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my ex boyfriend only wants what he doesnt have (me) we have been off and on again and now are just mates. he admitted to likeing me yesterday but i think were better off as mates. does this work out sometimes? (link)
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If you still like him, tell him, but warn him that you are tired of the drama and arguments do what you think is best if you really feel you should just be mates let him know but if you think it's a good idea give him another chance and try to make it work out, get to the root of the problem and try to fix it.
Good Luck! Get back to me! I want to know how it works out! :3
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My mother is a very confrontational person. I love her but she is. Well, just in the car we where talking and nearly everything I had to say she had the completely opposite view on.
For one, we talked about piercings and tattoos. I love both, well my mom is a different story. I was talking to her about what kind of body art I would want in the future and how I would also like to stretch my ears (aka gauges/plugs). She completely flipped and started telling me how if I get piercings and tattoos I won't get a job and be homeless. Also, that I should want to make myself look like a freak. Completely blowing it out of proportion. I was really offended by this because I love it and do play on getting it done to myself when I am eighteen and can without her permission. I told her I wouldn't let other people's opinion get to me because I like it and that's all that matters to me. She said well you should! And I don't agree with that at all. What do you think?
I think that body art has become more of a common thing and is more accepted.
She got me kind of upset. I don't want to make her not proud of me. She said when I am out of her house I can do whatever the hell I want but she will still have the same opinion and so will I. (link)
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Ha ha ha, typical teenager. Don't be offended that your mom doesn't approve of tattoo's no mom does, my cousins mom is very overprotective she got a tattoo a really tiny heart on her hand her mom almsot murdered her. For adults they see anyone with a tattoo is satin just compromise with her, tell her what it means to you, ask her about limits and tell her you'll get pretty ones, not ugly scary demonic ones. Tell her that if she really loves you she would stand by your choice no matter what.
Good Luck! Get back to me, I sure hope it works out and don't worry, moms always disagree!
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so i have this facebook friend that i requested cause we have alot of friends in common and i see him around sometimes, so i was like sure why not. i think he's gorgeous. and i'm not the type of girl to really obsess over a guy at all. not to be conceited but i'm a pretty good looking girl. i sent him a message saying that i've seen him around and stuff and i wasn't just requesting him for no reason, but he didn't say anything back:/ i don't know if he got it or just didn't know what to say and then forgot about it or what. a mutual friend says she'll hook me up but i really want to talk to him:/ but i definetly don't want to seem desperate to him. i'm not at all. i just think hes so goodlooking:) what should i do? (link)
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Meet him in real life, get to know him, or talk to him while he's on it's just as private as a message but it's faster and easier, like on the side it will say chat and a number in parenthesis. That represents the number of friends you have on, click his name and talk to him, and if your friend says she'll hook you up, no problem there's you're chance to talk to him. Perfect.
Good Luck! Get back to me! I want to know if you meet him and what he's like :3
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recently, me and my friend been distant with each other. We kept on arguing and somewhat we had issues that was never solved, so yesterday i tried talking it out with her, we had an argument yesterday and things were just falling apart for both us, i had to say sorry how i was being self-centered and things i didn't want to admit how i was wrong about, also that i told her how she meant a lot to me. Everything went fine and we're back to being friends again, but if i did not say sorry about those things our friendship would have changed.
The thing about it is, that i feel powerless,vulnerable and weak because i admited and said sorry about how i was acting towards her, everything is fine now but im crying about it because somehow it hurts me when i should be happy that me and my friend fixed the problem. I feel like sh*t right now and i dont know why, i feel like i gave her the power and the satisfaction and i dont know why i feel this way, why i do feel this way? is it pride?
I feel like i shouldnt have sorry but i really needed to, i dont understand why i feel all this.
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Think about the things you've said to her and why , maybe it was time to apologize I know you may feel annoyed about it but your friend needed to hear you say it. You should not feel weak, you were the bigger person, you were the one who stepped up to the plate and just decided to swallow your pride for what you knew you needed to do it was mature and brave to be the one to apologize even when you know you shouldn't be and that you weren't wrong.
