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Q: how do i tell my boyfriend of 3 years that im pregnant? he lives 1000 miles away and he came down here for my birthday. and now im pregnant with his kid. how do i tell him?
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ok bad answer below.
ok you can tell him in words.
i was ognna say if its like almost fathers day.. you could send him one and say were pregnant. and actually they might make cards that say that. you might wanna check that out. you can call him and tell him and just be like baby..i was just thinking what would happen if i were to get pregnant? or baby would you ever consider having kids with me in the future? then be like im only asking because im pregnant. or you can say the story. be like so i was feelin really anutious and i did notice i was late. and so i was worried and went tothe doctor and found out i was pregnant and i was just wondering if you could be there to support me through this childs life or be a part of this childs life? and im asking oyu not to back out on me.
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Q: i was wondering if someone could take this backround of this xanga site and change it to a myspace layout? or just put the xanga layout into a pic website where i can drag it out and make it myself. thanks. here is the xanga site.
http://www.xanga.com/luvmeimcali
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hey i own www.myspace.com/jyxlove and im going to make that layout for you. jsut give me some time
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Q: i just got a verizon phone and i am so confused
i have a few questions
can i use vcast music as a ringtone or should i just purchase a ringtone?
how do i figure out how many texts and minutes are left?
can i return ringtones?
how much are ringtones?
if someone texts me does that take away from my 500 free texts?
thanks [:
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ringtones pricings are all different.
but for the minutes and texts. you can dial #min for minutes.. you will get a free txt message. and then for your balance #bal and then for text messages.... you go to the internet on your fone. then the main page will go on.. tehn klik like my account or something (its free) and then you go to usage. then you type in your zip code or something the nyou click messages and it will tel lyou how much you used
hey you have to buy one =/ sorry i kno it sux lol
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Q: I was just wondering...it seems like everyone is having sex except for me. i mean its not like i want a baby or anything but im also not saving myself for marriage.i also havnet had like a serious boyfriend yet..o ya and im turning 17 soon. im i too old to have my first real relationship?
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ok honestly. i think you are too young to be having sex. you dont have to do what everyone else is doing. but its your life and its up to you. but dont jsut do it because you think you have to or with some random guy that will make you a slut. and its never too old to have your first real relationship. people mostly meet there wives/husbands after highschool or after college. my cousin is gorgeous and hasnt had a serious relationship yet and shes 20. so you have nothign to worry about.
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Q: My boyfriend's birthday is coming up. I want to make a big fuss over him but I am kind of broke. Does anyone have any ideas?
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ok you can make him a really cute card. and like i did this for my bf and he thought it was so cute. get liek a poster board. fold it in half for the card. and then right maybe if hes turning 18.. 18 reasons why you love him. then make it like a flip book. like have a quote with a piece of paper over it so then he lifts that up and sees one reason. and then you can always cook him dinner. with the card. you can make a collage of fotos of you of him as well and put it in a frame. or liek get a bulliten board and tak pictures of you and him on it and right little notes.
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Q: hiiii :] does anyone know of any really cute, sweet, lyrical love songs? thanks in advanceeee :] ♥
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here in your arms - hellogoodbye
i will learn to lvoe again - kaci i think..
with you- jessica simpson
im with you- avril lavigne
no more- 3lw
all or nothing at all - otown??
everything im not- the veronicas
alicia keys songs
breathe- anna nalick
breathe- michelle branch
breathe- faith hill
going crazy- natalie something..
if everyone cared- nickelback
no one- aly and aj
chemicals react- aly and aj
i have tons moree so if you want more just rite back
crissx33
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Q: okay this boy trevor , who i thought was my friend used to tell me how pretty i was and stuff and how i was fun to talk to and idk but we were just friends. like nothing more that that .. and well we were talking sunday night about this kid matthew and i was like yeah matthews hot but he wouldnt remember me anyways cause i met him for like five seconds and hes like yeah matthew said that you didnt look bad in your pics but your ugly in person? ... but i dont think matthew even remembers me or knows my name but whatever .. i told him to ask him where he saw me on monday and he said he would .. but he hasnt talked to me since and i kept asking him if he was mad at me but he wouldnt say anything or he'd delete my comment ... so today i texted him on my friends phone and was like are you mad at melissa and hes like no i just dont have my phone whenever she texts me and stuff ... well a little bit ago his friend from my school IMs me and goes do you like trevor and i was like as a friend why and hes like cause he told me to tell you that the next time i see you at school i have to say he thinks your ugly and he never wants you to text him again ... and i just don't know what to do anymore .. i feel like im the ugliest person alive and no one likes me ... i just idk what to do , someone helpp me please [:
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hey not sure if this is much help. but it seems that trvor likes you. and he doesnt want to show it or hes scared of what will happen like if you go out you wont have this special bond. but i could be wrong. talk to that guy that told you that he was supposed to say your ugly. and if trevor ment it he would say it to your face. and it seems liek trevor may like you because first the dude asked if you like him.. then when you said no he said you were ugly. i wonder if the answer would have been different if you ahd said yes.
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Q: If I don't eat sweets or drink sodas will I really see a difference in my weight?
