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My names Jenny and I'm a 16 year old girl, oviously. I'll help you with anything you ask, so ask away. But if your gonna ask a dumb question, you'll get a dumb answer. And try not to start shit. This site is for helping people, not a way to bitch at people beacause your board and have nothing better to do. I know most about sex ;), Buddy4u Profiles, Xanga's, Html, Mental help..Like cutting, depression, and suicide, and love life. I will try as hard as I can to help you, and give you my honest awnser, weather it may upset you or not.













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Does anyone know any easy ways to get rid of hard skin around the nail like on the skin? haha, i used to bite the skin and ive stopped now but its like ripped. any ways?

Theres this crap at walgreends for try cuticles. Idk what its called but its like 4 dollars and you could ask someone who works there where it is.

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There is this guy that I'm really interested in and I think he's into me too. we have only one class together at school and we never hang out when we aren't at school and he doesnt have my s/n email or number...should I give it to him? or should i wait til he asks for it (he is kinda shy)

is he the guy for me?

please help !

Yeah give it to him. Try and be and be friends with him first. Think of him as just a guy who would wanna be friends with, even tho u like him.

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ok i kno this is a big generalization... so no one get mad @ me or get all pissy for this ? but y do guys always seem to want what they cant have? it seems like the last 2 or 3 times ive gone out w/some1, there is some1 else flirting w/ me... but when im not going out w/ some1... there isnt!! it sux really bad! lol. will some1 just tell me y... and how can i get guys attention when im NOT going out w/ some1 lol! thanks much!

Hm..cause god wants to test your love for your boyfriend

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i guess me and my ex boyfriend broke up i still really like him alot i might even go as far as saying i love him i was trying to stay away from him when he was at my friends house because he had tryed to hook up with my best friend the weekend before we talked he said he was trying to kiss her because it would piss me off and he wanted to make me mad because i was talking to his cousin i told him that i still like him and he said the reason he broke up with me was because things that were going on in his life at the time he said you know i love you and i told him not to say that because i feel strongly about that word and i believe that it is miss used alot i told him not to say it unless he ment and and he dosen't mean it so he dosen't need to say it all he had to say about that was that you dont knwo that i dont mean it we were in the car on the way home he said it again i told him to stop saying it my friend got pissed and said he does mean it you dont know he dosent and you love him to so shut up but at school he still majorly flirts with girls right in front of me i dont get it oh and to make this all better he has a gf but what should i do im head over heals for this guy to bad he dosen't feel the same sorry this is so long i Rate extreamly well thank you for your time whoever will take the time to read this and give me a little bit of help

your right, if he did love you he would not of breaken up with you. Because "he has things going on in his life" is the stupid reason to break up. And he's an ass for trying to kiss your friend. AYou need to move on from him and get someone else. He already has. Good luck. xoxo

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umm does neone have xanga hurr? ill give ya my pw if some1 decoratez it nice and pretty fo meh please :D im me on aim cherrycoconut89

If ya give me a 5 I can make a really good one. Just tell me themes or colors your like and I'll make one for you.

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How long would you be willing to date someone before you either left or proposed marriage to them? You being a 30 something female he being a late 30 something male.

I'd say from 5 years and up, just to be sure you really love them.

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ok recently i posted a message about "tyler" rite....

well today i had a dream about him... i went up and asked him if he liked "rachel" he said no...... i like u... so i stood there like an idiot and just said o.... ummm.... so im not sure if i like him or not!! !! so heres the 411....

~hes in my language arts class and math class
~we sit across from each other in class
~he says bless u and smiles at me everytime i sneeze but only to me and he never says it to ne1 else
~if i drop my pen like behind me or sumthin he will GET UP and get it even if some1 else cud!
~the other day i was like "omg my poem sux soo bad" he said "thats really good" so i was just like "ok....."

do i like him or what or does he like me im just so confused!! bc i mean i want him to like me but im not sure i want a relationship!

im SOO SORRY its long but i really need some help!!! plz!!!

*i RATE high!

~boy crazy~

Yeah he probably does like you, but only you could know if you like him and i'm guessing you do since you had a dream about him.

