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Well. Lets start with my name. My name is Whitney. I'm 13 years young. I'm pretty cool if I say so myself. Most likely, I'll stereotype you, place you into a group, and judge you; So prove me wrong & show me who you really are. My favorite stores are Ruehl, Nordstroms, & Rearends; but, I'm not scared to be seen in a salvation army. It's kind of like, if I see something I like, I'll get it. I am my own person. I can be the nicest person you'll ever meet, or the meanest. My favorite color is brown. I'm allergic to cats, but I have three. My friends mean the world to me, and my sister is my major role model. If I'm having a bad day, watch out. I LOVE LOVE LOVE when people drop things in my inbox. I WILL try my hardest to answer your questions & give the best advice I can. I'm not too good with relationship problems, only because its hard to explain over the internet. I've gone through a lot through these measily 13 years, but I'm telling you, I've got some knowledge.

But anyways, I really hate talking about myself. So I'm done.
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Hey everyone. Well, I started my period about 5 days ago and have a few questions. #1: How long does a period last?? #2: How long should you wait to start wearing tampons? and then i have a concern. i wear pads of course, but blood has gotten into EVERY pair of underwear i wear. what can i do about this? i can't go out buy a whole supply of underwear every week. HELP!!!!! thanks! (link)
-- its different for every girl. on average 3-6 days.
-- i started right away, only because i am active and they are just more comfy and sanitary. [be careful and read abouyt TSS first]
-- Maybe, check with your mom/gaurdian and see if you can wear tqamponjs. if he/she okays it, then maybe wear a tampon, and then a panty liner in your underwear. this will help from leaking and staining your panties!
-- good luck, and welcome to girlhood!


17 female

I asked this boy out named james and I really like him alot and every thing and when I asked him he said that he's trying to get with this other girl.I don't know who she is or anything james is a freshman he says she's in the 8th grade anyway here's the problem before i asked james out all i talked about was him i could tell my friends were getting annoyed with me but i still couldn't stop talking about him my best friend says iam obbessed with the boy but now if i just see his face i want to burst into tears i won't eat and iam normally a big eater so when i don't eat my friends know that there's something wrong with me.I didn 't even talk all that much today all i did was think and daydream about james and when i think about him i start crying my eyes out what's going on and what can i do about it please help iam sick of crying over this boy. (link)
whoa okay dont rate me bad or anything, just i know a james whose a freshman and he likes an 8th grade girl. does his last name start wit han m?

kay sorry i know this is supposed to be for advice but jw.

anyways. just write back or drop one in my inbox


So I'm gay not like flaming gay, but gay none the less... Last night was our homecoming dance and I brought a date which was a guy... I slow danced with him and everything and apparently everyone was looking at us because my friends warned me that I might get some shit on monday about it... what should I do? (link)
hey who cares? thats the way i look at it. if your gay your gay. dont let anyone change that about you alright?

stay true and be yourself.


o.k. i am an afrian american girl and i was wondering if it's possible to get highlights without damaging your hair? people say that it does damage it because i have nappy hair but is it true? and does it hurt when you get highlights? (link)
1. Yes you can get highlights, I have seen many African American girls get them.
2. Yes, it will damage your hair if you keep getting it. This is because the dye they use for your hair dries it out.
3. Nope, not at all.

:] Whitney


o.k. i am an afrian american girl and i was wondering if it's possible to get highlights without damaging your hair? people say that it does damage it because i have nappy hair but is it true? and does it hurt when you get highlights? (link)
1. Yes you can get highlights, I have seen many African American girls get them.
2. Yes, it will damage your hair if you keep getting it. This is because the dye they use for your hair dries it out.
3. Nope, not at all.

:] Whitney


o.k. i am an afrian american girl and i was wondering if it's possible to get highlights without damaging your hair? people say that it does damage it because i have nappy hair but is it true? and does it hurt when you get highlights? (link)
1. Yes you can get highlights, I have seen many African American girls get them.
2. Yes, it will damage your hair if you keep getting it. This is because the dye they use for your hair dries it out.
3. Nope, not at all.

:] Whitney


o.k. i am an afrian american girl and i was wondering if it's possible to get highlights without damaging your hair? people say that it does damage it because i have nappy hair but is it true? and does it hurt when you get highlights? (link)
1. Yes you can get highlights, I have seen many African American girls get them.
2. Yes, it will damage your hair if you keep getting it. This is because the dye they use for your hair dries it out.
3. Nope, not at all.

