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Hey everyone, i havent updated this for a while, but i still havent lost my nitch for giving good advice. I'm really into performing arts and visual arts are pretty much anything artsy and talent driven. So please...ask away.

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should i change my look from preppy 2 punk 4 a guy?

never change who you are for someone. always be yourself.

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Your name was the first I clicked on so mayb you can help me.. I really like this girl. She is so beautiful and shes funny and has a gr8 personality. But there is 1 prob: she has low self-esteem, if I compliment her on her looks she'll try to change the subject or act like she didnt hear what I said!!!! Does this mean she doesnt like me?

this doenst always mean she doesnt like you, unless you feel this vibe from her. her low self esteem is a sign of insecurity and is making her uncomfortable. she needs someone to make her feel a little more secure with herself, thats where you come in. keep at it with the compliments. she will mostly likely open up to you a little more and she'll fell better with herself.

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Ok, well my good friend has a boyfriend, I've known her since I was 6 and her and her bf go on the bus. And it turns out that now I have feelings for this boy and it doesn't go away, and I'm starting to get jelous when he kisses her and things. Am I a bad friend, what should I do?

no, you arent a bad friend. its something you will just have to accept and be happy for your friend. its going to be hard, but you'll be able to do it. just dont go out with him if they break up, its the biggest un-written law between best friends.

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I'm about 5'2 and weigh around 95 lbs..but everyone tells me im really skinny. How much should i weigh if im 5'2?

ok, i'm 6'0 and 145 lbs. i just had this conversation with a girl who was 5'2 the other day. she weighs 105lbs and she is absolutely normal. so being think and being 95 lbs is absolutely perfect. no need to worry.

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Hi,

i have just bought my daughter a guitar for her 8th birthday. I never had a chance as a kid so dont want my kids to miss out,. the only problem is that i dont know anything with regards to tuition on guitar so wondered if any1 knows best course of action for my daughter to learn.
If anyone has any advice that would be great

you should find a person to give her lessons or get a "how to play guitar" video. that will always help.

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What do i do if im on a perscription for acne but my bff dosent want to be around me because i have zits?

it doesnt sound like you have a very good friend, if they dont want to be around you because you have zits. its really mean. you have to explain to your friend that its not your fault you have zits and thy need to find a new friend or something. above all, i hope your face gets clearer.

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i was borne in wilmar,minnesota and i live in california and like i was wondering if anyone new of a sight that gave you your birth records

*needed baby records*

if you can, ask your parents. if not, the only way to get records is to go to the hospital you were born at or to the DMV, where they have this thing that stores birth certificates. they dont have a site for that kind of stuff because birth records are too personal incase someone were to hack the site. if this is an extreme need of birth information, you can always contact the FBI.

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Everytime i eat something, i end up feeling really guilty, and wish i hadn't. im really not sure how to find the balance between eating healthy but letting myself have treats without feeling like i did something wrong. its been happening more lately, and i don't know how to convince myself that its ok, but yet still keep eating healthy...please help : /

you seem that you are doing just fine. you always have to eat healthy, but dont feel guilty letting yourself have a treat every once and a while. you have to accept that your body is going to naturally crave sugar, just dont let yourself get too carried away.

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Okay, so there's this guy. We're sort of friends, but there's complicated issues between us. A while back, like in May/June, I liked him and he liked me, but we never went out or anything. Because of certain reasons I'm not willing to explain. Anyway, I've gotten over him and I really like this other guy. But whenever I talk to or see the guy I used to like (we'll call him Bob), I usually get butterflies in my stomach and get kind of nervous. Yet that doesn't happen when I'm around the guy I like now. And I really like this guy, I do not like Bob. Seriously, I am being honest with myself. But then how come I always get butterflies in my stomach when I'm around Bob? Does that mean I like him and I just can't seem to admit that to myself..? I seriously don't think I like him though. Arrgh, I don't know. The thing is, I don't even have a reason to like him. So what's the deal here??!!!

it doesnt mean you like him on the outside, but it's your brains way of subconsciously telling you you're attracted to him, even though you say you arent. dont worry about it. if you really like this new guy, then everything should be fine.

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its sherry

haha, ok, i get it...hi sherry

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