hey hey welcome to my site! my name is alissa but alot of people just call me lissa, i luv to play the piano (8 years) i have 2 brothers a mom and a dad, i have 2 kittens and a dog. what can i say..i love the lord. attending youth group and starting point is something that gets me through my week. i teach sunday school, babysit at the church and im a stright A student.
helping people has always been one of my strong assets.
so if anyone has any type of question, please dont hesitate to ask..im here for support, comforting and obviously.. advice.
so just drop one in my inbox anytime and i will try my best to answer your question the best i can.
Gender: Female
Location: MN
Occupation: student
Age: 14
AIM: loochalo
Member Since: November 13, 2004
Answers: 131
Last Update: December 10, 2005
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About a week and a half ago I saw my best friend Dylan over the weekend. We just hung out and went to the mall. We later on went back to his house. When ever I see him we kiss and cuddle and I love it more then anything. My parents picked me up at his house around 10:30 and when I was walking out of the door he told me to call him. I called him the next day 1 time and he didnt pick up. I didnt leave a msg bc I thought that he would see my # and call me back but he didnt. I havent talked to him in over a week and I miss him a lot. I thought by now he would call me, but he hasn't. I am not sure if I should call him because latly it seems like he and I are drifting a part. I live 20 mins away from him so I dont get to see him much. Its like we dont talk, and then I will go in town and see him, we'll chill with eachother, then I will leave and go home and we wont talk for a few weeks. I want to call him but I dont want to be one of those girls that call's the a guy all the time. Its like we are bf/gf, we are only good friends. Should I call him and talk to him and tell him that I miss him? Its kind of a more then friends thing bc I think I am in love with him. What do I do? (link)
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absolutly call him! he will never know how you feel if you wait for him to make the move, if you love him then make the first move!
happy holidays!
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Today at lunch my boyfriend of three and a half months broke up with me. I was very upset and cried for the rest of lunch, when I came home I sat around crying. Then, my friends came round and we all went to my other friend's house. I soon cheered up and realised that I was better off without him. Later on, most people left and we went to my house. After everyone had gone home, it was just me and one of my best friends (male.) He said he had to go home so we hugged and then he asked if I was okay. I told him I was and then he said: "Anything I do in the next minute is a mistake and doesn't mean I fancy you." Then we started making out. I don't understand, I know it was a total mistake but things are going to be really strange now. I have no idea whatsoever why I did it. What should I do? He's my best friend. (link)
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you should talk to him about it. its what your soppose to do... if you want back your normal relationship as bff's then talk to him about it! i made that mistake before by not talking to some guys after some *stuff* and now we have not said a word to each other for almost 2 years! so dont make my mistake, talk to him
happy holidays!
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this guy and i are in all of the same classes and everyone says that we flirt and that we need to go out! lately he has always been hanging around me a lot! like there was a chair near some girl but i was sitting somewhere else so he was lying down on the table that was next to me! what should i do? and i was wondering how can i get him to give me a hug? (link)
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just go ahead and hug him! i do it alot! im sure he most likly is wanting to do the same thing!
happy hoidays!
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I was wondering if it's possible to get pregnant from swallowing...my boyfriend and I have been messing around so this question came up. Thanks.
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NO! those are to very different things! lol
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how do u get tested fo a sti?im worried (link)
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well you would go to the docors or the gyno, and they can test you.:) i hope that i help!
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does anyone know how to change the subject buttons on the top of your advice column... like instead of "ask for advice" it could like say, "ask me a question", those things. if someone can tell me wut 2 do 2 change them i'll rate 5s!
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you have to know about the html. im pretty sure that you have to be a paid member inorder to do your own layouts:)
i hope that i helped!
lyl alissa
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My boyfriend and I are over. He broke up with me and I thought I was okay and didn't still feel for him but I do. He broke up with me because we weren't right for each other but I still love him. I need him more than anything and I can't get over him, don't tell me just to forget it and move on because I can't. (link)
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well if you still love him then you NEED to tell him that honey, the only way us woman get our men back is going after them! lol
u hope i helped! :)
good luck`
and remember if he dont want YOU back then he is not worth it! :)
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hey i'm just wondering if it's wrong to go out with someone whos 2 years younger than you? like if i'm 13 [going to be 14 in march] and he's 11 [going to be 12 in july]... but i like REALLY like him, but idk if it's not right or anything.
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if you really like him the age should matter!:)
hope i help!
