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cant stand my dad
I do not like my dad at all. And, I dont know why. I never want him to go anywhere with me, talk to me, or anything. Its really strange, cause I cant think of why. I loveeeee my mom. But, whenever my dad tries helping me with stuff I just roll my eyes and say nevermind. The only thing I can think of is maybe because he is the one who straps me with a belt for a bad grade, or for a phone call home from school.
I hate him.
Is this really strange?
Any suggestions or advice?
Thanks
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i dont think its strange. no one ever said you had to like your dad. its just implied.
i agree. if your dad is the one that punishes youu, then you'll probably like him less.
dont ask your dad to take you places and decline nicely if he asks youu. if he talks to you, and you dont want him to, then try and keep it short and sweet.
hope i helped !
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If my dad hit me with a belt for a bad grade then i would hate him too. So no, it isn't that strange. You should try explaining to him why you don't like him, i'm pretty sure he knows by now. Then mabe he will stop hitting you with a belt.
Kaylaaa
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This isn't strange at all. And even though you think you hate him, you really don't. Your dad, as most, cares a whole lot about you. And the only reason he straps you with a belt is because he's upset with you; he wants you to do better. I have the same kind of dad. My dad yells a lot at me and gets upset with me. I cry and I say that I hate him but then that feeling goes away. I don't know if it goes away for you. You may "hate" him but this is only because you're growing up. And you're seeing your dad as a man...not as a dad. I don't know your gender. But if you're a girl, i'd say that maybe you're a bit intimidated by him. You're growing and developing; he sees that...And things between you and him are awkward. You subconsciously might think he's looking at you the wrong way..and you get intimidated. But that may not be the case for ALL girls. Same goes if you're a boy...there might be a certain competition between the both of you. But I take it that you're a girl. ;]
I have the same relationship with my dad. When we're in the car together, I just listen to my iPod and don't want anything to do with him. But when I think of all the things he's done for me...just being my dad and supporting and helping me.
This is a stage that every girl/guy goes through and you have to understand that it WILL pass over. No matter how much you "hate" him. Just don't be rude with your dad. When you'll grow up, you will feel SO bad for being rude to him and disrespecting him, I guarantee it.
And no, this is not strange at all. Just don't say you hate him. You can't hate your dad. There's no way. He's your DAD. He loves you. He cares about you.
:) good luck, dear.
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