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I ve been married for 12 years n mom of 3children,
.my husband say white lies ,we always fought for this .he always kept his matters secretive .he care for us ,and kept us separate.now for a year or so I m maintaining little distance that he realizes .still he acts ignorant and stays the same as he was before . (link)
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Everyone tells little white lies. It's completely natural, especially if the one telling doesn't wish to hurt the one they are telling them to. It's honestly nothing to be concerned about. But if they are truly causing you discomfort, the best thing to do is sit down with him, and CALMLY explain to him how it makes you feel. There's no reason to fight over it, unless he's been doing drugs, and losing a lot of money due to it, gambling excessively, or having an affair, major things like that, to which, in either of those cases, if he did, you're better off having him seek professional help, or leaving so as not to put you and your children through suffering, should he not wish to cure himself of the problems. But if it's small things, let it go. There's no reason to fight over it over and over, it's not healthy nor is it good for the children. You don't want them growing up believing that this is how a relationship is suppose to be, both always fighting, right? If you really want your relationship to work, then you both *you and your husband* must come to equal terms, as well as trust. Without trust, there can be no love, without love, there can be no real relationship.
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How bad do wisdom teeth hurt? Im so curious. Do they numb you? (link)
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How bad do they hurt coming in, or being removed?
Coming in can vary from person to person, some find them growing in to be uncomfortable, and painful while others don't even notice them come in. My boyfriend didn't. I did. I was constantly chewing on something to ease it lmao.
If you are having them removed, it doesn't hurt. *I've had 2 of mine pulled so far* They numb you. But it all also depends on what type of procedure they are preforming. If your wisdom teeth are already grown out, all they'll do is pull them out, if they are still under the gum, and sort of coming in *like mine were, there was a small break in the gum, but the teeth never fully came in* they'll have to cut them out. What they do is cut open the rest of the gum surrounding the tooth, drill a hole into the tooth, and break it in half. Then pull out the two halves. Either way, the procedure itself did NOT hurt. My only problem during was the jaw discomfort. *you'll be stuck holding your mouth open* It's uncomfortable, and if you aren't careful and do as your dentist tells you to, the healing process could be uncomfortable too. There will be some slight swelling, as well as possible bruising. But for the most part, it's not that painful, at least I didn't think so. Everyone has different tolerances for pain. So what wasn't painful for me, could be painful for you. Who knows? You might even be like me and not even feel a thing.
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19/f/uk Not great with PC's
Okay so, for those advicers out there, please dumb your answers down for me. Techno talk is not my language.
I have a PC at home, that was purchased about 3.5-4 years ago now. Windows 7. Packard Bell. McAfee.
Since going away to university it has not been turned on everyweek (unlike my parents promised) and has missed various McAfee and Windows updates.
I have tried restarting my computer, and have restarted using McAfee Remote Control Service however it is taking over an hour (and still counting) to restart.
Currently its still "shutting down". MY computer system is not slow. Its quite satisfactory. I dont know whats wrong with it.
I am tempted to just turn it off from the button and force a reboot.
Also I have tried a full scan, defrag, and removing unwanted things from my PC such as temporary files etc. All to my knowledge successfully but still no affect.
Any ideas? What should I do?
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There are several factors that could be affecting the shut down time on your computer. I looked up online and found a few sites that may be of assistance to you and your problem. I hope that one of these solutions help.
http://answers.microsoft.com/en-us/windows/forum/windows_7-performance/windows-7-is-very-slow-to-shutdown/fb35a679-c9b8-4a97-95c4-39c60e218130
http://www.tomshardware.com/forum/37430-63-computer-takes-long-time-shut-down-ideas-windows
http://www.sevenforums.com/general-discussion/106671-why-my-pc-takes-long-time-shutdown.html
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I just got my mirena IUD birth control taken out because I didn't like always bleeding when my partner goes deep. I'm now not on anything, I'm looking at pills but until then, I don't want to get pregnant! I can't buy an ovulation test and I didn't have any periods are on the mirena in the last 4 years so I can't tell that way either. My question is... is there a way to tell if you're ovulating without the test or a period?
Some advice on condoms would be great too. Just how well do they work? I'm very fertile.
