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Q: sorry i dont no masterbation, i mean i heard it but my mom said that i cant go to the sex ed classes in school so i really am clueless. how do i masterbate? it might seem like a wierd question but i really wanna know. could u show me on me? or would that be to much? also i want to know how to have sex and where would i put my penis, ive always thought in the belly button but u see them on tv alot so i dont think so anymore. well thank you and i hope to get soem advice
well i think you are able to go to the sex ed classes so idk why you are asking me...you could ask your friends lol but anyways..

ok...um im not doing anything to you, or touching you in any way shape or form. you just...rub it idk how to explain it to you...i dont have a freakin penis i told you that lol

and you just put your wee wee in what some like to call a vagina/pussy idk whatever floats your boat...its not that hard to find...its just there

just dont confuse it for her bum hole

Q: hi my name is billy miguire. im a 67 year old male but i love young girls. my past 6 girlfriends were all under 21. is this a bad thing? we didnt have sex that much but they all wanted it so i gave it to them. please tell me if this is wrong!
can you not find people your own age? i mean...try going to bingo or something geez...

thats gross

Q: i just hit puberty and im like WOW! my penis actully grow! its so exiting and feels really good. but one of my older friends said somthing about come or something and i played off like i knew what he was talking about but really im clueless. one thing he said was jacking off also. please help me and let me know what and how to do these things! i would really apreciate it!
ok wow, you are really clueless...

first of all its cum not come haha its the white stuff that comes out of your wee wee

ever heard of masturbating? if you havent get help...NOW!

now stop being a pussy and ask your older friend your little...penis questions cause i dont have one.

hope i helped :P

Q: If a guy that you like gets mad at you.. even for something stupid.. this happened to me during the school year.. and he was playin mad and stuff.. what do u do? cause like i always got close with a guy and we'd joke around or whatever and then he'd like get mad.. but not seriously mad just this like 'im not tlaking to u u said this " or whatever.. what do u do?
say..."hey you silly dildo whats wrong?! cant you see i love you!!"

Q: why did i just get really grossed out when my boyfriend told me he had to go take a shit? i mean i love him and we've been together for 15 months, shouldnt i already be over the "omg eww he goes poop" stage? lol
he took a shit?! omg what a loser! thats so uncommon and abnormal these days...

Q: Ok, my girlfriend told me the other day that my penis is way too big. I mean, it's only like 9.5 inches! WTF, isnt that average? Something is wrong here, really wrong..

..Me..
actually...

lmao im not answering this question damn you

Q: I'm in love with a guy I never even met but I talk to him on MSN and he's so sweet and everything he lives like 10 hours away and I don't know I live in Ontario he lives in Calgary and I'm so in love I can't help my self he's sweet and like yeah feels like I know him it's been 2 years almost since I first met him on Chat Rooms...ne suggestions?...and why do I always fall for the guys I never met and never will?
yes you go and find a way to meet him.

oh, and dont worry about the knife and/or rope he pulls out, they are just the kinky sex toys he uses ;)
also, when he lunges at you with those, dont worry, hes not going to kill you...thats just his way of saying he loves you! yes!




being with someone over the internet is the stupidest thing everrr!!!!never never never never never do it! YOU HEAR?!?!

Q: Alrite my gf told me today that she kinda like my bestfriend.I do love her though but being with her and knowing she likes someone else it just wouldnt be the same.I want her to be with me but I can't force her to.What should i do or say to get this thing clear up?
threats work pretty good

Q: My friend is going crazy because she tried to have mad hot lezibian sex with what should i do??? Help...should i do it or not the next time i see her?
hahahahahahahah

ehem...do it if you want i guess...

Q: well my friend started doing my eye brows for me and she shaved them the top and bottom instead of plucking so now i have to do that everytime they need to be plucked/shaved but now i have really bad breakouts above my eyebrows does anyone know what to do??
have you ever heard of waxing? i heard it works like a charm. geez its common sense here

shave your legs
wax your eyebrows

Q: I was wondering.. is masturbating bad for you??
yes it is...and that feeling you get...whoa man, thats not a good sign. thats when you gotta stop...and FAST

Q: im sooo bored and all my friends r goin 2 the creek to drink but im affraid 2 go cause last time i got in a fight wit this kid n i was drunk i couldnt defend myself n my friends just stood there n watched n i lost my $300 cell phone n my zippo! but i wanna go out so bad n this girls goin that i like and idk wut 2 do cause every1 there is from north n im from central so if i get in a fight every1 will be against me so idk wut to dooo no1 else can hang out cause donald n adam have work n every1 else is goin got gabbys party which i wasnt invited to ahh
just go to whats-her-face's party and make her PAY for not inviting you....ooooo the nerve!!!

Q: hey im 13 and all of my friends either hate me or lie to me or sumthin i have a million guy friends but all my friends that are gurls are mean whats wrong with me? and my friends?
find new friends


wow...i amaze myself sometimes

Q: there is this kid that is always following me around. i dont know how to say stop with out hurting his feelings. like if i go to the library, he follows me. if i go to the sotre, he follows me, what should i say?
stalkers are so much fun though!

Q: whats a really good way of telling when your going to get your period
hmm...lemme think...blood coming out of that hole some people call a vagina maybe?

Q: I am 16 years old weigh 115 lbs and im 5'4". Well I was trying on homecomming dresses at my friends house But every dress I tried on I felt soooo fat or shall I say I LOOKED so fat! I was about to cry but I couldnt cry infront of everyone. Homecomming is in about 1 month and a half away. Should I go on a diet or should I just tell my friends I cant go. My friends would be sooo mad at me if they find out im not going because I never been to a dance before. Its NOT as easy as you think it is. I been thinking about it day in and day out. I wish I could just accept that im fat! Do you know any good diets?!? Thank you sooo much
your friends a bitch. smack her now

Q: Im in 7th grade, at Pontiac Jounior High and im having problems--My figure is my heads oval, Im REALLY skinny, im fit, i have green eyes blonde hair and im a white person. I need to noe wat to were to school (not uniforms) OO yeah im noot tall and not short so i guess im average. Im not ugly im really pretty, but iono wat to were my make up, jewlery, my hair. If u could please help me...i need ur help!!

*Baffled Beauty*
could you be anymore concieted? get a life and stop being so pathetic that you have to ask complete strangers over the internet what you should wear to school. jesus christ no one cares. why dont you just wear a bag over your head? im sure that would do some people a favor.

Q: i think i'm gonna tell this guy i like him tomorrow. the problem with that was...yesterday i thought i was going to do it today...but i didn't. i think it's because 1) i have no idea how to put it into words that don't creep him out a bit, and 2) i open my mouth to do it, just..improvise...and the words melt away and i'm left with air...
so my question is this....how and when should i do it? i see him at lunch all the time, and he rides my bus, if that helps any.
you should say "HEY I LIKE YOU!!!! AND IF YOU DONT LIKE ME THEN YOU SUCK CAUSE I RULE!!" and then see what he says. ive never tried it :)

or since he rides your bus, you might know where he lives...so you could just stalk him for a while until he gets the idea. then he would probably ask about it. yay

Q: heyy im 13 and i was wondering how can i start a good converstation with my boyfriend on the phone
ask him stupid random questions...cause those are always fun

Q: i recently found out my 7 year old cousin, danny what raped by a neighborhood kid. this is really just depressing for me... BUT also for him. so my question is, anyone with experience know what well cheer up or help rape victim cope? hes very young.
bring him candy, and other delicious treats

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