Okay ladies, so ya know once in awhile we all break out, no biggie. It happens cover up does just fine. But what it doesnt work on it like the scars you are left over with sometimes. I know well enough not to even touch my breakout or pick at it cause itll make it worse but i still get scars, and hten uneven skin tone. Like I'm left with a sort of dimple, and a dark redish/purplish spot, that wont go away, and coverup, doesn't exactly work, it blends it in better, but theres stilla dark spot. Does anyone know what I'm talking about, and how can i make this go away. Are there any products out there that really work? I wanted to try this new nuetragena stuff, liek rapid repair something or other but I can't find it in stores right now. Thank you for the help!
i actually think that it depends on your skin. it sometimes takes a while for me too before a break out is completely gone. if youre younger it's normal, because your skin goes through changes etc so it might take longer to heal completely. it'll probably go away soon.
just make sure you wash your face every morning and night. maybe use facial scrub which prevents from breaking out in the first place. what you could do also is use tree tea oil and rub it on your skin. it really helps, like i have this cream that i put on before i go to bed and it fights spots over night. soo i think you should buy something with tee trea oil in it. or products with cucumber work like wonders too.
i hope i helped a little x
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So, my question is about body hair. Some women have very fine,thin hair. Others, like me, aren't so blessed with these genes. What bothers me the most is my stomach. I have a small line of hair from my belly button to my pubic hair(some people call it a treasure trail). I really don't like it at all, but it doesn't bother my hubby. What I want to know is, do men think it's gross? Do they not care? Do they have preferences about body hair? I'd like some straight forward answers boys, and girls, you can ask your men if you want and give me more answers. Thanks for the help!
i think it depends on the guy. but you COULD just bleach it. it's no big deal really. i dont think waxing is a good idea tho cause it either grows back thicker or if youre lucky not at all. but i wouldnt take any chances, it depends on your body lOl.
but yeah, just bleach it. guys i know dont really like it, but they're mostly idiots anyways :S
but if he really loves you he wouldnt bother.
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my moms birthday is tomorrow and i dont no what to get her i only have 5 dollors.\
- Samantha white a 14yr old
ou, thats not a lot of money lOl.
try making a collage or something, that's what i did and she loved it. like print a few pictures about things she likes and put them together on a big carton or something. if you dont have one you can glue two pieces of paper together to make them more stabile and then tape them together to get a bigger sheet.
http://www.readygo.de/design/art/collage/collage-08-2007_big.jpg
it could look something like that in the end, only with different pics lOl.
good luck!
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my mother is all up in my life. She keeps taking my stuff away because of my grades. My teachers won't help and i explained that. We can't afford a tutor or anything and i lose my concentration with people talking. My mom reads the notes i write and listens to my phone calls what can i do to get my mother off my back and my grades up
- Samantha White a 14 yr old
you could try to get a friend to tutor you actually. try talking to your mum as well. you could tell her that she should just give you a chance and leave you to it. when she DOES you should try and be really good so she sees that she can trust you. but honestly i think you should have a mature discussion with her. explain to her calmly how you feel and only by doing that she'll see how mature you are. also, tell her that listening to you on the phone doesnt really make your grades better!? lOl
good luck (:
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Okay, I just recently got into punk/rock/screamo bands, and I wanted to know what some bands like that are...and if there anygood.
30 seconds to mars. --> really good band but not too punk or screamo
A day to remember.
Story of the year--> really really good band!! :D
Bullet for my valentine.
Enter Shikari--> has a bit of electronic sound as well with screamo and punk
Escape the fate--> gooood.
Hope Kills--> they split up tho but i think you can still download their music.
I am Ghost--> awesome band.