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I broke up with my ex boyfriend because i had been hearing stuff like that he was all over other girls. But then when i broke up with him he cried infront of all of his friends and everything. I still love him a lot and want to be with him but we've gone out 5 times and i just dont know if this time he means it. He's also my best friend and he told me that he loved me and would do anything to get me back! So what should i do.. go back out with him, stay broken up or just take a break?

Okay I think I would talk to him about people talking about him. You need to ask him if it's true becaue maybe it wasnt. He rally cares about you if he would cry over you, and expecialy infront of his friends. Hes a keeper, Iwoudl go out with him and tell him your sorry if the things your friends say werent true.

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my friend ( i just found out ) hasnt eaten in 3 days....we think she is trying 2 become anerexic...even though she is really skinny....she said she cuts herself 2...me and my friend malerie dont no wat we can do 2 help her....i offer her food but she doesnt take it....and she always seems depressed

Okay, you may not want to do this but you NEED to tell an adult right away. She could kill herself one day and she needs help, like a phycotrist asap! If she gets mad at she will be happy about it later. It better her getting mad than her dying. :(

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What do I do? Two of my friends like me, who happen to be girls, and I don't know what to do! Should I say that I only want to be firends or what!? Please help me!

For now I would just be friends with both of them, unless you really want a gf. You can decide later when you know both of them better.

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Does anybody have any pet care tips for a rat?? I just got one. Like, what are their favorite foods and what activities do they like??? Anyone who has a rat, gimmie some tips!!! Thanx!! I rate high

THEY LIKE CLIMING ON MY SHOLDER AND WHEN I GIVE THEM KISSES DO THAT

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I lost my virginity in Feb after my 15 birthday. Since then my boyfriend and I have had sex atleast twice a week. He pulls out so we have never completely finished, and we have never had a pregnancy scare. Recently our sex has felt diffrent though. Like it has lost the unique, wild touch it once had. Could I be bored with sex? I get the same pleasure, but instead of feeling fulfilled afterwards I just feel-there. Can someone explain this to me? I'm so confused...

OK DUDE THATS THE STUPIDEST THING EVER U BETER BE USING A CONDOM OR UR PROBABLY PREGNET RIGHT NOW AND THATS WHY IT DOEST FEEL GOOD. OR ALSO BECAUSE U'VE HAD TO MUCH AND NEED TO TAKE A BREAK BUT JUST TO BE SAFE GO TO THE STORE A BUY A BIRTH TEST THING. GOOD LUCK.

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alrighty..well I am 14 and a female & I have this really good guy friend but a few months ago I started feeling differently about him..I told one of my friends and of course she had a big mouth and everyone knew..including him*. So he started being a jerk around me and just ignored me so I figured two could play that game & I just got really pissed at him. I was really hurt that he would ever treat me like that. So then, about 2 weeks later we were all hanging out together like usual but it felt really awkward between me and him. So he pulled me aside and we talked everything out & the only reason why he wasnt talking to me was bcuz the person I told that I liked him went back and told him that I absolutely hated him and never wanted to talk to him again..so yea..we hugged and made up all was well..and I also found out that he liked me too...and from what I know..he still does and so do I..but a few weeks ago he told everyone he was gonna ask me out that night but he never showed..i didn't want to start anything again so I just dropped it, but my friend didnt she told him that he didnt know how to treat girls and he wasnt boyfriend material. This bothered him..I would know bcuz I'm the one he came to and he also wanted to make sure he wasnt being a jerk to me...I know he cares about me and I want to be more than friends but hes too scared to make the move..and my theory is that guys should be the one to make the 1st move..what should i do? this has been going on for too long now.

HM UR FRIENDS SUCK. FORGET ABOUT THEM FOR A WHILE, THE ONES WHO REALLY ARE UR FRIENDS WILL COME BACK TO YOU.

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Ok I have this friend and I thought she was ok until recently I was dumped by my boyfriend and now she flirts with him like hell the other day he was saying how much he hates her so he doesn't even like her but is trying to make me jelious and I'm sick of it because I'm not over being dumped and she's saying stuff like oh he's flirting with me now and keeps trying to hold his hand should I ditch her because she's really getting me down she's keps going on about him 24/7 some friend she is I'm really gutted but have just kept it all in me and not said a word but I'm really upset about it but can't even cry because my feelings are so deep inside of me please if you can help me if you can't then ok

wow your friend is a bitch. I would bitch at her if i were you and get a better friend, then i'd probably beat the shit out of her...YOU NEED TO TALK TO HER ABOUT THIS. MAYBE SHES DUMB AND DOEST RELIZE HOW MUCH IT HURTS YOU. TALK TO HER!