I do not want advice on birth control options. Just the questions I asked please. Thanks :) (link)
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I was on the mirena for almost 5 years. My obgyn accidently yanked it out while preforming my pap smear. I believe every woman is different, so ovulation can be difficult to determine. As for me, the way I was able to tell if I was ovulating was by how my body changed. Ie, secreting more bodily fluids that were thicker than usual, slighty tender breasts, slightly higher temperature. But as I said, every woman is different. You could always also try an ovulation calender on-line, so long as your periods are regular, *I know you said you haven't had them while on mirena, so you could always wait until the re-regulate themselves, which can take a while ;/* it's not 100% accurate, but gives you a more estimated time frame to be more cautious. As for condoms, they are effective, but not 100%, my partner and I found that condoms + spermicide lubrication was more so. If you plan on going on birth control, why not try pills AND the condoms + spermicide to reduce the chances of pregnancy. *After I had started the pill, I still got pregnant, of course a year and a half later* If you're not ready for another child, I would suggest combining both methods, to decrease the chances of pregnancy. Condoms, spermicide, + pill.
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I had my last periods 4 days early then my regular dates.it was little inregular bt on my 12th day onwards i have been getting a watery yellowish discharge for almost 6days now.m worried i dnt know if m pregent or its health issue.
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Yes, you can get your periods even during pregnancy. My first 2 trimesters of pregnancy, I continued getting my period, without even realizing I was pregnant. Not until I was forced to go to the doctors by my boss *the flu was going around, and she wanted to be sure I didn't have it* I found out I was *at the time* 27 weeks pregnant. After finding this out, I found out that some women experience periods during their pregnancy, and that it's really not that uncommon. Even my boyfriend was shocked. I am currently 33 weeks pregnant, and I do still get my period, but it's not regular anymore. It lasts for a day at most anymore.
Anyway, the only way to know if you are pregnant or not is to take a couple of tests. Not at the same time mind you. But take one shortly, and if it turns up negative, take another one a week later. If they both turn up negative, go to your obgyn and get yourself looked at to ensure that there is nothing wrong.
Best of luck.
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Last month I got my period 3-4 days late and after that I did not have any sexual contact with my husband because he is working out of state. So this means I might not be pregnant so why am I late on my perid. Exactly one week late. Please help me (link)
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You may be pregnant, you may not be. There is no way to know for sure unless you take a test or two. Some pregnancies you don't even get symptoms. Missing your period could also mean something else is wrong. So my first suggestion, take a pregnancy test, and if it turns up negative, my second suggestion is to set up an appointment with your doctor/obgyn to ensure that you are healthy.
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So I've with my boyfriend for a year and 5 months now. His older sister hates me. She was very nice when she first met me but when she found out i'm dating her brother, she told her family that I started threatening her via texting. But I don't even have her number. Her family spoils her rotten. They don't care if she did something wrong, they'll always be on her side. And even if they did tell her something, she wouldn't listen anyway. Eventually her lie was exposed and she covered it up by saying it was a test to see if I could stand her bitchyness to be with her brother. And since i'm a peaceful person, I just let it slide. Then, when she found out I went to the movies with my ex (we're still friends, we did not do anything inappropriate), she flipped and called me shady. When she saw me, she told me to walk away now or she'll hit me. Now i'm not a spineless person, so of course I wanted to say something but my boyfriend told me to just ignore her and keep walking. Another time, she told me i'm not supposed to be at their house and I gave her attitude so she threatened to beat me up. I was said whatever. Right after she said that, my boyfriend went to my house but I guess he wasn't supposed to leave so she drove to my house, banged the door a couple of times, and actually tried to open the door! Thank good the door was locked. When no one answered, she texted my boyfriend saying 'I'll be back :)' I did not want to cause trouble so I just endured it. However, she crossed the line last night. I was waiting for my boyfriend in my car when suddenly I see her pull up the drive way. She stopped behind me so I figured I must be in her way so I moved forward a little bit. But then she got out of the car and banged on my car telling me to leave and I'm not supposed to be there. I told her i'm not on her poverty, i'm parked on the street so I don't need to leave. She then threatens to call the cops while banging on my car multiple times. I challenged her to do so but she just kept hitting my car. She tried to open my car door but the doors were locked. However, the sun roof was open. When I finally decided to just ignore her, I felt something hit my ear really hard. I figured she had hit me through the sun roof. When I was about to get out of the car to hit her back because I was furious at that point, I noticed my boyfriend already came out and he pushed her to get her away from me. She screamed at him, yelling 'what? Are you gonna kill me?' He just went inside and told his grandparents then got in my car. I'm very sick and tired of her behaviors. My friends suggest I should file a claim on her. Should I? Keep in mind that she's 19 and I'm 18. Her family never once apologized to me about her behaviors. All they ever tell me is to just ignore her. Well obviously that isn't working. I feel like she's only picking on me cause i'm way smaller than her. She's 3 times my size. My boyfriend told me that a long time ago when she was acting all tough with this girl, the girl actually called her out to fight her. Instead of fighting her like she's always said she would since she acts like a badass, she just called the cops on the other girl. I tried to talk it out with her but she doesn't listen. I don't know what to do.
