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what are some really good flirting tips that would make a guy want you really bad....theres this boy i really like and i wanna kinda catch his eye you know....please help!
thanks
jess (link)
confidence is key. be very cofident when flirting. always touch. touching his chest, neck and hair will turn him on. and when you laugh(which you should) laugh sexily. be cute and giggly. also, say cute/funny things. when you say flirty things always say it into his left ear. his left ear is connected to the right side of the brain which controls all his emotions. good luck!


which part that woman touch a man's body to get them biggest turn on ever? (link)
the back of the neck is a very sinsitive spot. also, the hair and back and face.


Hello,

I would love to audition for my local area's singing talent show.

I am used to signing with a group of people, however, I sing in my 8th grade choir, at concerts we have about 4 times a year. I also sang a solo once for choir, and have been in my school's variety show twice.

However, I get really bad stage fright - whenever I sing alone, sometimes I forget some of the lyrics because I get butterflies in my stomach and I get really shaky; cannot concentrate.

I was wondering if you could help me choose a good piece to audition with - my range is from F below low C (C3) to F above middle C - notes F2 to F4. I'd like to find a good contemporary piece, a musical number, maybe.

Thank you for your help, I really appreciate it. =) (link)
first things first-stage fright. to get rid of it, just take deep breaths and assure yourself that you can do it. usually, as you progress, you grow out of stage fright. just relax.
if you're looking for a classical alto piece, i strongly suggest music for a while by henry purcell. it is a very challenging piece, but if you can handle it, it can work wonders. if you're looking for an easier classical piece, i suggest caro mio ben. it is a classical italian song and varies in voice parts.
if your looking for something more pop-like or broadway, here are song suggestions: all that jazz from chicago, i don't know how to love him from jesus christ superstar, i dreamed a dream from les mis, i get a kick out of you from anything goes, there are worse things i could do from grease, and the boy next door from meet me in st. louis.
good luck with your audition!


hi.
okay.
im 16.
im 5 months pregnant.
my boyfriends family and mine want us to keep it.
im very scared.
okay my first question is.
1. can i take the baby to school? or should i leave it at home? cause i really dont wanna leave her.
2. My boyfriend wants me to move in with him. (hes 18) and he wants to get married as soon as the babys born. Should i do it?
3. Im really strating to "pop" do you guys have nay good stores for me to go get cute prenancy clothes?!


thankss. (link)
1. it would be safer to leave the baby at home. i know being away from your baby is scary, but it would be better if someone else took care of her.
2. if you are in love with your boyfriend and ready for such a serious relationship, then yes you should marry him. but i'd say moving in with him first would be a better idea.
3. target has a lot of cute pregnancy clothes. google "cute pregnancy clothes" you'll find something you like.
good luck!


okay..
i know how parents say
that u shud wait till marriage to hav sex
(which i could do)
bt the thing is...
IM CURIOUS, AND I LIKE HAVING FUNN
nd i was wondering, do u think its stupid to hav sex at 14
just to try it?
i mean, if you use a condom and the pill...
do you think it would be ok?

14/f (link)
having sex at such a young age might be a bad idea. even with protection, their is a slight chance of pregnancy. i wouldn't take the chance. but, hey, you make your own choices. live life like there's no tomorrow. life is one big risk. go with how you feel, follow your heart. just always be safe! good luck!


16/ f

Im really into the Beatles, the Kinks, and the Beach Boys and a few others.. Im really into classic rock/alternitive, never metal, i love up-beat music. Ive been listening to these since I was born; my parents introduced me to them. What are some other bands that i might like? What are some other oldies I might like, and what are some new, modern bands that have similar sounds that i would like? (link)
i love the kinks! it sounds like you and i have the same taste in music! some similar bands and singer are david bowie, first class, cat stevens, the cure, the rolling stones, the beat, rain, lily allen, ect.


i love this guy, we talked and he was talking to me like a guy would talk to a girl he might like and he told me i was cute and everything then one of my best friends came into the picture and ever since then hes been talking to her the same way and talking to me more just like a regular person and im really upset, how should i handle this? 14/f (link)
it sounds to me like your guy is a flirt. flirty guys are hard to figure out. it may take even months to figure out if he likes you. keep talking to him and hopefully, you'll eventually figure it out. and a little flirting back wouldn't hurt! good luck!


my moms best friends dad died this weekend and they are having a funeral for him on wednesday. i dont even know the guy. My mom wants me to go but im not sure if i am comfortable going. she told me it was my choice. i have never been to a funeral before and im gonna feel really awkward and kinda scared and definitley sad but then again i feel bad not going because she wants me to and my moms friend has a daughter my age that is my friend and i want to go for her. she wont be heart broken if i dont go because were not really good friends. i still dont know what to do.

Help! what should i do?? (link)
you should go out of respect. everyone has a situation in their life where the have to sacrifice their own comfort for another person's. the funeral may be awkward, but you should go to be polite. good luck.


A lot of my friends birthdays are coming up and I'm not wanting to buy them like a huge gift. I was wanting to make something little and creative. Really anything, just something for a birthday like a little cake.. and a creative card? Some ideas would be all the most helpful. thanks :) (link)
you could make a personalized unique card for each of them and then get them something little like a picture frame with a picture of the two of you in it. or like a cute little change purse or headband or something. good luck!


