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I ve been married for 12 years n mom of 3children,
.my husband say white lies ,we always fought for this .he always kept his matters secretive .he care for us ,and kept us separate.now for a year or so I m maintaining little distance that he realizes .still he acts ignorant and stays the same as he was before .
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Everyone tells little white lies. It's completely natural, especially if the one telling doesn't wish to hurt the one they are telling them to. It's honestly nothing to be concerned about. But if they are truly causing you discomfort, the best thing to do is sit down with him, and CALMLY explain to him how it makes you feel. There's no reason to fight over it, unless he's been doing drugs, and losing a lot of money due to it, gambling excessively, or having an affair, major things like that, to which, in either of those cases, if he did, you're better off having him seek professional help, or leaving so as not to put you and your children through suffering, should he not wish to cure himself of the problems. But if it's small things, let it go. There's no reason to fight over it over and over, it's not healthy nor is it good for the children. You don't want them growing up believing that this is how a relationship is suppose to be, both always fighting, right? If you really want your relationship to work, then you both *you and your husband* must come to equal terms, as well as trust. Without trust, there can be no love, without love, there can be no real relationship.
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