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how do you become popular. like full out popular. (link)
before i describe to you how to be popular i just want to say you will have alot of haters, and alot of kids will talk behind your back - nobody likes popular kids - only them. their snooby, stuck-up freaks that should learn pedicures arent everything.
anywho
back to your question
to be popular you usually need to do or wear..:
-lip gloss
-have your hair always perfect with highlights
-big sunglasses
-pedicures/manicures every weekend
-hang out with the popular freaks
-wear ae, a&f, hollister, pacsun +etc whatever their trend is you become that trend
-have alot of makeup, high heels, and flip-flops
-tanning lotion
-purses
-be totally 'fit' and girly to the max.
thats about how they dress and do stuff.
have fun being somebody your not.


I have to write a paper comparing and
contrasting my best friends. I thought it
would be a great oppurtunity to start with
a friendship quote. My problem is that one
of my best friends is a guy, and the other is
a girl. Most quotes are too girly to work
for both. Does anyone have any sites or
specific quotes that would be appropriate for
school and for my paper? Thanks!

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here's a quote i think is amazing.
"regardless of whether you love someone, hate them, wish they would die or know that you would die without them... it matters not. because once they enter your life, whatever you were to the world, they become everything to you. when you look them in the eyes, traveling to the depths of their souls and you say a million things without even speaking, you know that your own life is consumed by their love. we love them for a million reasons, it is a thing, an indescribable feeling."


I recently just found out that I am gay, and I really want to "come out" to the rest of my family - but the problem is were Roman Catholic, and in my religion it is a DEALY sin to be gay, and also I'm afraid that they wont accept me for who I truly am as a person. I've heard my family say some degrading things about gay people, they treat them like they have the plauge, so if I come out to them I'm afraid I might get kicked out of my family. I can't go anywhere either, all of my family friends, and friends are homophobes because of what society or the media tells them. It will be just such a great feeling to get this off my chest, but I'm afraid of the consequences. Thank you guys for understanding. (link)
I'm a roman catholic aswell, my parents are like the most religious people, racist people like ever.. my brother also found out recently he is gay. One night he told my parents and they blew off, they spazzed, screamed, +etc. then they realized kicking him out of the family won't solve anything they'll still be known to have a gay son. Anyways if your parents are so religious they should know it also tells us in our bible that we have to respect one another for our differences and look for whats inside of us. Being gay is not your choice you were either born gay or born straight. If your friends dont stay by you when you tell them your gay - they aren't really the best of friends. friends don't judge friends, and family dont judge family.. Hope i helped.


I know the whole ovulation thing, but is there any other ways to improve your chances of getting pregnant? (link)
taking fertility drugs maximizes your chances of getting pregnant but it might lead to you getting more than one child (like twins, triplets +etc) also try having sex once your period finished that might help aswell


I know what "taking a break" means, but what is the point? (link)
the point is:
they feel uncomfortable being commited, they dont like being commited, they 'somehow' fell out of love with you +etc.
all together
they're breaking up with you it's like a pick-up line people use to not hurt your feelings, but it doesnt succeed because breaking up kills the human soul.


What's the difference between a hotel, a motel, and an inn? (link)
hotels are when you actually go into the building and most likely take the elevator so this means you park outside (or underground) take all your suitcases and shit out, like an apartment building except youre tourists.

motels are when you park outside your room their like usually townhouses, and cheaper then hotels.

and inns are just like hotels but a bit less fancier.


Ok, well a couple years back I met this guy over the internet. He lives in Egypt and I live in Canada. We've been on the phone, webcam and he sends pictures weekly. Is it possible that after all this that he is a fake? Because I'm really starting to get attached to him and for our school trip we're going to cairo and we were going to meet then. Should I go through with it or what. I'm really confused by it all. Sometimes, well alot we talk about our problems and well we help eachother out, I'm just scared that I'm going to get my heart broken and never be able to trust anybody anymore. What can I do about all this? (link)
this happened to me to.
i figure it's a matter of if you trust him enough to meet him, and to know what he will do. you've been talking on online - true he might be fake, you never know. But i met somebody from online that i liked and he was totally diferent from what i ever expected. Like him, you may get nervous but just for the first time bring a friend with you when you go to meet him try to find someone who will go with you just in case he is fake. There are plenty of good guys and bad guys in the world it's your choice to fall for them and live happily, or get destroyed and broken. My advice is to just think to yourself if your that ready to trust him with your life.


wat does it mean when ppl write (link)
it's a heart.


