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Lately I have noticed that of my really good friends has gotten quite skinny. Yesterday really threw me off though because she was in the bathroom and I heard her coughing- a LOT. To me, I could never think of her being a bulimic, and if she was I would be really shocked. I mean, maybe she has some other health problem but I'm not sure. I'm concerned for her well being lately and while she was in the bathroom I yelled "are you okay?" When she came out she said "yeah I'm fine" but the tone of her voice or something told me that there was something wrong. Lately she has seemed and acted so down. I'm not sure what's wrong, can someone help me out? Should I sit her down and talk to her? (link)
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I was thinking that she has bullimia (an eating disorder where someone forces themselves to throw up), even though bullimia is usually found in school age girls because of low self esteem. Maybe she is sick. Casually say to her "You've been different lately, are you sick?"
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So I've had a lot of boyfriends.
but with most of them, I've never done anything like sex or oral.
just kissing or making out.
some of them I didn't do anything.
and yeah. most of them I said yes to because I felt bad saying no :( others, because I actually liked them.
but I would always end my relationships. idk why.
A lot of people say I flirt with EVERY guy I talk to, which is not true.
like to me, I see them as a friend, but people think I'm flirting when I'm really not.
that's my personality. really giggly, funny, chill, likes to make people laugh (boy or girl) always smiling, jokester. you get the picture
so yeah.
I'm a freshmen.
I'm still a virgin & not planning to lose it anytime soon.
I've NEVER even seen you know, a penis in real life.
I've NEVER gotten or gave a hickie(s)
I don't let boys touch me or my butt or boobs or anything.
not even if they're my boyfriend.
but yet, a lot of people in middle school called me a hoe and that I flirt w/ everyone!
so since everyone is saying it, I guess I am.
so how do I stop being a hoe? or stop flirting w/ almost every guy I talk to?
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Hey! Im your age so i understand. Just watch what you say and you should be fine!
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I have currently started my journey to lose 20kgs/45lbs.
I was wondering if there is maybe someone here who is also doing something similar through dieting and working out who'd like somebody to share their progress with & somebody to motivate them? :) (link)
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Hey! Im actually trying to lose the same amount! I'd love some motivation:) how old are you? Email me at lauragracey@aol.com
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I've been dating my bf for 3 1/2 months I really adore him but I have a feeling he might be cheating. I'm really emotionally unstable and untrusting because of all my past relationships so its hard for me to trust. I saw a dick pic on his phone that wasn't sent to me but then he explained that he was gonna sext me one night when we were talking dirty etc. I got so upset and he got really upset and apologized for everything and said I was his world and he didn't want to lose me. He is always there to reasure me that things are ok and always answers questions when I have them. Also what bothered me was that he didn't shave for a week and said he was too lazy to (he usually shaves everyday), he changed up his haircut a bit because he said he was bored, and also he said he wanted to shave his happy trail cause it made him hot lol. That made me a little nervous like why the sudden change in appearance? I looked through his phone and didn't find anything but I was so paranoid and thought maybe he deleted stuff. Its driving me insane I really do love him but i'm just so insecure. Help? (link)
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You might be a bit paranoid, but if I was you I would keep a look out, just in case. Good luck
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28 year old female.
I need help! I dont know what to do. Yesterday my boyfriend of almost a year used my phone to check his facebook messages. Well he left it logged on and I didn't realize it until I got a notification on my phone saying I recieved a message. Not realizing at first that it was his facebook I went to check. Immediately I realized it was his after opening the message but then I noticed my name and started reading. I discovered that he has been talking to this girl for quite a while telling her my life story my secrets and thoughts. I also discovered that he has been waiting for me to fall asleep atleast twice a week and sneaking over to her house. The after reading that message curiosity got the best of me and I decided to read other messages. Turns out he had sex with his ex girlfried/baby's mother the day we got together and on many other occasions. Once even bragged about doing it in the livingroom while I was sick in bed with the flu. He has been cheating on me all along. I thought he was different I thought he was the one I was going to spend my life with. I told him about reading the messages and at first he lied but then he told the truth. Meanwhile my heart is shattered! He broke my trust, he betrayed me, he freaking cheated on me. I have been nothing but good to him. I cook for him, clean for him, invite his buddies over and let them play video games while I bake them all cookies and fetch their beers. I try to never complain and always try to be the perfect girl for him. He has told me many times I am everything he ever wanted. But then he goes and sleeps with someone else. I love him but I cant stand to look at him. Everytime I think about him in bed with another woman I literally get sick. I have no family. I am basically alone in the world. He was the only person I have ever truly loved. What am I to do? Do I stay? I know I cant do any better and I should be thankful for what I have and I know that I am nothing without him, but inside I want to run away. I cant stop crying. Im so hurt. Please help.
