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ok i really like this guy in new york were my mom lives and i live w\ my dad in michagen but if i leave my dad i would feel sooooooooooo guilty and i wouldn't be able to help him. should i live with mom or dad? i know what your gonna say your gonna say that i shouldn't have just that reason for living with her and i don't i have more but this is my main prob. so plez don't say that! (link)
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I hate to say it but really if you have to ask this and yet still tell us not to tell you that that is not a good enough reason… which is the obvious answer then I think you are just looking for other reasons… a boy especially when you are young is not a good reason to change were ad who you live with… I’m guessing be the sound of this you don’t have joint custody… If you parents have you interests in mind, which they should, then I’d talk to them about maybe summer at one place and winter in another… it’s really hard when your parents live far away but know your not alone…
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One of my so-called friends decided that she wanted to make stuff up about me, I guess to start a fight, but it's pretty sad that she has to make something up instead of saying osmething true that's bad, and it's pretty sad that she had that much trouble finding something bad that she made something up. Question is, do I confront her about it or not, because I heard it on the grapevine. I don't know if I should tell her to her face how pathetic it is that she has to make up something because she can't find anything, or if I should just leave her to think that she has gotten away with it completely. Can anyone help? (link)
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I would confront her be strait forward and honest, tell her that you don't appreciate it and that is she has an issues with you to please take it up with you... be very polite and calm about it… be the better person... if she continues she's not worth your time... but don't go spread roamers back… just be really nice to her... say hi and smile and say nice things about her... believe me it becomes very hard to dislike and lie about someone if there really nice to you... if you smile and say hi to other people too it will just make her look bad...
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I got fired from my job about three years ago. It was really a great job and it was an exempt position too. I was using drugs at that time and it affected my performance and I was missing a lot of days worked. It was kind of like an eye opener for me when I got fired and I've been drug free since then. I had three little kids so I decided that it would be best if I stayed home with the kids during the day and I took a part time job at night. It's been this way for three years. Now that my youngest kid is also in school, I think that I am ready to work full time again. My dilema is I don't know what to say when asked on a job interview why I left my last full time job. I can't say I got fired because they wouldn't hire me. What do you think would the best response be? (link)
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You have to be honest... I just did a website about interview skills... tell them that you were fired for a drug problem, but you had rehab and have been drug free since... honest and strait to the point is best for an interview... a liar won't get hired...
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How do you know when you are in love? I think I might be...but then again I don't think so, because if I really loved him, I could actually talk to him and not just stare at him until he looks at me, and then (at a perfect opportunity to talk to him.) quickly look away.
>>Toungue Tied & Confused (link)
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well that's not love thats acctually known as infatuation... it's normal... but what you need to do to progress from that is...
1. don't think that if you stare at him long enough he'll fall in love with you... it won't happen
2. Know that you are worthy and go talk to him
3. get to know him then prehaps have a relationship with him
4. fall in love for real...
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Hey everyone, i'm so tired of being a prep and since being a punk is popular now, i think i'll go steal a chunk off of someone else's culture!
And can anyone tell me how to make my boobs look like Pamela Anderson's? Thanks so much, everyone! It means a lot to me! (link)
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how about making your own style... if you just go steal something else thats not really you because it's popular your taking away from the people that really feel like the "punk" style is them... make your own tracks... be the next big thing...
or...
how to be a "punkzor"...
step 1: get stupid
step 2: good job
step 3: umm... copy what that other person is doing or something...
as for the boobs its caled boob job and just so you know big busted women everywhere wish there's were a lot smaller... there not as great as you think be happy with what you have...
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My boyfriend calls himself a Christian but doesn't go to church. I'm not a religious fanatic or anything, actually I'm pretty liberal and my church is too, but he's still really reluctant to go to church with me. He seems to really dislike organized religion. I understand where he's coming from, but he won't even give my church a chance... we're really cool. I'd love it if he'd go to church with me, I think it'd be fun, and frankly it freaks me out that he's so afraid to try new things. What do you think? (link)
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Well try and except this... I would call myself a Christian... but after seeing so much corruption in the churches, little boys being molested by priests and ministers, and going to church and hearing the reverend go on about how Jew’s and Jehovah’s witnesses are all damned and gays are Satan incarnate and hearing from friends these horrible things that were so cold and prejudice I don't want to go to church... I don't think you could force me at this point... I imagine this is his type of protest... just because he doesn't want to go to church with you does not mean he will never try anything new... if it really matters that much to you confront him tell him your concerned.... but try and respect that people worship in different ways and just because they don't go to church does not make them bad or not Christian… they could just want to intrepid religion for themselves... it might be very strange and truly uncomfortable for him... I know the last time I went all I wanted to do was jump up and scream no! to what was being said... perhaps in time he might be willing to support you, but being seemingly the same way as him I really suggest asking him strait up if he has something against organized religion... stay open minded to his views and don't start preaching to him about being wrong, just try and understand why and where he is coming from... If you want him to be open minded then you have to be to… hear him out!
