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I am a very hard worker. I am studing to become a Psychologist . I am very good at giving advice. I specialize in relationships but i will answer just about anything. Do you need advice or help with a problem then i am here to help you. My column is for everyone young and old. It will be a place to express to me what you feel. If i have learned one thing, it is that you can deal better with a problem by telling someone about it and getting their imput. Never be embarrased you have nothin to loose with my column. I hope you all feel comfortable. I am here just to provide help and advice. Tell me your problem!
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Ok me and this guy have been talkin on msn messenger for about a mounth or two (don't worry i kno his little sis) And we have no clue what each other look like now he wants me to go and meet him @ the bowling alley His sis says that he's kool and all and that i should start to date him and i don't kno what to say or do! I mean we both seem to like each other. Should i go with him, or just keep talkin on messenger?
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!!Plz Help!!
I say go for it....plan a meeting place and tell him to bring a friend and you bring a friend then in case the conversation becomes dull you have two other people there to livin it up. I am sure that you know his sister and all but taking a buddy will also be safer. You also have some one to share the fun with. I know after i went out with this guy I took a friend and we ended up talking about it all night long. And the best thing about it is we could relate to everything that happened because she was there. Another thing about taking a friend is that she can tell you if this guy makes any looks to his buddy or if he check you out. If you decide not to go out with him then you guys can be great pals and just hang out. I hope you have a great time in whatever path you choose. Good Luck!
life is lonleyness
death is happieness
for me this is what i feel
thoughts of suicide
day and night
should i make teh cut
or use those tylenol pills
rope sounds good
but the gun maybe faster
there are many more ways
that i could say
but the one for me is not today
for i will be strong
for who knows how much longer
many times i cant go on
so a cut here
a cut there
to help me on
now my wounds
will have some time to heal
though the thoughts are still
waking me up at night
i am strong
but for how long
I hope that whoever wrote this is just showing their talent for writing. Although if you are not stay strong there is always a reason to live. Even if that reason is just to mentor someone else. Or maybe your reason has not come yet. If you wrote this this definetly a reason to live. Your writing moved me and i feel there should always be another day ahead for every one. but if you take your own life then you are garenteeing that that day will never come and many will morne on the day that you could not will never live. So please think about the impact that your death would cause on others. You will always have a reason to live. Let god take your life naturally after a well lived life and you are old and gray. I care and i am sure many others do too. Please take the time to help yourself and others with anything that you have learned with the advice i have given you. Think It Over!!!
should i ask my mother if i can have sex or not?
I think it would be a good idea to ask your mom about having sex. She has been through it before. If she says no then respect her answer. the last thing you want to happen is to come home to her one day and say that you are pregnent because you went behind her back. You should think about the consiquences before you do anything with a guy. You can talk my advice or leave it. Just keep in your mind what your mom would say if she found out you were pregnant and think abou the life you could provide for that child. I wish you luck in any decision you choose.
i like this girl and she likes me. things have been going ok even though we arent dating. i dont really want a girlfriend right now, but she asked me out. how do i tell her not yet without breaking her heart?
Well it is hard to tell someone no without breaking their heart... and that goes any gender. But if you really don't want to go out with her say that you would judt like to be friends until you get to know her better. If you still do not like her in a little while then just tell her that you want to be her friend. It will be really hard but just think about how it would feel if you asked someone out and she turned you down.... so just think abou tthe tone and words you use to say no. Do what you think is best, just don't laed her on that will hurt her worse than just saying no. Hope you are successful in what ever you decide.
have a nice day
im the one who wrote the poem and for your infromstion less tehn 7,000 teens actually follow through and end up dead by suicideal means.
p.s.just to let you know
thank you for correcting my mistake i am sry but really if that was a joke it was not funny. Ok? well again i am glad that you at least researched the poem and the answer. Have a great day
my life is shit
i wanna die
here i go
its a bumpy ride
wondering how and when
it should be done
should i stab my chest
or use a gun
should i poison myself
or maybe drown
will people smile
or will they frown
will they cry
i'll never know
doesnt matter
here i go
should i slit my wrists
or not do it at all
im on a cliff
should i fall
if i die
will you care
or will you pretend
i was never there
why doesnt anyone like me?
why doesnt anyone care?
why doesnt anyone help?
why isnt anyone there?
I try to talk to people
I try to tell them how I feel
damn, i pour my heart to them
because this i can't conceal
I've always been ignored
I've always been scared
I've cried
I've tried
But now I wana die
So now I have made a choice
a choice about death or life
I wipe my tears away
and get out a knife
I stab it into my wrists
cut them real deep
soon I'll be in a better place
the bloods starting to seep
i have no more worries
no more fears
no more pain
dont have cry no more tears
now i am happy
wait, should I be?
