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wat candy is your fave:
A)Hersheys (with or without almonds)
B)Twix
C)M&Ms (any kind of M&Ms)
D)Other (if you pick this kind wat is your fave)
thanx!! luv ya!!
Skittles!!!!!
you have to help me
i am addicted to sugar
i know it sounds stupid and like im making it up but its true i always have to eat an incredible amount of sugar every day or i feel horrible. I have no history of addictions drug use or anything and i have no idea why i feel i have to eat so much sugar each day. I find myself searching through the house for sugar packets,container of sugar,pixie sticks,soda,any candy. at resaurants i always grab as many packets of sugar as i can without being noticed. I feel like a freak and i want to know why this is happenening.
PLEASE HELP ME!
Hank
when i was on an east coast trip with my school, every chance i got i took sugar. u could ask any1(actually not really but thats not the point). i did it because i was really tired and needed sumthing to jump start me. it could b the same with you. if ur not really tired then i really don't kno. u mite b able to get addicted to sugar but im not sure. if u eat too much sugar u could get diabetes and then u wont b able to have anything sweet really. try to refrain fom it and eay healthy foods like fruits. fruits are naturally sweet(sum) and so maybe ud like that better.
hope i helped!
*Oreo*
Me and my little sister do not get along at all! like if she does one little thing i seem to get really mad at her and we end up getting into a bit fight, and the same way for her, if i do something wrong she yells at me too. she has her own room but im surprised if she has ever stepped foot into it lol, she says shes not going to sleep in there until there is cable hooked up, so basically she is in my room 24/7!!! she lays on the floor and watches tv and plays ps2 and leaves plates and cups all around my room n then my parents tell me to clean it up cause its my room but its her room too cuz she like LIVES in here! Please help!!!
my sis and i dont get along either! u should tell ur sis that she needs to get outta ur room because u want ur privacy and if she is gonna b in ur room she needs to pick up after herself. its ur room, u make the rules and if she cant deal with it thats too bad. it sounds kinda mean but it should work.
hope i helped!
*Oreo*
Okay so I just walked in this store and this amazing guy stoped in front of me , we started to talk and I found out that he is only 16, and Im 15 , he asked me out on a date and I said I didn't really know , he toldme to think about it.
This Guy is totally Hot!!! , his name is Richard , should I give him a chance?/ Or should I tell him to go??? I just met this guy today.
PLZPLZPLZ HELP Jenipher ASAP
it's not a good idea to go out with sum1 u dont even kno just because he's hott but if u really like himand think its ok i dont see wut the problem is:)
*Oreo*
how young is too young to have sex
theres no set age but u should at least wait till ur like 16 to me. i still dont think its good to have sex then but ur older and r able to make decisions for urself. i really advise u wait till u have met the person u really want to lose ur virginity to.
hope i helped!
*Oreo*
I weigh 130 at 5'3 and I wanna get down to at least 110. What it the fastest way that I can do that?
I'm a 15 female
k well the average woman in america is 5'4" and 140 lbs so u r an inch shorter and 10 lbs lighter. if u really want to lose weight tho u can eat healthy food, like a salad a day, and make an excersize plan. do crunches one day and run the next.
this has nuthing to do with ur question but when u exercise, dont shower rite away. ur supposed to wait like 10 min because ur body has to cool down. i dunno y but thats wut ur supposed to do.
hope i helped!
*Oreo*
ok well I have got D boobs and I kinda like to show it a little bit (as in where fitted shirts) but like my mom is like makeing me wear baggy shirts and it's aweful I feel so ugly with the way she makes me dress. How do I get her to lighten up?
sumtimes baggy shirts r nice. they r comfortable and if u wear fitted jeans it can b cute. ur mom just is trying to protect u and it can b irritating a times but its all for the better. i dont have as big boobs as u do but there r ppl old enuf to b my dad hitting on me and its really scary. thats wut ur mom wants to keep u from.
if u really want to wear fitted shirts, talk to ur mom about how wearing big baggy shirts make u feel uncomfortable. tell her that u want to wear sum shirts that fit a little better or w/e. dont tell her u want to show off ur boobs, that will make her go crasy.
hope i helped!
