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should i be a virgin?
I was just wondering...it seems like everyone is having sex except for me. i mean its not like i want a baby or anything but im also not saving myself for marriage.i also havnet had like a serious boyfriend yet..o ya and im turning 17 soon. im i too old to have my first real relationship?
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It's not a competition silly :) Not everyone your age or for that matter people you know are having sex. Some of them could be lying just to sound cool or not be mocked by their peers.
You might be shocked at the number of people your age that are still virgins and in your class and your school. Usuallly the guys or those bragging or talking about having had sex have done squat. They are just saying they have so nobody makes fun of them or thinks they are not normal.
Believe me, it's the truth. Half the people are liars and the other half are telling the truth. Having sex or choosing to has nothing to do with age or shouldn't have. You can be any age to have sex for the first time.
It's about your maturity level and comfort doing it and not about age at all. It's about what is right for you and nobody else can tell you that. Also as for your first relationship not happening yet don't worry.
Many people start dating into their 20s or early 30s for the first time these days for many reasons and among some of them are having been bullied, not being in a position to meet others easily, or not at all interested in immature people either as teens or adults who happen to dominate their peer group.
You're fine and on the right track. Just remember that! Everything comes in stages and when you are ready. Don't let age play a factor into an important health and life decision.
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Love is something that comes at your own pace, not everyone elses. YOU decide when you want to have sex, and thats when your ready. Never rush into sex because your partner wants you to, because all your friends are doing it, or because it just seems like the right thing to do at the time. If you do, you'll regret it. You only get your first time once, so make it special.
Your also never to old to have a relationship. Your never to old for love. Some people get married in their 80's! Love happens when it is meant to, so don't worry, your time will come :)
Good luck!
-Abby
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ok honestly. i think you are too young to be having sex. you dont have to do what everyone else is doing. but its your life and its up to you. but dont jsut do it because you think you have to or with some random guy that will make you a slut. and its never too old to have your first real relationship. people mostly meet there wives/husbands after highschool or after college. my cousin is gorgeous and hasnt had a serious relationship yet and shes 20. so you have nothign to worry about.
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