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Well, tomorrow afternoon we get out of school at 10:30 a.m. because of exams...me and my friends were going to walk to an ice-cream shop and eat. The thing is, we have invited guys to go with us. I dont want to look like a complete slob when we go. Do you have any adivce on how to dress and do makeup? Its supposed to be around 56 degrees tomorrow, so I want to look cute, but still stay warm. THank you so much.

Go for comfort first. Wear whatever you need to wear to stay warm because if you don't then it will be pretty obvious to the guys that you're only trying to impress them. Then, after you've made sure that you'd stay warm, try doing up your hair nice. Wear a nice eyeshadow color, black eyeliner, and a nice lip gloss color. Also wear really cute shoes - but sneakers! For example, Pumas. Jeans would look nice with a cute top/jacket. Good luck, and remember to not focus too much on what you look like and just have fun!

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is it okay 2 have an online relationship? he said he is breaking up with his gf! and that he wants to go out with me because we have a conncetion! should i tell my friends and family about this relationship? i am scared 2!




I'ts okay only if you know the person. Yes, if you know the person, you can tell your parents/family.

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Okay one of my bffs dad hits her and her mom doesnt belive her..Shes havin alot of trouble with her bf..And shes think about alot of things..like she only has 1 reason to live..and all this i really need help this is really serious..

Wow it really seems like shes been having a hard time. You should definitely be there for your friend now...and if she is serious about her dad hitting her TAKE HER TO A COUNSELOR. The things u said are not good signs...seriously! If you can't afford a counselor, get many friends together and talk it out with her...or tell her to have a serious talk with her mom. Let her know about all the great things she has in life to live for.

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to reach my weight goal i need to lose 8 pounds, but these last pounds just won't come off! what is a good way to lose weight?

you can talk to your doctor about a good plan for you. Never start a diet without consulting an expert beforehand. He'll be able to tell you a healthy way in which to lose those pounds that just one go away!

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ok i wanted an I-pod and still do but do you have to pay for the songs or does it come on the disk? because i don't wanna be paying for songs to download when i payed so much for the I-pod already

If you buy the IPOD, then it will come with a program that you can download songs for free. Just a warning - it is illegal, but you can download a song for 99 cents legally. You choice though, and good luck!

By the way here is a site that I found that might interest you. I've heard it is not a scam, but I am not positively sure.

Here's the site: http://www.freeipods.com

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hi my names Manda, from 2nd-4th grade me & this boy Andrew were best friends. he lived beside my grandma we were always together swimming and such. we even kissed once, so he moved, not 2 far away, so i visited him at his house, slept over and hung out, i was in his moms wedding and everything. so i didnt go to his house as much, and he didnt come back to beside g-mas (his step dads mom & dad)Then i saw him in 6th grade for about a half an hour, his mom and step dad got a divorce and he moved and his step dad moved back beside my g-ma. I never saw where he moved too, but it was somwhere still pretty close. His step brother comes to visit his dad, and iv been thinking if i should write Andrew a letter then give it to his little step brother to give to him, but hes 1 or 2 years older then me, im 14. Is he going to think im lame writing to him? somtimes i think sence hes older hes moved on and maybe forgot about me? help me please. Thank you



- Manda

No way would he be thinking that you are lame! You need to contact him! I think the best way is by getting his e-mail addy (if he has one), or new address and then reaching him, because step-brothers aren't as private and reliable as fedex! lol, but seriously! But don't hesitate one BIT in doing so, I know for a fact that people love it when their childhood friends/or past years' friends come back to meet them or they meet somehow. It brings back all kinds of memories, so it's not bad at all and I definitely think you should do it. If you don't, you'll probably never know what "would have" happened if you had sent it. A quick note: if you happen to find out that he is now farther away from you than you expected, you guys can be pen pals the snail mail way or by e-mail! It's a great way to stay in touch! You have to build your courage and bravery up. Tell him the TRUTH in the letter...how you're really feeling, as if he was the person you were asking advice from. Good luck, and if you need ANY more help at ALL, you know where my inbox is! -Hope I helped-

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Does anyone know a good place to get your own website on the net....FOR FREE? Please help me! :)

Yes...plenty of websites!

Here are the most popular for regular sites:
http://geocities.com
http://brinkster.com
http://freewebs.com
http://angelfire.com
http://expage.com

and...
Here are the most popular for blogging (online diary) sites:
http://livejournal.com
http://xanga.com
http://blurty.com
http://greatestjournal.com
http://pitas.com

Some HTML Tutorial Sites:
http://www.lissaexplains.com/

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Please help me.. my boyfriend got a new car & now my mom won't drop me off at the movies or anything.. I hate her so much.. I love him, & she doesn't understand.. tonight is the last weekend before school starts & I HAVE to see him.. right now... what should I do? She told me that I could go today & then when she found out she went crazy... help

Hey! I answered this question for you already I think you asked it two times in two different ways? Scroll down and you'll see the answer! Good luck, and if you need ANY more help, you can send it to my inbox!

