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i had many kisses with my boyfrend some times when he kis me he kisses on my neck alsoo but we had no sex just kiss so i dont want to get pregnent does it makes me pregnent
Go ahead and kiss your boyfriend, that doesnt get you pregnant. To get pregnant you must have sexual intercourse with the opposite gender and what happens to become pregnant is that during intercourse the sperm come out of the boy's penis and all girls carry eggs (to produce baby's) and then the sperm fertilize the egg and voila! A baby starts growing inside a girl (only if you do not wear a condom)
If you have intercourse please wear a condom because you have less chance of getting pregnant if the sperm cant get through. The worst thing to worry about with your boyfriend kissing you is if he is sucking and kissing your neck is that you get something called a hicky (sorry I dont know how to spell today) =P A hicky is permanant and can not be removed so be careful as he is kissing your neck.
So I play volleyball and I'd really like to use tampons because in running and jumping and sliding across the ground. I've attempte to use a tampon Several times, ir used a mirror, spread it apart to see the hole an used lubricant on my tampon. I usually start while standing up and push it in towards my back. But it stops halfway in and won't go up anymore then i move the tampon and try again still no success. I'd really like some advice thanks :)
I had the same issues, I'm a volleyball player too :p Try in the bathroom putting one foot on the toilet (when its shut) and try easily pushing the tampon in that way, it came easier that way for me.
what does it mean when your boobs hurt not my nipples just my boobs?
Oh hun, its nothing really. Dont worry its just growing pains, everyone gets them. Its happened to everyone, trust me its not abnormal for your boobs to hurt once in a while, it just means that they are growing =) Hope this helps!
Hey Guys! I've recently taken part in a programme where I have had to make my own short film which lasts one minute. Would appreciate it if you could watch it and comment to share your opinion on the film. Cheers guys! Much appreciated, here's the link:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=odof53Qyn9A&feature=plcp
Oh its really good I think! Its nice and short too and it keeps the audience on edge. It kind of creeped me out at first but its really good and you should be proud of it!
ok so.. im 14 , girl with light brown hair, light blue eyes, average weight, i wear glasses, people say i have a beautiful smile....i smile alot... i like this guy (14) .we have been friends for 2 years or so now we just see eachother in school. nothing has happened between us. i have started to like him A LOT but the problem is he is a total man whore and loves sluts,he also smokes. i dont really know if he likes me, but i always see him looking at me while we are in class and he is always teasing me in a fun way, my friends say he likes me but i dont know. i dont think he would ever like a girl with glasses..... does he like me too, and if so should i go out with him even though he likes sluts and smokes?
If he's into slutty girls and he likes to smoke then definately no! Dont date someone like that! If you guys are good friends then you really should tell him to stop smoking because you dont want to be around that kind of influence. You could do alot better and you sound pretty =) If you think he wont like you because you have glasses that is so stupid! Looks dont matter! Its the person in side that counts! Ugh! Dont be his friend even if you think he would judge you like that and telling him that he's a man whore if you think of him like that and wtf if you think of him as a man whore then why do you wanna date him? WTF
I am A 13year old female. And i would like to know if anyone knows the easiest way to die?. I've just really had enough of my life to be honest. There is no point in me being alive. I am NOTHING. I have my GCSE'S coming up this summer and next year, I've been put under so much pressure I cant handle it. Im not ready to face failure. And On top of that I am in a relationship with this really nice boy. we recently started dating and its going quite well, however i still love my ex. me and my ex had a quite sexual relationship and its hard to accept the fact that we cant be together anymore. i cant break up with my current boyfriend, i'll feel like a bad person. AND BASICALLY IVE JUST HAD ENOUGH OF LIFE. SERIOUSLY DONT WANT TO BE HERE. AND I FIND IT TO BE DEATH IS THE ONLY ANSWER TO ALL OF MY PROBLEMS. AND I GOT MANY THIS IS JUST ONE/TWO
You cant kill yourself, its not the right thing! We've all been in a situation where we felt like dying was the only way, but its not! I know from experience, when I was 14, I was fed up and I thought I couldnt live anymore. I had a boyfriend and he broke my heart for my best friend, my best friend went with him and I felt like sh!t. All my friends turned on me, I got black mailed and after a year of that I went to my basement and took my dog's leash and tried to hang myself. Then I thought it over, all my family, the people who actually are nice to me, and everything I love could be over if I chose that path. So the next day of school, I told someone about my problems and I got helped through it. I realized that the people who I thought were friends werent! I got new friends who were actually nice to me and I have a wonderful boyfriend now who appreciates me. Im 16 now and I just need you to know that whatever you choose, think about all possible outcomes first. Pressure and failure is a part of life, we've all been there. If you love your ex still, you need to tell your current boyfriend about that. Im sure he'll understand. The truth is the best, even when you tell little white lies they can come back and bite you in the ass. I cant stop you from killing yourself but just think your life over before you make any drastic decisions.
