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I'm a very smart kid. Really good with advice. I play the piano, and paint. My father and mother are together. One of my family members has Manic Depression. So I can help you with depression problems, or family problems. If you think your fat then I know what you're going through. But I can help, and I would be glad too.

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E-mail: ernst_384@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Iowa
Age: 13
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Member Since: July 22, 2006
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Last Update: October 7, 2006
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I have a very weird body shape. I'm fat, so I wear a size 12/14 in jeans. Problem is, I can't find any jeans that fit me well! All of them fit me fine in everyy place, except the backs of my thighs!! Jeans NEVER ever ever fit there. They will fit on my butt, and lower legs (calves) fine, but the back of my thighs..never. Does anyone have any suggestions on what to do, or what stores might have jeans that'll fit me there? I'm also very short, so that might be part of the problem? I'm 5'1.

Don't get frustrated. I wear every size. Seriously. I'll start from smallest. 6,9,10,11,12,13. So don't get discouraged. Just find cute jeans, and don't worry about what the size says because as you can see, for me, size doesn't matter(because I wear every size). Hope I helped.

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Okay. I was at my boyfriends house the other day and his brother's friends sister came over, and she was all over him in the pool. I asked him why he didn't stop her and he said because we were playing a game. So now hes ignoring her but she keeps trying to get with my boyfriend. What should I do? I really need help!!! ;)(;

Mac

Tell her to back off. Let her know that he's your man. Hope I helped.

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Ohk. Last month i got my first period. So i really dont know. Please gimmie tips :)

Also, Its arround that time again this month (I got it on june 24th)

I heard that they are always late on the first time. but im getting horrible cramps. is it possible to get it regular??

ILL RATE!!
Thank you.

Okay, don't be scared. I was, and it was a terrible mistake, to be scared. Don't let it ruin your day. Don't be grumpy either (that's very noticable). Just pack pads in your backpack also. Hope I helped.

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I'm 13/f and i really want to gain weight before school starts in september. right now i'm like a 00/14 kids and i want to be a size 0. i'm an ectomorph, so it's hard to put fat on easily. What should i do to gain weight? (please dont say eat junk food, i want to be healthy too)

Okay no offense, but there is no way to gain weight without eating junkfood. You could build muscle. Watch television alot. Play on the computer alot, and don't exercise. Hope I helped.

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I never feel like going to school. What can i do in the morning to make me go to school???

Make school something fun. Wear your favorite outfit that makes you feal good. Don't be like everyone else. Don't be like celebrities. Be YOU! If your worried that your not in the popular group who cares? If you don't like your looks wash your face or get acne treatments. If you don't like your weight then exercise. Another thing to help you loose weight always eat breakfast. Hope I helped.

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When I had my last boyfriend everything would always go so great and after about 6 months we were both inlove and I really loved this guy! But then about 3 months later we were laying in his backyard in the hammock his arm was around me and we were just relaxing then i decided to put my hand on his chest and give him a kiss so i did and he pushed me out of the hammock smacked me and told me don't touch me so i ran away crying...i didn't talk to him for a couple weeks but he kept calling so i answered
~Convo~
me-what do you want?
him-im sorry i love you
me-too bad
and i hung up
then when my dog passed away he came over with flowers my mom didn't want him to come up to my room because i was really upset but she finally let him, then he started kissing me and telling me he was truley sorry so i forgave him and for about 3 more month it was all good and back to normal then again one night we were watching a movie in his basement (his parents weren't home only his bro and his gf) and we were all watching a movie and he kissed me and we started kissing then i put my hand on his cheek a little bit and he pushed away and was like dont ever do that again and threw the movie case at me and his brother tried to stop him but he just went mad at started punching me and his brother while his girlfriend tried to do somethin --im not really sure what--

So my question is I still love him, I know I shouldn't but I really love him I mean we have been together for about 2 years but stuff like this keeps randomly happening! I thought this guy was really right for me and sometimes he treats me really nice but others he hurts me phsically and mentally...I just want a guy to treat me right thats why Im trying to forgive him again but I can't just forgive and forget I'm scared something like this will happen again PLEASE help!

He might suffer from depression. Or he just doesn't like to be touched. It might make him feel uncomfortable, but he has no reason to hit you. You didn't do anything wrong. You should be scared, though. It might get worse also if he threw something at you, you should tell someone you trust. Don't be afraid to tell someone about him. You should leave him, but make sure you're around other people so they will see if he hits you, or harms you in any way.

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Alright i got my tongue pierced like 5 or 6 days ago. And today it finally went down like major (the swelling) then out of nowhere the bottom is very very swollen.

Is this normal??

Thanks

No! Go see your doctor IMMEDIATLEY. You can die from toungue infections.

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What books changed your outlook on life?

The Bible.

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Does anyone know a good place to shop for belts?
Thanks.

Target is a wonderfull place. heehee

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hey my boyfreind and i want to have sex..
but we never talk.
its like getting sexual is an exuse not to talk because its awkward so we do that instead..
should i dump him?

You are not married I take it. I will not have sex before I'm married. You need to get away from him as soon as you can.

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Hey! I'm not shure if this goes in this category but - does anyone know how to get good karma?

Thank yoU!

There is no such thing as "karma". Just be a nice person don't have it depend on if someone or something will be good to you.

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i have a cute butt its small but has a curve but i'd like it to be a little bigger and stick out more without being flabby. what are the easiest ways to do this?

Well, don't get carried away. But you could try eating alittle more if it's what you truley want.

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