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Ok well i dont have a clue on how to rate people so if you can tell me how to then I'll rate you!

When they answer your question, it should come up underneath their post. You click on the number, click submit and then it'll bring you to a box where you can type up feedback. Good luck, and if you need ANY more help, you can reach me at my inbox. -Hope I helped-

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Hello! I was wondering if any of you know any good home remedies to get rid of pimples, besides toothpaste. Thanks!

There are tons of home remedies. As soon as you get out of the shower, put moisturizer on. Also, before you go to sleep - wash your fash with a cleanser that doesn't have soap in it. Good luck, and if you need ANY more help - you can send it to my inbox. - Hope I helped -

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Is there anyway i can get thin even if my bones are too big?

Yes! There are many ways. You should try going to the gym for 30 minutes everyday. Also here are some nice exercises you could do -http://www.toneteen.com/exercises/abs_abreach.htm. Also, winsor pilates might help (you can find out more about it online). Also, another popular form of exercise is swimming! Not just regular swimming, you can do many different exercises in the pool and lose pounds that way. For example: try running in the water. (That is one example, you can find many more online!). The reason exercising in water helps is because of the water you don't feel tired or drained out..therefore resulting in more capacity to exercise. Being big boned also has it's advantages!! You probably have a curvy figure and that's a very sought-after look nowadays! Remember also, not to go on any diet without asking a doctor! Some diets (like the Atkins diet) is not good because it eliminates one certain type of food. Also you probably already know - but becoming anorexic and bulemic is something you should NEVER consider. They are not only deadly to your body, but they create heart problems later on in life. So DON'T EVER try to throw up your food or starve yourself. Good luck with exercising/dieting and if you need ANY more help, you can send it to my inbox! -Hope I helped-

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Please help me, I've had the worst day ever! My mom HATES my boyfriend, but shes been lettin us go to the movies & stuff anyway & he just got a bew car & I thought I would be truthful about it & tell her he got one, well I told her & she thought it was cool & stuff, then when I asked her if I could got to the bowling alley tonight she said no becuase he has a car & he'll try to get me to go somewhere with him.. but I'm not going to.. Im not that easy, my mom evidentally thinks Im a big whore & thats all my boyfriend wants from me, what should I do to make her change her mind>? Jenna

First off you have to try to make your mom appreciate your boyfriend a little more and for her to trust him. You might want to call him over for dinner at your house with your parents so that your mom can see the --real side-- of him. But, if she doesn't change, then you have to tell her to trust you. For more trust from your mom, also..take your cell phone with you (if you don't have one, ask to borrow your moms or dads). If there is absolutely no way you can bring a cell phone, force your BF to make stops on the way to a phone that you can call your mom. This will reassure her that you're okay. On the first date with your boyfriend (in his car), make it a point to be a bit obsessive with calling your mom so that you she will feel satisfied. But, explain to your BF before-hand that if you don't make frequest calls on this one date, then she might never let you go out with him alone again. On the next date, make less frequents calls. Keep doing this until eventually you never have to call her. Also, be wary..although nothing will happen - be careful because what's even worse is knowing that you're mom was right all along! So in short: 1) Bring BF home to parents for dinner 2) Explain to your mom that you'll be fine and you're not easy with guys (if you haven't told her already) 3) Warn your boyfriend about frequent calls to mom 4) Make frequent calls to mom on FIRST date ONLY. 5) Make less calls on the next date. 6) Be careful...don't want your mom to say, "See told ya so!". GOOD LUCK! If you need ANY more help, you can send it to my inbox. -Hope I helped-

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alot of ppl in the grade up from me hate me...because of stuff i did the year before n they all say they are gonna kick my ass no matter how sorry i say i am they dont care they think i should pay for my attitude...?? n i dont get it i said sorry n it was from like 2 years ago shouldnt they b over it by now what should i doo???? because school starts soon n they said they are gona kick my ass this yearr...?

Try ignoring them, if you don't care about what they do then they'll stop. BUT, if they STILL don't stop...then plan B would be to tell them sorry (you're sorriest sorry!) to each of them individually. If both of those don't work, you're best bet is to make new friends, move on...and maybe even tell the Guidance Counselor about the *threats* about your "ass being kicked" - then they'd see who'd get the last laugh.