Linkin Park
Reclaim The Fallen--> really good :)
and those are all the punk/rock/screamo ish bands i know, not too many i know lol. let me know if you like em :]
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I saw that you answered someone else's question about the Juice Diet, and I was wondering.. what kind of juice do you use? and how long does it take for you to loose the weight? Thanks.
well i mostly drink healthy smoothies. like with fresh fruits and stuff :P
and i drink one in the morning afternoon and night around 6pm. the rest of the day i just drink water. and when i do that for 2 days it doesnt take a lot to loose weight obviously :]
you could also drink fresh orange juice or smth. it doesnt really matter. and you dont have to do it as bad as i do. I'm quite unpacient when it comes to loosing weight. it's just very important to drink loads of water and not just juice. you can also drink sparkling water because that makes your stomach feel quite full.
I lost about 4lbs though i think. the only thing you have to watch is your appitite after not eating for 2 days because when i did it the first time I ate sooo much the 3 rd day and then i threw up because it was too much for my body to handle :S
so eat slowly and drink water.
another thing you could try that may be a bit more effective is eating ONLY breakfast for about one week. like only eat about 2 slices of bread every moring or cereal but thats it and only drink water or juice for the rest of the day.
it really works quite well and isnt unhealthy. I read that doing smth like that for a week is actually quite healthy for your body as long as you dont overdue it.
hope i helped
good luck!
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I got this diet + healthy eating book a couple of weeks ago. I was flicking through it this morning and found a two day diet.
It says that you drink fresh juice for two days. Whenever you want. But it has to be fresh. So no added sugars.
Would this work?
I'm only gonna do it for two days.
yeaah it does work actually. i did it 3 times haha. i didnt eat anything and only drank juice. but there should be sugar in it though cos your body needs it.
but suree you could do it, it's not gonna harm you really.
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ok so since about the start of the year my hair has gone really dry and i dont know what has been causing it
my new nickname at school is dog hair guy or somehting like that and its not annoying or anything but the chicks arent really going for it lol but thats not the only reason
i use swartzcopf shampoo and conditioner(two different bottles-on with shampoo one with conditioner) or what ever that brand name is, every morning but it makes no difference help on what it is and how to stop it would be greatly appreciated thanks
i dont know what haircolour you have but you could buy shampoo especially for your haircolour. like i have brunnette hair so i sometimes use the 'brilliant brunnette' shampoo. i guess it's for girls but you could try using it because it makes your hair shine.
and there are so many products especially for dry hair. theyre mostly for girls but who caares? it's not like you tell your buds what shampoo you use haha :)
there are a few creames disigned for dry ends. you could use that for all of your hair since all of your hair is dry and since you're a guy i'm guessing your hair isnt extreamly long :P
you could also try using types of conditioners which you leave in for about 15 minutes. they're quite good. ou and also what I do, i go to bed with wet hair because if your hair is moist when you go to bed it'll be really shiny and nice looking in the morining. i dont know why though haha :]
i hope i helped.
good luck!! :D
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how do i turn myself fully anime like an anime character and not just change my face to look anime my whole body?? if anyone knows how please tell me how.
well it's quite unlikely to do that no offence :S
but i guess you could use certain make up to make your eyes look anime. and maybe contacts that give you a special eyecolor!?
anime characters mostly have longish hair right? [sry not too sure] so i guess you could let it grow and dye it purple or smth :P since many anime characters have purple, blue, green, pink hair.
you can also go to a hairdresser and ask for a certain haircut that looks anime.
and animes have a very toned and slim figure right? you could just work out to get that.
but it's unlikely to look completely anime.
i dont know if this helped a lot :S
good luck though
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http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=546817
I have the same exact situation as this girl. Really, if you have that soft beautiful look that doesnt look like she's easy to get, do i really intimidate boys, even the ones that are BAD and you know, those who dont care what they do to girls..
heey :) i asked that question haha.
good to know i'm not the only one though :D xx
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i have this new myspace dedicated to helping people...like this in a way...how do i get more people to come to it and actually ask for help or advice? like i get adds...maybe like 7 a day...but thats from "who***g" you know when u leave bulletins... and like "fastaddz.com"... the fastaddz crap is getting me friends but no ones asking! what should i do to get more people to ask for advice?.... what place should i target?