I'm sorry if I have any grammar mistakes, I moved to the U.S. from Hong Kong 10 years ago but my grammar is still really bad. (link)
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Don't worry about your grammar. THere is no problem with it. You are still getting use to it. Other than that, I would suggest next time she starts harassing you in such a manner, even attacking you like she did, I would begin recording the incident right away. This way, if you have to go to the police, you can provide viable proof of the harassment and possible endangerment to yourself by her. Don't fight back, otherwise you could also get into trouble. Just record the next incident(s) on your phone, and if it gets to be too much for you, take it to the police and explain what has been happening, and showing them the video(s). I don't know how your boyfriend and his family would react to this, but you must consider your personal safety. You never know, she may end up going too far someday and end up really hurting you.
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I have a pain in my neck/throat on the right side. It's just under the jaw and I can only feel it when I move my neck down and to the right.
Also, my throat is slightly sore, but hardly...
Has anyone every had these symptoms and been diagnosed or maybe knows what it is?
I was just at the doctor last week for something else so I'm hesitant to go back.
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It could be bacterial infection or whatever. I would suggest, gargling warm salt water about 2-3 times daily, for a couple of days, and take some robitussin, if that does not after the first few days, I would suggest going to the doctor as it could be something worse. Though, it's never a bad idea to get a doctors opinion. Better safe than sorry, right?
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So im a male and i really dont know what to wear to the valentines dance and i have two dates(both girls-which are friends, and i like on of them) so i have two dates and i never wear shorts. I have a pair of jeans and a brown long pants, i have some good looking sweaters and one or two shirts that i really like... What do girls like? What do girls want that guys wear?? (link)
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Personally, I prefer a male who will dress as himself and be himself. But if you want to look nice, you can never go wrong with a nice button up shirt, and a clean pair of nice looking jeans. My personal favorite on my mate is when he wears his dark long sleeve button up shirt, and his jeans. BUt that's a personal taste :) I say just go with what you like most, and you can't go wrong ^_^
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I have this strange pain in my right arm, it goes all the way down to my hand. It won't stop aching. I've tried with pain killers and massage but they wouldn't do much good. What can it be? What can I do? Please don't write 'you should go to the doctor because I just can't afford it right now. Thanks! (link)
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Heart attacks happen to ANYONE, but typically, it's the left arm that hurts, *at least from my experience, I had one some time ago due to heart related problems and increased stress*. The left arm is more frequent, but I have heard of others having pain in their right arm before/during an attack. Anyway, the pain you are describing may be a sensory nerve issue. For a better and more proper diagnosis, I would suggest speaking with your doctor, if you already have, speak with another doctor and get a second, or even third opinion. It is never a bad idea to get them. Explain to them the pains you are feeling as well as how long it has been going on. I have noticed that you said not to say to go to a doctor due to being unable to afford them, so call around a few doctor clinics, and ask about sliding fees, or any form of discount you may get due to no insurance and/or low income, some if not most, clinics offer these. At least from the towns I've lived in, I've noticed they have. Since no one on here can give you a proper diagnosis, *even if there are doctors on here*, without proper examination. You are better off seeing one in person. Remember, your health is important, especially now a days.
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I am looking for a braclet from Lead Compliani its a peace signs all around it ? (link)
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Is this the bracelet you are looking for? (geeky moment xD hah)
http://www.amazon.com/Silver-Peace-Bracelet-Square-Compliant/dp/B009WW69MA
Then there are these
http://www.dskeepsakes.com/thestore/BPS.html
Hopefully it was, if not, then perhaps something you would prefer.
Also, try googling, there were a LOT of pages with many different styles.
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i have been spotting and bleeding for 3 weeks now or more it the first time it happen and i bit sick in the morning (link)
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There could be a few reasons this is happening. There could be something wrong with your uterus, causing the non-stop spotting, or you could even be pregnant. I would suggest, for a more accurate diagnosis, to speak with your doctor and have him/her run a few tests on you to see what it could actually be.
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i never had an intercourse but the doctor said that i have my old ripped hymen and wounds call 6 o'clock 3 o'clock or something that i didn't understand because i am 12 years old at that time, the doctor insert me a thin metal when he found the result, its painful but when he told me to relax it would be done quickly and less painful, then the result that he told me is that i am not a virgin, and now i am 22 and still wondering what happened to my hymen because i never had a sex, what are the possible thing to ripped the hymen without intercourse? i am still a virgin even if the doctor told me i'm not virgin because of my old ripped hymen and i never experience sex?
