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I have a boyfriend, and we're both only 15, but he seriously wants to get married. The problem is, he's a deep dark kind of person (a "bad boy" if you will), and I'm more on the friendly happy side. Not to the extreme, but I don't beat up someone if they offend me like he does. Also, our beliefs clash really bad. He says he'll take on my beliefs for me, but thats probably a bad idea. I love him, but I don't have even similar goals for the future as he does, and I've told him that. He kind of blows it off and thinks I'll be the one who changes. What should I do? (link)
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okay for a start, you're only 15 so you can't get married anyway. i think you should tell him to cool it a bit and just have some fun! i meanyou're only in high school right? you say you love him but in my opinion you can't really truly love someone until you've seen the world and experienced every feeling there is to feel. neither of you should change, you are who you are. so to sum that up... tell him to stop thinking about the future and focus on the present. go out and have a laugh!
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i need to lose 10 pounds by summer. i weigh 125 and measure 5'5 . what can i do? (link)
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i know nobody likes being told this but you shouldnt be losing weight, right now, your bmi(which is the only important thing, not your weight) is perfect. if you lose weight then you will be underweight and more prone to diseases.
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I dont feel the same about guys anymore. And its not guys in general, its guys in my town that are in my grade and age level. I feel like none of them are mature enough for me anymore. I think their cute but i never like any of them. Im just disgusted with just about every one of them. I feel that their all players that want to just play around with girls. They are always making perverted comments, all the time. Always lieing. I want a kinda older boyfriend, like one grade ahead older. or someone my age. just someone that really shows they like me. and doesnt move to fast or pressure me. someone that hugs me tight for no reason. things like that... i just hate it because im not normal. (link)
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trust me yo are normal, i think every one of my friends feel that way too. i don't really no what yor question was but, you are normal.
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okay, i have been dating this guy(mark) for about 4 months now and i dated him for about 4 months a year and a half ago. im going to discribe him, and some things he does and how he makes me feel and stuff, and i want help if i should stay with him because, after we broke up i dated this guy(Alan) for 8 months and it was perfect.. just read on
- Mark got me to cheat on Alan with him when mark dumped his girlfriend.
- Mark cheated on me with my cousin and stayed with her for a year and a month.
- Mark wont get a job because he says " he doesn't no how to do anything" he did graduate from high school, but he has a social problem..
- Mark smokes about an 8th of weed every 2 days..
- If i want sex Mark says sometimes "only if you smoke with me first(then he says Just Kidding)
- Sometimes Mark gets mad about nothing like this past weekend he was sitting on my couch nothing like bad happened we were watching tv and out of no where he got mad and says it feels like you don't love me anymore.. it took me over an hour to get it out of him what was wrong.. he said it was because i don't kiss him anymore or hold his hand.. i hold his hand and kiss him nonstop.
- he gets jealous ALL the time, im still friends with Alan and so i talk to him on the computer if he sees me talking to him or any guy he gets mad.
- I lost my virginity to Mark, and he was my first love.
- he always tells me im pretty and he loves me more then anything and never wants to lose me
- he says cute little things all the time
- he picks me up everyday afterschool at the bustop and i go to his house
- friday he comes to my house untill monday so i see him everyday
- i love his family to death there amazing
- his sister is my best friend
now alan
- i fell in love with him we dated 8 months he loved me, i broke his heart when i broke up with him
- i only saw him outside school once or twice a month or every other month if that
- his parents don't like me, there really strict
- he has a job and car
- i can tell he could care less about sex, compared to mark who wants it all the time(not saying i don't like it..)
- alan and i never fought not once that whole 8 months except when i broke up with him
- he works a lot
- his siblings don't really like me
- he made me feel amazing always telling me he loved me
- i went on vacation with him, and vise versa
- i took his virginity
now i am so lost, i no this is a desprite thing to do, ask strangers but if you took the time to read this i apprecate it im going through a lot right now and i just need help i feel like i CANT break up with Mark even though i still love alan and think about him, but i love mark just the same... HELP!
mark= 19 years old
me= 16 years old
alan= 17 years old
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choose Alan. i'm guessing you want reasons:
1. you don't date your best freinds brother, i know you already are but you shouldn't.
2. mark is far too jealous
3. mark is far to needy
4. who cares if Alan's family don't like you
5. Alan seems to care more about you than just having sex
6. mark smokes weed, and tries to get you to aswell
7. and heres the deal breaker, HE CHEATED ON YOU WITH YOUR COUSIN!!!
i just hope you don't think any of that's too harsh but i'm just taking information from what you said.
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So I used to have way more freeedom than any of my friends. I got a cellphone at 13, a car & a credit card at 16. Of course I met the "wrong" guy and did a lot of things behind my parents back and they found out. well now im 18 and they basically lock me up in the house. they bring me to school & to work and pick me up. they don't want me to speak to any of my friends or hang out with any of them. mainly because my Ex totalled my car and my parents are mad about that.
but anyways, since im 18 now I deff want to move out & I know its not that easy just to move out and survive by myself but honestly I rather live alone than have my mom up my back about everything I do.
So, ideas? (link)
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i know everybody hates this kind of advice but, talk to your mum, and make sure she knows you want to move out. or else you want a bit more freedom. and make sure she knows that because of that guy you're going to be more careful. x
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my toe feels broken but im afraid to tell anyone. its like all purple and swolen. im soo scared!! what should i do? (link)
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it sounds like its broken. you have to get it checked out because otherwise it could start releasing marrow, and make you ill. so get it checked out.
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there is this one boy that i really like he is in the same grade as me almost in every class and he sits next to me in a few.i am not sure if i should ask him out because i am not sure if he likes me back also one of my freinds likes him too but she does not know that i like him. (link)
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if i was you, i wouldn't ask him out. i'm saying that beause you know your friend likes him, and your friend knows you know she likes him. if you ask him out, you two will start fighting; and in my opinion, no guy is worth that.
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i have fantasies of my tennis coach who is about 35.
i'm only 15.
but i have no idea how to not think about it.
i mean hes attractive, but is there anything i can do to stop thinking about him in a sex related way. (link)
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Well, me and my friend have fantasies about an English teacher in our school =P
There's nothing wrong with having a sexual attraction to somebody, what matters is whether you act on that attraction or not.
In this case, I suggest that you keep it as a fun fantasy ;) lol
Don't worry, EVERYBODY has this
xxx
15/f
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i got asked out by this guy that i really like about 2 weeks ago and he hasnt kissed me yet...we definetly act like we're dating but im definetly hinting that im ready to kiss and he kinda just sways away...and i know he really cares about me cause of the things he tells my friends...why wont he kiss me? (link)
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I've had this...
Has he ever kissed a girl before? Because if he hasn't, he might be afraid to because he doesn't know what to do... Talk to him about it instead of hinting.
Hope this helps a bit
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Hi I'm 15/f,
A few days ago I shaved my vagina, the pubic hair and now it's extremely itchy what can i do????
Thanks. (link)
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you are ment to moisurise it daily.
hope it helps =]
xxx
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