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names alexandra, alex whatever you wanna call me lol. my birthdays in march. Sophmore in high school. 2008 was a horrible year for me, I went through a lot. if you ask me anything ill answer as much as I can. I won't criticize you like others, it bothers me when people do that. Oh and I'll get a new picture soon, that ones like over a year old.
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advice
Im 13.
i do lke 100 crunches in themorning
100 crunches at night.
i dont have such a BIG belly
its jus kinda big,not rlly though but i want it flat
first question is.
what results will i see?
and if i run while doing crunches will my stomache go flaT?
and ofcourse i kno about the eating rite thing
thanks in advance.. :]
crunches dont work your whole stomach, i would try circular situps or bicycle situps, which you can see how to do them by typing it into google
So the other dayyy like me and my boii had analllll. OH MY GOD. I pooped a little bit. he has a realllyy big dick. like BIG. is this normal? he kinda just forced it in there. kthx. no really though are you supposed to shit after anal sex? ... and stain the bed
Yes its normal, but whether it happens or not depends onthe person
I'm going out with a cute girl but when i asked if she realy loved me she said kind of and I feel like she is only going out with me because she likes to mess with peoples heads or she feels bad when I'm alone because I'm cubby and people make fun of me so I think it might be my weight
I'm sure she isnt doing that because she wants to mess with you, chances are she just isnt ready to say I love you back. About the being chubby thing if she was embrassed or anything, she wouldnt of said yes. you shouldn't be worried, seriously if you still feel the same way, talk to her about it, she will tell you whats up. if you need anything else, you can ask & good luck (:
how do you call back a blocked number
you can't , I mean if you really want to know who it is, you can try contacting your cell provider, but even then I'm not sure if they can find out
10th grade girl.
you know when a guy looks at you to i guess check you out? well guys do that like look at me and then i meet eye contact with them and they keep on looking. why dont they look away? and why would they make it so obvious.
they want to make it obvious that they're interested in you, so you make the first move (most likely) but no even hooking up wise maybe just talking
okay, so dont know this guy at all, but i have seen his myspace and stuff alot since some of my friends are like best friends with him. and i went to go see my friends band preform, and hes in it. so i asked to be friends with him on myspace, and commented him and said ," you guys did really well last night, i dont think i got a chance to meet you last night, im ashley" and he commented back and said, "hey thanks! im jake btw since we didnt get to meet =]"
and so i said, 'nice to meet you' and he said back, 'nice to meet you too =]"
and i saw these SMILEY FACES in his comments and it kinda made me think he ment it in a flirty way? is that true or not?!?! what does it mean? if your a guy let me know if you add smiley faces to be flirty or what? and if your a chick, let me know what you think? cuz i might be freaking out since i thought he was adorable to begin with hhahha,.
he's probaly flirting, not sure completely though
try and see the comments he leaves other girls
and if they have smileys then youll know whats up
ahaaha, good luck!!
how do you make your hair curly or wavy without using a hair straightener or curler?? because i have stick straight hair and i want to do something with it but i dont want to fry it and whenver i use a curling iron it doesnt work and my hair doesnt curl anyway with it...
You can scrunch it or put a few French braids in after you take a shower and when your hair dries take them out
so a few days ago i gave my boyfriend a handjob...we were making out on the couch and he wasn't expecting it cause we've never done it before but i went down his pants and started playing with it but we never stopped making out..is this the right way to do it?
my second question is, he cam after like 30 seconds...i stopped after that...are you suppose to keep going? or does it hurt them to? i felt that it was really short and i kinda wanted to do more but i didn't know.
and any advice overall or personal experiences on this is appreciated :] thank you
yes you could make out, It doesnt matter, whatever you two are comfortable with. you dont need to stop after he cums, but if he isn't hard anymore I would stop, and get him hard again
these little pink dots appear on my body like everywhere. This summer I had the stomach flu(just diarreaha and upset stomach) and like two days or so before it went away, these little pink dots appeared everywhere on my body from like chest down to my legs, covered everywhere. And the went away a day after.
But recently I've gotten them again, only mostly on my legs. And ive noticed that when i dont feel well or im sick, i get these dots. Like last week i didnt go to school on wednesday bc i felt dizzy, headache, stomachahe, throwing up feeling, and i got them on my legs. And i dont know if these little pink dots appear according to when i dont feel well or even my emotions, bc ive been a little depressed a little this week and i have them on my legs again. I dont really know if its caused from emtion/stress? or sickness? idk..can any one maybe tell why this is happening? I also notice that my period is late this month, but i can feel pains and some cramps like everyday and my period still hasn't come yet..and its worrying me a little. my period was supposed to come around Nov. 25th, and im not sexually active so tht wouldnt effect anything. someone help me out here! haha thanks.