Would you find it odd if your girlfriend of 5 months off and on got you a scrapbook [ or something homemade ext ] for your birthday ?
It's my boyfriends 15th birthday on the 24th and I neeeeed to figure out what to get !! (link)
a scrap book full of pictures of you together would be a good idea, along with another gift of some sort, like a shirt or cologne or something. and don't forget, a kiss! good luck!


im in luv wit my bff. im bisexual and so is she. im not sure i should tell her cuz it might ruin our friendship. wat should i do? should i tell her or not? im under 16 and im a female. (link)
falling in love with your best friend is a tough situation. but i say follow your heart! if you think you two would work our then give it a try. don't worry about ruining your friendship now, cross that bridge when you come to it. just don't forget to mention to her that you don't want to hurt your friendship. knowing that you care about her as a friend and a lover will comfort her. so go with your instinct and listen to your heart! good luck!


my friend told me that if your smaller or skinnier, you get drunk faster cause u have low tolerance.. is that true??

thanks in advance! (link)
yes. its called being lightweight. the smaller you are, the bigger the amount of alcohol is in proportion to your body. the bigger you are, the smaller the amount of alcohol is in proportion to your body.


Is it possible to die in your dream? My brother told me that in his psychology class, his teacher said that it's impossible to die in your own dream, and if you do, it means you are dead. My friends are all "No way I've died in my dream before," but I don't believe them because I don't think you can be alive and dream about being dead and actually know what it feels like. Every time that I've had a dream where I was going to die, I would wake up the split second before I died. In one dream, I was in a car, and it went off a cliff, and right before I hit the bottom, I was crying and then I woke up with tears in my eyes. Also, how come I woke up with tears in my eyes from that dream? (link)
everyone has the falling-off-a-cliff dream. and usually, everyone wakes up right before they die. it's weird how dreams work that way. i'm not completely sure, but i don't think you can die in your dream. your friends may have been mistaken. and about the tears in your eyes thing, its probably because your dream felt so real that you thought it might have been. it's kinda like sleep walking, you can cry in your dream and wake up crying, it's happened to plenty of people.


ok so this is really confusing! here are the facts
-faith is my best friend
-mark and james are best friends
-im going out with zack (we dated for 6 months and broke up for 2 and are going out again for about 3 days this time)
-hannah and carter are also my best friends
-mark and james both like me
-so does carter
-faith likes james
-james also likes hannah
-ive liked mark since 3rd grade
-i kinda like james

so what the fuck do i do?
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it sounds like you like mark the most. and if mark likes you back, go for it! the best thing to do in a situation like this is to follow your heart. think of yourself before others for once. i tend to think of my friends a lot, too. tell zack that you don't think things will work out between you. see how things work with mark. let things work as they were planned to! good luck!


i been dating this girl named mariah thomas going on 7 months and we are really serious we are both juniors at the same highschool we have all the same classes except for 6th hour i take graphic arts and she takes home ec ... why is it when ever im around her i feel as though im floating and for some strange reason i lose my breath and get light headed and lose my balence but it only happens when im with her whats wrong with me (link)
there's nothing wrong with you, you're in love! by the way, that is probably the cutest thing i've heard in a long time.


I have a real problem, my 3 bestfriends in the whole world seem like they hate me. they're always hanging out with eachother, lying to me so i wont come with them shopping, and now theres this girl who was their bff last year that they all love. I feel like i have no friends. no one to go to. i miss them alot! is there any way i can do to just be happy with them again????! (link)
i used to have the same problem. i know it hurts, but talk to them about it. the problem with my friends is that they never discussed anything. if you don't try, you'll never know. so don't go on wondering, ask them what's going on. maybe there's a misunderstanding. also, try to find someone else that you can be friends with. now it may seem like the end of the world without your three besties, but everyone needs someone to lean on! you can still be friends with your friends, but maybe they're not the most reliable best friends. i found a new group of friends and i couldn't be happier! good luck!


ok i'm a pretty fucked up girl here i:
play volleyball
play piano
want to play guitar..so i know a little bit
snowboard
used to skateboard
play soccer

what am i? like label wise. my friends are pretty nerdy, and i dress in pacsun, abercrombie, AE, and whatever else is out there. (link)
you're a person. no one should have labels! you're whatever you want to be! you're a sports-playing-music-loving-pacsun/a&f/ae/whatever-wearing-nerd! embrace it!


what does it mean when people say you shouldnt take the lords name in vain? (link)
it means you shouldn't use God's name in a bad way. for example: Goddamn it, oh my God, oh my f***ing God, Jesus Christ, ect.


SO i'm in a play in this little theater. It's snow white and i'm the evil witch. Also i'm 13. My mom said something to me yesterday that got me thinking. She said "you never know if talent scouts are watching you , i hear the come to little places like that, so try your best". So I started wondering, what is that "thing" or "things" that make a talent scout go up to someone and tell them they have the potential to be professional? It can't just be that you are a good actress/ actor cause alot of kids I seen are and no talent scout contacted them. So what is it? If you aren't involved in acting can you please not answer this? Thanks. (link)
talent agents look for many different things. they want a responsible, well put together, prepared and, of course, talented actor/actress. so memorized your lines like the back of your hand and present yourself very well. if you get nervous, just breathe and remind yourself that you can do this! good luck!


how do you know if a shy guy likes you?!?! (link)
ooh shy guys. shy guys are hard to figure out. but if you think about it, almost every guy is shy around a girl they like. if they seem uncomfortable around you or act a bit awkward around you, then there's a possibility that they like you. the best way to "crack the shy guy code" is to get to know them. the closer you get to him, the more he'll open up to you! good luck!




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