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Sorry for the topic, I didn't know what to put.


Anyway, Say someone ate a meal then puked up a mouthful of food. However, They didn't stick there finger down thier throat.. and they did it occassionally. Would you say that person had a problem? (link)
If they're purposely making themselves throwup some other way than sticking their finger down their throat then yes it is a problem. If their body is doing it by itself, it's probably still a problem, because it means there's something wrong with the body or the food that's being eaten.


I'm having a party this saturday and I have some music downloaded for it already. But I was wondering if someone can give me some more ideas for good party music? Thanks! :)

Oh, I'm a 16/F (link)
Party music is a little hard to decide on depending on what type of party it is. If it's not just a dance party, try to throw in some music from every genre so everyone will hear at least one song they like. Try throwing in some old hits like "YMCA," "Cha Cha Slide," "Booty Call," and "Jump Around." Some of these are cheesy but they're almost guarantedd to get people up and moving. Along with that throw in some new hits like "Forever" by Chris Brown, "When I Grow Up" by the Pussycat Dolls, and "Swing" by Savage. Hope this helped, if you actually want a list of good party songs message me =)


okay, i know what it is, but what does S & M actually stand for? x (link)
Sadomasochism.
Masochism is getting pleasure from pain.
Sado is sexual.
Hope that helped =)


What should i do i am getting braces and what should i use to make the pain go away after please let me know. and what pattern on my rubberbands should i get???? (link)
Well you don't really get to pick the pattern on your braces, normally the orthodontist does different things depending on how your teeth need to be tightened. YOu can pick colors however, and most dentists will let you pick two different ones if you want. For picking that, choose your favorite color, or your school/favorite sports team's colors, or just colors you like, but make sure you won't mind if they clash with an outfit you're wearing. If you're going to an important event like a wedding or dance you may want to color coordinate. As for making the pain go away after you get them, you probably won't be able to eat solid food for the first couple days, but it varies depending on the person. Ask your parents to get some numbing stuff. There's different liquids you can buy that you can put on your gums and teeth that will help the pain, but I'm not sure what they're called. Besides that just stick with soft foods the first few days. Don't worry too much about the pain, just remember when they come off you will have great teeth! Hope I helped =)


Where can i find some secondhand serenade merchandise other than the 1s on the myspace profile? (link)
Secondhand Serenade merchandise is kind of difficult to find because they aren't well known yet. As they get more radio play more merchandise will start showing up in different stores, most likely music stores and Hot Topic. Below is one link for a website that sells Secondhand Serenade clothes and other stuff. Also try a search on Ebay, you will prob be able to find some stuff. Good luck =)

http://bandmerch.resultspage.com/search?SESSID=950932d3f785633f4d803ad5a188d441&w=secondhand+serenade



well i was just wondering how like everyone says that if you don't fight or have alot of bad times then its not a real relationship? but like i really like this guy, we're not technically dating but we both really like each other and i think he's gonna ask me out soon the next time we hang out, but we don't fight at all and we have so much fun together but we've never been in a fight yet. so my question is, is that normal? does it mean our relationship won't last because its not real? i kinda want a fight to come though because i want to see if he will still stay with me but i dont wanna like pick a fight, what should i do? thankss
16/f (link)
I don't agree with the statement that if you don't argue or fight you don't have a real; relationship. If you get along well that's a GOOD thing, not a bad thing. However, if it's because you guys agree on everything, that could become a problem later on. Make sure you still have your own opinions, because it's okay to disagree on things. If you go out most likely you will get into an argument eventually, but probably not for awhile. It's fairly normal not to argue in the first few onths of meeting someone or being friends with someone, and sometimes even in the first few months of actually being in a relationship. I think your relationship could last just fine. =)


13/f


a while ago i bought an element skateboard in florida on vacation.

but i just cant seem to get the hang of turning.

i can go straight and everything.
but i am having trouble getting up the curbs, and all the basics

does anyone have any pointers (link)
Well I am a skater so I will try to explain as best as I can and help you. Turning is a little difficult to learn, because it's about shifting your weight. Depending on how you skate you need to shift your weight different ways. If you skate with your left foot on the front of the board, you would lean back with your body to turn left, and forward to turn right. It's the opposite way if you skate with your right foot on the front of the board. If your board is really hard to turn on, you can loosen up the trucks on your board. Tis is kind of complicated to explain, so it's best if you ask someone to do it for you, l;ike a friend who skates. This will make the board looser and easier to shift from side to side to turn. When you want to stop, you have to press your back foot down on the back of the board without shifting your weight from the front foot. If you shift your weight you will most likely fly off the back of the board. As for getting up curbs and doing tricks etc, they are really hard to explain in writing. It's best if you can find someone who knows how to skate that is willing to help you because seeing it visually and having it explained is the best and easiest way to learn. Don't be shy about asking for help either. Most skaters will simply appreciate that you want to learn to skate, and won't make fun of you because you aren't great yet. They all started in the same place, and I'm sure they would be more than happy to help. If you don't want to do this or don't know any skaters, try searching videos on youtube. Good luck!