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Alright..there are these two guys..lets say collin and devin..well i like both of them..but last night i found out who collin likes..and i also found out who devin likes. devin likes me..collin likes these two other girls in my class...and i am happy and sad..happy because devin likes me..but sad because i like collin more than devin. am i being selfish?? should i just stop liking collin and start liking devin more?! help me please! thanks!

hm sorry but do you come on this sight to ask people what to do evey detail of your life. you need to do what ever makes you happy and make your own decisions.

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im dislexic and i have a spelling age of 10 and a reading age of 12.one of my closest friend is taking the mick constantly always makeing me feel thick.frist i shouted at her when sh did it,when that didnt werk i went to the head and she did a assembly on it,that hasnt werked.i know shes a mate and i dont want her to get in trouble but i cant go feeling like this.shall i go back to the head and ask her to have a werd or shall i just leave it?ive got exams comeing up and i dont want trouble because i need all the help i can get to pass them.waht can i do?any ideas?

If this makes you feel any better I'm 16 years old and last year I just learned how to spell shoe. I also probably have a spelling or age 7 or something. BEING dislexic isnt your fault and your teachers should understand that if they know you are dislexic.

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i have a crush on a senior that i know at my school (i'm a junior, so no worries about any freaky age difference stuff) anyway, i don't really know his thoughts on me, and i don't really know him well enough yet to just out and ask him. so i was wondering, what are some good ways to get a little closer to him and give him the green light to maybe ask me out. i'd really like this to work out, so thanks for any help that you all can offer.

Try to get close to him, maybe hang out with him after school. If he does drugs or drinks get him fucked then kiss him. the best way

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How old do you have to be to give up on finding a girl friend. The reason I ask is that im 24 ill be 25 next may and ive never had a girlfriend or been in a serious relationship, I Know im not ugly and I can send you a pic to prove it, and most of the time i can talk to girls just fine, but it always ends up the same for me, they always say that im a real nice guy and that one day ill find the right girl for me and then the dreaded "LETS JUST BE FRIENDS".

I just dont understand what im doing wrong. and when i think about it it makes me real mad, that
there's girls out there with boyfriends that beat them, abuse them both phisicaly and mentaly,
they cheat on them and treat them like crap, but when asked why the girl stays whith him the anwser is always "cause I love Him". Life is just so f*cked up, how can guys that treat their girl like shes lower than crap get so much love, but a guy like me that alwas treats women with respect and is always nice and honest and caring
have to feel like hes going to be alone forever?

Ive had sex, but it was always one night satands and its not about sex. its about love, I want to love some one, life is just so empty and meaningless when you dont have anyone to sahre it with.

Now im getting to the point where the girls i meet are close to my age and want someone with experiance, witch i dont have.

So i figured if by the time i turn 25 i dont have a girlfriend i should just give up and not waste anybodys time.

what do you think?

Your never too old to find love. My moms bf now is 39 and has never gotten married. Maybe you need to be friends with different people. To me you seem like a nice guy and a lot of times girls are stupid and want a bad guy. I really think with a new group of people you know you could find a girl whos more like you. Theres millions of people out there, you just have to find the right one, and they might not be exactly where you are.

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Hey, does anyone know how to put one of your own pictures as your advice column's background?Or can you do it?Thanks!

A really easy way to do it is first go to www.photobucket.com and upload your picture on there. Then copy where it says TAG. Then go to your advice coloumn whitch is in profile settings and paste it. Using this way you can have as many pics as you want to. The other awsners are harder. Plz rate me. Hope i helped. Need anything else? then drop one in the inbox

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ok just recently down below has started to become very itchy! i don't know why though...like i shave so it couldn't be lice and i've been shaving for a long time so that couldn't be it but it's just really dry and itchy and i don't know what to do i haven't had sex before so it isn't a std

Hmmm.....lol Um if you use tampons you could get a yeast infection and it will be ichy. rate me, and good luck with your pubes.

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