f/16
you could give me your link and ill add you. i need advice quite often haha :)
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My friends think I'm going insane because I had a strange, but very true, spiritual experience. I was home alone, getting ready for a school dance. I came out of the bathroom and there was a ghost standing right there in front of me. I couldn't see or hear her, but I knew she was there. She had long brown hair and a ragged white dress on. I just stood there silently, as did she, and I was slightly frightened, but I didn't get and 'evil' vibe off her, so I just stood where I was. After a moment, she asked me where Wall Street was. I described it to her and pointed in the in the direction, since Wall Street is the street that is right by my house. I felt foolish, but for some reason I knew she really needed to know, so I told her. After I was done, she left silently and I went about my business. Three days later, there was a car accident on the corner of Wall Street, and someone was hurt I think, but no one died. I was freaked out because I felt taht the angel had asked me so she could watch over the corner and make sure no one died. Or something like.
My friends were rather uncomfortable when I told them, and they changed the subject after that. For awhile they treated me like I was mentally unstable or something. Do you think I'm going crazy? My father also got angry when I told him, he said something like, "You know ther angels are there, there's no need to talk about them!" My mom was the only one who didn't think Iw as crazy and comepletely believed me. Do you have any say on this?
Thanks for your time-
i dont really understand. you said you couldnt hear her, yet heard her asking you smth?
hmm ...
but yes these things happen. for example my grandma kept seeing a ghost as well and then a few days later the ghost his sceleton was found under the house. sry i dont wanna freak you out though.
but i've also had some experiences for example i had a dream that something was gonna happen the next day and it did.
or i just had the feeling that this guy i liked suddenly came online on myspace (and he wasnt online for an intire year :P)
and the thing that happened to you may seem really weird but then again, isnt everything weird if you think about it? just the fact that we're alive and have a soul is kinda scary. it's just all a matter of being 'used' to these kinda things.
for example did you know that a baby would find it completely normal if his/her dad would suddenly fly on the roof. that is, because it's not used to what we find 'normal' i mean dont dads do other weird things, like shaving and using hairgroth products?
so what i'm trying to say is thaz maybe what happend to you wasnt that 'strange'.
i cant really explain the thingy with the accident.
but yoz could also try talking to a professional about it. he might give you answers to that.
hope i helped a little
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Everytime I look in the mirror, I see white stuff on the tip of my eyelashes and it's driving me crazy! I don' know what it is and it certainly isn't normal because i don't see anyone with white stuff at the tip of their eyelashes. And I doubt that it's dandruff.
Does anyone know?
It's actually quite normal. the tip of my eyelashes are whitish as well. do you have black eyelashes? becaus ethen it's easier to see. but you might also not see it by others because it's very light, almost transparent.
just put mascara on them because the paint will cover it.
but it's no big deal really. some have it more, some less and some dont have it at all.
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Im 13 i dont have a dad he left 4 years ago. Im not close with my family no matter how hard I try to be. Things are getting bad with my mom. Shes compulsive. Shes obsessed with her house. For example if i need something (clothes, things for school which i dont ask for these things alot) she always says she doesnt have the money yet she bought a $3500 floor & now shes getting our entire outside of the house done. And she just got a new floor 3 months ago and the outside of the house redone last summer. Shes just blowing money she claims she doesnt have. I cant live at home cuz she yells at me for everything. If i walk on the carpet after she vacums i get yelled at & its the same thing if i get finger prints on the mirror. its stupid. And im sick of being yelled at all night and day. Sometimes she starts with me at like 2:00 in the morning. I cant live with her & sometimes she comes into the room yelling at me & doesnt tell me wat i did wrong. My friends agree that shes compulsive. & i dont know who to turn to cuz my entire family always takes her side. I dont know wat to do. She hits me sometimes but not all the time. I cry in a closet frequently because things are getting worse by the day. i try to stay at a friends house but she yells more. i dont no wat 2 do now.
