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heyy i`m lindsay -- fifteen -- and currently loving the life that i have =) ask me anything and i`ll help you as best as i can!! if you wanna see more pictures of me, then check out my xanga -- www.xanga.com/hazelxeyes89
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A little less then two months ago I found out my cousin was raped and i've been having some trouble dealing with it.I'm really close to this cousin , she's liek my best friend.when i first found out i just started crying , i couldnt even look at anyone for a copuple days.That i had to cry myself to sleep.i used to live in a house with her in when i was younger,i lived on the bottom and she lived on the top.Whenever i think about her and her baby i cant help but cry and its so hard for me to look at her without crying.I cant help but think maybe if i hadnt moved away i would have been with her and i could have stopped the jerk who did this to her.I seem to be the only person in my family who thinks she can finish high school and still take care of her baby.i mean its her family thier supose to be supportive of her.She was raped when she was 14 and had her baby when she was 15.She was born about 3weeks ago.I still cant help but worry about her and feel like i could have done something and i should tell my parents to be more supportive of her and stop thinking so negative.I couldnt even talk to my best friend about this w/o feeling stupid so if anyone has any advice for me, please send it.
its great she has someone who cares so much about her. Just make sure your cousin knos that your there for her, and anytime she needs you your there. Especially with high school starting, if you live close to her then offer to babysit all the time, like for free and stuff. And remember its not your fault, you werent there when it happened so you couldnt do anything about it. Just be happy for her, that she has a new baby!
ok, well i cut. and i dont want to hear the "oh dont do that! blah blah blah" im really trying to stop and i dont need anyone to be pressuring me right now. but anyways..i usually cut on my shoulders so no one can see and so that i dont kill myself. but the other day i cut my wrist. and i mean, i wanted to, but i didnt want it to bleed...and i didnt even push hard. i just ran it slightly across the skin. and it just started bleeding. im fine and everything, but is that normal? like is the skin just really delicate there or something?
yess the skin there is VERY delicate, nd the vein there is like RIGHT underneath it.
At least your trying to stop...sorry for whatever is going on in your life that makes you want to do that. Hopefully soon you'll get over the urge to want to cut. but if you REALLY want to stop, and your trying really hard but cant & dont want to tell your parents, then just tell a friend, and most likely they will care about you enough to tell your parents so you dont have to.
does any one no how to get rid of acne and pimples FAST like about . in one day or two lol
Drink lots of water, don`t touch your face cuz the oil on your hands mixes with the stuff in your face and causes irritation. Also, when you go to bed, put toothpaste on it and it will dry it out. But make sure its not the gel-type toothpaste.
Ok i was wondering on some of the columns theres different kinds of layouts. Like your header is in the middle top or your header is on the left of the page. I wanted to know if u could change that or somethin.
column settings--approved public style--then click preview on each one to see what you like! Or, if you could find someone whose like really good at layouts and will make you one, you could always ask that as a question!
how do i kno what level i am on for the administrator thingy?How do I kno if im on level one still or up to level two??thanks a bunch!BYBY
go here...http://advicenators.com/mod.php?mode=faq and it should tell you!!
why did i just get really grossed out when my boyfriend told me he had to go take a shit? i mean i love him and we've been together for 15 months, shouldnt i already be over the "omg eww he goes poop" stage? lol
well..it is disgusting, and you have like every right to be grossed out. But, at least you kno hes not afraid to be open with you!!
Hey I was just wonderin how you get people to ask you questions for your own inbox. Do you need a specific number of questions answered? Thanks.
i think its just like whoever lkes your advice will start asking you questions. Or if you update a lot, you have a better chance to be the featured coloumnist, and lots of people ask the featured columnist questions. Also, if you update a LOT and really often, then you`ll be like towards the top of the columnists page, so people will probably click on it. You can also put it in your AIM profile.
ok my bff just stop bein friends with her old bff her old bff hates me she always puts me dowm and makes me wanna stab her she also calls my cell and says "ur ugly im pretty u need to die gay loser biotch" wat should i do??? i really need help or it will go on forever!!!!!!!!!!! plzz help.....thanx!!
omg...this is happening now with my friends. What happened was one(lets call her emily) of them called another one(lets call her jessica) and left a "disturbing voice mail" that was REALLY mean..and Jessica`s parents called the police, and had them trace the call back to emily`s cell phone. So Jessica`s parents ended up pressing charges, and now Emily might have to go to Juvy, or else do lots of community service, and lets just say that not many people like emily anymore, and the constant fighting between those two are now over. So you could do something like that..just tell your parents, and tell them you dont want them to tell everyone it was YOU who told, so ask them if they could say something like they happened to answer your cell fone or something, or if she leaves messages just say they saw it or whatever. it probably wont get her into as much trouble as my friend got in, because what she said was horrible...but yea it'll stop it!
Well I just got AIMutation and its great but i dont know how to fade the backgrounds from like pink to orange or something...so they look really cool but i dont know how HELP!
Lets say your making an away message. Start with a color you want, and type whatever you want in that color. Make sure you have like an IM box up, so that you can push enter,or else the color will change when you change the color. So after you type what you want in that color, press enter. & then when you change the color, just go like a few squares down the row, and pick a new one, and do the same thing. if your confused..IM me & i`ll help ya..hazelxeyes91 i`m on like 24/7!
how did you get your column like yellow and pink?