*Oreo*
ok u see my b/f well actually i dunno if i wanna call him that ne more but i still will for it wont be confuseing!!ok u see my b/f was cheating on me with me best friend and i found out he broke up with her then he promised me he would never do it ever again so i believed him i mean everyone deserves a second chance i think and today he was at his cuzins and his cuzin fren my other best friend was there hanging out well her and her brother was there and my b/f and her were flirting then they went in his cuzins room and locked the door then her brother walked in on them doing "something" i didnt wanna know wat that sumthing was i stoped my b/fs cuzin which is like my brother but he really isnt and the girl that did it is like my sister and she has a b/f that god she loves him she would never cheat on him and my b/fs cuzin wouldnt lie to me but my b/f and her are both denieing it and i dont know who to believe!!!Confused
well it sounds like he is a playa. if they were in the closet they were obviously doing sumthing. wut other reason would u b in a closet, to drink a root beer? i dunno y they r denying it, thats really dumb.
i kno u believe in second chances, and u gave him one and i think he totally blew it. ur friend(the girl that did it) is a little skank(sry but she is) because she goes behind ur back and her boyfriends back to do wutever with ur boyfriend. that is not wut a "sister" would do.
if these ppl would lie to u about sumthing that u kno about then they r not worth ur time. u should dump ur b/f and either try and work things out with ur best friend or find sum1 else to hang wit.
hope i helped!
*Oreo*
Ok, here's my situation, I really care for this guy who is turning 18 in July and im 15. Me and him both really care So0o much for each other and know this only my parents don't liek the fact that hes turning 18 soon and that hes black...we don't want to stop doing what we're doing with the worry of my parents putting a Restaining order on him or have him sent to jail. What do I do? Is it legall to date him with out parental consultance at 16?
u can date him. i dont think they can put a restraining order on him without a valid reason. just because they dont like him doesnt mean hes a bad person. i think itd b illegal if u were 15 and he wa like 22 or sumthin like that. but u guys r fine.
*Oreo*
OK i'm not blonde but it's just an expression. I think this is how people see me... just a dumb brunette. A lot of people say that I remind them of Jessica Simpson. In some ways I'm flattered (shes pretty, nice, funny, has an amazing husband) but also she acts ditzy. I know I do a lot of the time too but it isnt on purpose. I say things being serious and others think I'm joking... when really I dont know. Also whenever I'm hanging out with people I am ALWAYS the person who gets made fun of. I try not to let it bother me and I know I dont show it that often. what do I do with this??
just go with the flow. if u saw me on the street ud think i was a complete idiot but really im pretty smart(and brunette). i just let ppl say wut they want becase its not like ur their to impress ur friends. if u really dont kno sumthing then u really dont kno. i just found out buffalo wings were chicken. i never thought they were buffalo meat but i mean its not sumthing u think about.
*Oreo*
my best friend and i have a "fling" going and his g/f is getting really mad that we hang out ... hes having issues dumping her ... should we do?
ok well u guys r best friends so she has to understand that u will hang out but if u guys r like, i dunno, kissing for example then she has a reason to get mad. i dunno wut kind of issues he would have dumping her. if u want to dump sum1 it should b gentle but quick. he cant b stringing along u both. it isn't rite that u guys started having ur "fling" while they were still going out but these things happen. so he needs to dump her quick or stop being with you.
*Oreo*
my boyfriend just came back from mississippi and we always talked online and he always told me how much he missed me and how much he wanted to see me. we was always saying how much he wanted to see me and he is always saying he loved me and he would never treat me bad and he treats me like SHIZ NIT! my friends tell me to break up with him but i love him too much and i dont know if i should break up with him or not. I mean he hurts me by not answering my phone calls and ignoring me and always ditching me for his friends. I was so mad when i called him and he got home an hour before and he was already with his friends. sometime i think he for gets he has a girlfriend that he soposably cares about. I need advice!
~*~jonelle~*~
u need to dump him. if u dont want to dump him talk to him but it sounds like he really doesnt care about u so u should dump him and real quick. he is a jerk for saying i luv, i need, o baby o baby and then cuming home to hang with friends. it is true that u should split equal time with friends and ur significant other but it sounds like all hes doing is hangin wit the boys and ignoring u. so dump him b4 u get hurt or b4 u decide to hurt him lol.
*Oreo*
This is a very personal question and i feel weird to ask this but do yalls shave your pubic hairs? Cause some guys don't like it and i was wondering if it was ok if i mowed my lawn? Please Help if you can sorry if my question bothers you :/
i think every1's heard worse. if u shave its up to u. wut ever ur hearts desire. u don't have to pls the person who goes down there. a lot of ppl do but i warn u.....it itches really bad when it grows back.
