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did kurt cobain commit suicide or was he murdered? everytime i listen to nirvana, or any type of grunge music for that matter, i end up asking myself that question. personally, i think he was murdered. i think that courtney love hired someone to kill him because he was getting ready to leave her. if he did, none of the nirvana estate would belong to her. as far as the note goes, i think he wrote it with the intentions of leaving rock and roll and courtney all together, no intentions of suicide. i'm interested in hearing about any theories anybody may have about kurt cobain's death. here is a great site run by the original investigator of the kurt's death:
http://cobaincase.com/

I think he was murdered too! Im not the biggest Nirvana fan but I mean why would he commit suicide? He doesn't really have a great reason if he did...

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Okay, I need advice on what kind of haircut I should get... But I have a few problems.

Problem 1: My hairline. It's too high up on my forehead. And it's like a square. It starts three inches above my eyebrows and juts out beyond my temples. I feel like I HAVE to have some sort of bangs. It's embarassing to pull it all back because it's such a wierd shape and not flattering at all.

Problem 2: Curly girl. I have tight S-shaped curls, but the hair is so fine that it weighs itself down. I never get any volume at the root.

I am a teen and my hair is dishwater blonde, shoulder length. Young face... I'd like something not too short, but that makes me look more mature... and is not too hard to keep up. Help?

Try the ashley tisdale look or vanessa hudgens when you get your hair cut like that it has more volume at the root and takes the attention away from your hairline instead to your bangs or your layers. Hope i helped!

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I have this problem where I basically feel guilty about saying no to guys that ask me out...I know, pathetic. But I feel guilty about almost everything including not helping out around the house even if it's my birthday. So when a guy asks me out, I feel like I have to say yes because I feel bad for turning the person down. And I have this idea that everyone deserves a chance. I think I really need to stop doing this.
What's your view and how should I learn to say no? In a nice way that is...

There's nothing wrong really with giving guys a chance but if you know it's definetaly not going to work then don't feel guilty because you will just break up with them when they are even more attached to you! Learn to say no by not practicing. Just look straight into the mirror and say Im sorry but no. There's no way to say no nicely but there is a way to say it firmly so they don't keep getting there hopes up too high! Hope I helped! Goodluck.

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Hey! I hear this term a lot, but I never really understood what it meant. Anyways, let me get to the point:

what exactly does it mean to hook up with somebody???

Thanks :

It could mean they just had sex or someone got with someone else. =) As in boyfriend and girlfriend.

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And No WHITNEY HOUSTON!!!

So, I'm leaving for lacrosse summer training and then straight from there to college. I want to put up a song on myspace (as the default song)- because my page is going to be a shrine for my girlfriend.

She's going to stay here (in high school), but I want to let her now that I will always love her.

Any suggestions?

I will always love you the cure. XD Jennifer lopez ft fat joe hold you down. Donell jones you know that I love you! Hope I helped!

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I'm not jewish and I was born in England- so my parents didn't have me circumcised when I was born (in Europe they don't do it often).

I've only had sex with one girl, and it was strange when she first learned about it.

So my questions:

1. Does it bother girls to be with a guy who is not cut?
2. Should I go ahead and have surgery to have it cut?
3. How would I tell my parents? I don't have any problems with hygeine or peeing or anything- and I don't want to tell them that it is because girls prefer it the other way?

Please help.

Cheers.

Just tell your DAD that you don't like having extra skin on your penis! That's a good enough reason. I think girls prefer circumcised really I think they do! Hope I helped.

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Hi everyone,
im so frustrated and sad. I can't stand my mom anymore. she treats me like a little girl. Like i cant take care of myself. My mom doesnt trust me. she never wants to let me go out. I have a boyfriend. She thinks im just going to go out and have sex. Im so sick and tired of it. Im not stupid I know what the concequences would be. Its all because my sister got pregnat when she was 17. Im 16. How can i make her understant. I cant talk to her anymore. All we do is fight. PLEASE HELP. I TRIED TALKING TO HER BUT DIDNT WORK =(