Try and talk to her about it. catch her when she's in an okay mood and ask her to go out to eat and talk to her then. maybe she really doesnt realise what she's doing to you.
and you could also try getting your friends parents to talk to her maybe?
hope i helped a little.
good luck xoxo
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anybody got any good bands that are a technoish, along with some heavy metal. electronica
along the lines of dr. acula, sky eats airplane, and HORSE the band.
check this song out:
it's like the best song everrr.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P4MiC67seUY
the band is called enter shikari.
it's not technoish tho lol
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ok so i have a 'msg me' button from whateverlife on myspace and lately it quit working. the add me one still works, but the msg me always goes to a page sayin "an error occured while.. " somethin somethin. is anyone else having this problem and how can i fix it? i've gone to whateverlife and tried a few different buttons but all the msg me ones are saying that.
i think it has nothing to do with your page because it also happenes to me sometimes. or other stuff doenst always work. myspace is a bit random when it comes to these things. but i think it should be okai again in a few days. if not try getting a new banner maybe.
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i have trouble dealing with embarrassment. like if i do something that i find even slightly weird, it'll haunt me for weeks. for example, at my school they were walking around interviewing people about april fools jokes, so i randomly walk up to them after my friend and told them, which after i felt like a complete loser because idk i thought i looked weird or whatever. so part of me is like, come on its nothing! but then the other part is like, wow im embarrassed. so what is a good way to deal with embarrassment?
thanks :)
dont worry too much about it. i have the same problem though. haha
well why don't you try doing something you can be really proud of? cos that way you'll think more of that stituation than the embarrassing one.
and also , TRUST ME people don't see you like you see yourself. it's a lil sad but most people care more about themselves and what they do. just like youre thinking what you did was stupid, another person might feel the same way about something he/she did [maybe even a similar situation] but noone actually noticed because they think about what THEY do while others struggle with themselves as well and didnt even notice. basicly just like you. and i'm not saying that's bad or anything. it's just natural and i'm trying to say that maybe noone actually realised youre embarressed unless you of course ACT embarresed. so just try and hide it, laugh it off and nobodys gonna notice. sorry if that was a bit confusing haha
good luck tho :)
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Ok i'm 14 and have never had a real boyfriend. Now my best friend in the whole world has been doing stuff with guys since like 5th grade or something. Me on the other hand have only held hand with a guy once and it was extremely awkward because of the situation (long story). And it's not like i dont like guys or something cause i do. See i love her to death but she gets on my nerves alot because sometimes when were talking about her "guy problems" she gets all mad at me and says "well if you ever get a boyfriend you'll know thats it's difficult" now i understand relationships are difficult i like to think i'm not stupid but she always says stuff like that or "well if you'd get a boyfriend you'd know what i'm talking about" and i mean getting a boyfriend isnt that easy she makes it sound like you can just say hey your hott be my boyfriend or something well maybe for some people that works but not for me and it's not like i dont want a boyfriend but i have better things to do with my life first you see the fact that i'm 14 and never even had a boyfriends scares the crap out of me because i always think i'm going to end up alone and my friend saying stuff like that doesnt exactly help te situation but really i'm not like my friend i dont want to do "stuff" with a guy unless i'm "in love" you know i'm waiting for marriage and stuff like that i mean i more into the long time relationships not the date for a week kind of relationship and it's not like there anything wrong witht that but i'm not that kind of person i want true love anywho my questions are is my friend right to say stuff like that? Is she really even acting like a friend? Is something wrong me since i'm 14 and have not had a boyfriend?
