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the names Kassidy. im 16. i go to freedom high. i love running. && hanging out with my friends. oh... im VERY loud. but a FUN loud. not bad loud. : ] yeah...i definatly have blonde momentstm. but its okay cause people still love me anyways so everything is GRAND. [ha] well hopefully you love me too. ;) kaythanksbye! p.s. im good with any advice so ask me anything or ill just help ya out!
you can take the blonde to the ranch, but you cant take the bikini off the blonde.
♥KASSIDY
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It seems like many people mix up love with lust or obsession. and it just seems so confusing if you really liked someone for a long time. How do you really know if you're in love?
yea they really do. You can tell if you are really in love. Like you get this feeling for someone that you have NEVER ever felt before. You love them so much you want them to be happy. Might as well die for them. For example: say this guy loves a girl and he breaks up with her because they cant be together for some reason. He loves her and wants her to be happy thats why he lets her go. Love is loving someone who you will love forever no matter what happens. It's a strong feeling being in love. Once you love someone you'll know!!♥
♥KASSIDY
OK, I had this nerdy guy at my school give me his pic with his phone number written on the back of it the other day. I was on my way into the restroom when he gave it to me, and so since I had to go any ways, I threw it in the toilet.
Well, the dude comes up to me a week ago and says that he gave me the wrong pic on accident and the one he gave me was a really special one to his mom that he can't replace. Just to get him to leave, I told him I would look for it and call him when I found it. So then he asks me about it again yesterday. What should I tell him so I don't hurt his feelings or look like a cruel person?
Ohh difficult answer. Just relax when you are around him act calm, take 4 deep breaths and speak in a sweet tone when you tell him. Because that was nice of him to give you his phone # on the back of the pic. Trust me, if you are much more calm about it when you tell him and use your words carefully more than likely things will turn out GOOD!! I would just say "Listen...(dude)Im very sorry to tell you this but, your picture that you gave me it accidently fell in the toilet when I was in the bathroom the other day. I hope you arent mad. Is that ok?" Something like that. (he might even laugh) Speak in a quiet voice so he understands and doesnt take it bad. Mostly just apologize and maybe make it up to him for doing that. Make sure when you are telling him you look straight into his eyes so you can see his reaction when you tell him.
♥KASSIDY
have a problem. I have this guy friend and he wants to "hook up" with me, here's the catch...he has a girlfriend. I don't know what to do. I have liked him for 3 years and finally he wants to make a move but it doesn't seem right to me. I don't like the idea of going behind her back and making-out with her boyfriend. He wants to hook up in school, I rather do it outside of school so we could be alone and have no chance of getting caught.
I want the same things he wants from me. My best friend thinks that I should leave him alone but I can't help but think that this might be my last chance to be with him. Can you help me?
---Belinda
Yea Ill help!! What I would do if I was that daring, I would first try the plan since you really like this guy and you think that you probably wont have another chance with him if you turn him down on that. And go on from there but dont repeat it unless its a trick or what not. I would just try it once with him. Because you're not really his girlfriend. Go somewhere WHEN you know his girlfriend isnt going to be around anywhere. (I would secrectly find out where she is at the time) This guy doesnt seem too loyal to his girlfriend by any chance. But really I would follow your instincts on what is right on this type of situation. Since you really like this guy I would try it maybe just once outside of school just in case you have anyone see you then everyone finds out about it. lol That would be embarassing. If you really want this I would try going for it. But again, your friend is pretty clear on that to leave him alone, but is he going to leave you alone?. If i was you i would just hook up with him which would be pretty hard to do. i hope this helped you out good luck on that:)
♥KASSIDY
oka were should i begin well lets see there this boy that i liked and im in 7 grade and he in 8 and i told all my friends that i liked him oka, anywayz i found out that he like my friend and he ask her out but a course she said no which i waz happy about.Now that was like about a while bakc now im in 8 grade and i still like that same boy and my freinds kept telling me i should make a move so i did i wrote him a note saying how i feel so i gave the note to my friend to give it to him. like a few min laters my friend told what he said, and he dont feel the sane way about me and i was soooo sad, but thats not the worst of it. a couple of months later i found out he have a gf and i was shocked. Then a couple months later i found out that they broke up now he is single and i still like him alot but the problem is i wanna give it another shot but im afraid what he might say. my friends says that i should get over him but i cant do that im like crazy over him and every time i see him in the hallways my whole body just heat up. So now i dont know what to do should i go for it or just forget about it and move on.