-Hope this helps
What are good horse games where I can BE the horse, not own a horse BE a horse or unicorn. Help!
I dont know any horse games where you are the horse but there are really good websites for horse games:
www.horseland.com/
www.mystable.co.uk/
My favourite is: www.howrse.com/
Hope this helps =)
Is there a way to tell when your boobs are growing?
It depends on the person - when my boobs were growing they got really sore when they came into contact with water - i know its weird. My friend complained about sore boobs constantly - eat more than you usually do but dont overload or else you'll get spots - i dont think there is anything special you can eat
I want a good nicknane for my boyfriend he is so cute ,adorable ,sexy and sweet
Me and my friends come up with "sweet" nicknames for our crushes so we can talk about them when they are listening and they wont have a clue who we're talking about. The nicknames we've used have been desserts, a few of the many names we've used is: Cotton Candy, Triscuit, Gummy Bear, Cupcake, Fudgee-O, and Snickers. Hope this helps =)
Ok I have started chattin to this lad on bbm and we just click and I've told him stuff neva told neone before and he actually understands iv invited him to mine over weekend and his agreed to come back now I'm nervous how shall I play it and any advice etc xxxX
Sounds kind of like 'Love at first sight' Dont be nervous the worst that could happen is he says he just wants to be friends. Just pretend you've known each other for years and act as if he's your best friend. Good luck, hope this helps =)
Hi! I have really a big family, and I want to make a family tree to see all my ancestors. How can I do it?
http://www.myheritage.com/family-tree-builder?trn=ppc_google&trp=Canada_EN_FTB_Search_New&trl=software&gclid=CMfK-PPt0K8CFQIBQAodHBiPEg
http://www.familytreemaker.com/
http://www.familyecho.com/#edit:START
Here are a few websites that help make your family tree. Hope this helps =)
s it weird that i just want to wear regular panties? all of my friends wear thongs like all the time now and they keep telling me i should to...but thongs look really uncomfortable i dont want anything stuck up my but im totally comfortable wearing my normal bikini panties...shud i try wearing thongs?
Im the same, I dont like wearing thongs because they can be so uncomfortable!!! Its perfectly fine wearing normal bikini panties. The only time I would suggest wearing a thong is if you are wearing tight yoga pants so that people cant see the outline of your panties. Hope this helps
My bf broke up with me and I need him back. I know you're probably thinking, "No you don't need him, you want him. Get over him. Pick up a new hobby or something to keep your mind off him" I kept telling myself this and I have been trying and trying to get him out of my head, I've tried like everything, and it's been over a month since this guy broke up with me. I feel like i'm going crazy. I can fix the mistakes I've made, and now I want him back. What do I do? Any advice on how to get him back?
Im in the same situation, I think about my ex all the time and I still love him. Many people have told me to move on but I just cant, there's something that pulls me back to him but its as if there's an invisible force field between us. And now my ex says that he wants to kiss me once more so he can move on but I really dont understand that because I dont want him to feel a spark and then love me again. I want whats best for him and I've learned from my mistakes but cant move on.
I think you should try hanging out with other guys, just as friends and then it could make him jealous. Show him how happy you are without him (even though your not) and this could draw him back to you. I say you should get a bunch of new guy friends and hang out with them alot and then you will make him jealous and trust me, jealous guys always come back. Well, hope this helps =)
I have no idea how to kissl n i was wondering if you can give me as much advice as possible like how do you move ur lips n how do you use ur tounge Oh n i am 15 n my bf is 17 n he has alot more experience than me
I was nervous about my first kiss too, It bugged me for the longest time once I got a boyfriend. Its really quite simple though, my boyfriend told me to just follow what he does. Apparently Im quite good at it. If your boyfriend has more experience then just follow what he does, let him lead. http://www.instructables.com/id/How-to-Kiss/
Ok so I reccently broke up with a guy and I still love him. I broke up with him because he was issolating me from my friends. He said last night that he still likes me alot and then today, I caught him wheeling my best friend. He says it was to make me jealous but I honestly was in so much pain not jealously. It is painful to see him at school all the time. I couldnt stop thinking about him last night and I fell asleep to mine and his song and everytime I hear the song, I start to cry because I love him but let him go. None of my friends likes him for issolating me and my best friend (the one hes wheeling) was talking to me today and she said that he pushed her but she kinda acted like she liked it. I love him so much and I told him this and he said that he doesnt want to have to wait for me forever. Its painful to see him and talk to him and I cry when mine and his song plays, I love him so much. What should I do?