-Heartbroken (link)
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Im only 13 but I am smart enough to know that he doesn't deserve you. You seem smart, and sweet, and I even covet you in a way. You'll find someone better. I promise:)
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Me aged 22 my problem is when i got vegina or sperm out by vagaculation or self process when this time vertebral nd ma hips getting back . I can feel this one and i measure my hips it getting bigger when i got this process and at this time musules contracts. This is my problem plz show me way to come out of this.. (link)
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See a doctor
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Is it normal for a 13 year old girl to watch porn? (link)
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I'ma girl who is your age and I watch porn to. It's just our hormones acting up lol.
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I live in Florida and I have become increasingly aroused by my dog. I have let him lick me a couple of times and really enjoyed it.
The other day my bff found out and told me it is disgusting and I could go to jail. First off, it is all over the internet and many people enjoy the company of animals. Gayness is disgusting to some, but makes others happy. Same applies here. What concerns me is that it may be illegal. I have searched and searched but have found conflicting results. I really enjoy what I am doing and don't want to stop. Please Help. Is it legal in Florida? Thanks XoXo (link)
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It is a crime and you could contract infections.
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Hey , um i got into a relationship recently with this girl from Vienna , and both of us really love each other , so um my parents wanted to see her picture so i showed them one of her pictures , and they totally dislike her... Their telling me she looks ugly and they made me dislike her a bit.... and after 2 days we were talking again and she told me that she loves me and she wants to see me in Vienna , so what do i do , should i listen to what my parents say or be with her ?? ... thanks . (link)
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I am gonna keep this simple: If you two love each other then there is nothing your parents can do about it. Who cares how she looks, as long as she id beautiful through your eyes. GOOD LUCK! :)
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Ok so this is for my friend. She is 13 (yes she has her period) So she had sex with her boyfriend (and her bf also went through peburity)and so they didn't use a condom. And he said he did cum.. is there a possibility that she could get pregnant? She is just really worried and wants to know.
~Thanks :)
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Yes,there is a probability, so just run down to a drug store and get a pregnancy test, and even if its a bit awkward she should tell her mom. And just for the record.... i wasnt having sex at 13....
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How to commite suicide (link)
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Honey, NEVER commit suicide, no matter what. Everyone has a reason to be here, you just need to find yours. Maybe 10 years from now you'll find a cure for cancer, or be a famous actor, or be a cop to protect innocent people from bad people. You're lufe has a purpose. :) I wish tou the best of luck!!!!!!!! :)
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Me and this guy have been talking for a few weeks now and I finally agreed to hangout with him last night, so we went out to the movies together and then watched Netflix at my house for about an hour; hes pretty shy so he didn't put his arm around me until after awhile and then I noticed his hand kept inching towards mine, so I just grabbed his hand and held it cuz I'm assuming he was too shy to do so. He was like rubbing my arm and my hand that he was holding and resting his head on mine. It was cute and all, but considering it was our first time hanging out I don't want him to get obsessed or anything...his heart was beating really hard when I hugged him goodbye and he kinda reached for my hand as he walked away. Either way he's leaving for the army in 2 weeks so there's nothing him or I can do but I don't want to hurt him and I wanted to make sure I hadn't done that already. (link)
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If you like him then show it,otherwise just dont take his hand or anything because if you take his hand then say that you dont like him thats just mean, especily considering that hes leaving in two weeks. Best of luck.
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England. Female. 16.
I've been dating a guy for a couple of weeks now. We were friends for almost over a year. I've always dated the boys that had the bad side to them, I always seemed to be attracted to them, even though all of those relationships ended badly. However, the guy I'm currently dating, he wanted to be with me for ages, but I just somehow wasn't attracted to him in any way shape or form. He's one of those good guys, he's so nice, sometimes I think too nice. He does make me laugh, he encourages me to do things I never would of thought I had the ability to do. The thing is, I don't know whether I'm doing the right thing by being with him. But, if I wasn't with him, I think I'd miss him. It's like I want to be with him, but I don't. The littlest things he does, sometimes really annoy me. Like, the way he's so clumsy, the way he just falls asleep whilst texting. I don't know what is going through my head. Is he just a friend? What can I do? I'm unsure about my feelings. (link)
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You can talk to him about the little things that he does that annoy you and see how he can fix them (ex: being more careful or saying goodbye if he feels that he is going to fall asleep). He sounds like he brings out the best in you and is a really great guy.
P.S. I don't know how helpful this will be for you considering your 16 and I'm only 13.
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