ok this might be kinda confusing and long..I understand the consequences and worries that come around when you have sex& all that. I love my boyfriend with all that I have, and he loves me. We both gave up our virginity to each other, but the thing is, we weren't safe about it, and we both regret that. We both know that we should've used a condom, but I guess we were too caught up in the moment to realize that not using a condom wasn't very smart. okay so here's the question. I was wondering- the first time we had sex, he pulled out right before he ejaculated, and it got all over the place, but I wasn't sure if it had gotten inside of me or not. after that I told him I wanted to make sure I got my period. I took a pregnancy test because he said it would make him feel more comfortable, even though it was too early to be accurate anyways, and like I figured..it came out negative because it was too early. but then a few days later we had sex again but he didn't cum. so if I get my period, that takes care of both times we had sex, right? I know you can't get pregnant if you get your period, but I wasn't sure if I could get my period for the 1st time we had sex, and still get pregnant because of the 2nd time or not. I'm planning on taking the 2nd pregnancy test today or tomorrow since that would make it 4-5 days before my period is supposed to come. please help! thanks in advance!
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yes if you get your period at all your not pregant! so if you get your period your good.
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hi im 13 and there is this kid i like that is 15 i keep sending him messages that i like him but i dont know if he understands them. I also think he keeps sending me messages that he likes me but im not sure is there anyway i can find out if he likes me or if he doesnt how can i get him to like me.
Ps. we both are ino the same things and we always talk on the phone ad online
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kay first of all age is just a number it doesnt matter. i think that you should say ok i dont know if your understanding what im telling you i like you more than a friend. and im not really understanding the messages that you are sending me. please tell me. and tell him this on the phone. if you both or just you are too nevous tell him on the internet.
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Over the past year I have felt some changes. I notice that I wasn't interested in guys anymore. And after talking to my family and shrink about it, we came to the conclusion.. I'm a lesbian. After admitting this very tough situation to my friends, I sort of lost them. It seems they don't want to be friends b/c they are afraid of the situation, and they don't want to be friends with me. I thought admitting this to my friends was the right thing to do. What should I do.
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i think that you should talk to your friends about it and say you guys liked me before but now you dont cause im a lesbian and say guys that not right. its like being racist. you guys should love me no matter what i am. you did before. and if they still dont wanna be your friend its there problem not yours. there just being stubborn and rude.
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my boyfriend and i have been dating for long than a month and couple weeks and he hasnt even kissed me yet. i kissed him once on the cheek but that doesnt matter. what is he doing????
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i think that maybe your boyfriend is waiting till longer than a month. maybe he is afraid that he dosnt kiss well. maybe if you want to you could talk to him about it.
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Ok so you know that little arrow u click next to your browser that shows you all the sites you been to recently? ok so i clicked that today, looking for a site a typed in (im lazy), and then i find this site called nextboys.com. i have never heard, nor typed, nor visited that website so i was curious why it was on our computer. i clicked it, and you wouldnt believe what it was. it was a site for gay massaging!! UGH!! im really mad, because the only people who live in my house is my 7 year old sister, and my mom and dad!! my question is: is it most likley my parents did this, or is there another way to get a site in that list. and if my parents did it, what should i say to them????
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wow i would be freaked out to if i found that on there. wow. but there is a possiable way it could just get on there like if you got a pop up. trust me its possiable. it might sound not true but it is. now if you have a pop up blocker then it could be your parents but why would they be looking at porn espically gay if they want to get playboy lol. but i dont think your 7 year old sister would know about something like that.
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I need a few EXCELLENT pranks to pull on a group of around 6 or 7 girls. My friend and I are doing them together on the rest of the group. We would like to have a prank to scare them, but any type of prank would be alright.
Thank ya!
P.S.---we can't be too harsh!
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omgosh! i think i have a wonderful prank i think that you should tell them to watch The Ring and then look into there window when it comes to the part where rachel is watching the video at the end and the phone rings you should call them from a cell phone and in a creppy voice say 7 days. it should be perfect.
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So I need my teeth to get whitened. What's better - Oral-B/Rembrandt Whitening Strips or Crest Whitestrips? Does it cause sensitivity? And, can I split the box with another person, with still enough strips for each person?
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i think that crest whitestrips works the best because it can last for a long time and you can share with another person.
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I'm 16/M... i never had sex before (im waiting til im married) but i get erections WAY too much...like 6 times an hour and its really annoying, i get them when im not even thinking about anything close to sexual. i dunno what my problem is but i was wondering if its normal or not? please resond.
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i mean your a guy right? i think its very normal. and i also think that its great that your a guy and that you waiting till your married. but yea its very normal.
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I'm 13 years old. I recently became pen pals with a guy my age who lives in England, I live in the US. I really like him, but I don't know how to tell him, or if I even should. If he doesn't feel the same way, I don't want to chance our friendship. What do I do?
hey!
i think you should be straight forward with him and be like ok im really opening up to you here but i like you and tell him the reasons why you like him. and then say if you dont feel the same way about me i dont want this to chance our friendship.
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Okay..sorry in advance if this is long but i really need some advice. Alrite, well a few days ago me n my boyfriend were talking on the phone and he said what would happen if we broke up and i went out with one of your friends and that right that pissed me off and hes like sorry i was just thinking about something to talk about..since we are both very shy! But then i was talking to my boyfriends brother today and he said he told your friend *stacy that he liked her on the phone last night and i was like WHAT THE HELL! and then i talked to my boyfriend and he was like oh my god shes ugly and 2 years younger than me and all this stuff and he was like i only like and love one person and thats you. But i dont know if I should believe his borther..when i was talking to *stacy she said he said he was gonna tell me all this stuff because stacy wouldnt go out with him (my boyfriends lil brother)so im freaking bawling right now because im so stressed out and i dont know who exactly to believe..also his lil brother told me (about 3 months ago) that my bf was cheating on me and that proved to be true but it seems lately that me and my boyfriend have had the "perfect relationship" i love him so much..also stacy talks to my boyfriend on the phone for like 3 hours but she says they talk about me the whole time? So please help me! Sorry its so long!
