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my name is Jimmy Nguyen.
I like to give advice to people who really need it.
Im 13 yr. old guy
welllllllllllllllllllll if you have a question, ask me and I'll answer it to the best of my abilities.
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//Smallazn4lyfe
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15/m
I'm good friends with a girl and she told me she'll go out with me eventually but not now. What I want to know is, what do I have to do to get her to go out with me sooner. She calls me like almost every day and we talk, but I don't know if she's hinting about anything. (link)
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Oh yes, she's hinting you that she wants you, but just a little confused. Give her some time to find out if shes making the right choice to go out with you.
If you seriously want her. You have to know what to do to get her. Be yourself and not something that you're not. Give her compliments every now and then to show her that you have interest in her. Ask her to do stuff like go hang out at the mall, the park, and make sure you bring some friends so it doesn't get too boring//simple. Make sure you don't call her friends some names like, fat, because trust me, karma sucks.
Well, I hoped this helped. and Good Luck!
//Smallazn4lyfe
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Well theres this girl and a few weeks back she said she liked me, which was great but she had and still does have a boyfriend, i talked 2 her and she likes us both and doesn't know what to do.
one night i got confused by it all and said something stupid "i know u dont like me" so got angry bt this, we didnt talk 4 a while now we made up, but it's not the same, she wont talk like she used to, what should i do, but i dont want to sound to clingy, i really like her. like seriously. (link)
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Dude, I would say just try to like another girl.
That girl that you like right now has a boyfriend and you should wait until they break up for you to seriously start liking her. So, what I'm trying to say is for at the moment, like someone else other that that girl, but you should still keep in contact by talking to her on the phone, but don't talk like you and her are going out, or another thing you could do is ask if she still likes you. If she says yes, but confused, don't worry, all girls say that.
If she says no, just don't get too sensitive about it. Give it sometime and she could start liking you again.
I hope this helped.
//Smallazn4lyfe
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Ok so there's these 2 guys that I really really really like!!!
Guy #1- He's really sweet, caring and nice to me. Prob?? well he was my neighbors ex... so that makes it a little complicated. She is friends with me, but if I go out with him... she said she'll kill me and never speak to me again
Guy #2- is Guy #1's bff.... which also makes it hard and confusing. He was in my 7th, 8th, and 9th grade but we never really spoke to each other that much. Maybe because I didn't have a crush on him until I actually met him (thanks to guy #2)
HELP! I really like both of these guys but there's a twist to both of them. That makes it super hard for me.
Any advice on what to do?
I was thinking of ignoring both of them and looking for another guy, but i'm not sure.
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Oh, you're in one of these little rough situations.
I say go with the flow and see what happens. Follow your heart to see what you think is the best decision. If you choose Guy #1, you lose a neighbor//friend. If you choose Guy #2, you would possibly lose or gain Guy #1's trust, but its a risk that you could take.
I hope this helped.
//Smallazn4lyfe
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13/f.Okay yeah I know it's kind of retarded thinking about it now,but it's so pathetic that I've never had a boyfriend before.Ever.I mean I flirt alot,but psh.It's dumb.I feel so stupid sometimes..I just wish I could find someone who liked me too.Liking the person I like now,is worthless.It's not going to go anywhere,considering the age difference >.<
Help please?
I have no idea what to do.
And I think about it everyday.. (link)
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You aren't alone. There are people in the world that are just like you. Just enjoy life as it is right now and don't worry about a boyfriend. I didn't get my first girlfriend till I was your age, so it shouldn't be hard for you to get a boyfriend. I would suggest for you to don't go too far with the flirting. Just talk, don't be all touchy//slutty, and you'll be set to find yourself a boyfriend.
I hope this helped.
//Smallazn4lyfe
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14/f -well i still like my ex & i really want him back. i know he likes these 2 girls but they're both taken & he took a really long time to get over me, so i figured we'd like always love each other. WRONG. well we broke up on may 18th i think it was? but we went out twice since november. i know, iknow, there's a reason it didn't work out, but i'm willing to make it work. are there any tips anyone has for making him like me again? like duh hang out with him more, but i don't have anything specific i'm looking for cause i don't know what i need. please help! (link)
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You can't make someone like you, but you at least try. Some things that I like girls doing is being really flirty. If he's the flirty type of person, he would most likely flirt back. Eventually, he would possibly start liking you again. If being flirty doesn't work, just start talking to him. Talk about his favorite things, really good past memories, and you could also try talking about if you and him still make a good couple. That's what my ex-girlfriend did and we ended up going back out.
I hope this helped.
//Smallazn4lyfe
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there is this guy "james". he always asks me out and i always say no. i say no mainly becuase i am not looking for someone right now, and happy being single. As much times as i try telling him no and my reason, he still tries to ask me out. he already asked me out about 12 times. what should i do?
much thanks (link)
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Well, if you seriously don't like him. You should tell him that you don't like him. That should knock some sense into his head, because I used to be like that. I was like totally obsessed with this one girl, let's call her Taylor, and I would ask her out at least once every other day. One day she told me that she didn't like me at all and I was crushed, but I stopped asking her.
Well, you can tell him that you don't like him, but it could hurt him.
I hoped this helped :]
//Smallazn4lyfe
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14/f
Okay,
so I've liked this guy forever (since I first met him a year ago) !
We have one of those "flirty relationships", but we're just friends.
I've gone out with other people but still like him.
I know I can't have him, he's said he likes me before but he won't ask me out or take any next step forward.
I haven't talked to him all summer and I hope it stays that way.
I like him alot ! but I think the only thing that's an option is getting over him. I can't.
Plus, I feel like if I ever see him again (school) then I'll like him all over again. HELP. (link)
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I've been in this situation before and i know how u feel.
The best thing that I would do is just go with the flow. I wouldn't force myself to stop liking someone. If you like someone, you just like them until they simply start to fade away, and if you do still like him, just talk to him, like him more, and soon, u and him might go out. You never know.
I hope this helped 8)
//Smallazn4lyfe
(13/M)
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