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Is it for real?


Question Posted Wednesday September 6 2006, 11:46 pm

Ok well i really like this guy for a long time. First i just wanted to become friends and maybe more. We start talking a lot and hong out a couple times and see each other and give each other hugs. Then he was like "is there anything going on between us?" and i go "idk i`m starting to like you a lot." and hes like "same" and then i get grounded because i stole my moms car.(gayyy) and i have to go to my grandparents house for 3 nights and 4 day (bored out of my mind) and we lost touch because i wasn`t aloud to do anything. and i come back and i see that hes going out with this other girl, and i cryed alnight. All my friends said i could do way better but i don`t think its true. it was bugging me soo bad because now that i realized that he only wanted me as a flavor of the week. and then i here from the girls he has talked to that he saying that "it was a joke" (to like me) and i`m soo confuse and everytime i try talking to him about it he always denise it. and we just got into another fight and were back in school, everytime we walk near eachother all we do is look into eachothers eyes. (it makes me sick to think he would do something like that to me) see it hurts me soo bad because i have always been "the flavor of the week" and i`m tired of it, i want something real!! but i know i can going looking for it when i`m looking in the wrong spot. is that what i`m doing? i`m never good enough for guys and it hurts trust me look at my picture and tell me if i`m ugly! because i really need to know!

PLEASE HELP ME!!


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adviceforlife answered Thursday September 7 2006, 3:45 pm:
I think that when you see him, look the other way. By ignoring him, it will make him want you more. I understand your situation because I have a sister who only has guys as a flavor of the week. She always gets hurt, so just don't change into something like that. As I said before, just ignore him, his desire for your attention will go haywire. He'll be dying for your attention and may even ask you about it. Try it out, and tell me what happens. Also, have a positive attitude about things. You need to think you are beautiful and better than everyone so he will think you are too.

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CarleyIsRadicall answered Thursday September 7 2006, 7:33 am:
Your not ugly . . . god made you out of his own image so by saying you are ugly your also saying god is ugly.

you might not want to listen to your friends because they could just be jelous.

you might also want to listen to them because they might know alittle more than you do.

When the right guy comes along you will know. Don't worry about it. You don't have to have a boyfriend. This guy your talking about seems LOW!
Really ask yourself . . . is he really right for me?

CarleyIsRadicall ....... and don't you forget it!

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