:] Whitney


o.k. i am an afrian american girl and i was wondering if it's possible to get highlights without damaging your hair? people say that it does damage it because i have nappy hair but is it true? and does it hurt when you get highlights? (link)
1. Yes you can get highlights, I have seen many African American girls get them.
2. Yes, it will damage your hair if you keep getting it. This is because the dye they use for your hair dries it out.
3. Nope, not at all.

:] Whitney


o.k. i am an afrian american girl and i was wondering if it's possible to get highlights without damaging your hair? people say that it does damage it because i have nappy hair but is it true? and does it hurt when you get highlights? (link)
1. Yes you can get highlights, I have seen many African American girls get them.
2. Yes, it will damage your hair if you keep getting it. This is because the dye they use for your hair dries it out.
3. Nope, not at all.

:] Whitney


o.k. i am an afrian american girl and i was wondering if it's possible to get highlights without damaging your hair? people say that it does damage it because i have nappy hair but is it true? and does it hurt when you get highlights? (link)
1. Yes you can get highlights, I have seen many African American girls get them.
2. Yes, it will damage your hair if you keep getting it. This is because the dye they use for your hair dries it out.
3. Nope, not at all.

:] Whitney


o.k. i am an afrian american girl and i was wondering if it's possible to get highlights without damaging your hair? people say that it does damage it because i have nappy hair but is it true? and does it hurt when you get highlights? (link)
uhh sorry. my computer randomly spazzes and like does this. pardon the 5 jillion answers


hi ,
it is my girlfreinds birthday on sunday which is 5 days away and i want to get her sumthing really special but not too meaningful and she has been having a hard time lately and i just want her to be happy but im not sure what to get her and idea's..?sumthing that will say i love you and neevr want to let you go but then somthing tht is funni and that she will cherish..and really like would be greatfully appreciated
thankyou..tyron..:) (link)
alright. so im a girl, and this is definatly 'cute' and 'meaingful' to me.

one idea is to get a picture of you and her together, put it in black and white..and do some fancy stuff to it. write her a poem, add it to the picture... and maybe frame it. [if you need help doing that, i have an AMAZINGG photo program that i could actually do it for you other then the poem]

another is, if you hae the money, take her out to her favorite NICE/FANCY resturant. buy her maybe a deep red rose and just make it romantic as possible, but still in her comfort zone.


this is sort of hard to explain, so if you want, just write me something to my inbox, and ill help you over AIM or something.

Hope everything works out.

XO Whitney


My hair is naturally wavy, but just a little bit. I heard there ARE products out there that make your hair really curly or wavy. Does anyone know what some names of INEXPENSIVE products that do this?
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what you could do, is sleep with gel on wet hair in a messy curly bun over night. see if that works!


13-f
i wear makeup & all but i dont know what colors and what kinda are best 4 me. please help! i have ditry dirty blond hair. hazel eyes. & i know brown eyeliner looks the best on me.
here is a pic of me:[i am on the right]
http://i82.photobucket.com/albums/j241/xoiluvtrackx/overatdeeees003.jpg (link)
get a dark purple, dark brown, and a light tone of shimmer eye shadow. itll look good. dont do eyeliner... if any do it on top. its going out of style.. the whole eyeliner under the eye, because it usually runs down and you start looking emo. and from your pic, you dont look like the emo type.. lmao. so just use some purpley browns and lighter colors for the top.

good luck


There's this song called "Simple Gifts" that I will have to sing solo soon. I am a saprano but it's hard for me, though i've sang this way for years. I am more comfortable in alto. I can't switch because my teacher says if I expand my range now I will become an excellent singer someday. When I sing the song the high notes seem to be too high for me. Can somebody here please help me find a way to hit higher notes better? (link)
i dont know how advance you are so dont be offended on what i tell you to do.

-SUSPENDING YOUR BREATH: i know this sounds impossible but try and hold your breath while you sing... dont take breath and just let it out on your first note.
-LOOSENING YOUR JAW: make sure there is no tension in your jaw......if it feels as if your holding it from opening up, thats not good. you need to keep everything loose. once you put that and good vowels together, you'll soon produce an amazing vibrato [sp?]
-THINKING OF THE NOTE: think of the note in your head before you sing it.


i hope i wasnt totally babying you.. =[ good luck i know youll do great!