Good Luck! Get back to me, if you still feel upset give me full detail! :3
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Theres this guy named Jeff. I dated him for 2 months and then he broke up with me for some girl. Well we have been talking some (Jeff and me) and well we have had long conversations. Him and Kimberly broke up and well i told him i loved him and then randomly he says "so hows your mom" (by the way this is facebook chat) Does this mean he likes me? And im 13 hes 14 and im a girl. (link)
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He might be scared also it's better to tell him in person, boys take almost nothing online seriously and who knows what kind of glitch there may have been for him to say that often that will happen to my friend. Online is a huge way for boys to right away easily change the subject if they want to or just feel uncomfortable. He was probablly scared you should ask him how he feels in person, and tell him you love him in person so he can't ignore you, change the subject, and will take you seriously.
Good Luck! Get back to me, I want to know if it works out!
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ok so my little brother, is always downloading weird stuff on the family computer, hes always making our computer less secure, make it run slower, downloading really weird things, etc. i'm pretty sure the majority of things he downloads is to help him hack his little games he plays or cheat on the game. i get really mad because A. I have school stuff and pictures on here, and its annoying when we have to reboot the computer. B. I play this one game, and when the computer breaks, i lose everythng. C. the computer runs slowly, & thats no fun to deal with either.
We've already had to buy a new computer because of him. My parents don't really do anything about it, because they don't care, & plus he lies like crazy, and gets his way out of anything.
I want to be able to block this stuff, actually.. does anyone know if like whenever he goes to download something, a message type thing would pop up & he would have to enter a password? because that would be really helpful, so then i could check what he's downloading.
i've tried blocking the websites, but i don't know all the websites he goes on, and some of it is like websites other members of the family go on, and i think its bad, but its really not.
oh he has some of things on the desktop right now...rsbot, swift kit, MOD'S, riseq, rsclient.
if anyone knows if that stuff is bad, please tell me.
thank you for any help! (link)
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Definitely, there are no doubt something to prevent him from downloading first, you need to become an administrator on the computer, make sure he is NOT an admin, go to the control panel and set up the controls on his account also you two should have seperate accounts such as when you have a guest account you can make one for you and one for him. Make a password he will not guess like you can make up a word, that always works like, kimbaria, see random word :3 makes no sense noone will guess it, and he will have to ask you before downloading anything, make sure he tells you what it is, what it's for, game cheats aren't really bad things but if he downloads too much it could be dangerous to the hardrive and disk space. I'm not sure about the things on the desktop but if rsclient's icon is just a blank white page that you can't open it's nothing to worry about. I'm sure most of that stuff is fine but you can uninstall anything you want by going to the control panel and clicking programs. To make a password for him to not download much stuff go to control panel and click user accounts and family safety, somewhere it should say add or remove user accounts make one for you and one for him create a password for yours and it should say somewhere set up parental controls for any user, and from there on it's pretty easy. Somewhere it specifically says something like prevent from downloading any software or w/e without admin permission/password.
Good Luck! Get back to me and tell me if you have any problems with it.
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he’s going to be a senior next year, and she’s starting her freshman year of college in mid august. this guy knows i liked him, and he kinda strung me along for a few months before dating her. what im trying to ask do you think their relationship will last long? she’s also running in college, and its a D1 school so it’d be hard for them to see each other. though the school is only an hour away. im not trying to be immature, when he told me they were dating i genuinely wished him the best. im just plain curious. i don't know what to do. he was literally begging me to still be friends with him. (link)
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He might be dating this girl to make you jealous, you should definitely still be friends with him, it might be hard but it's better than not having him in your life at all. Depending on how much he really cares about her, if they JUST started dating he can't be too serious about it and they probablly will break up if they can't see eachother often. You're not being immature, you have every right to be upset you should talk to him, lay down the line, first of all avoid saying we need to talk, that scares them, can i talk to you, casual is usually light and easy it will make him less nervous unless you act really serious and excited about it. Ask him if he liked you, ask him why he did string you along like that, why after everything that happened between you he started dating her, ask him why he decided to date her, tell him that you did like him.
Good Luck! Get back to me!
