houses and you needed to connect the gas line, water line, and heat line to each of the three houses without making the lines cross. does anyone know the name of the game or know where i can find itt? please help ive been searching everywhere. =(
i think i know what you're talking about. i dont know what it is online but i remember having teachers draw it when i was younger and they said it was impossible. but we might be talking about something totally different.
hope i helped.
how do you make icons for like xanga?
id like to make icons out of my own pictures-i just need to know how to get them shaped into icons, and how to write wording onto the picture/icon.
if you have paint, do this :
icons are 100 by 100 pixels. so if you do control e a box should come up where you can fill 100x100 in.
once you do that, you put your picture in. and if you want to add text its on the left side that has an "A" on it. you can do it on a colored background or right on the picture. if you want to write on the picture its the bottom one. [the button is yellow blue green and pink]
let me know if you need more help in feedback!
well yea i just got home frm his work and my friend was talking to him and she asked him if he liked me and he saiid yea in a way and so yea..well i havent calld phone but once in the last 2 days.. but i kinda really do like him and he only likes me a little bit and i dont know what to do andit kinda makes me jelous cuz he asks my friends 4 there numbers...wat should i do to stop it.....thnx
do you mean stop liking him?
ok so thank you for answering my question and now after i called him lik 2 dayz ago and he has not called me bak....wat should i do i call him right as soon as he gets outta skool...his house...his work..and i cant get ahold of him..i even tried to get ahold of him by his friendz.i dont even go wit him and i love him soo much but i jus dont want to show it.. but i love him and i dont really know what to do...
calling him 325887973 times will push him away. dont call right after school. maybe his phone isn't on or hes not at home or work. if you have his IM or something, talk to him there. if not then pick a different time to call.
alsooo, you mentioned something about me answering your other questionn. ive answered so manyy im not sure which one it iss.
my grandmother is dying of cancer which is stressing me and my family along with the absurd family disfuntions that are sort of at a pause since my grandmother was diagnosed. anyway i also am having some problems with some friends and issues with people who i don't consider friends but still see everyday in school. i'm afraid i might burst out in anger soon and i want to prevent that. i'm someone who rarely gets angry, i mean most the people that no me have never seen me get mad but when i do, from experience, i know it can result in horrible consequences...what should i do to ease my mind and prevent anything like that from happening?
seriously, it sounds like i wrote most of this.
what i do is just take time to process everything and think about it. and how i feel. once i think about it, i really dont care about the people that dont matter. what i worry most about is my grandmother and my friends. if you're mad, work outt. it gets the anger out and you're doing something healthy for yourself.
hope i helped !
how do i put a layout on my xanga page?!
i just made one. i'm new to it.
step by step help is really appreciated. :]
first, go to your look and feel.
once youre there look for the word header. [its close to the top]
under that you'll see a drop down box. highlight imput your own header HTML. click
the box should be blank. copy and paste your code in there.
hope i helped !
let me know if you need more help in feedback !
ok it all started on thursday and i seen a boi named Danny at his skool and i seen him the next day which was thursday at the bowling alley where he works and my mom bowl's at every week..i asked him if he went to that school and he said yea then i said well ppl from around the neighborhood r goin to the moviez and he said i would go but i promiised my friend that we would go cosmic bowling and he invited me to go but he didnt tell me which bowlin ally so it turned out me and my friends went to the wrong one so i called him and he saiid go on home and i have to work tomorrow at the bowling alley and he said he wanted me and my friends 2 come and visit him at work so i did and he flirted w/ me sooo badd and he held my hand but then the next day i went to his work again w/ my friendz and they asked him if he liked me and he saiid no but now he is lik talkin 2 me askin me personal questions and askin me to come to his work by my self and i reallllllly do like him but how do i know if he likes me???
wat should i do.......pleasse help me
i think he might like you. but because of the age difference he might be trying to take advantage of you. you're in middle school and hes in high school. theres a major difference. it wont be as bad as when you're both in high school though. maybe you should go with your friends and stop in by yourself for a couple minutes.
hope i helped !
what should I do my girlfriend is so mad at me that doesn't want to talk to me or see me I haven't seen her over a month?
over a month is a little extreme. maybe its time to end things. if she doesn't want to see you, then you shouldn't make the effort and shes really not worth your time.
hope i helped !
I have really thick hair, so when I try to comb it it still ends up poofy and messy. Whats a good relaxer or perm that can help straighten my hair all the way to the tips?
i would get a straight perm or relaxor. i got a relaxor, and it worked really good! if you wanted your hair super straight all the time, you can get a japanese or chinese perm. it makes your hair perfectly straight all the time. they're a lot of moneyy for one of those. about 1000-2000. the relaxors are only around 150 dollars. they're really worth it if you straighten/curl your hair all the time. that does more damage than the perm. but no matter what you do, your hair will get damaged. theyre just on differen't damage levels
I have acne all over my back.
Are there any creams or scrubs that are really good and can cure the acne quick?
Thanks.
if you get a good cleanser like nutrogena or clean and clear, that would work.
buttt if you want something strong that has a prescription, then i'd use differin. it works really well.
hope i helped!
alsooo, i saw on someone elses comment [i was speed readingg through haha] control your diet. its been proven that your diet has nothing to do with it. i thought that too, but when i went to the dermatologist, she told me it didn't have anything to do with it