I have missed out on my whole life
I am drenched in blood, just look at me
I am sorry mommy
I am sorry dad
I knew you always loved me
sorry to make you sad
but now all i can see is white
i'm getting close to the light
bye to people who ignored me'
bye to the people who hated me
bye to the people who didn't know i even existed bye forever
I am at the light now
I am in a better place
do not follow me
i am never to far away
If this is real you really need to get some help. Sicide is not the answer talk to your school counceler or an adult because you really need to get some help. If this is a sick joke then it is not funny millions of kids die each year due to suicide. It is not a funny matter!! you should contact the teen help line! whatever you do think about the consequences first....
When 2 of your friends are fighting and your in the middle stuck and dont know what side to choose on what do you do? Like one person would want me to sit with them and the other one would be like lets all move away from her and i dont know what to do i mean i am friends with all of them but they make it seem like it is wrong to hang out with that person just b/c that person is different and people already make fun of her behind her back and everything. I am stuck in the middle so what do i do ?
I have had many fights that seem to always trap me in the middle. You need to sit down with your friends, both of them, and talk. If that doesn't work then you need to tell them that you are not going to sit with any of them until they settle it. It will be really hard but which would you rather have, being torn between two friends or not talking to either on of them for two or three days. It is all up to you. The way it sounds you just need to understand both sides of the story and who knows it could all be a big misunderstanding.
Therse this guy from a different School from me and hes my BFF and I tell him everything and he gets involeved w/ me N my friends fight over the internet and my friend im upset with thinks its me WHAT DO I DO?!
First of all if he is getting involved with you and your friends fights that is not his place. He is there to back you up not impersinate you online! If it is such a problem then you really need to tell him to stop. You also need to settle things with your friends and if that doesn't work your friends are not worth having if they make you that mad. i hope my advice helped cheer up and have fun.
OK me and my friends were having a discussion and one of my friends stated that the faith of catholic is just another branch of christianity, but catholics have very very different beliefs then christians do. Can someone help me make up my mind?
It really doesn't matter which one you choose. The thing that matters is that you are happy and believe in the rules and principles that that certain religion focuses on. If you really want to decide, choose which ever one touches you on the inside. That is all that matters. Your friends can never make up the happiness that you feel when you are in the right place at the right time. Go with what your heart tells you!
I'm working temporarily at a pizza restaurant until I can find something better. I used to work at a grocery store, but quit after we went on strike, because I was unhappy there and didn't like the way the strike was settled. Anyway, the people seem friendly enough on the surface, but I'm a cashier there, and I don't do as much work as them. Not because I don't want to, but the manager wants me to stay primarily up front, and he won't let me make the pizzas yet even though I know I could do it. I've worked for the same chain about ten years ago. I'm the only white person there besides one of the drivers. Most of my co-workers are hispanic and don't speak that much english, so that may be why they don't talk to me much. I don't know if it's just my own insecurity, but it seems like if I ask for help with something, or I make a minor mistake, they are resentful that they have to help me. I think I'm doing a pretty good job, but nobody's perfect. I keep imagining they are thinking "I can't believe she did that, " and talking about me behind my back. I sometimes feel like I'm back in high school when I'm there. There is one woman who is friendly with me. She speaks good english, and does cashier work too, but she also makes pizzas. I sometimes think she is resenting me too. I try my best to be friendly to everyone, I've been there about a month, but I still feel tension between me and them. My mom says not to worry about them. I'm not going to stay there long anyway. But it bothers me because I know I'm a nice person, and I don't like being pre-judged by anyone. I know this is part of life, but it just makes me uncomfortable. I sometimes see some of them giving me funny looks like they think I'm weird or dumb, or something. I used to get picked on a lot in school, so I think that is why I'm so sensitive. Can anyone give me advice on how I can not let what they may or may not be thinking bother me? Does anyone think I'm imagining this? I feel like I'm the "new person" in their eyes, and to them I'm an "intruder" in their little "clique". I know that sounds dumb, but that is how it feels. Can anyone relate?
It must be really hard for you. I know it would be for me. Alot of people picked on me too in school. You just have to kill them with kindness. It is hard work but it is worth the while. If you are not staying there long then just put on your best face for a while. If you feel that there is tension between you and a co-worker you better mension something to your boss if anyhting esclates. The last thing you want is to get in a fight and be fired. I know that it is really hard and you are probably in the deepest dumps right now, but you just need to talk to people about the problem. It may also help if you write things down about your day. For example keeping a journal maybe not everyday, just when you need some one to talk to. I check my mail everyday so if you think it helps by talking to me or others that is ok. I hope my advice helps you and cheerup everyhting will be ok!