*Oreo*
Ok...I have alot of body hair. It is dark too and it drives me crazy. My face is ok, I'm pretty good at keeping my eyebrows under control and making sure that I don't have any above my lip. But my underarms, stomach, chest, legs, back, bikini area.... theres dark hair everywhere and I'm really self conscious. It really bothers me and I have to shave every day. And then I get razor rash everywhere. And I don't know what to do. I feel really gross and ugly. Am I overreacting?
ok for one thing, when u shave the hair DOES NOT grow back thicker. its just that the hair b4 u shave for like the first time ends at a point and when u shave it it gets cut at the base which makes it look like a tiny tree stump when it grows back. that makes it look darker and thicker but it really isnt. ur not supposed to shave ur chest and back and stomach. u can bleach it or get it waxed. u cant shave everyday, u do get razor burn cus it irritates the skin. when u shave ur legs shave like every 3 days. u mite have a little stubble but it's better then razor burn.
hope i helped!
*Oreo*
he kissed me at the movies hun i ran into him n her at the movies then i had to pee then he said he was hungry then he walked out pushed me against the wall n kissed me then i screamed no then walked away when i was walking away he grabbed my butt!!!!! wat do i do now send it to my inbox
k i couldn't find ur column so i just copied and pasted it
k well first off im sry i got so confused with everything.
now he sounds like a real asshole for cheatin on his g/f with her best friend. now u need to tell her wut he is doing. she cant really get mad at u because u r saying no and trying to get him to stop. she needs to leave him because he is unfaithful to her. but she does really need to kno wuts going on or else shes gonna b really hurt cus u didnt say nething b4.
hope i helped! my AIM s/n is Whos Dixon so if u want u can im me or just ask another question. wuteva suits ur fancy.
*Oreo*
Brittne my nizle
Way to keep it rizle fo shizle
WHEN THE LIGHTS ARE OFF YOU CANT SEE ME!
JM::u givin all these ppl advice is awesome!
your my hero for life... REPRESENT!
hahaha--*--* guess whO?!> you prolly already kno
BUT KEEP IT RIZLE FO SHIZLE MY NIZLE
lmao, thanx erica. that was so sweet lol. this has been a dixon producshizzle. peace out homie e lol. for every1 who thinks i am a cook now, i am but thats ok. i like having fun.
whats a birthday suit like all the rapers say?!
ur birthday suit is when ur naked. when ur born its ur birthday so thats just wut they call it.
*Oreo*
what is an errection???
a boner, or when a guys penis gets really hard from blood rushing to there and it starts to stand up.
wat do u do if ure friends b/f is flirting with u??!??!?!??!?!??!?? help me wat do i do!!!!??? quick!!!!!
he could just b a natural-born flirt. maybe ur getting the wrong signals. u didnt write too much so i dunno wut type of flirting he is doing.
hope i helped!
*Oreo*
ok.. my friend lets call her laura and laura's parents abuse her like hit her and leave marks and she hates her life and she chooses to cut herself and she cuts sorta deep and im afraid one of these days shes gonna cut to deep and kill herself.. and she doesnt want anyone to know cuz her parents wont do any good and my parents i dont rilly want them to know either cuz theyll get ideas about me cuz they dont trust me very well and i just rilly dont know wut to do anymore and ive tried to stop her but she wont and i dont wanna tell anyone either but i just dont want her to hurt herself anymore cuz im scared shes gonna cut to deep one of these times.. is there like anything that could like substitute cutting? cuz she would just keep cutting if she went to counseling or something like that so is there anything that could substitute cutting?? i rilly need advice FAST!! thanx s0o0o much!
wut she could do is start up sumthing that will keep her from cutting. just sumthing to keep her hands busy. she could take up drawing or painting or a sport. w/e she likes she should do more often to keep her hands busy. it sounds kinda stupid but it does work for a lot of things. if she bites her fingernails it could stop her from doing that too lol. but ya just have her start doing sumthing to keep her hands busy and it should b cool.
hope i helped!
*Oreo*
p.s. if it gets really serious u have to tell sum1 she is cutting. i dunno who but u have too if u dont want her to kill herself.
don't b scared to ask me a question!