15/f/usa
you should tell parent, guardian, whoever so you can see a doctor. But in the meantime you can lookaround webmd.com
I actually didn't want to put any of this up here at first. I thought I could handle it, I thought things would get better. I thought I didn't need help. But now I see I do because I'm the only one seeing this and it's hurting me so bad watching. This is a very long story and I appologize but I will try to make it as short as possible, so bear with me:
My brother, sixteen year old, has a screwed up life. About 7 months ago, he started dating this girl. None of us, the family, really knew her at first. He just talked about her a lot and she came over once or twice, but even then they just went back to his room and didn't pay any attention to us. Back then, he still had a little bit of life in him. He was getting better little by little until the manipulating started. She actually began talking to the family. She'd come in and say "hi" and give me and my two younger sisters a hug. Of course, my dad had her figured out from day one. He's in this with me, but he doesn't have as much insight because in addition to being my brother's friend, he's also his dad. And with that position comes authority, something my brother tends to stray away from. Anyways, he knew what a manipulative person she was because we could see what she was doing to him. She'd begun calling our dad "dad" and he decided to stop responding so it wouldn't feed her mannipulative needs. He'd just smile and nod. Eventually, she figured him out. So, she'd come in the room and act the usual hyper-ey "hey!"'s and then completely ignore my dad. Of course, he didn't care. So this was the first indicator of how manipulative of a person this girl was. She completely altered my brother's life forever. Next, she got my brother to get her a job at the place he worked. Of course, my brother did so and we thought that having to work with this annoying person 24/7 might show him the light. But no, he continued on even getting closer to her. Then the secrets started coming out. I, being one of his best friends, was told everything. How her father supposedly raped her, how her step mom was "clinically insane". I know her parents were screwed up because she was too, but I didn't know if all of this was true or not. One of this girl's neighbors had told me she was a pathological liar. I know, I know, "how would they know?". They wouldn't. I didn't believe them either. I just saw her as an incredibly manipulative person.
Well, like I said, a month ago, when my brother had 3 weeks left of probation, they packed up some stuff and ran away in his car. Of course, when I heard this, I couldn't help but to cry and look for information. When my dad found no clues in his room, I took a look. I turned his room over and found a few phone numbers. I also found a password to something, but I didn't know what. I gave it to my dad and he tried this girl's email account. Wrong. Then he tried my brother's email account. Wrong again. In a last attempt, he tried their myspaces and what do you know, it's this girl's myspace password. For some reason it was on a piece of paper in my brother's room. Well, my dad and I read all of her recent messages and there was one of them that caught my eye. It was to another guy. She said things like "Why did you break up with me?" and "I still love you!". This message was unread when we read them so we came to the conclusion that she was cheating on my brother, the person she had manipulated enough to love her. By this point, I abbsolutely hated her. I thought when she and him came back, the first thing I would do was to scratch her eyes out. I still hate her. And with good reason. She does more.
It wasn't really a secret that my brother and her "messed around". Almost everyone knew, even my dad who had told him not to. Well, after a while, this girl finally decided she was pregnant. I say she decided because I completely doubt that she was in the first place. Why? If anyone of you ladies has ever had a miscarriage, you know how heart breaking it is. You just lost your child, the one you spent about 9 months living for, living with. The one you were looking forward to. I appologize if this brings back unfriendly memories to any of you, but it has a purpose. This girl, as manipulative as she is, had one. She claimed she fell and it killed the baby. Now, that's not a reason to doubt the pregnancy other than the fact that it must have been a pretty hard fall that left no bruises. However, here she was, a week later, perfectly happy and wanting to try again. She hadn't even grieved the baby's death. My mother had a miscarriage, and she didn't have another baby for 2 years afterwards. This little stunt planted the idea of "fatherhood" in my brother's head and a month after the so-called "miscarriage" she was pregnant. For real this time. How do I know this? Because they went to the doctor's together. In Wyoming. Which is where they ran away to. He called 2 weeks after he had been gone to tell us she was pregnant and that they were fine. He had a strange definition of the word "fine".