So I was thing about taking pole dancing classes and etc.

I've always wanted to just dance at a strip bar once, but truthfully I've never even been to one. So what actually happens over ther and how much do they reguallry make?

Please don't send me links or tell me not to strip etc. I just want to know thanks. (link)
It depends on the strip club you go to, they are all different. The one I work at is probably pretty standard. There's a stage with poles where girls can either dance on the poles, or just strip on the stage. Lap dances are common, and personal strip teases. There are also girls that work at the bar and serve drinks, dressed in lingerie or interesting "outfits." The amount of money made depends. Normally strippers get paid minimum wage, and tips. Average amount is $2-$400 a night.


i don't really know what to say for my candles. and who to dedicate them too... its a really hard decision and i dont want anyone to get upset! what should i do? (link)
This is always a hard decision to make. You could choose your best friends and closest family members if you want to do indivuduals. Hopefully everyone else at the party will uderstand that you only have so many. Or, you could give them to groups. For example youcould give one to your best friends, one to your sports team, one to close family memebers, one to cousins etc... That way not evryone gets a candle but they all get a candle dedicated to them. As for what to say, ust say something that comes from the heart. There's no reason to be nervous because everyone there loves you and will support you, and a great profound speech won't be expected anyways. So say what you want to and don't worry about how it comes out. Most importantly have fun. This is all about you =)


hi i just got a haircut today and the guy hit my eyebrow with the trimmer..and one half is pretty much gone.
will that grow back in?
and how long will it take? (link)
Yes, it most likely will grow back. If it does, it should take about three weeks. Until then you can try using eyebrow pencil if you're a girl, if you're a guy then it's no big deal. If you're embarassed about it you can always say it was a dare or something =)


Hi um...
My friend.. Bill.. his dad and his dads girlfriend just broke up and Bill's wicked upset. His family has like no money and his real parents are divorced. I know its really none of my business but I wanna cheer him up. I don't really see him but we can IM and e-mail. What should I do? Anything will help. Thanks. (link)
Well... it's difficult when you can't see each other to do things. Let him know you are there for him if he wants or eneds to talk. Let him know your phone is always on, you're always checking your e-mail etc... so he knows you are there for him. You could send him a nice card in the mail to cheer him up, or a care package with his favorite cookies, chips, and candy, or other things he would like. Both would be a nice surprise. Whatever you do make sure he knows you care and are there for him, that's what is most important.


wellll, i asked my best friend to sleep over sunday night righT? so she askefd her dad. he ALWAYS says yes. but he said no..and then told her he heard bad stuff about me. so today seh asked him if she could sleep voer and he said he heard i smoked weed. which i dont. ebnver ever ever ever tried it and never will. she kept telling him it wasnt true and he doesnt believee her at all. he wont believe anything. what do i do.?! i basically cant hang out with her noww bc of it,. helppp me (link)
Obviously her father is pretty upset about what he has heard. Ask your friend to find out who he ehard this stuff from, that way at least you can confront the person if possible. I'm not sure how long he has had this information, but if he just heard these things recently he's probably feeling a "heat of the moment" type reaction to what he has heard. If your friend's mother is around and available to talk to, try asking her if your friend can sleep over. Or, you could try sleeping over at your friend's house. That way her father will feel more cmfortable knowing his daughter won't be doing anything illegal. It might be a good idea to talk to her dad and explain that you don't do drugs and aren't planning on starting ever. Hopefully he will listen and see that you are telling the truth. If none of this works just give him some space. Hopefully in tie he will realize that he can trust his daughter and you, and will let you hang out again.


does cigarettes/weed calm your nerves? (link)
Cigarettes can be calming, but they can also make you very jittery. Weed is very calming, and very relaxing. Studies show that it is very helpful for people with anxiety disorders.


Im having a bbq this sunday after fourth of july and all. i live in nevada. its hott here now in the summer.

-what typea food should we have
-what type of drinks
-alcohol well beer im not getting ppl drunk lol
-what typea things to do
-and the biggest haha what should i wear. i already have some shorts from aeropostle (pink) color im not to big on wearing tank tops or tube tops so what type of top? (link)
For food obviously burgers and hot dogs are a classic, make sure you have some veggie burgers too if you have friends who are vegetarian. Veggie and fruit trays are always good, but make sure you balance all the healthy food out with some junk. Have a lot of different types of chips, you could also have a cheese and cracker plate. Make sure whatever food you put out won't melt.