My mom is exactly the same. My brother got so depressed from the internet and now my mom won't trsut me. Unfortunetaly there's nothing you can do but wiat till you 17 and prove her wrong! Tell her your not your sister and if she doesn't trust you then she'll just have to worry because your not breaking up with your boyfriend just because she thinks your not sensible enough to learn from other peoples mistakes! I hope I helped I understand where your coming from. =)

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i really wanna grow my hair long this summer. like a whole bunch but i always get split ends (even if i just straighten my hair ONE time with protection) and i like always let my hair natural tho. and then it takes forever when i get my hair cut for it to grow back.
does anyone know of some good things to prevent splitends, grow hair faster, or pills or something to make my hair grow as fast as possable before school starts. :] thankss

Don't condition it everyday like oncce every two days. Put on sunsilk sun lotion for your hair. Grow it really long before you deal with split ends or if you get a lot then just go for a long layered look. Brush you hair from bottom to top! I suggest you use pantene or head and shoulder for shampoo and conditioning. Brush before you go to sleep and when you get up in the morning. Sun makes your hair gow faster too but too much can make it dry. Put on lotssss of extra protectionw hen going swimming! Go to a local clinic and look around. They have plenty of things for hair. Hope I helped.

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how do you get rid of cellulite.. i know you can exercise.. ive been doing that for about 3 weeks now and no results yet. I work out 3 times a week i run the treadmill, do the bike exercise and nothing seems to be working.. its in my thighs..

Go here =) http://www.beautyvisage.com/

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16/f
My first and last boyfriend was almost a year ago. And i know you shouldn't need a boyfriend to be happy but i have a big group of friends only 2 of them are single and i just feel really left out. We always hang out and its all couple except me and the 2 other girls(who by the way don't like me,long story). I just want that someone. and i dont know what to do. I'm sorta shy when i first meet people, or i just right off the bat think they don't like me. What should i doo!?

I COULD KICK YOU!XD Don't take that the wrong way haha sorry sorry!Let me explain. Your problem is soo simple! It is your confidence! Guys like the girls that are out there. I had the same problem until one day I walked up to a cute guy said your missing something me! Then I said just kidding and he asked me out right there! Be confident! Act like your the prettiest girl in the room and you have the greatest personality! Guys may seems shallow but they go for a girl who looks like she'd be hard to tame! Guys like girls that don't seem desperate to talk to them and they hate clingy in my experience! They like girls who look like they don't need someone else to make them whole!

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im 15/f. never had a boyfriend or kiss :(. i feel like time is running out for me to just experiment. like i never got to go through that phase of a boyfriend for a week and then dump him. (not that i really wanted to.) i feel like by time i get a boyfriend, he'll be expecting more from me than i've experienced. im not going to let him pressure me into doing anything but im just saying. i really dont even know what im asking advice for, but i guess i just need help on how to cope with this situation?

Haha girl trust me! College is exploration world! Your not running out of time your time has just began. I've been there done that! Hunnie your going to gain so much experience by the time your out of college you'll be laughing at yourself for ever thinking you were running out of time. Kids in college don't always care if you've got what they want! They'll teach you hwo to do it!XD Those crazy kids! You'd be surprised but if your really worried just go up to a cute guy and be yourself and get that boyfriend you need! Hope I helped! =)

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theres this guy i like, hes one year younger than me and hes really hot. whenever i hang out with him outside of school (which is hardly ever) we flirt alot with eachother. but at school we flirt a little bit but then he flirts with other girls aswell. then one night he started texting me and some how we ended up talking dirty to eachother and we dirty texted eachother every night after that and now i really like him. but still at school he doesnt act any different. well my question is how can i tell if hes just doing this for fun or if he likes me?

yes same thing as before he's embarrased thats not cool! u deserve better =)

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I was wondering if anyone had any ideas for what I can do with my myspace? I want something "new" like a new layout stylesheet & any other ideas like that. I also like default layouts but I'm kinda getting tired of those. I found this cute pattern:

http://i165.photobucket.com/albums/u51/xoHXC_BABYxo/polkadots.jpg

I could use but I dont know how to decorate my page.I really like captions that say cute stuff something vintage.Any help?
thanks for anything you can think of. Btw, can you send me a link or anything like that?
:D

WWW.Whateverlife.com It teaches you pretty much everything about myspace. It has layouts with quotes and polkadots! It's really my secret! All my friends ask where I get my layouts and you can make your own too! Have fun exploring the 3 million layouts they have!XD Hope I helped

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Ive never had a boyfriend or anything throughout middle school. ANyways, this past year in high school, freshman year, no guys really liked me either. However, in the last two months of school, and since, I've gotten 5 guys to like me, and I like every single one, like I've fallen for them all =[
I'm not sure what to do, because they're all nice and hott, but I've never been in this situation before so I'm extremely confuseddd!