He came back alone on Sunday. I was the only one there and I was hoping that he would have changed. Everyone said he would have changed, that this would make him grow up and open his eyes. Wrong. His eyes were still closed. He was completely the same as when he left. Probably worse. He was still with this girl, but he decided it would be better to come home and face his consequences and leave her in wyoming where she was "safe". He told me he was glad he "saved her life". I told him he screwed up his own. Then he says something that proved to me he hadn't changed. He said "not anymore than it was". I felt like slapping him. He had a home, a loving family, 2 fabulous parents, a million friends, and a FUTURE. He had everything and he was willing to throw it all away because of this girl. He can't see how she's changed him. I talked to him just now over myspace, and had a major melt down. I sent an extremely long message to him and we talked. I told him how many people cared about him, how many people he'd hurt. How amazingly manipulative this girl was. At this point, I didn't care if he got mad at me or not, as long as I told him the truth about everything. In almost every reply he said "I really don't care anymore". He told me she wasn't the manipulator, he was. He said he manipulated her and he loved her, which I don't know how you could manipulate the person you love. He said it's complicated and hard to explain. Then he had to go. I just can't take this anymore. When he was gone, I used to just randomly call his cell phone, just to see if he would pick up. Of course, he left his cell at home. The first time I called it, my dad picked up after the first ring and he was already crying. Of course, I was too and we cried on the phone, not saying anything. It just hurts so bad to see that my brother has completely given up on living. His only strand of hope seems to be this girl and their baby. He doesn't care about anything. And it's pushing me into a deep depression watching. But I can't walk away now. I keep feeling like I can help him, but everytime I try he does something stupid and throws himself farther back into the system. I don't know what to do anymore. It's like he can't see anything. I feel like he knows he's dying so he's trying to hold onto everyone he was already close to, but not trying to make it all better. He doesn't smile any more. He doesn't laugh. He doesn't respond. He just....dies. And I don't know what to do anymore. Please help me out. I appologize for the length, but every answer is accepted and will be rated. Thank you for taking the time to read.
Something simular happened to my family too, but we dont talk to him... But hopefully that won't happen to you. But I think you are stressing out (even though you have a huge right to) over something you have no control over or will. explaining and talking to your brother too probably isn't going to help, its almost like his girlfriend brainwashed him. sorry that I really can't help but really there is nothing to do, just hope that your brother will understand what is going on sooner rather than later. good luck!
Ugh! SO i recently started like getting facial hair.
& i HATE it.
i feel so ugly :(
I know you can wax it and bleach and stuff,
but like does any one know how to like stop it from growing as fast or as much?
Thanks
there isn't a way to stop it, its like your leg hair.
but remember when you try to get rid of it
what the side effects will be, because it might
look worse than before, good luck! (:
what are some things i can do to make my guy hard without acting like a slut...we make out alot and everything but what gets a guy hard? thanks
dirty talking him, sitting on his lap or teasing him. all guys like different things, you just have to try whatever is comfortable for you and see (or feel lol) what his reaction is to different things
whereeee can i get a stuffed giraffe?! hah. i have noo idea where to get one. thanks :)
there is also walgreens target hallmark places like that have 'webkinz' I'm not sure how big you want the giraffe but hope I helped
so guys at my school..not trying to sound a certain way...a lot of the guys that like me talk to me all the time and follow me and weird stuff and if i even say hi to them once they automatically think i like them and were talking..which is totally not the case AT ALL! lol but idk what to do i mean i dont want to be mean but i just want to be friends with them!
well you could be flirting or leading them on in a way, without you knowing it. without being mean one of the things you could do is bring up someone you like, so they get the hint, good luck!
Ok, so i'm a freshman in high school.
I like this guy, my age, who has a lot of girl friends- Friends that are girls. he just has a flirty personality but he is not purposely flirty at all. At all.
Anyway, how do you get a guy that has a lot of girl friends and is flirty to notice you? I mean, i already flirt and everything.
Er... i kind of forgot to mention that he has a girlfriend- but they are practically breaking up.
okay so that situation is hard. you don't want to flirt too much to make him think you just want to get with him but then not get noticed. what I would do is ask him to hang out and flirt that way his attention is on you, completely. bring up a bunch of different subjects so he finds it interesting to talk to you. once he is comfortable enough to tell you everything you ask, you have him (: teasing him and being sort of mysterious will also leave him wanting more and most guys will be more attracted to that. if you guys both have a myspace comment his pictures, he has to know you are interested.
I hope I helped, good luck!
if you need anything else just message
My carrier is ATT and I was wondering if anyone knows if ATT is selling the LG VU at a sale price?
I would just go on the website or call AT&T because usually it depends on what kind of plan you have and all that fun stuff
my boyfriend of seven months today has been hanging with this guy that so happends makes me want to barf i hate him last year he played me like a real player and did to all my friends. i hateee himm not to mention hes a bad kid drugs im guessing and GIRLS. so my boyfriend is hanging with him and already i notice a difference from him and i get mad everyday and the trust thing is weakeining and it kills me i want to tell him to stop hanging out with him and my friends said they understand my delmea but when i ask him why was here there at that time he wont tell me he goes cuz or something that makes me want to fucking punch him so im going to tell him how i feel about it and that if hes going to make me feel this way everytime then well im gone sorry i dont know if im sounding selfish or what i just dont know what to do and I REFUSE to cry over it im holding back as tight as i can but you know what there will be a time where i cant take it. someone help me and quick its like 4 now and hell be at my house so i can talk to him in a couple of hours if not then well know why he didnt come over *the kid i hate****
you arent being selfish... There is a good reason that you don't like him and you just need to explain it to your boyfriend and pretty much tell him what you said on here but more detailed he should understand and hear you out on it. Good luck (:
Is watching a fight in a public place illegal? Such as some guys fighting at the bowling alley and then getting caught by the police, would the bystanders get in trouble? Many thanks if you answer.