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how do i get people to ask me questions? (link)
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answer lots of questions...
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Look I have this boyfriend his name is Buddah and he has a drinking and drug habit and wont stop until he get's probation.Also there's this perfect boy in school name Maurice and he want's to go with me,So should I break up with Buddah and go with Maurice or stay with Buddah??????? (link)
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Buddha honestly sounds like trouble for the sake of your sanity I'd break up with him… What ever you do after is up to you... but drinking and drugs get you nowhere...
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I know if I dry my wool sweaters they're shrink, but I don't have time to lay these things out to dry... can I just blow dry them? Will that shrink them just like a dryer would? (link)
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As much as a fast way would be loved I hate to say but I wouldn’t push your luck... Do it the long way and wear something else...
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Can I get sick from licking all the envelopes from my christmas cards to seal them? I know I could use a sponge and all that but that's just not as fun... I feel like licking them gives a more personal touch. Is all that glue going to get into my system and give me some horrible disease? (link)
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No disease, and it probably won't kill you... however it may make you nauseous and light headed and all that good stuff, so if I was you... drink lots of water to get the glue flowing out and diluted and take breaks now and then... you should be good to "personalize" with your saliva!
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One of my best friends is a hacker-gamer who, I suppose, can get anything he wants. He's a loner and a cranky brilliant sort of guy. Thing is, I dont know what to give him for Yuletide giving--it's illegal for me to buy a gun, even though that would please him, and I can't afford a motorcycle. I want to give him something good. Anyone have any suggestions? (link)
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Those are the hardest type to shop for... you have to really pay attention to the things he says for any “I wants" or "I wish" a good idea? A bunch of blank cd's and disks to say all the wonderful games he's hacked ;) I think that would suit him... get the ones with cases though...
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does anyone no where to find a free chat log for aol, not aim, aol? cuz i love looking at old chats from a really long time ago but its a pain to always save them to word. (link)
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hmm... have you tried to run a search on yahoo google or msn?
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Okay this guy (call him Pierre) used to like me and i liked him n stuff. Then he asked me out, but i said no. On monday he invited me to his party. On thursday Pierre was passing out papers and said my friend likes you he thinks your cute. So I was like cool who is it! He wouldnt tell me though. He said unless i tell him who I like he wont tell me. So the next day Im trying to ask pierre who it was, but he avoided me. He looked at me by the sides of his book and made faces at me stuck out his tounge and eventually he made a kiss with his lips at me. And my friend (call her Sarah) saw him wen he did that too. She and acouple other girls think the mystery guy is him. They asked him if its him and he said EWW no!Though he said he liked a girl (call her Mary). So then finally Pierre told me the mystery guy doesnt like me anymore and he thinks Im a loser! And then I tried to bribe him by telling him I knew alot of girls who like him, but Pierre said guys dont care about that. But still he wants to know who I like though! And then this other guy (call him Chriss) told me he over heard Pierre say ya I wouldnt blame the guy for not liking her she IS a loser. So my questions are, Why does he still want to know who I like? If he thinks Im a loser why did he ask me out and invite me to his party? Is he the mystery guy? Why did he react weird when my friend asked if it was him? Why does he call me a loser? and does he still like me?
~~~~~~HELP~~~~~please!~~~~~~~~~TODAY!!!!~~~~~~ (link)
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"Why does he still want to know who I like?" Most likely if he is asking for a friend or himself, guys want to know if they even stand a chance or they are liked back before they are put on the spot... the who do you like this is a way of finding out if the guy you like is them and if its not then no harm done... "If he thinks I’m a loser why did he ask me out and invite me to his party?" He probably said that to sound cool, or he his upset you won't answer the question he asked, that of course hurts his pride in away so to make up for the fact you wont fess up he claims its because you're a loser. I'd say in fact he honestly does not believe that himself... he probably thinks very highly of you... that's how many guys combat humiliation or hurt feelings. "Is he the mystery guy?" Very possible... but he won't admit it for fear of getting turned down... just think If he asked you out why would he want to hook you up with a friend?... "Why did he react weird when my friend asked if it was him?" He doesn't want you to know unless he knows you like him back for fear of rejection, so naturally he denies all allegations that it is him... that is a very common thing to do... If it was not him then of course he would say no it's not... but logic says it's him... "Why does he call me a loser?" see above ;)... "and does he still like me?" My guess is yes... but I can't guarantee it... best way to know is tell him you like him... that is of course only if you do...