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There are several ways a hymen can break without having had sex. A friend of mine, when I was in 5th grade, had fallen off of the jungle gym or whatever they call it now-a-days at school, and fell on a bar, that hurt her between her legs, the result of the forceful impact had torn her hymen. Sometimes also, masturbation *being too rough with yourself* can also cause this. Pretty much, any form of rough/forceful trauma can tear your hymen, resulting in "not being a virgin". There are many factors which could cause a torn hymen.
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I have noticed my voice seems higher after orgasm. Is this normal? (link)
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It is normal. For everyone after climaxing, they react differently, some people cry, some people's voices change, some shake uncontrollably, while others really don't react differently other than out of breath.
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What English dubbed anime has a boy as the main character and meets a girls and they fall in love at the end?
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That's a very vague description, as MANY animes are like that. Especially since funimation and other companies dub animes. A name of at least one character could have slimmed down a list. Or, is it that you are currently looking for anime of this type? If that's the case, here is a small list of some along those lines.
Narue no Sekai
Kimi ni Todoke
ouran high school host club
Special A
Kaichou wa Maid-sama
as for them being dubbed, I know some of them are, but I'm not entirely sure if all are. Never hurts to check it out though, right? :3
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I have a bad sore throat it hurts every time I sallow. Also I get a sharp pain in my ears. I have no fever or any other symptoms. I have taken some medicine to see if it will go away but it doesn't. Do I need to have my tosils removed? (link)
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No idea if you'll have to get them removed. Go and speak with your doctor and explain to him/her the discomforts. For all you know, it could just be strep throat. No one can tell you if they have to be removed or not other than your physician.
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im 18 and female i have never done anything except making out i have recently started going out with this guy and he has tried to finger me but i stopped him. its not because im uncomfortable being fingered its because i get alot of vaginal discharge and i dont want him to be grossed out! is it normal to have discharge or is it meant to be dry?? please help (link)
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Discharge is perfectly normal for women! It varies on how much from woman to woman. Women "get wet" when aroused, making penetration easier. If you're completely dry, then I would suggest going to the doctors to ensure everything is alright down there. Otherwise, discharge down there is perfectly normal (unless it has a strange discoloration). But considering you've done nothing but kiss, you're perfectly fine, it's nothing to cause alarm. Just be sure, that if you ever decide to get intimate with your boyfriend *intimate meaning sex* always use protection, despite what he says. You don't want to get pregnant if you're not ready, and you don't want the possibility of contracting an std *sexually transmitted disease*.
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So I had boyfriend and well I really liked him but then a boy that I had a mayjor crush on my 7th and 8th grade year says he likes me deeply to.... And the other guy is a real jerk but a part of wish things would have went better he acts like a little kid and it irratates me :/ he kinda screwed me over in the process I just need some advice on what I should do??? (link)
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If anything, follow what your instincts tell you. No one wants to be with a person who has screwed them over. Especially since they may do it again. But again, you never know, he may change. I would suggest talking with your boyfriend and explaining to him about things he does that bothers you. If he isn't willing to change his act, then perhaps it's time you both went your separate ways. But really, it all depends on how you feel about it. If you want to try and make it work, then do it. If you feel as though it's a lost cause, then go. As for your previous crush, same thing goes. If you feel you should, go for it, if not, don't.
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The other night I was at my boyfriends house playing with his German shepherd. Long story short, the dog fell on my face, directly on my nose. He's a big dog, and I'm only 4'10'' so he hurts me a lot. I just wanted to know if it might be broken or not. My nose has been red ever since, it hurts and bleeds from time to time, but no bruising (yet). When it does bleed, it's only for a few seconds, maybe a minute or two. It's swollen and my eyes really hurt, especially when i move them or look at light. Also, I have TMJ so it's been messing with my jaw too. When i rub my nose, it clicks and crunches, then sometimes that makes it bleed. (link)
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It's hard to say whether it is broken or not. You can get hit in the nose and all it'll do is REALLY hurt it. Even with swelling, bleeding, etc. The best way to find out whether it is broken or not is to see a doctor, right away mind you. Because if it is broken and you don't get it properly taken care of, it could heal incorrectly causing slight dis-figuration or other future problems.
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Why do I feel like I need a boyfriend. I wish I could enjoy the rest of my childhood without worrying about it. Whoever has the answers please tell me. 12 f (link)
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In today's society, it always seems glamorous to have a boyfriend. Especially at your age. You don't have to worry about it. But chances are friends you have are and it's rubbing off on you. If you don't really care to have one right now, then don't worry about it. You will date when you feel you are ready. But remember, if/when you do decide to start dating, if you're not ready to get intimate, always state that to your mate. Remember, no means no.
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