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Hey :) well I'm 13 and I need help me and my bf have been going out for 8 months were still virgins but we had conversations about havinq sex together should I ? I realy think he is the one ... Oh and sory another question I have gotten fingerd befor but I'm not sure if I still am a virgin am I?? I did not feel much niether did I bleed. My bestfriend told me that mabey it ddnt go all the way in to make my chery pop is sh right?? I need help I need answers please help :)
With love, gata :) (link)
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Well gata I see where you're coming from I've had the same situation I just turned 14 three months ago and about 4 months ago I was going to have sex with someone I still believe I'm in love with, and getting fingered doesn't take away your virginity not until you have intercorse, oral sex doesn't even take away your virginity. Listen, you may think he's the one but you're really young and if he really is then you and him will wait and both feel the same way in a few years. Also if he hasn't hit puberty I say go for it, lol sorry that's what I would want but if he doesn't have sperm, you can't get pregnant. But still either way, if you do and you wind up breaking up you will be seriously hurt, also, many young teenagers despite how much they think they're ready for a sexual relationship, they're often not mature enough to handle it, you can get seriously hurt if it doesn't work out well, even if you're sure it will, and you know he's the one, you'll both be able to wait and will still feel that way in a few years when you're older and ready. I mean you're only 13, you're going to meet plenty of other guys it's 8 months, you're only 13 wait. Just trust me, and I don't understand what you mean about cherry pop,what exactly does that mean? You don't bleed from fingering, if you mean cum/masturbate, then don't worry, 97% of men can't give a woman an orgasm. Good luck!
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My friend told me that her dad keep trying to feel on her....and she hasn't told her mother...she says he has even tried to finger her....she says she doesn't want to tell her mom until its the right time....what should she really do? Should I tell someone even though she asked me not to? I'm really scared for her! (link)
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That is illegal he could be arrested tell her to tell him to back off, what's the "right time" to tell her mom? You should make her tell someone, call the cops, she need to tell her mother, if it goes on too long and gets anymore serious you should tell her mother she will be grateful if this problem stops. My dad says "I would never do anything to make you or your sisters feel uncomfortable ever." It's important she get that vow from her father too, someone needs to talk to him.
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There is this really hot girl I've been talking to. She told me she's slept with a lot of people. I mean, a lot, like 40 something guys. She's so hot though and, to be frank, she's easy.
I want to have sex. She told me that she'd do it with me next week if I come over to her place while her parents are gone. She has a big pool there and she said she always does it in the pool so that she's clean and STD free. What she was saying was that the chemicals in the pool kill any STDs that somebody might be carrying.
Sounds great but I want to double check this. I'd hate to have to go to the doctor after banging her. Is she telling the truth? (link)
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You Cannot Catch an STD in the Water:
This is not true. Sexually transmitted infections and HIV can still be spread while having sex in the water, even in hot tubs. This means that it is important to use birth control during water sex that can provide STD protection. Although hormonal methods may protect against pregnancy, they do not provide any defense against STDs. Additionally, having sex in the water could also increase the likelihood of a woman getting a urinary tract infection and/or a yeast infection.
Condoms Are an Effective Birth Control Method for Water Sex:
Although condoms are effective at preventing pregnancy and STDs, they may be somewhat risky to use during underwater sex. They can possibly rupture from decreased lubrication and possibly deteriorate from heat, chlorine, or oil-based substances in the water (i.e., tanning lotion, sun screen, bubble bath, etc). Plus, there is the added threat that the condom can slip off if water gets into it, and a man may be unaware of this happening.
This is all the information I have to offer, don't be mad at her just be careful and this is what I read just make sure she has better reasearch talk to her about it first, no offense she sounds like a whore.....how old is she?
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I'm starting school in august and just want something easy to use with good battery life that is durable. All computers seem the same to me!! Just have to write papers and use the internet basically... And store music and pictures (link)
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Hm, for college you should get a laptop maybe a netbook, they're small light and can last quite a few hours if you get a good battery pack. Well, if you don't want a laptop a good idea might be the i-touch, sure it's an mp3 but it has internet access, can store pictures, music obviously, i'm sure you can download something to write papers with that, but to print you would have to download the file to a computer. It's touch screen and if you get a good cover I'm sure it will deifinitely be durable. But I really suggest a net book, they're super small laptops they are perfect for college, my sister's in college and she has one, she loves it, she won't even let me use it. o_o
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