Awww thats really sad. Well..writing a note shows him that you dont have confidence to tell him. And its kinda a turn-off to guys. He could still like you, never know. Just maybe too afraid to tell you exactly. He seems like hes girl crazy or a chick magnet or something. Even worse, ehmygosh he got a girlfriend which doesnt make things better for you, but broke up soon. If you really like this boy a lot, forget all this horrible stuff even happened and get on your feet and do what it takes to get him. But if this ah-nnoying stuff like about him liking girls or him not liking you I would take another direction and find the real guy who is right for yourself move on. I know what you mean I'm going through with this so dont move on, unless its tearing you apart. Just remember you can do anything as long as you put your mind to it! k! :)
♥KASSIDY
I have pretty long hair about down to my ribs and I am thinking about getting layers because it looks to blah with all one length. I have gotten them before but I had short hair and it was a long time ago. Also, I cant remember what it looked like or if I liked it or not. Any opinions on if you think that would look weird with long hair or not??
Yea see short hair with layers just dont look good. (ive tried it and done it) It doesnt flatter the hair or you, you know. I really think in my opinion is that long hair would look fab-ulous with layers. In that way it would be easier to cut. It would really strike out your beauty in hair like when you walk and your hair just flies in the wind. Totally a knock-out for the guys to take a second look. But yea I would defintely go for the layers if you have long hair. It would look glamorous. In fact I'm trying to grow my hair out so I can do that. So try it!! :)
♥KASSIDY
Ok I have really bad stagefright I can barely sing in front of one person yet I found a way to sing in front of Rae who is in charge of the play for our school. She gave me a part singing. The play is in front of the whole school and I need to fiure out how I can sing without dying in front of all those people. I have always been a good singer but only few people know that but I want a real music person to tell me if im good thats why I tried out for the play cause someone might be there that kind of is a recoding person and i have always imagined this happining in my dreams but i never thought it would. So please help me get over my stage fright
Thanks
Yikes,Yea, singing on stage is not something easy to do. You can take a class called "public speaking". That might help a whole lot. The first thing you need right now is the word "confidence". Or more of it. Say that you can do this, dont put yourself down. You are only going to become Ifrightened if you think negativity. Practice makes perfect. I would just like get a group of your friends and practice singing in front of them. Or ask your teacher if you could practice singing in any of your classes. Never ever say you can't do this. Think POSITIVE girl. Maybe hold a paper clip in your hand to keep the nerves down. Now just forget what everyone in the crowd thinks of you && just show off your ah-mazing talent of singing you have and do it to make them proud!! Remember after you are done you are going to be feeling a lot more brave. The more daring or bold things you do the more it will be easier to accomplish when things get really hard to do. So as I would say make your dreams come true!!
♥KASSIDY
who ever said that ex bf/gf's can't be JUST friends??...well theyre right..almost. ugh, i swear my ex says he was cool being friends at first but i kinda wasnt only because i was SO hurt. now later on we became "friends" but lately he's being such a jerk. like all he does is be mean..not like punch you or kick you mean like verbaly mean. it drives me crazy because one day were like nice to eachother the next he gets me really mad because he gets mean. i don't know whats going through his head...what do i do? what is he feeling? what does it mean?
i know for a fact that gf/bf can be friends too but not if hes going to be mean like that. He might be moody but unforuntely he could be mad about something that hes been hiding from you that you havent noticed. Or maybe he just wants to get back together with you. You can be open to him and maybe ask people that he knows, what is wrong with him these days. He probably is feeling angry and stressed about something between you too that you havent quite noticed or not. It means you need to stop him from doing that to you because you dont deserve any of that, no one does. So when he drives you crazy stop him, look him in the eye, and say this has to stop!
♥KASSIDY