Wow five guys huh! ok never make more than two guys like you at the same time! Get out a paper and write what there best quality is. Then just choose the quality you like best. Or do the pro's and con's. That always makes it easier and try to figure out who feel for you first! Hope I helped =)

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So I've been using tampons for a week, and I just went to take mine out, and it was difficult to take out, so I looked down, and there was this elastic skin that was wrapped around one edge!I didn't rip it or cut it or anything.I just had to dig the tampon out from the other side.So I was just wondering if that was good or bad that that happened, and if I should continue using tampons??

Ok how long do you usually keep one in because your really not supposed to have it in there for more than 8 hours which is why I don't suggest using it when you got to sleep! Sometimes it's just hard to get them out so wouldn't worry but do some research if your completely flustered! I know that sounds really weird doing research on your vagina!XD but hey if your frantically worried then do it. Im pretty sure you'll be fine! Hope I helped!

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Ok so i need answers here! Me and my boyfriend were dry humping and i was wearing a skirt and his penis was out. I was kinda giving him a lap dance and my underwear was wet from what im thinking was myself. Im not sure if he came or not but what are the chances im pregnant? he fingered me before too but b4 there was any contact with his penis and im kinda hurting now cause i think he went deep. PLEASE HELP!And tell me can the sperm (if he even came) travel through my underwear and into me? Could i be pregnant and what can i do? Thanks in advance

No it's not that easy getting pregnant! =( Sadly for some women better for us teens! =) Your vagina isn't a alien spaceship! It won't suck up the sperm. =) If you miss your period completely this month then get out the test because better safe then sorry and next time protection would be a little precaution that could save you all the dread! =) Hope I helped.

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my friend and i were at a party. she has a boyfriend of over a year now, but she seems to flirt with every guy she sees. there was this one guy at the party who has liked her for awhile so people kind of made them hug. nothing wrong with hugging. but then she started to act differently around him and to me, everything she did is almost like cheating on her boyfriend. later on, her cousin invited her and i to sleepover at his house with his friends (my mom said no, so her mom didnt let her either). the thing is, she REALLY wanted to sleepover. i think she wanted to be with that guy all night. so, do you think i should just ignore it and let her do what she wants, or should i tell her boyfriend?

Have you talked to her about how you feel? It will just make her really angry if you go off telling her boyfriend how you feel without telling her. If she doesn't respond and gives a lame answers like no I don't like him and that's it then go ahead and help them. The poor guy doesn't need that. All your doing is informing someone about what's going on. They have to make the decision of whether to break up or not! =) Hope I helped.

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How do i talk to my crush without making a fool of myself. Im 14 a female and hes 16 male and i would like to talk to him but dont know how.

Well. If you have any friends that are guys which is very likely then like that. Be confident and cool. If it helps you could plan what you say first. Don't laugh really hard at everything he says because most likely he'll think your very weird. Don't keep staring at him if your in a group. Try to become friends first get to know eachother like you do with other guys. You'll do fine! Just don't act really nervous and act like he's lucky you even talk to him. You cool,confident and sexy! Hope I helped.

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They're naturally muscular, I almost never work out my abdominal area, I want to know what muscle groups I can workout to compensate.

well arms! Not legs because they usually work the lower abs

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I have a Myspace, a Vampire Freaks, a Hi5, and a Buzznet. I'm am getting very bored of all of them. All of the chat/ message boards on those sites, are very inactive.

I'd like to meet/talk to some new people. I'm not looking for dating, so don't give me dating websites. I just want some place where I can go and chat/find new people, preferably teens.

Any site suggestions?

Isketch.net

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