-Katie
umm i just went to column settings, and down where it says your column colors or whatever, i just played around with the colors...you can look at a color chart at www.coloryourprofyle.com..if you need anymore help or wanna kno what my colors are then just ask
i want to sleep with this guy, im a vrigin and im lil nerveous but i know im ready should i?
i rate good
well i think everybodys a little nervous their first time. Make sure you really kno the guy and trust him, and he doesnt have a bad reputation. if you REALLY think you`re ready, and kno everything there is to kno about protection and crap, then go ahead. just be careful..
heyy im 13 and i was wondering how can i start a good converstation with my boyfriend on the phone
ask him where hes gone vacationing too, and where he thinks would be the coolest place to vacation to. Ask him bout the craziest things he`s ever done. Most embarrassing moment, best thing thats ever happened to him, or just whats going on in your town.
okay, i am a naturally pale person but all this summer i have been tanning so i look normal with a tan now, but its not like reeaally insanely dark like i want, like when ppl see me i want them to be like omg your tan im so jealous! so anyways now that summer is almost over, i jus pretty much am gonna go to the tanning bed but does anyone have any tips to get like black with a tanning bed by at least the middle of october! thanx! and also, i have a hard time tanning my face, feet, and chest, any ideas on how i can get these to tan like my legs??!
I have extremly fair skin, and i hardly get tan at all, but what works pretty good for me is i spray like cooking spray on some places that dont tan easily. sounds crazy i kno, but it works. Also, you shouldnt dan taht much, getting THAT dark would just look ugly and give you wrinkles and you`ll look like your 40 when your 30 and you could get skin cancer etc.
Well, me and this guy have been messing around for the past 5 monthes and we went out the first two but then we broke up. Now, he's got a girlfriend and is still messing around with his other X. He tells me he loves me but its just better the way things are. The last time we went out, i broke up with him because i liked it when we were just messing around..but now, I really want to be with him. I just know i'll get hurt. I don't know what to do he knows i love him but he doesn't know i want to be with him for real. How do I talk to him??
if you really like this guy then just tell him!! But honestly i would be REALLY careful with him, becuz if hes cheating on his girlfriend with two other girls, chances are he`ll cheat on you. so just watch out
whenever i talk with my friends and stuff and they gossip about "ooh so and so got to this base"... im always kind of the one who is wondering... "what does that mean"... like im not SLOW in that department i just wanna know what each base means (no im not talking about baseball)... im not super young, ive heard just different explanations of the bases and i wanna know THE ULTIMATE BASE LINGO. if you catch my draft ;O)... thanks for whoever gives advice!
-signed, catchmeup
first base-kiss
second pase-"feeling"
third base-oral
fourth base-all the way
I am a 15 year old female, and i have been having a lot of sex in the past two years. Im not pregnant but i havent had my period in 2 months i have been throwing up in the morning. Im not sure i dont want to tell my mom but i don't know what to do PLEASE HELP!
have you ever used a pregnancy test? becuz i think maybe you might want to try it, that sure sounds like your pregnant. How do you kno for sure that you aren't? Just buy a pregnancy test, and if it comes out positive than youre gonna have to tell your mom! She'll probably be mad at first, but after a while she'll be more understanding! good luck
omg im sooo nervous for school to start!! im going to a school different from all my other friends in a new town! what can i do to calm myself down and maybe make this a more enjoyable expierence (school)?!
thanks!
aww my friend just moved too, and i kno shes making sure she gets involved, like shes doing swimming right now. Cuz those kinda things are a GREAT way to meet people. also just relax, im sure lots of people are gonna want to become your friend. At my school, whenever a new kid comes every group wants them to hang out with their group lol. So just chill out and dont freak out about it! Cuz then youll end up thinking about it too much when school starts and itll get you nervous and you wont talk to anybody and meet people as fast.
I jus got signed with an agent for my voice!! and in 3 weeks im supposed to go to L.A. to record my first cd!! im so excited...but im really nervous and sad ill have to leave my friends in my freshman year. i know i should take the job considering ill be BiG and i really wanna see my name in lights but im so scared ill lose my friends while im gone and all the new friends ill make (celebs maybe :)) will not turn out to be real and ill be all alone! what to do!? HELP!
congratulations!! well your true friends should ALWAYS be there, and they most likely will. Truth is when you come back to visit and your like all famous EVERYONES gonna want to be your friend. hey btw are your gonan be like singing in a group or in a band or by yourself and what kinda music? and whats your nameee so i can watch for you lol
Well, my boyfriend of 10 months just broke up w/ me and I'm kinda wondering wut he means of wut he told me. He said "I think we should see other people," but then he said later how he's not breaking up w/ me bcuz of another girl. Then I asked him why he broke up w/ me abuncha times, and everytime he said he didn't know why. Then he said, "I think I just need sum time alone," so that sounded like maybe there's still hope left. Does any1 know wut he meant when he said all of this? Also, wut should I do? Ando do u think there is any hope 4 us??
Well maybe he really does just need time alone, i mean with school starting again and all, and how most guys all want just actionmaybe he wants to think about some stuff, and just be single and not have to worry about it for a while. As long as there`s not another girl involved, and he doesnt kno why he broke up with you other than he needs time alone, then there`s probably still some hope. Just give him some time and be patient. This kinda thing sucksss im sorry..i kno how yer feeling!
i like this guy alot and hes my best friend well i got someone to give me advice and i think it will help i mean i dont know if he likes me but he said if we go out then it will ruin our relationship and i dont think that cause all most every best friend hes nad he went out with before
well then tell him that! And ask him if he can just give it a chance, to see what its like for a while and if he doesnt like it then you guys can go back to just being friends. Make sure to let him kno you guys will take it nice and slow so that he doesnt start feeling uncomfortable