If I was 15 and pregnant and my boyfriends was 18 does my mom have say in abortion and adoption? (link)
Usually you'd come to think your mom does have a say in abortion because you're still ever so young. Your only just beginning your life, but I wouldn't suggest abortion unless you and your boyfriend are really close and he plans to stay with you for a long time then don't get it. I just want to remind you it is terrifying to get an abortion. Hope I helped.


i want to see my cousin but his mom wont let me. she says that i cant see him in cirtin areas because she does not trust me. and when i go over to her house i cant spend time with him anway bacouse i need to clean the house. but she wont pay me and she wont let me go anwere until everything is to her standereds. as if she was payibg me. what should i say to her? (link)
Just stop going to her house, if she's so self-centered tell her your not cleaning anything until you agree with eachother on a pay that you like and she agress with. And ask why she can't atleast let you see your cousin for atleast 5 minutes. I mean, why does she want to hide him from you? What doesn't she trust?


13/f/8th grade. i have baby-sat my own brother and sister before, but that is basically it. i am going to start baby-sitting the kids on my street and in my neighborhood. any advice on how to start? like what do say to parents, what i should have them pay, what emergency numbers i should have, anything at all? (link)
Try babysitting families you know pretty well, you don't want to babysit kids of a family you've never heard of - something may go wrong

The average is usually $3-5 per hour which is pretty good for teens.

You want to know the following numbers
-The parents' numbers (cells)
-Your parents cell numbers
-Their home number
-Police Department
-Poison Control Centre
-Ambulance
-Fire Department
-Someone who lives close that you trust

Ask the parents the following questions
-What time will you be back at?
-Do the child(ren) have any deseise/medications they need to take?
-Where can I contact you at
-May I use TV/Computer/Music player etc.
-Where is your phone?
-Do you have an alarm system (for overnight use)

Also, ask them to give you a tour of their house, and show you how to use Epi-Pen, or any electronics.

Hope I helped!


Well....on monday i have to read a letter i wrote about wat i did over the summer.And i have to stand in front of the room in front of everyone.How can i have the courage to stand in front of everyone?And im afraid they will laugh at my letter too.Thanx in advance! (link)
Well if you go last then everyone will remember your letter no matter what try to be first or in the middle. Try not to make the letter embaressing practice infront of the mirror to increase your charisma and confidence. Read out your letter to yourself to make it not stupid laterr.


I am a 19 year old very athletic college girl. Mostly because of all the sports I do I eat an incredible amount of food. (around 6500 calories a day) Sometimes when I am with other people I find this awkward. If we eat lunch at noon, I'll be quit hungry by 3:00 or 4:00 at the latest. It leads to the standard questions I am so tired of, "Oh my God how can you still be hungry?" etc. Of course this is worse with people I don't know as well. More embarrassing is staying over at other people's places. I feel funny eatting more than twice what my host does and then being hungry later when no one else is. I'm usually very hungry for breakfast and once, before I realized, it I ate most everything in my friend's kitchen. She kept offering me things like a slice of pizza, some crab salid, etc. until there was nothing left. I feel awkward in those situations but I also find it awkward to tell people I have really big appetite, and I sometimes need snacks, and I eat a lot for breakfast etc. This never bothered my when I was living at home but now I does. I would like any advice on how to handle situations like this smoothly. (link)
Control your eating habits. Your stomach may be used to this way of eating and you gotta teach it that it cannot eat this much food. I wish I was you though I can barely eat. Tell them maybe you didnt have breakfast or lunch. To make them see that your really hungry just to stop them from thinking you over-eat

hope i helped!


i am 16 years old and i hear voics and see things. i get really scared and when the voices talk to me they tell me to kill myself or hurt myself. and if i dont do what they tell me to they threaten to hurt me. it really scares me. my mom tries to tell me thats the voices arent real but they feel soo real to me and i freak out when i start hearing them. when they talk to me i dont remember where i am or who i am around at the time. i have been hospitalized and placed in special ed. at skool. but no one can help me because when i hear them all i can think to do is do what they are telling me to. and when i snap out of it i am always laying on the floor disoriented and there is always 2 people standing close to me. how should i cope with this? what could i do to make the voices stop? HELP ME PLEASE I AM IN DESPERATE NEED OF ADVICE! (link)
Go to the doctors and get maybe your head examined, this maybe something like a hallucination. Try to fight them no matter what, ignore them and tell them to go away from you. Do not go crazy and try to harm yourself in any way at all. Control it. Use all your strength to fight them, and pray.