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Who's better?
Britney or Christina (link)
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Neither... the both can't sing great, both dress themselves far less than they should... and both I imagine are a dumb as a post... how can one be better when they both suck... But of course that is only my opinion...
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i went out wit this boy 2 years ago and we broke up and everything. well his friend keeps telling me that he likes me and wanted to go back out wit me. well he acts like it i guess but i really dont know. it seems like he gets kinda scared to talk to me because he would only say "small talk" to me. but starting today i started liking him again and i dont know what to do. help me!!!! (link)
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Well then best thing to do would be to let him know... If he likes, his biggest fear is probably that you won't like him back... so if you would like to give the relationship another go then I suggest telling him you like him so you can build it up again.
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Ok its me again...I asked you about the boyfriend like watching me and stuff. Um...I'm not trying to be hopeful where there isn't any, but you dont think it's possible that he still has feelings for me he's just affraid to pursue them, and his new girlfriend is safe...You know what I mean? Eh.. I don't know. (link)
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It's possible but for the sake of everyone's sanity on the issue, I wouldn’t push it... there are other guys out there, and if it's meant to be with you and him then one day he'll come crawling back... till then don't sit around and wait, and don't hang onto that hope to the point were you screw up any chance there was... if it's meant to be then it will be... that is what i honestly believe...
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Ok, you gave me advice, and you said that my ex probably only looks at me because we made memories together and he was just taking a trip down memory lane and that he probably doesnt want to go back with me. Well, what I don't understand is, how he can look at me, and then tell people he doesn't want anything to do with me? And I'll turn a corner in school, and there he'll be. And when I try to talk to my friend who is his friend, he'll be right there now. And I wrote my friend this funny note as sort of a prank, and my other friend said that he read it the note too and was laughing a lot. If he didn't still have feelings he wouldn't take that much of an interest in me, would he? (link)
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Well the whole memory thing is that he still has feelings, just not the kind that would make him want a relationship with you again... people naturally want to be loved and noticed... part of our nature is to get others to like us even if we don't like them back... he probably still would like your attention, just not in the way it once was (just like some guys get jealous when there ex gets remarried or something like that), but for the sake of his new girlfriend he doesn't want her to think you two are still involved, so he denies it... he also might deny it because these feelings can be confusing and he might not understand them... even though they are natural... He might also be interested in being your friend, just not your boyfriend, but he is unsure how you feel about it or how his new girlfriend would feel about it so he’s moving very slowly and carefully... there are many possibilities to why he does this but remember that just because he does it, does not mean he's romantically interested in you, and you need to move with care about it, and try and not take it to seriously, and if it's something you really need to know about confront him and ask him...he might deny it but don't take that as an answer... you know better ;)
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This guy likes me..a lot! He is nice funny and all, but i cant picture myself with him..And yet when he went out with another girl..i got a weird feeling like i was jealous. And i could have gotten a boyfriend, but i was afraid he wouldnt like me anymore. I feel like i dont like him, but now im confused..What should i do??? (link)
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This is not you being a freak or anything not normal, when someone likes you it is flattering weather or not you like them back... it can make you feel special and good about yourself, you don't want him to like anyone else because that mean that no longer will he want you and that means no longer are you special to him... you don't want to lose his attention because you like it. This is or basic unconscious selfish urges to want to be the best female... the one that all the guys want... we all want to be loved... Just try your best not to let him get to you... live your life, don't pass up any more date deals. You can't change these feelings but you can sure suppress them I've done it... and eventually they seem to disappear especially if you can find someone else...
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..ok...soo....its been a few months since my boyfriend and I broke up, and I was upset, but now I'm ok with it. And he has a new girlfriend, but yet...my friends say he always watches me when I walk past, but he tries to hide it (he doesn't do a very good job). And when you ask him if he would ever go back out with me, He's like No I'm happy with (we'll call her Bob) Bob. So then what's with the watching me crap? Could somebody explain it to me? Ahhh. Thanks. (link)
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Perhaps he looks and thinks of what could have been, or looks to take a trip down memory lane... just because you break up with someone doesn't mean you never think of them or look at them again... he very well could really like his new girl and could very well never want to date you again... but you know you did make memories... don't think to deeply into this... it probably has no significant meaning.
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Why is the grass outside my window green? (link)
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Chlorophyll my dear... its the cells that take the light and turn it to food, the pigment they give off is green... it you want to get more technical green is the color on the visible light spectrum that is reflected by that plant...
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