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I don't know what's wrong with me......
17 female
I asked this boy out named james and I really like him alot and every thing and when I asked him he said that he's trying to get with this other girl.I don't know who she is or anything james is a freshman he says she's in the 8th grade anyway here's the problem before i asked james out all i talked about was him i could tell my friends were getting annoyed with me but i still couldn't stop talking about him my best friend says iam obbessed with the boy but now if i just see his face i want to burst into tears i won't eat and iam normally a big eater so when i don't eat my friends know that there's something wrong with me.I didn 't even talk all that much today all i did was think and daydream about james and when i think about him i start crying my eyes out what's going on and what can i do about it please help iam sick of crying over this boy.
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I just got over the same problem!!! I was obbsessed with my best friend and so i asked him out and he said no he liked me as a sister!!! It took forever to get over him!!! What I have done is I call him my big brother and he call me his little sister!!! We talk like friends and i tell him everything i dont worry about what i look like in front of him and thats really all just treat him like a friend!!! The pain wont leave easily I mean you'll always have a spot in your heart for him but dont worry Just try and keep busy!! Much love!! Kelsea
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Ok well...you shouldn't worry about this boy!!! If he likes someone else move on and don't let him know that you are sad over him. Another thing is that guys like the chase..they like it when you play hard to get. Maybe just ignore him for a few days and he'll realize he made a mistake.
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no offense. but thats kind of lameee.
i mean, its just one boy
theres probably A LOT of other boys who would love to get with you. you dont have to act weird around him. just smile and wave and stuff. i mean dont talk to him every second of the day. but just be like "hi james :]" getting rejected isnt as bad as you think it is. you have a lot more rejections in the future than this. so just move on.
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whoa okay dont rate me bad or anything, just i know a james whose a freshman and he likes an 8th grade girl. does his last name start wit han m?
kay sorry i know this is supposed to be for advice but jw.
anyways. just write back or drop one in my inbox
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I know how you feel. i was oppessed with a guy for 3 years. yes! not good. friends don't want hear it becouse they think your being to to oppessed becouse he not your boyfriend i know that upset you but how ever. there alot guys out there want be your friend. try meet different guys and expernce having guys freind. that what i did that how i got over oppessed. the guy probly jut want be freinds. I am sure there someone else out there like you and you don't know it becouse that guy know ur oppessed with other guy.. think of things he had not done for you? I mean why cry over a boy taking about other girl? if guy talk about another girl sometmes mean he not intress and showing you that. so today look at other guys and smile and said hi to them and try have converstion with them. Amanda
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You have just got to forget about him and move on thats all i can say really because nobody not even you can control your love for this boy
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okay you have to move on with your life. if james doesnt like you, you can force him to. there WILL BE better guys out there for you! dont worry sweetie. keep your head up high and smile =].
-missadvicebitch1
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