I've been in the same situation. I know its painful to see him already moving on but I think It'll be for the best. Just try being friends with him, thats what I did with my ex- boyfriend. Just hang out with your friends and you should talk this over with your best friend or someone you can trust because no one thats given you advice really knows you. Good luck, hope this helps :)
A few days ago, my boyfriend took me to his house just to hang out. Eventually we started stripping. We were about to do it, but then I got really nervous, put on my cloths, and left. I haven't talked to him since. What should I do so that I won't get nervous next time? Will it hurt? Will I bleed?
~14
~Female
Omg! This is horrible for your age! Your 14! Seriously, you shouldnt been stripping and going to have sex. Your 14, like seriously! If you got pregnant at age 14, just think how you would explain that to your parents. They wouldnt be very proud. Think next time your hanging out with him... -_-
How can I stop my period by tomorrow????I got the sexist date tomorro and I want him bad and now iv come on how can I stop it by tomorro???
Thanks x
You cant stop a period. Wear a pad or tampon until its done. And just if you plan on having sex with your date then you will have to tell him your on your period and dont feel very comfortable with having sex like that. Haha, I wish we could control when/if we have periods =P
CLOTHING PROBALEM !!!!!!!! and thats never good for a girl
Question Posted Sunday April 8 2012, 5:55 pm
hey im 13,
does anyone no were to get cheap jewelry and shoes. last time i asked this question i got a crappy answer. i really want to dress like Bella thorn. and to do so i need to no were to find cheap clothing and jewelery shoes,basically i need help and i want to dress better but need to do it a little cheaper. any places or ideas that you would have.would help a lot.
Thanks
Well there are alot of cheap clothing stores. Like if you have a second hand store near you then I would suggest that, they may not seem like much but once you start looking, I always manage to find stuff. Like once I got lululemon stuff for $20 which is an amazing deal. Also for cheap jewelry and shoes I would suggest Clare's or Ardene's and also Blue Notes has alot of really nice clothes and t-shirts for $5 sometimes. Anyways, hope this helps =)
okay, i'm making a website and to do so i need to know the common name for the daisy class? and also is the gerbera in that class?
Kingdom Plantae - Plants
Subkingdom Tracheobionta - Vascular plants
Superdivision Spermatophyta - Seed plants
Division Magnoliophyta - Flowering plants
Class Magnoliopsida - Dicotyledons
Subclass Asteridae
Order Asterales
Family Asteraceae - Aster family
Genus Chrysanthemum L. - daisy
Species Chrysanthemum majus (Desf.) Asch. - daisy
Hope this helps =)
im a girl. Me and a few of my friends have known her since we were 5 years old. now we are teens and she keeps following us around school. shes very quite and doesn't have an input into our conversations. if we are sitting down at school she wouldn't sit down beside us she would stand up on front of us in the middle of the group to hear the main conversation. we tell her to sit down and relax but she says she likes standing up. we try to avoid her but then our group of friends is split up and some people are stuck with her. she seems to be there all the time and you can't say anything you want in confidence to your frinds cause she'll hear it. my friend told me one time that she had a hospital appointitment and when my friend wasn't in class the girl that follows us told the whole of my class about my friends hospital appointiment. me and my friends are getting really frustrated with her but i really don't want to hurt her feelings. I was going to tell a teacher in the school but im afraid she will tell us that we are bullying her! I have known her now for 12 years and still don't know her parents or siblings names! please help.
I used to have someone who would follow me and my friends around too! What happened with me was that the girl couldnt take a hint that we didnt want her to be around us. Dont tell a teacher, they never help with anything. Just I think you should sit down with her and tell her that you and her used to be friends but things changed and you arent besties anymore. Tell her that she needs to find her own friends. But whatever you do dont ditch her. She will only follow you more (known from experience) Anyways, hope this helps =)