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My names Marissa. I have gone threw a lot in my life.So im pretty good at giving advice from my experince.I always try to answer to the best i can.So if u got a question dont be shy ask away and i will get to yuh as soon as i can.


~Marissa

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ok well what is the urethra? i kno its on a guy i think, but where and what is it exactly?

The canal through which urine is discharged from the bladder in most mammals and through which semen is discharged in the male.

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I have a little brother who is 6 years old. His name is Denis. I love him and all, but.. he's a weirdo. He's overweight.. he's only 6 and hes 114 lbs. I dont know how to tell him he's overweight without hurting his feelings. It's kind of cute though.. I call him my little oompa loompa. Hehe. Well, please give me much advice. Thanks much!

-Cynthia

Well hun if he is six year's old and 114 lbs you need to help him.He's severiouly over weight for that age it seem's like because i know people the age of 14 at that weight and it dosn't sound to well gor a six year old.Maybe try helping him eat healthy and exersice something maybe look on google for good way's to help him loose weight.

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I go to a day camp, and there is this really nice boy there. His name is Josh, and I like him alot! I dont know what to say though. Im not sure if like he has ever had a girlfriend before and maybe he wont like me back and will never talk to me again. Please tell me what I should do!


-Britt

Talk to him and get to know him.Maybe talk to some of your friend's there and have them talk to him not mentioning your name though maybe seeing if he has/had a girlfriend who he like's at the camp..you know those little thing's that give you all the information you need.Hope i helped

.::SilentTears::.

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I have a friend named Bailey. One day she did a prank phone call to me with a bunch of her friends. And it got me real upset because I thought she was my friend. So the next day she called me and asked if she wanted to hang out with me. And she sounded like nothing happend with the prank phone call. And I said, I thought you were mad at me, and she said never! And I asked her why did you prank me? And she said.. it's only a prank, and she hung up. What should I do?


-x Lauren x-

Well i think if you still wan't to be friend's with her call her and talk this out.Normally talking thing's out work the best.If you don't,then don't let it bother you.Prank phone call's arn't bad though hun,there just something people do when there bored.Trust me i've done them and my friend's have dont them to me.But if it was something mean about you I'd just talk to her about it. Hope i helped

!SilentTears!

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My boyfriend fingered me three days ago, and I guess he must have done it harder than usual, because when he pulled his finger out, it was covered in blood, and *down there* was a little bit bloody. I have been bleeding a little bit since then, but not that much. I don`t think that it wasn`t my period, because I just had it like a week ago. Could it have been my cherry that was popped, or what?!?!

I'm guessing you just got your cherry poped.If not maybe he may have scratched you inside with his finger nail.If that's the case it will heal soon.Hope i helped

~SilentTears

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okay i have this friend but i like him as more then a friend ...we've never seen each other but we talk on the phone almost every day ...i want to find out if he likes me as just a friend or as more ..how should i ask?? ....o and i want to see him some where do any of you guys have any suggestions?

ill give every one 5's who trys to help!

**help**

Okay i have a friend in the same position as you..i will tell you what i had told her..While your talking you can mention something like let's ask each other question's and we both have to answer with the truth.That or you can just come rigth out and ask him if he like's you, and if you wanna see him some where maybe talk to him about it and figure something out but before you do that make sure you completely trust him if it's a guy you've met online.I hope i helped


~SilentTears

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hey..well on IM all of a sudden this guy told me he loved me but the only thing he knew about me was my name and i told him he didn't but he saying he does..but i don't believe him should i?

Well it sound's like he is making it up, because if he only know's your name he can't love you..I don't think you should belive him,But go with your own instinct.


~SilentTears

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I know a girl, who i played soccer with and who was in 1st period with all year during school, and it seems like we have a lot in common. The only problem is that she is a senior, and i am a freshman. I've always been nice to her, being that she is an upperclassman, and she has always been nice to me. I think we could be really good friends, but i feel like something is holding both of us back. Could it be because of the age difference? If anyone wants to know more to answer the question better, comment me back.

Yes,It may be the age differnce other than that im not really sure,unless she's not feeling this friend ship thing the same way you are.But,maybe you should ask her about it or try to hang out with her.

~SilentTears

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I was having a semi-asthma attack on the phone with my boyfriend, and if you've ever had an asthma attack you aren't able to talk without hurting yourself. My boyfriend was asking over and over if I could breathe, well obviously not? I wouldn't answer because it hurt for me to talk and I finally answered with "No!" Then he takes it all defensivly and was like "Sorry! I was just trying to help, but you keep shutting me out." I wasn't shutting him out was I? I was just trying to be able to breathe... Any Advice?

Explain to your boyfriend what happend.Thats the best way i can think of it ..

Hope i helped !!

~Marissa

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i think i have insomia..i cant get to sleep sometimes till 12:30 or later and i have to b up @ 5...and the other night i couldnt get to sleep till....im 15 is there any ways i can get tested to find out if i have it or not?

Well my best guess is next time you go to the docters maybe ask him about it and tell him what you told me about not being able to sleep tonight and ask him about testing and see what all you can do about it.



Hope i helped!

~Marissa

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I need help in my neighborhood there is a lot of families with little kids and I herd they need babysitters but they don't know that I babysit so how do I let them know

Im guessing maybe a flyer or 2 around the neighborhood maybe put them in mailboxes what ever you think will get the word out.