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i went to am-i-fat.com just to see what it would say and it said that im emaciated, but i want to lose weight. do u think im anerexic? what should i do? thnx

Just because you are underweight and you want to loose weight doesn't mean you are anorexic. Sometimes, it is healthy to loose weight in *certain places* instead of all around. When you want to loose weight everywhere and you are starving yourself, then that is anorexia. You can loose a few pounds off certain places, but don't get too addicted to the scale after you loose the pounds because once you get obsessed and start starving yourself - then you are anorexic. Also for the information, bulemia is another type of problem that you could encounter while loosing weight that you don't want to. It is when you throw up your food to loose pounds fast. Not only is that EXTREMELY unhealthy, it also causes heart problems later on in life. Doing a few exercises and a routine everyday is healthy but don't obsess. Also, before you start ANY diet - ask a doctor. Some diets like the Atkins diet aren't healthy. Any diet which eliminates one certain type of food is unhealthy. Good luck and if you need ANY more help at all - you can send it to my inbox. -Hope I helped-

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Okay...so i've liked this boy secretly since like sixth grade. (im goin into 8th) and I flirt w/ him 24/7 and he flirts w/ me too. but like he had a relationship w/ my friend sierra but they are good friends now. And she thinks i should go otu w/ him but im sooo scared he'll say no cuz im taller and like i dono. Hes really hot and he might not like me.But I dono if i should wait and see if he says anything cuz i've heard he lieks me but I just dont know....so what do i do?

You should definitely first build a friendship with him. After that, you can then take the friendship one step further. That way you'll be taking things slow and he'll be able to get to know you better. And oh yeah, about you being taller? Forget about that!! Be confident, if he is truly right for you, then he wouldn't care about your height - he'd care about more important things like the type of person you are. Good luck! If you need anything else, you can send it to my inbox. -Hope I helped-

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my best friend and i have been growing apart lately, we've been having more and more arguements about little things. like theres this song, Angel of Mine, and when i told her about it, she claims that i said Angel on Fire. She always starts that arguement all over again for no reason. And that happened like in July. A few weeks ago already!! Can you help me in deciding what to do to hold our friendshop together? cause i dont wanna lose her as a best friend. we been friends for like 7-8 years already....

Aww I'm sorry about that. First of all, make sure you're not the one always fussing about little things lol (I know, you probably aren't, but just making sure!). Well I definitely think the best thing to do would be that the next time she argues over something "little" like that, tell her what she is doing right then and there - and tell her that, "because of this, we are ruining our friendship...and we've been BFFs for over 8 years!" See what her response is. If she gets mad at you for saying that, then she has an anger problem, and/or if she does it again and does not listen, then you need to talk to her seperately again and more seriously. Tell her that she seriously needs to stop fussing about small things or you'll stop being her friend - it takes guts to say, but you need some. Here are some things that help in this process though: 1) If you see a fight in the process of heating up, you try and stop it before it elevates - but if you are the one ALWAYS stopping it, let her know. 2) Try re-creating the friendship you've lost lately through watching a movie, you don't need to talk much in that and go out to eat somewhere after that (talking about the movie & etc!) 3) Compliments always help. Good luck, and keep me informed on what's goin on and if you need any more help AT ALL, you know where my inbox is. ;) hope I helped, and all the best.

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Sometimes I feel like my friends dont wanna be around me because im boring- sometimes i just get shy:-/ is there something drastic i could do? or something that would make it easier for me to be the ** life of the partyy **

Well speak up! You just have to stop thinking about what other people think of you and be yourself...also, get where the action is. Plus, be confident even if you think what you are saying is complete gibberish. Also, NEVER gossip! Call some of your friends, one on one to the movies and help them to get to know you better. Good luck

- Hope I helped -

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my stepbrothers friend and i are in a relationship. we were thinkin about having sex, or at least me giving him head. whenever i talk to him dirty online he goes back and tells my stepbrother. im also scared cuz my dad is really strict nd im only 13

Don't do it. If he can't even be trustworthy to talk to, any form of sex is out of the question, not to mention you are much too young and you will gain a reputation of being a slut. What you really might start wanting to look at would be if he is right even as a boyfriend!

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omg ok i have to get my wisdom teeth pulled! SOMEONE PLEASEE answer...how bad does it hurt? are you awake? and how long is your mouth all swollen? im really scared.. i ABSOLUTELY hate the dentist..and im scared to go.. but im more worried about the ?'sz i asked..soo please answer! p.s i rate!

You don't feel it after a while because they numb it and give you anesthesia, so you're not awake But after the anesthesia is gone, you start feeling it slightly. It hurts enough that you have to rest during the day, but not more than that. Make sure you don't eat hard foods that day. Good luck!

-hope I helped-

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Hey, to anyone who can help me i'll rate a 5!!...but this is for those who had read To Kill a Mockingbird...i was just wondering if you know what chapters really describe Atticus' character..THANX!

I haven't read the book, but you can find the chapters here: http://www.novelguide.com/tokillamockingbird/novelsummary.html

Good luck! -hope I helped-

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