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omgosh girl its ok! if your boyfriend says that he likes and loves only one person and thats you i dont know if i would believe him after what his brother tells me but then brothers could just be saying that stuff to get your boyfriend annoyed with him but i would sit down with your boyfriend and say ok you need to tell me the truth about what is going on and dont lie to me. if he still says that nothing is going on and that they just talk. i would go to your friend stacy and say look we need to talk and for her to tell you the whole truth.
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well here's how it goes I what to get this guy a gift , I was thinking a cd but don't know what rap singer thats in style.need help guys please speak up
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i think that you could get him a ludacris or a nelly or 50 cent cd. he would probley like those if her likes rap.
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me and my b/f have been going out for a month and i never see him...he is always working. he said he will make time for me but he never does....i really like him and dont want to dump him but idont see how we can go on like this!!!
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i think that you should talk to you boyfriend and say look i really wanna see you but you are always working and i know that is important but arent i too you say that your gonna make time for me but wheres the time.
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I'm making a CD.Does anyone know of any good rock songs that I may have forgotten to add to my list? I don't mind if the songs are a little old.
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here are some....
my chemical romance- helena
the killers- somebody told me
bon jovi- livin on a prayer
3 days grace- everything about you
system of a down- B.Y.O.B
fall out boy- sugar
blink 182- first date
green day- american idiot
green day- holiday
green day- boulvard of broken dreams
the all american rejects- my paper heart
hooastank- the reason
((i dont listen to all of these songs but i know a lot of songs lol))
hope i helped
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this year i was in 9th grade and i had to go to summer school because of my grades what suggestions do u have to keep my grades up for next year so this wont happen?
The student
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i think that for you to be able to keep your grades up is study hard. study days before test because if you cram the night before chances are you wont remember half the stuff the next morning. and ask the teacher whats gonna be on the test so you dont study things that you dont need to know. that would just be a waste of study time.
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i have a female problem my period is always unpredictable and i have been getting it more than once a month what should i do?
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i think that you need to go see the family doctor. because you shouldnt be getting it more than once a month. go see the doctor and he or she should either give you a prescription or medicne.
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What does it mean when someone says "Yeah, he popped her cherry"?
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when a guy says he popped her cherry that mean he lost the girls virginity.
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my dad wont let me get a cell phone because he think i will talk non stop and waste minutes. How do i convince him i wont do that and keep my tlaking time to a minimum? i rate high!
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i think that you should sit down and talk to your dad. say dad im a teenager and i think i deserve a cell phone. and say dad im responsable and dad im a girl of course ill talk a lot. and say dad what if im out at the movies or something and you and mom need to reach me because its really important you guys can call me on my cell phone. its a good idea. and i want one really badly. and if that dosent work and he still thinks you will talk a lot say dad if i go over my minutes ill pay for it myself. that should work.
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i am going to a new school next year, and although i know four other friends going, they arent my close friends and my best friends are staying at my old school. im going to be a freshman and im really scared. although i have been to four different schools, ive never been to a big public school before. the largest ive ever been to had 87 students. im worried i wont make friends and im hoping you will help me find a way to meet people.
thanks!
hey!
i know it can be scary starting in a new big school and not knowing many people. it can be hard. i think that a good way to meet people is join clubs or just going up to someone and say hey my name is..... whats yours.
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i really like this guy that i met, and i think he really likes me too. here are some things he does when he sees me:
1. his face brightens up
2. he leans in to conversation
3. he finds excuses to talk to me even if it means leaving the group of people he's with
4. he lightly brushes me on the arm
5. he smiles so big
6. he makes me feel extremely comfortable
7. he makes excessive eye contact
8. he glances over towards me all the time
9. when he hugged me he did a weird scratchy thing on my back (i don't know if this is good or bad.. heee hee)
anyway, i know where he is going to be soon, and i decided not to go. because i'm a naturally shy person, i haven't excessively flirted. i'm not sure i've even flirted that much at all. when he looks at me i make an effort not to look at him because i feel it will be awkward. i feel like i'm unintentionally acting cold towards him, not dropping enough signals. when my friends see him, should i tell them to tell him that they think i like him just to give him the okay to initiate something else? or would that scare him shitless and make him pity me or something? should i just leave it and not let him know unless it's through body language? what are the effects of having friends tell a person you like them? does it make them feel like they have power over you?
help! i'll rate really high.
hey!
i think that you should tell the guy yourself. because if you do that will show him a sign that you like him. which would be good. i think that you shouldnt have your friends do it because if they do they might say something to embarrass you. if you tell him that you like him yourself he should respect it because you are opening up to him and he should like that.
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Okay, so I've been doing piano for like 5 years now. When I first got a piano I really wanted to take lessons, but that's when I was like...10? Now it's become insane. It ruins my social life, and I don't practice so my really mean Russian teacher gets really mad! I've asked my mom to let me quit, but she gets so mad whyen I ask and says no! What do I do? I want to quit!
hey!
tell your mom that you dont like the piano anymore and that you want to quit. and say mom im not a little kid anymore i want to quit! and if she gets mad again you should just say mom im a teenager now i can make the decision if i want to quit or not. tell her it ruins my social life i can never do anything because of stupid piano.
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