For beverages make sure you have lots of water since it's going to be hot, have soda and juice as well, and lemonade is always a good idea. If you don't want to do alcoholic beverages you can do virgin mixed drinks like pina coladas and strawberry daquiris, these are a great way to stay cool.

As for things to do, you didn't really give me an idea of the age group, but I will try to throw out some good ideas. Since it's hot out, anything with water is a good idea, like water balloon fights, sprinklers, a slip n' slide, or a water gun fight. Another really fun idea is a shaving cream fight. It sounds dumb, but if you put something really slippery on the ground and have everybody attacking each other with shaving cream it's a really good time, and the pics you can get are great. A scavenger hunt could be a fun way to give out prizes/party favors. Truth or Dare and Spin the Bottle are always classics. If you have space where you're holding the party you could set up a badminton/volleyball net.

For what type of top you want to wear, it sounds like your only sensible option is a t-shirt. I would stay away from black because it attracts heat, but white, and any other color would be fine. Just pick something you think you look good in, and make sure it's comfortable. You don't want to have to worry about what you're wearing while trying to host a bbq.

I hope this helped. Have fun!


well it my bf bday in like 5 days and i still dont have a present i have no idea what to get ?
any ideas??

fav coulour -- black and red
very punk
he's into punk music
skateboarding
drumming
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If you know what type of drumsticks he uses you could always buy him a few sets, because they break a lot and drummers always need extra sticks. You could buy him a new skateboard deck, trucks, or wheels for his board. If he doesn't already have one, you could buy him a subscription to a skate magazine. (Transworld Skate and Thrasher are both good.) If you know what size shirt he is you could buy him a t-shirt with one of his favorite bands, or you could buy him a cd by a band he likes if you know he doesn't already have it. If he likes videogames you could get him one of those, I don't know if you have any idea of what type he likes, but skating games are always a good bet, like Tony Hawk. You could always buy him some bandanas or wristbands in his favorite colors, cuz skaters use those a lot. It's hard to offer gift suggestions witout knowing him, but I hope some of thiese ideas help. No matter what, he will appreciate that you tried.


My favorite movies at the moment are The Village, No Country for Old Men, Sunshine, The Departed, and Collateral. Basically, I like quality.


What are some movies that are similar to these that I would enjoy? Thanks. (link)
It sounds like you enjoy movies by M. Night Shyamalan, so I would recommend Lady in the Water, Signs, and the Sixth Sense. Judging by The Village, I'm guessing you like movies that are suspensful and have twists and surprise endings, so I would also suggest Taking Lives. If you want more suggestions let me know.


Do you have to be a certain age, such as 18, to purchase diet pills? (link)
It depends on the state laws and each individual store's rules, but most likely you do. Most prescription drugs, whether over or under the counter these days require proof of age for purchase because of kids abusing them.


ive recently graduated and my boyfriend and i are going away to different colleges. I know i know, most people say that high school relationships usually dont last once people go the opposite ways after graduation but we are pretty faithful and sure that we will make it through this. So, i wanted to get him like a bag of things he can take with him to college so he will have stuff to remember me and feel less homesick because he is practically going across the country. If you are a guy what would you want from your girlfriend to think about her? and if your a girl what you want to give your boyfriend? (link)
There are a lot of things you could put together for a going away gift, some that will remind him of you and some things he will just need. You could put a photo album together of pictures of the two of you. A mix cd is great if he likes music, you could put songs that have a meaning to both of you, or songs that make you think of him. You could put a goodie bag of his favorite cookies and baked goods for the first week he's gone. Lots of packaged foods that would last for awhile are good, like his favorite chips and cereal. It's hard to give a lot of suggestions without knowing you and him and what is significant to you both, but just try to come up with things that you know he will like and appreciate, and things that you know will remind him of you. He will appreciate the thought no matter what. Good luck.


i accidentally got a little red sharpie on my bathing suit, i really dont know how hahha. but how would i go about getting rid of this? the bathing suit is striped (blue, green, and white) and the sharpie is on the white. thanks! (link)
You could try using bleach to spot treat just the white, but you have to be really careful to make sure you don't get the bleach on any of the colored parts of the suit. Good luck!

Using bleach won't make the white splotchy, unless it is an off white. Tide to Go pens have the same effect.


I'm 15 going on 16 in a couple of months. I haven't grown since 6th grade pretty much. I'm about 5 feet and weigh something like 100 pounds. I have growing pains in my legs time to time but I have never grown. Any suggestions? (link)
It could be genetics, or you could have a growth problem. If you've been to the doctor recently and they haven't said anything to you then it may not be a problem, but next time you go I would ask just in case. This could be totally normal, but it's best to make sure.




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