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In the Casper cha cha Slide, it says to do the charlie Brown. What is that? thankx

u kind of hop from foot to foot one in front one in back and hop

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don't bother reading if you can't manage, but 5's to any singly word of response because i really really need some advice here...


i have this twin sister- we're both 14- and she is really immature and selfish and just a totally disgusting and impossible person. sometimes i love her, but alot of times i could just explode! she is just so hard to take!


the main problems with her are that she is really into herself but at the same time extremely insecure and self-consious...and the second is that she just can NOT get over things...like tonight she was trying to get me to remember something by repeating like the same vague amature description over and over and I was like, OK I DON'T REMEMBER CAN WE DROP IT OR CAN YOU GIVE ME A BETTER CLUE?!?!


See its little stuff like that, but I just want to rip my brains our and throw them at her face!!!!!!!!!!! I HATE sharing things with her when I just don't really like her as a person...and she really harms me as a person, because I spend so much energy being infuriated at her or trying to ignore her pesty existence.


I really feel like we are the only people in this world that each other has, so we need to get along...but I just cannot tolerate her at ALL! Its like her brain is so many pages behind, and I can't stretch to reach her and make her stupid accomodations.


Is there any way I can coexist with her as a step towards actually liking her? There are some people in this world that I just cannot ever like, and that's okay, but I really don't want her to be one of them...and how can I vent my feelings in a healthy way? lol i've been sitting in my room screaming (literally) for the past 20 minutes...ew and I wouldn't do anything to hurt anyone so don't go there....


snaps to you for reading this!
xox and SOS

when she starts to get annoying ignore her,dont try to shut her out or anything since you say you feel like your the only people in the world each other have.Because with out her you will have nothing.

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how do i get pictures on a digital camera on the computer...i know by a cord thing but where do i plug it in? thanks!

normally for digital cameras theres a part you plug into the camera and a part you plud into the back of the computer.maybe read the booklet thing that came with the camera and it can tell you where in the back to put the cord.

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so i REALLY wanna be a freshman cheerleader but the problem is when i get in front of the judges i like freeze up and forget stuff like last year i messed up on my cheer and wasn't very loud cuz i was like omg judges so does anyone know how i could get over my fear of the judges?

dont pay attention to the judges.look past them like there not there picture yourself were you practice best for this tryout.this was the same problem for my friend and she tried this and it worked for her i hope it helped you some.

~~SilentTears

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I have a friend.. lets call her... loogie. Well loogie and I have been best friends for 3 years. I love her to death! (as a friend.. duh) but she is just kinda annoying!! I mean my friend and me had plans to go to the movies. Well the night before I asked loogie to spend the night. I called the person I was going to the movies with to make sure it was still happening or whatever.. MY FRIEND GOT SO MAD AT ME!! because she wasnt invited. I mean I cant spend all my time with her! Shes not my ONLY friend!! What do I do to tell her I have other friends and she doesnt have a hold on me?

I would be straight up with her and not lie.Just tell her something like we dont have to be with each other 24/7 you know girl your not my only friend..and remind her your not trying to be rude or anything.that way she dosnt get even more mad at you then before or something because you didnt invite her.hope i helped!!

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Ok, I have a b.f. in Arkansas, and we met once and i really love him. He has no email, and i can't call guy's. I don't know if we should still be together or not. I mean i've only had fealings for him, out of all the boys i've met, which iz like three. Wat should i do. I love him.

HHHHHHHHEEEEEEEEEEEEELLLLLLLLLLLLLLPPPPPPPPP

I rate 5's for anyone who reply's
Thanx

Well i think if you dont see or speak to himi dont get the point really of being with him because there is no communication in this realtion ship.And personaly myself i think communication is a big part of a realtion ship because noramlly it helps the people learn more about each other and not talking or seeing other each other at all isnt really that good of a realation ship at all i think. well i hope i helped!!

~~SilentTears

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do any one no where i can make my own website full of poems? plese help i rate!

you can get a site on some of these places


www.FreeWebs.com
www.Xanga.com
www.LiveJournal.com

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My sister at a young age died of luekemia. I dont really uderstand where she got it from. But lately I've been finding random bruises on my boyd and i know my sister had random bruises and ashe was always tired and im always tired. Is there a possiblity that i could have it too?

yea it is possible.im thinking maybe if you are worried about this to go and check with a docter to see because it would be better to know if you do or not.so maybe talk to ur parent or guardian who ever you live with and ask them 2 make you an appointment to see if you have it.

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I was babysitting at a place over an hour away (I was spending the night there too), and I was charging my cell before I left, and I guess I forgot it was on and charging, so I had left it at home when I left (accidentaly) and it was charging until about noon the next day... maybe later, so if I estimated it would have been from 4p.m to maybe 12:30p.m, not quite 24 hours, but about 3 and a half hours less.

2 questions...
Is it bad to leave you cell on when you're charging (my cell will still charge)
And is it bad to keep it charging for so long (even if it was on accident) Thanks!

1) no it's not bad to leave your cell on when you're charging it.
2)no charging your cell for along time dosnt do any differnt.It might stay charged longer but it wont do anything bad to it.

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