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Ok, you gave me advice, and you said that my ex probably only looks at me because we made memories together and he was just taking a trip down memory lane and that he probably doesnt want to go back with me. Well, what I don't understand is, how he can look at me, and then tell people he doesn't want anything to do with me? And I'll turn a corner in school, and there he'll be. And when I try to talk to my friend who is his friend, he'll be right there now. And I wrote my friend this funny note as sort of a prank, and my other friend said that he read it the note too and was laughing a lot. If he didn't still have feelings he wouldn't take that much of an interest in me, would he?
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Well the whole memory thing is that he still has feelings, just not the kind that would make him want a relationship with you again... people naturally want to be loved and noticed... part of our nature is to get others to like us even if we don't like them back... he probably still would like your attention, just not in the way it once was (just like some guys get jealous when there ex gets remarried or something like that), but for the sake of his new girlfriend he doesn't want her to think you two are still involved, so he denies it... he also might deny it because these feelings can be confusing and he might not understand them... even though they are natural... He might also be interested in being your friend, just not your boyfriend, but he is unsure how you feel about it or how his new girlfriend would feel about it so he’s moving very slowly and carefully... there are many possibilities to why he does this but remember that just because he does it, does not mean he's romantically interested in you, and you need to move with care about it, and try and not take it to seriously, and if it's something you really need to know about confront him and ask him...he might deny it but don't take that as an answer... you know better ;)
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