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VISIT MY WEBSITE AT http://www.freewebs.com/abl90/index.htm !!!Hello. My name is Ashley. I am 17 years old with 2 sisters and 3 half sisters.. I love giving advice. All my friends come to me with their problems. I'm almost ALWAYS right when it comes to advice. Unfortunately, that does not include myself. If I have a problem, I'm usually clueless so I may have a few questions here and there but mostly I'm here for the readers. Hopefully someday I can be an advice columnist for a newpaper.
Please take the time to read, it can help a few of you:
So far my life has been really complicated, sure, I do have a great life, an amazing fiance, a wonderful chihuahua, yes she is my baby, and a pretty good family I suppose. In reality, I guess most everyone has a complicated life. In my life, I have been in the most depressed state to where I literally wanted to kill myself, but it never came down to it, it is all a test, not for anyone else but for ourselves, to see how strong we are, we all have hardships in our lives but we have to look at the good and remember that there ARE people who care about us, no matter how down we are. All of you can live a good, happy life, you just have to try and give it your all and remember you bring your own happiness.
For those who have LOST:
I have lost only one person in my life.. My brother, he was only my half brother, and I never knew him. He died at 47, he had 3 amazing sons who had a great life going for them and a beautiful wife. He killed himself on October 21 of 2004. I regret every single day that I didn't know him, nor did I try, I blame myself even though I shouldn't, that route goes both ways. Sure I could have tried to see him, but he could have to. The thing is, you should try with everything in you to know your family and to love them. I would give up a lot to see my brother for one minute to ask him why? Would didn't he think about anyone else but himself? And now I'll never get that chance. I went against God and all my beliefs and even tried to contact him through a Ouija. God forgave me but I didn't forgive myself. I just hope with all my heart that he forgave my brother as well.
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Ok well i really like this guy for a long time. First i just wanted to become friends and maybe more. We start talking a lot and hong out a couple times and see each other and give each other hugs. Then he was like "is there anything going on between us?" and i go "idk i`m starting to like you a lot." and hes like "same" and then i get grounded because i stole my moms car.(gayyy) and i have to go to my grandparents house for 3 nights and 4 day (bored out of my mind) and we lost touch because i wasn`t aloud to do anything. and i come back and i see that hes going out with this other girl, and i cryed alnight. All my friends said i could do way better but i don`t think its true. it was bugging me soo bad because now that i realized that he only wanted me as a flavor of the week. and then i here from the girls he has talked to that he saying that "it was a joke" (to like me) and i`m soo confuse and everytime i try talking to him about it he always denise it. and we just got into another fight and were back in school, everytime we walk near eachother all we do is look into eachothers eyes. (it makes me sick to think he would do something like that to me) see it hurts me soo bad because i have always been "the flavor of the week" and i`m tired of it, i want something real!! but i know i can going looking for it when i`m looking in the wrong spot. is that what i`m doing? i`m never good enough for guys and it hurts trust me look at my picture and tell me if i`m ugly! because i really need to know!
PLEASE HELP ME!!
I think that when you see him, look the other way. By ignoring him, it will make him want you more. I understand your situation because I have a sister who only has guys as a flavor of the week. She always gets hurt, so just don't change into something like that. As I said before, just ignore him, his desire for your attention will go haywire. He'll be dying for your attention and may even ask you about it. Try it out, and tell me what happens. Also, have a positive attitude about things. You need to think you are beautiful and better than everyone so he will think you are too.
Ok so me and this guy are into eachother well atleast im into him and he says hes into me we've had sex more than once and have done other things everything was good but then just last weekend he went to a college party and now that hes back its like hes being an asshole and isnt trying to get with me. Its like he thinks im not good enough for him now..what do you think?
It's possible at the party he may have had sex with someone else. I suggest you ask him, but be careful, guys these days are dangerous. If he is a violent person, I suggest you ask him in public. You should give him the benefit of the doubt but the facts point straight to cheating. College parties are out of control. More than likely he made a hook up. LEave him if you think it best.
My boyfriend of 6 months has been being a jerk lately. He blows me off for his friends (it's not that i dont want him to hang out with his friends at all, its just does he have to all the time?). Well, u see the other day his friends dared him to knee me in the back and they offered him money. They thought it would be funny so he did it. Then i got really mad and slapped him but i forgave him cus he apoligized and told me he loved me. The today when i was trying to talk to him about it he started to laugh like it was funny. I dont know if i should dump him or not?
P.S. He hasnt always been like this. He just recently became like this.
Well, firstly, I would suggest you confront him about this and be as serious as possible. Tell him your not joking. You must express your feelings upfront. You should also consider the fact that he may WANT you to break up with him. It's possible that he may be cheating and would feel worse if he dumped you. Therefore, as I said, confront him alone, make sure he understands your serious. If he jokes after you express your feelings, you should consider that maybe things won't get better and therefore you should leave him.
Alright. . . im 16 hes 16 Me and my boyfriend met last summer and we both liked each other at first site...we met through my cousin and i thought yea right i wont have a chance and thats what he thought but anyways we hooked up during Easter and he was my boyfriend but we broke up in the summer for 2 weeks but we just have to have each other in our live.. I love him and we plan on being together forever but heres the thing....he has to move to Arizona with his family and that is like 1000 miles from my home but he sed he will stay with me and after high school and we are serious abouteverything and i heard he was getting me a promise ring for my birthday but yea basically i would like to know how to keep a long distance relationship going and what you think of the idea and we havent had sex no and are prolly waiting for that sorry this is long but thank you! Ask me anything if you want more info I owuld love to talk about it
Hey there. Being in a situation such as this can be hard. Long distances relationships are hard to maintain, theres the long distance phone calls, messing each other, rarely together, and no physical contact. However, sometimes they can be for the better. I've reasoned that sometimes when someone sees their boyfriend/girlfriend every day or too often, their relationship tends not to work out so well. They often get sick of each others company. However, in a relationship that is distanced, that is a problem. I am in such a situation. I have a boyfriend, we see each other almost every day and are truly in love, we have had sex but are completely devoted to one another. My advice to you would be to go on with the relationship, based upon your comment, I reason that you two are truly in love. Follow your heart and I'm sure it will lead you to the best possible resolution.