some people say channing tatum is gay and some say he is straight so which 1 is it? I would like the people on this website's opinion and any true proof you have of why he is or not gay.i dont listen to magizines its bullsh*t so i want actual peoples opinons on the topic.
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i feel so bad i cant ansawer your question and i feel so stupid saying this but i have no clue who he his.. or it?? idk. but dont give up on me!! if you have any other questionsplease ask and ill try my best to answer


my pregnant sister is trying to find a unique [maybe exotic] MIDDLE name for her baby girl, so far its between Cache[accent over the e] and chenelle....

the babys name will be Alexis [middle name] Smigelski

does anyone have any suggestions for a middle name?? and please dont say anything like nicole or ashley, NO common stuff

haha sry if im sounding mean but i just would like any suggestions that sound good, you can see our taste in names [chenelle, cache] if that helps so ya thanks, ill rate anyone who at least trys lol

~ xsharpiexlovex (link)
http://www.alternativebabynames.com/index.php?goto=list_of_baby_girls_names


hii. i was looking for some advice. i'm not sure if this is normal or not. but i've always disliked my body, i've always considered myself fat- even if everyone says i'm fine and its just muscle. but i constantly count all of the calories in my food. i'm extrememly self concious...and i wish i wasnt. once in awhile if i feel gross after i eat i'll purge it up. but it's not like i do it constantly. once in awhile i'll avoid eating but yet other days i'll eat regular. i don't weigh myself every single day.. but i'll stand infront of my mirror and point out my flaws and how gross i am. i think i'm the "fat" one in my group and i hate it because all of my friends are thin. do i have a problem or is this okay? help pleasse . thank you (link)
alright, to me it seems liek you have a self confidence problem. start with the little things, like maybe one day you should look at yourself in the mirror, and point out all the good things you have about you instead of the negative points. start excersizing instead of starving yourself or purging. you know its not healthy for you or your body, so why are you doing it? your doing it because of what you think others are sayign about you. everything now-a-days is all about looks.. people dont judge you about how smart you are, or how kind of a person you are... which personally, i think is pathetic. if you wanna lose weight, you should do it the healthy way. start eating healthier. aslo what helps is if you eat 5 small meals a day, instead of 3 large ones.

i hope i helped a little bit, though the girl below me really covered many of the main parts!

stay safe and god bless...


Okay, well, I'm usually an optimist. I love and appreciate all that I have. I just have one little problem.
Since school started, it seems like all of my friends have had guys who have liked them, or have gotten boyfriends. It all seems so perfect for them, but look at me. I've liked this one guy for a while and he likes me as a friend. I guess I'm still hoping he'll come around and realize that he could like me.
It hurts when all of your friends talk about getting kissed and going on dates and you can't.
What should I do? (link)
i wouldnt be that jealous, trust me. having a boyfriend really cramps your time and your lifestyle. who really wants to be attatched to the same guy everywhere they go! i know i certainly dont! dont worry about what everyone else around you is doing. think about it this way...- would you be wanting a boyfriend this badly if your friends didnt have one? dont rush it...your time will come. i know right now, your probably like whoa this girl is craazyyy.. but trust me, youll see what i mean when you get your fair share.. ha.


Hey my name is Rachel and iam 17 years old and i've been really depressed about my weight lately and my self-esteem has really been going down and my blood pressure has been going up to like 152/102 and my doctor says that's really high for a 17 years old and he looked scared and that really scared me that my doctor looked scared so i've been eating alot less than I use to.I use to weigh 149 and now I weigh about 105 and iam 5foot and I got so use to my lowcarb diet I decided to stick to it and excersize regularly,but my mom seems really worried and so do my friends and my other family they say when iam only 105 I don't need to diet i've been seeing my school counsler and she tells me to do what I feel is right,but at this point I don't know what is right.Is this anorexia? (link)
alright. what you need to do, is to start back with eating. now i know... the first thing that comes to mind when you think about food is FAT. and you need to get past that word...because all it is going to do is limit everything that goes on in your life. food shouldnt always mean FAT...right now, your body probably isnt used to a normal diet's amount of food. but not eating isnt healthy, and you know that. so what you need to do, is slowly start building up to a normmal diet. but a normal diet could consist of a spinach salad with balsamic vinegar on it... and maybe a fruit instead of a normal teenager's mcdonalds diet! ha. so just think of eating healthy and then when you want that one brownie or you want tht pizza, occasionally, its okay to splurge. but also excersize. even just daily stretches and a couple crunches is better then sitting at a computer or laptop all day like me! but pace yourself.. dont overdue it.. you could get seriously hurt. Dramatic weightloss, in some cases, isnt good... so take down your weight at gradual speeds ... and do it the healthy way. stay safe and god bless =]




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