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it depends. i kno that if you ate like 2 liters of soda a day and then you stop you will see some total loss. like my teacher was obsessed with pepsi. she stopped and lost like 5 pounds a week. so it depends how much you drank. but you can lose the weight but if you didnt drink much at all then you wont see that great of a loss.
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Q: I'm 26 and my boyfriend is 29. He has a nine year old daughter. He and her mom got married when she was born but it was really unhappy, from what he says her mom never wanted him around. After five years they got a divorce and she moved to New Mexico, where her family is, and took their daughter. He didn't want his daughter to see any more fighting so he didn't fight for custody, he was afraid of the things his wife would do or say and couldn't afford a messy divorce anyway, but he did his best to keep in contact.
About a year ago he met me and we started dating, and we're totally in love, he's an amazing guy who does everything for me. And things are better between him and his ex wife... she's actually been letting him talk to his daugher, and last time he visited she was a lot nicer and let him be with his daughter the whole time.
The problem is that because he lives so far away from his daughter he can't visit very often. They're about 15 hours away in a tiny little town where he'd never get a job, but he could move to a city four hours away from them and maybe see her more. But he's not sure he wants that, especially since I love my job so much and we're talking about getting engaged. It's really up to me... if I tell him I'll follow him, we'll move. He sort of thinks sometimes that it's better for his daughter if he keeps his distance to avoid fighting with her mom, but my parents said if he wants to be a good dad he'll do whatever it takes to see her all the time.
I'm asking this question here because I bet some of you have divorced parents... did they do things to try and live by you? If not, how awful did that make your life? If you could ask your parent to give up their job and friends to come live by you and see you more instead of just calling on the phone, would you? If this is the guy for me, do we have to move, or does visiting 3-4 times a year make up for it? What if we just fly her out to spend summers with us? I really love my job here but I want to do the right thing for his little girl. Will we hurt her more by trying to see her, because it means fighting with her mom sometimes? Is my boyfriend a bad father for not doing EVERYTHING possible to get custody and be a dad? Please help, and don't be afraid to be honest, I need to hear the truth, I've been struggling with this problem a LOT.
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im nto sure if this is the answe ryou want to hear. but i think you should try to get closer wit hthe daughter. you dont have to move taht far away from where you are now. but every girl needs there father. but you dont alwasy have to move closer. my best friends mother lives in florida and we live about 12-14 hours away. and they are as clsoe as ever she calls her maybe 2-3 times a week and everytime theres a school vacation she goes down to her mom. then like in the summer she visits for a month and a half. she gets xmas presents and bday presents from her mother. you dont have to live right there just as long as she knows that he loves her. spend maybe some holidays with her or maybe like the day after christmas or something. and also since your getting engadged to her father make sure you have a good relationship with her. because alot of children ahte there stepmothers. so make sure you guys are really tight. make her feel safe around you. and you know what dont worry about her mother. she cant hurt you and if she does she will have to pay for it. just make sure that the girl knows that your htere for her and make her feel loved. hope i helped. if you need anymore advice just ask
--crissx33
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Q: I need a song to do a
hip hop dance with my
friends/ kind of funny
and sexy. Past year's
we've done Switch & Hotline.
Dont say some song thats on
the radio every day that I
could just think of myself. thanks
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well a funny thing could be a dance to peanut butter jelly time
i only say that because someone danced to that at my talent show and it was really good!
but liek they had more than one song. you can have stuff from justin timberlake.. like they did..kelly clarkson..usher...sean paul...
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Q: okay ... well im not sure who do i like right now .. because this one guy .. hes kinda older than me (lik` 3 years older than me). his name is ryan, and i dont know hes a super duper sweet guy .. he tries to visit me once and a while .. or all the tme, he can drive to see me.. and he always gives me hugs, he gives me compliments too .. he aims me and calls me once and a while. we flirt also, but the thing is .. im not sure if he likes me like that .. because guys over here usually does that to girls ... >.
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ok well look at the guys that like you. are any of them like not jerks? honestly if you like that guy ryan ask him if he likes you. just be like look i never thought oyu did but i talk bout you to my friends and there like ooh you like me. and im jsut curious if you do. like this way it wont be awkward later on. or you can be like heyy you said people my age you treat like little sisters. do u consider me a sister or more? something like that. honestly try to find one guy that you like out of all those guys. i dont get your situation entirely but im trying. lol. if your sister is bestfriends with his older brother it shouldnt ruin there relationship at all. i know from experience
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Q: i have been going out wiht my girlfriend for 2 months now, we both love each other very much and we both gave each other ther virginty... my brothers wife to be it complealy crazy about me, she wants us two to have sex soo badly... i feel the same for her, but i love my girlfriend with all of my heart and she loves my brother with all of her heart. and we both don't want to hurt them or cheat on them, but if we don't do something quickly, i'm afrid that we will hurt them both.....what should i do
p.s. we are only friends and i belive this to only be a phiscly attrtion
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ok no matter how you feel i suggest that you DONT do it. even if you dont get caught do you know how awkward it would be? and you cheated on your girlfriend! and shes getting married! shes gonna be related to you. its like having sex with your sister. eww. its gonna be really awkward afterwards. i really suggest you dont do it. and maybe you should tell your brother. because if she wants to do that with you who knows what she does to other guys.
