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Hello, my name is Mary. I'm a 21 year old student, studying to be a counselor. I'm still young but I feel like I've had enough life experiences to answer any questions you may have. I still have some things to learn, but feel free to ask me anything, don't be shy! I'll answer as soon as possible, and I'll try my best to give you the best advice!

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ive liked this guy for about eight months and we dated in june to august. he broke up with me and i cant get over him. i need a way to either win him back or get over him. btw he likes one of my best friends who is dating one of his best friends( weird i know)

lol wow.. sounds like me kinda >.< if he broke up w/ you, he aint worth it.. but if you want to get him back, you probably might have to flirt w/ him alot (more than the other girls).. or js try to be closer to him.. if he likes your bestfriend i think thats his problem. You're bestfriend won't go out w/ your ex-boyfriend if she knows you still like him. If you js want to get over him, js give it some time, don't rush through it because if you try to get over him faster, it will last longer. Hope that helped.

Maryy

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14/f

ive been going out with this kid for about eight months (we've liked eachother for over a year) and we still havent kissed yet. now, ive never been kissed before, so im not sure how to make the move. I've waited long enough for him to make it, but he hasnt. help please :]

oh yeah and we usually hangout with a bunch of people, if that helps.

Oii.. he's probably shy and he probably doesn't know when is the right time to make a move. Maybe you should js invite him somewhere where its only you & him, and you can take it from there right ?

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2 guys asked me out yesterday and I don't know which one to say yes to. I like them both the same and they both have really good things about them and some things arn't so good.

Guy 1 Good things :
hes really funny
hes super cute
he really loves me
hes got a nice personality
we have so much in common
hes only 1 year older then me
hes like an older version of me
hes a virgin
he lives near me

Guy 1 bad things -
he wants sex i'm not ready
he tries to act gangster but hes white
he used to smoke i dont know if he still does
sometimes i feel like he uses me
he invites me to his house every day and it gets annoying
alot of people hate him they say hes a poser
he gets pissed off easily and starts cussing me out

Guy 2 good things :
hes really sweet
hes romantic like me
he likes to kiss
hes really hott
he tried to finger me but i said stop and he listened
he respects me

Guy 2 Bad things -
everyone says hes litarrly special ed in 1 class but he says he isnt
he stayed back 3 times
hes 3 years older then me
hes not a virgin
he smokes
he stutters a little when he talks

...
I really like them both in different ways. Guy 1 is more like me but Guy 2 respects how far I'll go sexually. But Guy 1 is closer to my age. I really don't know who to pick. If you had to choose 1 according to those facts, who would you choose?

O.o well try guy #2 cause if guy #1 is pissed. he shouldn't be takin it out on you. and if guy #2 respects you, and he really likes you, he'll stop smokin.

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i've been goin out with my gf for about 6 months but latly she barly ever talks to me unless i talk to her first ad she never comes to be with me and i always end up haveing to go look for her how can i tell her in a nice way to be a better gf

hmmm well don't break up wit her.. just talk to her and tell her whats on your mind.. no not in a mean way.. just tell her how you feel about it, and if she doesn't change.. and you dont' like that.. you don't need a gf like that. but when you tell her that if she doesn't want to do that or change whatever.. i know she will if she really likes you.

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Okay, I've got something wrong with me... I'm scared to eat. I'm only 14 and love to eat, but recently (3 weeks ago today) I scratched my throat or something and it's really weird and hard to eat. Here are some details:
1. I've dropped 15 lbs.
2. I've thrown up twice.
3. I've gone through a lot of stress lately. Maybe that has something to do with it?
4. My mom's letting me get out of school to go to the doctor tomorrow.
5. My grandpa, stepmom, mom, and dad think I'm anorexic (yeah right, a fat anorexic girl! lol no joke)

So if you can recommend anything to help me, if there is anything you can possibly do, I'd appreciate it!

just go to the doctor and see what do they say.

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me and my bf still haven't kissed yet and I don't know why, but for some reason...I want him to do it first. Do you think he'll kiss me anytime soon?

Also, how could you tell if your bf really loves you?

lol .. he'll kiss you soon.. no worries, he's probably shy at the moment, and seeing if its the right time or not. if you want that kiss sooon.. give him time or look into his eyes and smile gently. and maybe he wont take it anymore and kiss you. happened to me ! [; and of course your boyfriend loves you ! why wouldn't he? i mean if he didn't why is he still wit' you.. thats not a bad thing or anything, and you know he loves you, think positive, dont think negative.

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