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me and my boyfriend has been dating for a week now and he hasnt call me in 5 days. when we first started dating he got my number and dont have his, and we really hit it off good.and it is not like him to not call me, am so worried about him,because i like him alot,what should i do. (link)
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i wouldn't worry about it if you guys have only knowen each other for not a long time. perhaps call him instead?
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how old do you have to be to get your toung peirced in new york? (link)
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if your with an adult, then it does not matter
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what are some good teen websites, safe, where you can meet people in your local areas? thanks in advance (link)
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i go to www.myspace.com, i hope i help!
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well see in my religion its a sin to pluck or wax eyebrows but the thing is everyone i no who are also muslims pluck/wax their eyebrows except my mom and sister.. im almost 14 years old and i think its my choice wheater i touch my eyebrows ... and tonight my dad is goin to get his hair cut and i want to go w. him to get my eyebrows done wut cud i say to my mom to get her to say okay?
tnxs..ill rate u high (link)
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i know its hard to have a muslim culture while trying to fit in with this culture, i would talk to your mom and tell her that your 14 now and you care about your looks, god is not going to hate you trust me, well i really hope that i help, remember you are beautiful no matter what!
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I lost my cuzin and i tell my friends itz ok i hav to get over it i really don't get over cuz i rele miss her and i love her. Shuld i keep tellin my friends this?
Signed
Lost Cuzin (link)
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you really should never hide andything from your friends, there there for you thats why there your friend. well i hoped i help!
HAPPY THANKSGIVING!!!!!!!!!
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your like my idol, can u please answer these questions?
whats your favorite icecream?
whats your favorite color?
how old are you?
whats your favorite food?
do you have any brothers or sisters?
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1.vanilla and starwberry
2.i love pink!
3.im 13
4.ceaser saled
5.i have 2 brothers, jake he is 14 and ryan he is 22
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Ok well I know this question is really stupid but i don't know what to get my dad or brother for x-mas. My brother is 16 and plays guitar and stuff and i don't know what to get him. Any ideas for either of them? thanx!
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you could get your brother guitar tabs or something... well i hope i helped
bye bye and good luck!!!!
happy gobble gobble day!!!!!
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Whenever i straighten my hair, there's always a dent from the straightener @ the roots (where my part is). How do i get rid of the dent/prevent it? thanks i rate high!! (link)
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maybe just start a little bit lower then the roots, or there is gel that i saw for that, well anyway i hope i help!
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Does anyone know where i can get christmas music on my website? or how to add music on my comp to my website? (link)
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i go to www.funny-chickens.com, well i hope i helped!
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At school a few weeks ago, I walked into the assistant principlals office to get my locker combination because I couldn't remember it. While I am in there, the assistant principal takes me into her office and informs me that several teachers and staff that walked into the office said that it smelled of alcohol, and that the strong scent of alcohol was coming from me! She asked if I would be willing to take a breath alizer test and I told her yes, I will take one. Well, I obviously passed the test and then she kept talking about how strong the smell is. I told her I couldn't smell anything! I told her that maybe it's the halls in my mouth that is making the room smell like alcohol, but we both agreed that a tiny little halls can not stink up the whole room with a strong scent of alcohol. So, she brings me all the way out to the front of the school so I can smell fresh air and then back into her office, and I informed her that I still can't smell any alcohol. She was very surprised at this, and kept saying how the smell of alcohol was so strong. She asked if I smoke cigarettes. I told her yes. She asked if I had them on me. I told her no. She asked if I could prove it. I confessed that I did have cigarettes and a lighter on me, but I do not smoke in school and I only carry them on me because I walk home from school and smoke on the way home. She then, searched my things just to be sure, but she asked if she could beforehand. I didn't have anything else on me, and then she suspended me for 3 days. Well, just yesterday, I got a letter in the mail ordering me to court for this. For having cigs and a lighter at school. I just wanted to know..do I have an argument? Was she allowed to do all those things? Do I have any argument at all? I'll rate 5 for everyone. I really need help on this. (link)
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well they are allowed to check your stuff by getting permission from you but maybe do some research on the laws around that stuff...well GOOD LUCK AND I HOPE I HELPED!
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i am 5 feet tall exactly. i weigh 135 pounds. is this overweight? (link)
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no your are NOT over wieght, there is nothing wrong with exericsing and eating healthy to make your body feel good. HOPE I HELP!
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i want to dress modest but sexy got anyideas? (link)
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black,tight modest clothes
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