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Q: 14/f. my 15th birthday is this weekend and i was planning on doing something with a few friends (like 4). i was planning on going sledding, and then maybe back to my house for a little and hang out. I live in ohio, and we just got a ton of snow. but, just incase, if sledding doesnt work out, (like it gets too cold or somehow the snow melts or something)what else could we do?
thanks!
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ok so basically you can do anything! depending on the group fo friends you are. normally ato our partys my group of friends we go crazy. we have a sleep over. and we do liek baking cakes cuz thats messy, we prank people, man hunt, american idol, talent shows, impressions of the most retarded teachers, truth or dare, invitin our crushes over or guys or anyone. danceing. making up dances. doing make up and hair. making us look retarded and taking pictures. yeah and i agree below.. dont roll in glitter. lmaoo
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Q: What age did you start wearing deodorent. just curiousity because my son is 10 and i never really have time to figure out if he needs it cause hes always at school then baseball and he comes home and runs right to the shower. Thanks in advance!
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heyyy im a girl so i dont know if its diff. than a boy but i started at the 6th grade. but since your son is more athletic and does sports maybe by 5th grade at the earliest. it doesnt hurt him if you start now.
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Q: So happy valentines day ! We didnt have school today beacuse of the masses amount on snow in NY. So yeah, I invited my boyfriend over... but beacuse of the snow theres no way he could get a ride. Tomorrow we'll be in school but after school he has a basketball game. =/ What can I do to make up the fact that I wont get to celebrate with him beacuse this weekend I have like 3 soccer tornaments and I have to go away. Its bugging me and I feel really bad. Any cute sugestions?
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what you can do is maybe like on the weekend or tomorrow leave stuff on the front steps or stick letters in the mailbox for him or like stick stuf fin his locker. so this way he can still find your cuteness and your love for him when your not there
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Q: Im 16 days late from my period. I had sex with this guy on january7th. He brouhgt me a pregnancy test and i took it. I know it says that even if the positive sign is the slightiest bit noticable then you are probly pregant. the line going like this - was completely pink then the bottom line of the positive sign was completely pink and the top part of the positive sign was light pink. And the line in the control window showed out how its supposed too.
Soo my question is does it sound like im pregnant and the test worked?
Thanks people
id appreciate zero lectures.
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i dont fully understand your answer. im not going to say if you are or not because icould be wrong. but i would suggest going to your doctor because you may be.
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Q: can someone please explain to me why guys are so obsessed with ?
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if you mean obsessed with sex. because most guys are. there going through puberty its normal.
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Q: okae. so i am a 13 year old female. and since i was 12 sometimes i would masturbate. but since i turned 13 i stopped. but idk if its normal for kids my age to do that. i use my fingers if that helps. but im so disgusted by myself sometimes. that i just break down crying. and i dont have a lock on my door my dad took it off for reasons [ family reasons ] so im afriad someone will walk in. ehrwsk - any ideas if its normal , and if it is where i could do it without anyone walking in cuz i have wanted to.
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dont be afraid of it. its completely normal. i do somtimes as well. as you get older you do more stuff so your more busy and so you dont do it as much. you have nothing to worry about. if you need a place to do this try the bathroom. like anytime. or if your taking a shower you can do it then. or if you took a shower in the morning you can say that you had a hard day at gym in school so you want to take another shower. but dont. just go in the bathroom and spend maybe half an hour masturbating. or however long it takes. and then maybe if oyu want longer you can "blow dry your hair" dont worry its completely normal! dont worry about it. and if you get caught say that if you got your period.. jsut be like i tried a tampon and its uncomfortable.
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Q: My friend just guessed who I like and I know who she likes and she keeps saying she might tell everyone I LIKE HIM!! And I said Well I will tell your crush right to his face that you like him, but only if you tell anyone that I like this boy. and she said Tell away then I dont care. She never said exactly if she will tell anyone I like this boy or not because she's avoiding the question! HELP. I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO AND I AM FREAKING OUT.
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ok calm down. first go to your frned and be like dude. why do u have to tell him? adn are you? and act all cool about it. if you keep being like omg shes gonna wanna do it even more. act liek you dont care. but still make sure she doesnt tell him. and then tell the guy she likes that she likes him if htats what she wants. sorry im not much help.
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Q: So everytime i like a guy, and they start to like me, i stop liking them like the second after, and i have no idea why, it makes me mad, and i feel horrible about the boy. I don't have commitment problems, and i know i'm actually a pretty good girlfriend, i just, don't know what to do. And its not because i'm immature or not ready, i've had serious ralationships before. Am i afraid of being hurt, ugh, i don't even know.
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ha. no you do not have a problem. thats completely normal. i do the same thing. it might be because he was never the right guy and you head sends off a message. or you finally got him and your like ehh. like you wanted a challenge or something.
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Gender: Female Member Since: November 25, 2006 Answers: 118 Last Update: August 19, 2007 Visitors: 5934
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