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my best friend and i have been growing apart lately, we've been having more and more arguements about little things. like theres this song, Angel of Mine, and when i told her about it, she claims that i said Angel on Fire. She always starts that arguement all over again for no reason. And that happened like in July. A few weeks ago already!! Can you help me in deciding what to do to hold our friendshop together? cause i dont wanna lose her as a best friend. we been friends for like 7-8 years already....
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Aww I'm sorry about that. First of all, make sure you're not the one always fussing about little things lol (I know, you probably aren't, but just making sure!). Well I definitely think the best thing to do would be that the next time she argues over something "little" like that, tell her what she is doing right then and there - and tell her that, "because of this, we are ruining our friendship...and we've been BFFs for over 8 years!" See what her response is. If she gets mad at you for saying that, then she has an anger problem, and/or if she does it again and does not listen, then you need to talk to her seperately again and more seriously. Tell her that she seriously needs to stop fussing about small things or you'll stop being her friend - it takes guts to say, but you need some. Here are some things that help in this process though: 1) If you see a fight in the process of heating up, you try and stop it before it elevates - but if you are the one ALWAYS stopping it, let her know. 2) Try re-creating the friendship you've lost lately through watching a movie, you don't need to talk much in that and go out to eat somewhere after that (talking about the movie & etc!) 3) Compliments always help. Good luck, and keep me informed on what's goin on and if you need any more help AT ALL, you know where my inbox is. ;) hope I helped, and all the best.
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