haha noo there is nothing wrong with you. i'm 15 and yeah i've had boyfriends BUT i realised i never really liked any of them. it was basicly just a waste of time for me AND the guys. i recently broke up with my bf for the same reason. i just didnt feel a 'spark' and i admire you for not having a bf because you have the guts to say 'no i dont want one, and i want to wait until i find the right one' and yes youre totally right, you dont have to be together with a guy and do stuff just to prove yourself. that's just stupid! and come on youre only 14. youre still young and youre NOT going to die alone. you can worry about that when youre 30 and never had a bf. and yes, all of my friends also had boyfriends but they even admit that they where never in love with one of them. one of my friends started to give her bf a blowjob after going out for just one week, and another one wants to have sex, just because she's 16 and thinks thats THE age to loose your virginity. and isnt that just so dumb and childish? because YES i also think that you should be in a relationship with a guy you truely like and you shouldnt do 'stuff' just cos it's fun. you should do it cos i really like him and THAT'S the thing that makes it special. and if you havent found that guy yet its totally fine! and your additude is really good as well since life isnt all about boyfriends. that way you can focus on other stuff. i wish i would've done that, and now i'm also waiting until i find a guy i truely like, even if it takes a bit longer. and about your friend ...
you should have a long talk and explain to her that it makes you feel really bad that she always says those things. i for one always help my friends with their bf trouble even tho i dont have many experiences. yea i had boyfriends but i never gave anyone a blowjob or had sex cos i knew i didnt really fancy them.
and you dont have to have many experiences to help someone. you do it because she's your best friend! and it's actually a bit stupid to say that you dont know what she's talking about. obviously she doesnt know what YOURE talking about because she has no clue what it's like for you. and youre actually way more grown up and mature than she is!
so just think about that okai??
i hope i helped a little.
good luck :)
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hii-- 14/m i just got a new girlfriend about a week ago and everything is going great...the only thing is that im very outgoing and she is shy soo im not really getting any hints to go further or anything...if your shy, what do you do when you want ur gf/bf to go further? any tips on how to treat her so i dont make her uncomfy or something?
errm i'm also a very shy person, and i deffinetly wouldnt want to do anything if i'd only been dating for a week.
you should seriously wait a bit longer and i'f you really like her you should understand that she needs more time to trust you. once you've gone out for a bit longer she'll open up, but if she doesnt give you any hints now, it seems like she's not ready which is understandeble after dating just for one week.
and some tips: you should be really understanding so she'll know you wont push her into anything. you can even have a little talk about it. just show her what a great boyfriend you are, take her out for dinner and just talktalktalk. you guys should just get to know eachother very well and the rest will come naturally.
hope i helped a little. good luck :)
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Since atleast middle school I have made bad impressions on people who don't know me. I am an extremly shy person when I first meet someone and it comes off as being snobbish. I know that is the way I act but it is so hard to change it. I am also worried that the relationships I have made recently might not be able to be recovered because they already have that other me stuck in their head.
The question I have is, has anyone else had that kind problem and how they overcame it.
The reason I am asking is because my boyfriends family members (some of them) have not really liked me because of these impressions. I really want them to like me but I don't know how to get over my shyness. I know people say just don't care what they think and be yourself but it feels like there is something stopping me. I have had more than one of my current friends tell me that that is the reason they second guessed being friends with me and I just really don't want that to happen anymore. Please help me find a way to get over my shyness?
oh my goddd i have exactly the same problem. but it's because people dont realise youre being shy right?
so maybe try smiling a little bit more because that always seems nice. then just walk over to people and try talking to them. ask questions about THEM because then they'll focus less on you.
compliment them because everyone likes that. just try and be extremely nice because then there is no reason not to like you, and you wont seem snobbish lol try asking classmates out for pizza or throw a party. how is that a badthing ? :)
overcoming shyness is really hard and i myself have problems with that cos i'm probably one of the shyest person ever lol but i've noticed that whenever i feel good about myself it's less hard for me to talk to people because i'm not too afraid they wont like me you know? and if you constantly think that nobody likes you, you feel bad about yourself which might show. so why dont you try letting all that go, take a deep breath and go up to people and talk to them. :)
hope i helped a little
xxxx
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