Hii , I would like to ask a question about this book (Vector Mechanics for Engineers: Statics), where can I find its Solution Manual ?
Thanks
ASAD (link)
Try looking on Ebay, they will be cheap to buy. If you buy them somewhere else they might be to over-expensive. Hope I helped!


im 13 i just got a reptile in my cousins back yard, we live in massachusetts -- it is prob about a little bigger then my pointer finger, its really really thin and has a long tail it is black with one reddish - brownish colored stripe from his head to his tail , he has four legs, his tail is a little a little smaller then my pinky finger any idea of what it is .. i dont know if it is a newt or a salamander.. any advice on how to tell the two apart would be helpful (link)
Technically there is no difference between a newt and a salamander, salamanders can also be known as newts. Newts are usually on land, and salamanders prefer the water. A
n animal with ridges or grooves along its sides (between the front and back legs; these are called costal grooves) is a salamander, and that one with rough or granular skin is a newt.


My daughter wants to dig out some plants that bloom only one a year, but her husband likes the plants. I don't know what they are but they get big blue flowers on them. She wants to plant something that will always be green and that will grow tall and not require any maintance--any ideas on what they should plant???? (link)
Why don't they try planting vines? They will grow tall and be green throughout all seasons. As for the plant i don't know. Sorry.


hello! i finally had my little daughter 2 days ago... and i need some good names. she has blue eyes... and blonde hair. i want unique names... not like lizzie,.. or emily... or jessica... and i like names that begin with C's. i dont know why haha. (link)
My best friend has the name
Cathline

It's pronounced Kathleen just spelt dif.
It's different

There can be

Cady (pronounced Katie)
Cameron
Cali

hope i helped!


My parents have had three cats since I was born. [[15 years ago]] Recently two of them died because of old age. My parents got them at the same time and a couple years later they got the third one.

The third one got real close to the other two over the past years and their death has been real hard for her. She's not the same cat she was before. She won't eat right, you have to hold her food in your hand for her to take it. The same with water, she'll go without it unless you hold the bowl. All she does is sleep on the back of the couch and she looks so pitiful. Sometimes she even acts like she's not all there, like she's been drugged or something.

We have a puppy that used to bother her but the puppy kinda grew out of it, so that's not an issue with her being upset.

Does anyone have ANY advice on what to do? How can I make her feel better? I wanna help her so bad but I don't know how.

And yes, she's been to the vet, she says there is nothing wrong with her, health wise.

Thanks (link)
Maybe she misses feline company. When she came into your house she immediatly felt a wave of security from the two older felines. Try to buy her little cat nips, or treats when you see her upset or in good behavior it'll start making her eat way more. I think maybe you could adopt another kitten I mean, to make it feel like it has duty now to care for the young one like your older felines did with her. Try it!


i'm jealous of everything about my sister. she has always had it easier than me since as long as i can remember. she has perfect hair, shes skinny, big brown eyes, her eyelashes are so long it looks like shes wearing make-up 24/7, perfect smile, great fashion sense, lots of guys and lots of friends and everyone is nicer and likes her better than me, its extremely obvious when we are together. i look at her and think about all the things she has that i don't...i'm average sized, shorter than her,(im older!)my hair is extremely high maitence, i have trouble making friends,my make up is always taking forever, i look like total poop if i don't work REALLY hard to look good, my grades aren't as good as hers, my parents make me do ALL of the chores because shes busy cherleading,(another thing that pisses me off)and what bothers me the most is that she can easily smile everyday while i have to force a smile just so people don't know how i really feel. please help me find an answer...thank you for even bothering to read this (link)
Why would you want to be her? Don't you think maybe it'll get tiring to be perfect? People have their mistakes and their problems. You're shy, she isn't. You are completely different people. I bet she has problems about you. So she's pretty? 72% of guys just go after girls for their looks, would you want that to happen to you? Would you want that to happen to your little sister? You look at all the things you DON'T have, what about the characteristics you do? Sorry I'm a bit bitchy today but I hope I helped knack you into sense.




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