have a problem. I have this guy friend and he wants to "hook up" with me, here's the catch...he has a girlfriend. I don't know what to do. I have liked him for 3 years and finally he wants to make a move but it doesn't seem right to me. I don't like the idea of going behind her back and making-out with her boyfriend. He wants to hook up in school, I rather do it outside of school so we could be alone and have no chance of getting caught.
I want the same things he wants from me. My best friend thinks that I should leave him alone but I can't help but think that this might be my last chance to be with him. Can you help me?
---Belinda
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? kassidyy answered Saturday March 10 2007, 12:44 am: Yea Ill help!! What I would do if I was that daring, I would first try the plan since you really like this guy and you think that you probably wont have another chance with him if you turn him down on that. And go on from there but dont repeat it unless its a trick or what not. I would just try it once with him. Because you're not really his girlfriend. Go somewhere WHEN you know his girlfriend isnt going to be around anywhere. (I would secrectly find out where she is at the time) This guy doesnt seem too loyal to his girlfriend by any chance. But really I would follow your instincts on what is right on this type of situation. Since you really like this guy I would try it maybe just once outside of school just in case you have anyone see you then everyone finds out about it. lol That would be embarassing. If you really want this I would try going for it. But again, your friend is pretty clear on that to leave him alone, but is he going to leave you alone?. If i was you i would just hook up with him which would be pretty hard to do. i hope this helped you out good luck on that:)
♥KASSIDY [ kassidyy's advice column | Ask kassidyy A Question ]
Attention: NOTHING on this site may be reproduced in any fashion whatsoever without explicit consent (in writing) of the owner of said material, unless otherwise stated on the page where the content originated. Search engines are free to index and cache our content. Users who post their account names or personal information in their questions have no expectation of privacy beyond that point for anything they disclose. Questions are otherwise considered anonymous to the general public.