well, where I live you CAN get into trouble. They say that instead of watching you should be trying to stop it, in whatever way. But at a place like school I haven't heard of anyone watching getting into trouble for it
I am a girl and i really want to get an orgasm im 16 i dont want to finger myself like what are some good ways it mastubate
besides the obvious having a guy do it, you can get a dildo or any other toys,
Hey guys! 15/F
(really long, im sorry brace yourself)
Okay, so i recently broke up with my boyfriend like 2 days ago. Let's call him tom. So tom and i were going out for a littleen the sweet obs over ten months. He was/is so obsessed with me! Like, not even the sweet obsessed, where he shows it a little. If any of you saw just friends, you know the wall covered with pictures? Let's just say thats him. He was OBSESSED. But, he tried way to hard to impress me. SO he lied alot, and it was so obvious he was doing it. SO i confronted him about it a few times. He was like "sure no problem". SO he did it a few times after that, and i really started to get mad. He was talking about us getting married, and our kids and where we would live!! He was way too clingy, and only wanted me for the sake of having a girlfriend, and all the things having a girlfriend comes with. I knew it too, but i assumed i was just being stupid. BUt it kept happening, and he only wants me to go over his house. He hated coming to my house, and i knew it. He has a lot of money, and a huge house and i guess he thought we could be alone more. But, my house isnt small, but its not huge like his and i have alot of family. I love them. He made fat jokes about my dad all the time. It hurt my feelings, cause thats my dad. So I've given him alot of warnings, and this was breaking my heart cause i really cared about him. But after a while, i just had no emotion anymore he was doing it so much. I just didnt like him anymore, and i really couldnt help getting aggravated by the little things he did. He would call me when his friends were over and not even talk to me, he would alugh about something with them, and then pick up the phone and be like "sorry" and then do it again. I would do this thing where i would hang up and see how long it would take him to realize. The longest was 10 minutes. So, i started to be very distant, and i wouldnt talk much on the phone, i became very quiet. Now, i am a huge twilight fan, and i always told him about it, and he would get so mad. But he would tell me about these stupid video games he played. I dont care, but it aggravated me he wouldnt let me talk about twilight. So the movie came out on friday, and he came with me to see it. And the whole time i was enthralled with it, i loved it. SO, we went back to my house, and we hung out and watched videos on youtube and had dinner and stuff. Now, i hope you remember my house isnt big. So after dinner, i brought him in my room. The TV was on low, and the door was wide open. I told him i just wanted to be friends. He flipped out on me. He kept saying "Kiss me. Kiss me Emily. NOW" He forced my head to collide with his. "I need to know you love me" he kept saying while he was trying to force my head to his. I kept struggling and saying "stop tom!" and he wouldnt let me go. He stopped, and i said i was sorry it had to end this way. He started crying and telling me how i mean everything to him, blabla. He asked me if he could please make out with me again. (Proof he only wanted a girlfriend for the pleasure). I said no, and he ased me if he could still put his arm around me and hold my hand. I said no again. Then i told him i still loved him, but no more then a friend. I told him there were different typed of love. I said this is the end of a long relationship, but a beautiful and whole friendship is blooming underneath. He didnt agree, and he kept blaming things on himself, and i told him this was for me, and that i needed to do some soul searching. So then i changed the sunbject, and we watched funny youtube videos. I between 2 days, he kept calling me and trying to make me feel guilty. Today was the worst though. He told me his mother was furious with me. He told me his whole family hated me. He said i should think about the mistakes i make before i make them. I kept telling him this was not a mistake, but he didnt listen. I told him if he really loves me he would be happy for me. He is so imposible. He tried to make me feel guilty! He kept telling him, i was his water, withougt me he couldn't live. He kept telling me things like that... I know he was trying to make me feel guilty. So i said maybe we shouldnt talk until your ready to be mature about this and handle being friends. He kept saying he neeeded to talk to me everyday. Which i will the first wek or so, but this is a break up and i did it because i needed space from him. The relationship was suffocating me. His status on aim today was "If any ladies want me, im single now"
I just need ot know if i did the right thing, and any other opinions would help too...
My family supports me all the way, and my friends are being amazing. But i guess i just need help from starngers sometimes haha.
So, what do you think?
I think that you made the complete right decision. Of course he is going to make you feel bad, but no matter what don't fall for it. Now is the time where you can have fun with other guys. He seems like a person that is completly self obsessed, (no offense) but other than that you seem like you have everything under control so good luck (: and don't doubt yourself, youre making the right decisions