Hey. I'm in my early twenties. I'm currently pregnant with my first child...Well for a couple more days atleast :-D! I live in sunny Sun Diego. I'm married, to a Sergeant in the Marine Corps...
I am here to help and get help. I'm not trying to portray that I'm a perfect person with no problems, but I have been through alot so I figure I'd help people learn from my mistakes...
I've been through alot, from my father death, to my best death, to middle school/high school/college, bad relationships, good relationships, engagment, marriage, deployment, pregnancy, stress and depression...
I am deffinetly here to help 110 % so if you want to talk dont hesitiate i'm here for all of you...xoxox
E-mail: blueyeblondeqt@hotmail.
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This chick really likes my boyfriend. She texts him all the time.. which interrupts our time together sometimes. The thing is, he pays for all the texts. Incoming and whatnot. So she's flooding his phone. Blah blah. She gets mad whenever he says he busy or that he's with me ["his girl"]
She keeps sending messages about sex, getting drunk, and bjs. She just won't stop. She knows he's taken and that he's busy.
Advice? He's getting really annoyed and she's not taking a hint.
And here's my problem.
My new friend already likes me. He wants something more and he's like.. waiting for my relationship to fail. He's been "joking" or whatever about kissing me and making out. He's really sweet, believe me. But I'm really happy right now and I don't want to hang out with him.. to lead him on. He called me so many times in one day and now he's wanting for me to call him to hang out. I honestly don't want to hang out with him. It's so awkward and I don't trust him. During my finals, he walked me to all my classes and kissed my head, then later that day my cheek. :| Yeah, my boyfriend does not like that. He doesn't go to my school so he can't "Take care" of my friend. He already said sorry but he's annoying me with the constant "HANG OUT WITH ME" "ARE YOU BUSY TODAY" "CALL ME!" "CAN I HAVE YOUR NUMBER"
i have a really kind heart and i can't seem to let him down. any advice for me? (link)
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Now you see what your boyfriend is going through. Dont let this guy stress you out about letting your relationship fail or it will. Just tell him your happy at the moment and thats all you really can say. If he gets to be too much, let him know that. Dont let it keep going, doesnt matter how nice you are you have to stand up for your self. If you feel uncomforable telling him that, have a friend do it. Dont be threatning just be sweet about it.
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ive never given oral sex before, but even just brushing my teeth, i choke all the time. will i choke will giving oral? how can i make myself not choke?
thanks! (link)
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It's normal to choke a little bit on it. But you dont have to put the whole thing in there...Just work on it and see what your comfortable with...Dont push your limits.
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is it true like if your in a bath or the lake your period will stop? (link)
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Not true and when your in a warm bath it actually makes you flow stronger, while in a lake or pool make sure to wear a tampon and avoid an embarassing situation.
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while me and my bf have sex, hell cum inside. and im on birth control. but after sex and were done i have to quickly grab a towel and have it thea for when he pulls out. after the sex, i leak. like my body rejects the semen or somethin. its not like im a slut or anything and it happens because im loose, because i lost my virginity to him in just december. it wasnt like this for the first couple months but then it started happening. and like i stp leakin for a lil while after i clean up, but it still comes out when i walk around, like 5 mins after.... i dont know.. is this normal??? or is something wrong with me??? (link)
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Your body isnt rejecting the sperm. It's just not ment to stay up there, it's suppose to come out. It happens to me all the time. It's not because your lose or anything like that, it's just a fact of life people dont like to talk about it. So rest aussured your fine!
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Okay so how long does it take for the symptoms for TSS to show? And is it curable? I left a tampon in for probably like 16 hours (give or take) and I'm scared that I'm going to get TSS. Is it a sure thing that i'll get it?
P.S. I didnt purposely leave it in. I put on a pad after my shower because i forgot i had a tampon in and then went to bed and now i have been awake and i just took it out because I saw the string. (link)
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Dont stress yourself out. When I was about 15 I put a tampon in without realizing i had one in. It was no joke in for maybe a week or two...Nothing ever happened. 16 hours is okay it's not a crazy amount of time. Relax and if you start feeling symptoms then you have a reason to be worried till them just breath.
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I was suppost to get my period on like the 13th and it's the 19th and it still hasn't come. I've only had my period for a year so is this normal?
I'm scared to go anywhere like the beach or something because it might come then and I won't be able to do anything about it.
And I also want to start shaving "down there" but i'm scared my skin will get like irrated or i'll get like an infected hair when it grows back and I don't want to have to go to the doctor for that. Any tips? (link)
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durig your teen years it is normal to have an irregular period...off and on...
as for shaving i suggest that your shave with the grain then against it. then i usually put deoterant on down there and it keeps me from breaking out.
hope i was of some help.
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is it weird that i get horny spying on my brother when he's masturbating or is it just curiosity?
i dont want to feel this way but i dont knwo what to do.
please help!! (link)
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No. Your fine. Dont worry about it. It's completly normal. Your watching a male masturbate, your brother or not, he's got a penis in your hand which just turns some wemon on, your fine I promise!!!
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i fantasize about doing things w/ guys but when it comes time to actually do something with one i dont get turned on at all. but i get horny when i see my friends undressing. does that mean ima lesbian? (link)
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No you'd know if you were a lesbian. I sometime feel like that too. I'm married now, but while I was in high school I was like that. Some men just suck at what they do, you just need to find the right guy and he'll turn you on no worries, it's completly normal I promise.
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My BF and I were having anal and we had no idea what we where doing, so for some reason his penis went down towards my vagina and then the condom broke. We don't think there was any seman on it or anything because he did not cum. so i took a test and it said i wasn't and then i got my period today, but its really light and spotting. Could i still be pragent? or what is the chance of me being pragent? (link)
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I doubt that you are. If you went doing it vaginally then your fine, plus if he wasnt in you or was pulling out when it broke the air hit the semen and they died.
If you stress out about thinking your pregnant that you could have a weird period or even miss. Pregnancy test are usually pretty accurate after your period so if your still uneasy about the situation then take another one. I'm pretty sure your not pregnant.
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I know the theory is that if you have sex without birth control and he cums in you, you're pregnant.
But does this really happen ALL the time?
Can you have sex without getting pregnant?
Even if it IS a small chance, I just wanna know.
And dont tell me "dont have sex", I dont plan on it, I'm just wondering.
I'm sick of people preaching about sex on here. (link)
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It's not gaurenteed that you woll get pregnant, i think alot of what they teach you is to scare the hell out of you so that you dont do it.
Dont just do it tho because you think your home free, I did it awhile without getting pregnant with my x.
But when my husband and I started dating the first time we did it without anything, I was pregnant.
If your going to do it without protection just be ready to handle the situation...
Hope i was of some help.
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